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Lauri Vincer-Ebens Obituary

LAURI J. VINCER-EBENS, 50 ROCKFORD - Lauri J. Vincer-Ebens, 50, of Rockford died Friday morning, Sept. 14, 2007, in her home, in the loving care of her family after a courageous battle with breast cancer. Born Feb. 26, 1957, in Rockford, the daughter of Paul Vincer and Sharon (Davis) Snyder. She graduated from Pecatonica High School in 1975. Lauri married Todd Ebens of Pecatonica on May 2, 2003. Lauri knew a little bit of something, about almost everything and was someone we all turned to with questions. She was a skilled employee and was happiest when she ran her restaurant in Mayfield, Ky. Lauri enjoyed gardening, cooking, reading, crocheting, knitting, finding bargains at garage sales and thrift shops, doing home repair and spending time with friends and family. She taught us all a little something about life and how to live it. She was known for her extreme generosity. When you went to Lauri's house, you never left with your hands empty. Lauri is lovingly survived by her husband, Todd Ebens of Rockford; daughter, Melissa (James) Highfill of Saipan; grandson, Connor Paul Highfill of Saipan; parents, Paul and Marilyn Vincer of Winnebago and Sharon Snyder of Plano, Texas; siblings, Paula (Mario) Fortunato and Jeff Vincer, both of Pecatonica, Pam Green of Winnebago, Lisa (Tom) Andrew of Argyle, Jackie (Brian) Wilson of Machesney Park and Tami (Ray) Ljubisic of Dallas; grandparents, William and Jean-ette Davis of Sarasota, Fla.; as well as many family members, friends, and strays she adopted throughout her journey (both human and animal). Lauri was predeceased by her grandparents, William and Nellie Vincer, and her beloved Little Red Dog. Her family would like to thank Dr. Patricia Thompson and the team at the Cancer Treatment Center of America in Zion, and Kelly, Suzanne and the team at Heartland Hospice for its amazing compassion and care during Lauri's journey. Service at 11 a.m., Friday, Sept. 21, in Genandt Funeral Home, 602 N. Elida St., Winnebago, with visitation from 10 a.m., until service; the Rev. David Mumm, pastor of Concordia Evangelical Lutheran Church in Machesney Park, will officiate. A time of sharing and reflection will immediately follow at the American Legion, Pecatonica. At Lauri's request, cremation rites were accorded. In lieu of flowers, a memorial will be established. To sign the guestbook and give your condolences or light a candle, visit genandtfuneralhome.com .
Published by Rockford Register Star from Sep. 20 to Sep. 26, 2007.

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bill &linda carrington

September 25, 2007

Todd,so sorry about your loss,but Laurie lived a fullfilling life,and will be missed.Our thoughts are with you.Love,Bill & Linda Carrington

Sponge

September 24, 2007

Todd,
I was so sad to hear the news about Lauri. She was a great person and friend. I could not attend the services cuz I was out of town to a family funeral. I will get with u soon tho. Take care I know this is a really trying time for you!

Charlotte Statdfield

September 22, 2007

Paul & Marilyn, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you, Charlotte Statdfield

Phyllis Cain

September 22, 2007

Todd: Lauri's death has sure made a negative impact in this world - her intelligence and willingness to befriend anyone will be sorely missed. Take care of yourself!!

Terry & Marilyn Nolan

September 21, 2007

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Lana Meyers

September 20, 2007

Todd,
I am so sorry to hear about Lauri's passing. Although, I have not seen her for many years you have always been a much remembered friend. I am sure you will miss her greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with you and her family. I will not be able to attend the services, as I will have to work. But, please know I will be thinking of you and pray that you are doing well.
Lana Howard Meyers and (Scott)

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