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Christopher Cravens Obituary
CRAVENS, Christopher Reid
Born September 16, 1983, in Sacramento and died on June 20, 2004, from injuries sustained in a motorcycle accident. Beloved son of Brent and Joyce Cravens. Loving brother of Crystal Cravens and a dear grandson of Velda Branson and Quinton and Vera Cravens. A caring nephew, a dear cousin, and a loyal friend to many. Chris was loved deeply by all of his family and friends and will be greatly missed. He touched many lives and will never be forgotten. A memorial service will be held Saturday, June 26, at 10:00 AM at Mount Vernon Memorial Park & Mortuary, 8201 Greenback Ln. If you have a written message or tribute you would like to have Chris take with him there will be a basket available at the entrances to the chapel. If you prefer to personally share your memories of Chris there will be an opportunity during the service. The minister has offered to read some personal tributes as well.
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Adam Lane
June 20, 2025
Thinking about you and hoping to keep your memory alive on this thread. 21 years today! So wild! I can still remember your laugh and voice vividly as if I just saw you. I remember you reading the monologue I wrote about ghouls and ghosts in drama class. Ah, the memories.
Adam Lane
June 20, 2024
Been thinking about ya lately, especially when I see status updates from your sister on social media. Can´t believe how long it´s been now. Never forgotten though. Saying a prayer for your family as they remember you as well. Love to you and yours, buddy.
Adam Lane
June 20, 2022
18 years today, my man. I´m sure you´re looking down over us laughing and wondering how life could change so much. People are nuts, haha. Weird times for sure. None-the-less I still think of ya all the time. Tonight, i´m blasting "Foo Fighters - Everlong" and reminiscing of our youth. Love ya, buddy.
Ann Sheridan (Pedersen)
June 18, 2021
Chris, I think about you every day. I wonder who you would be now, what your life would be like. I wish you could meet my son. You guys would have so much fun. He loves Transformers (something I never understood why you liked so much until now), Star Wars too. He just watched his first episode of Star Trek TNG yesterday. Miss you, dear friend.
Adam Lane
June 18, 2020
I cant believe its been 16 years since you left us. Time goes by but the memories never fade. It will always feel so surreal that something this tragic could happen. Ill be thinking about you today as I hold my son and wish that he got the chance to meet you. I could imagine your interactions so vividly.
Ann Sheridan (Pedersen)
June 18, 2019
I think about you and your family everyday. I have a son now, you guys would have played ALL the transformers together. You sure are missed. Love you.
James Bizallion
September 14, 2018
Hey Chris
I cant believe how long its been but how strong my memories are of you. I remember playing transformers and watching the VHS recordings when we would stay the night at Granada Bransons house. I have a Daughter and Son now. He and I spend many days binge watching Transformers movies. He has a speach delay so its hard for him to talk and other kids give him a hard time. I explained to him that he was alot like Bumblebee and I am like Optimus Prime cause I will always protect and look out for him. Kinda like you do for me. Tell Dean Grandma and all the aunts we miss and love them!
Happy birthday I love you cuz!
James Bizallion
October 19, 2013
Chris
So much is going on in everyones life...wish u were here to talk about it...I'm sure u see all of what I'm talking about...love u cuz
September 15, 2013
September 16, 2013, Happy 30th Birthday to the Big Guy! Chris you are always remembered and never forgotten. To honor your birthday we are donating $1000.00 to SPCA. We all know how you love our furry little four legged friends!
Always and forever,
~Mom and Dad~
James Bizallion
July 2, 2012
Damn im sitting here 2:06 in the morning 11 years after youve been gone...still cant wrap my head around you being gone, im miss you man. You are one of my closest cousins, nothing seems the same. Love you man see you on the other side.
Adam Lane
February 17, 2011
"Foo Fighters - Everlong" will never be heard the same again by me because jamming on that track with you was one my fondest memories in life. You'll always be remembered by me and missed dearly. Hope they've got enough drum heads and drum sticks to keep you going on the other side. See you again one day my friend.
Ann Pedersen
December 24, 2010
Thinking about you a lot lately, Merry Christmas Chris :)
Ann Pedersen
March 1, 2010
Just missing and thinking of you.
Cody McKibben
September 17, 2009
Here's to the memory of an old friend, never forgotten. Love you brother, and missing you. Happy birthday. We'll drink one for you in Bangkok tonight. ;)
Mom
September 15, 2009
Chris, words seem so inadequate, I have only to say that you are missed by so many......every second, of every moment, of every day, oh..... and Happy Birthday!
All my love, always and forever,
Ann Pedersen
August 18, 2009
I miss you every day.
June 21, 2009
We look up at the stars and think of you and your shining star ! It will always be as bright in the sky as you are in our hearts and memories ! Our Love Always,Don, Sherri, Donnie & Stefanie Foltyn, Our thoughts and prayers are with your Dad,Mom,Crystal and family.
Joyce Cravens
September 15, 2008
Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the number of moments that take your breath away.
