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Mark Schuster Obituary

1956 – 2021

Mark S. Schuster, 65, of North Brunswick, NJ and formerly of Rome, NY, passed away unexpectedly on November 18, 2021, at Robert Wood Johnson Hospital in New Brunswick, NJ.

He was born in Rome, NY, on November 13, 1956, son of the late William and Sue Messineo Schuster.

Mark graduated from SUNY Plattsburgh with a Bachelor of Arts Degree. He went on to graduate school at the University of New Hampshire and the University of Iowa, where he began his teaching career. After graduate school, Mark began his career in the field of higher education. Through the years, he worked at The New School-Parsons School of Design, SUNY Stony Brook, New York University and Rutgers University. Mark also worked at a start-up software company for a short period of time.

Mark found his niche at Rutgers University, where he worked for over 30 years. At the time of his death, Mark was the inaugural Dean of Graduate Student Life. He was a fierce advocate for undergraduate and graduate students, ensuring that they were supported and had a positive student experience. Mark was also a champion of LGBTQ+ Community at the University. He established the LGBTQ+ Community Student Emergency Fund at Rutgers-New Brunswick. Mark was instrumental in creating Project Civility, a two year initiative that fostered tolerance and respectful discussion among faculty, staff and students. He was instrumental in establishing student support initiatives. He encouraged his students to think outside the box and to make a difference in the world. Mark was a beloved teacher, mentor and friend.

Mark is survived by his sister and brother-in-law, Gail and Tony Mariano, of Northfield, VT; brother, Robert Schuster, of Rome, NY; nephew and niece, Thomas and Melissa Mariano; and great-niece and great-nephew, Maggie and Tucker Mariano, all of New Hartford, NY; loving aunts, uncles and cousins; "adopted" sister, Laura Marchese and family; "adopted" brother, Paul Nocera; and his New Jersey, Rutgers and Provincetown families and beloved students.

Mark was predeceased by his beloved parents, Sue and Bill; and brothers, Bill and Kevin.

The family wishes to thank all of Mark's friends who were there for him during his illness, especially Laura Marchese, Paul Nocera, Barry Qualls, Geralyn Colvil and Elizabeth Burdick-Romero.

A Committal Service will take place at St. John the Baptist Cemetery on Saturday, October 21, 2023, at 11:30 a.m., where relatives and friends are invited to attend.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Rutgers University Foundation-LGBTQ+ Community Student Emergency Fund, Rutgers University Foundation, Dept. of Donor Relations, 335 George Street, Suite 4000, Liberty Plaza, New Brunswick, NJ 08901.

Arrangements are by the Nicholas J. Bush Funeral Home, Inc., 7751 Merrick Rd., Rome, NY 13440. To offer online condolences, please visit www.njbushfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Sentinel from Oct. 17 to Oct. 21, 2023.

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Pat Rickard-Lauri

December 18, 2024

Dear Schuster,
My memories of Mark and especially his parents Sue and Bill go way back to the Rome, NY days when Mark was an intergral part of my life then as a dear friend. Over the years I lost touch with him, but remember sitting at the Schuster's when Sue and Bill would provide these Italian meals that were so 'over the top' delicious with very generous portions. I also remember Mark's talents and creativity with some Christmas Cards that he designed with such humor. I only have fond memories going back to Rome and for me, those good old days!

Patricia Rickard-Lauri

October 11, 2024

many fun memories when I think of Mark many years ago in Rome, New York. Over the years I lost touch with him, but my Rome Memories never fade.
Pat Rickard-Lauri

Patricia Lauri Rickard

October 31, 2023

My condolances to the remaining family members of Mark's family, expecially Gail. I spent several years while living in Rome and was a good friend to Mark during those years. I was surprised when I received a message from a friend from Rome who passed along the news.
He was always so talented in his creative way to handle life and he had a wonderful sense of humor.
Prayers are with his family.
Patricia Rickard-Lauri

Stephanie Schell

October 18, 2023

Was a champion for lgbtq people.

steven jacobs

October 18, 2023

Our friendship began when I was an NYU student and he was one of the people in charge of my residence hall and it continued over the decades as we spent quality time in NYC, Los Angeles, Iowa and our beloved Provincetown. This year's Bear Week in P-town was a little bit less fun without him.

Linda Fazio

October 18, 2023

RIP my beloved cousin. You are loved always and thought about often. Love to Aunt Sue and Uncle Bill and Billy. Until we see you again...

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