Happy Birthday Chris!
Always and forever, Mom
Susan Burgess
June 22, 2008
Dear Chris,
Yesterday was the fourth anniversary of your death; I knew it was coming,but still wasn't prepared for how much I really miss your bright smile and silly jokes. The feelings of lose just percilate through me. Your little nephew has your tempermant--he is very quiet, easy going and so darling. Teddy has a little girl and boy now. God, this get's harder to bear, not easier. We miss you so.
Love you always,
Aunie Sue
Cody, Chris, and Patrick at Outback
June 22, 2008
A band photo
June 22, 2008
June 22, 2008
June 22, 2008
Messing around at high school Grad Night
June 22, 2008
Chris on the drum set
June 22, 2008
Chris with his dad
June 22, 2008
June 22, 2008
Matt Gualco, Patrick Farrace, and Chris Cravens
June 22, 2008
Ann Pedersen
June 21, 2008
Chris,
I miss you so much, it's been 4 years, and it is so surreal. Love you Chris.
Mom
September 16, 2007
Happy Birthday Uncle Chris!
Always,
Joyce Cravens
June 20, 2007
Chrisy, you are gone from here, but you will never be forgotten. We all miss you and love you so!
Mom
Ann Pedersen
June 20, 2007
My friend, I miss you terribly. You will always be in my thoughts.
Susan Cravens Burgess
September 17, 2006
Dear Chris,
I don't know if you can understand these words because they are put down on paper, or typed into the computer, or spoken out loud. One thing I know is you can feel what's in our hearts, and that we still grieve for you. You have no idea how many of us are still crying because you aren't here with us now. Your mom and dad, grandmas, sister and the rest of us miss you more than anyone can say. You have missed not seeing the babies that have been born into your cousins families this year. They are innocent and sweet like you were when you were little. And, yesterday was your birthday and I said a prayer for your mom and dad, because this is hardest on them. You are dearly missed but always loved,
Auntie Sue
Ann Pedersen
September 16, 2006
Well Chris, if I am correct, today is your birthday, and I miss you so much. I think about you everyday and it's just a fact, you were taken before your time. I miss you. Happy Birthday.
Raha
June 26, 2006
Just wanted to write and tell you that I miss seeing your face and I think about you all the time. You are greatly missed by so many.
Cassandra Corum
June 23, 2006
Hi Sweetie.
Thinkin about you this time of year.
Love
me
John Ostermiller
October 18, 2005
Chris,
I remember when Brett told me what had happened to you... you'd left Safeway already, and I'd almost forgotten your fabulous personality. I had all but a fleeting pleasure of working with you and it's a shame I never even knew we had gone to Rio simultaneously until after it was all over.
Regardless... thank you, for everything. For geeking out with me over transformers in the breakroom to and for just existing, if only for a moment, and bringing so much joy to so many.
Till all are one.
-john
Susan Cravens Burgess
September 18, 2005
Friday was your birthday and we have been thinking of you knowing it was coming soon. Your grandma still cries at the thought of not being able to see you, to hug you and talk with you. Each one of us miss you so much we can't even say it. Some of us don't dare speak your name, knowing that pain will rise up in us and overwhelm all our senses. You are a bright morning star whose flame was too quickly extinguished. We love you more than you can know.
Love always,
Aunt Sue
Susan Cravens Burgess
July 15, 2005
Dear Chris,
I think about you often and wonder if you know how much we all miss you. Now that you and grandpa are both gone, our family get-togethers seem to have a big gap for me. I hope you and grandpa are comforting each other, just as we have to trying to comfort each other here. None of us has gotten "over" your sudden departure; the sense of loss is almost too much at times. Most of the time, I know you are where you should be--- with God, at peace and your journey is going on; I have no fear about that. But your absence here, and now grandpas too, hurts like a hot poker going through my heart. There's something vital missing, mainly the love, affection and joy you both gave us. The memories somehow are not quite enough. Do you remember me hugging you and telling you how much I loved you; did you really get the message? Did I say it often enough for you to know how special I thought you are?
Your grandmother is despondent now; grandpa's passing is catching up with her. She is trying to adjust to him not being by her side. Yes, she knew it was time for him to go. Yes, she anticipated it was coming soon and would leave her feeling low at times. She knew she would miss him, but she didn't realize how often she had counted on him for little things, and now she has to figure those things out for herself---she feels a bit lost and sad. She isn't accustomed to giving in, but she has to deal with these new situations and feelings.
I hope you and grandpa loving and caring for each other and those who you are with. Know that we all love you so much and miss you more than you will know.
My love to you always,
Auntie Sue
Raha
March 31, 2005
Dear Chris,
I just wanted to write to say hello. I think about you everyday, it's pretty hard not to since I drive by your house everyday. I can't express to you how much you are missed. I know that your looking out for us all down here. I met your friend Neil a couple of weekends ago and we shared some great thouhgts about you. I hope your doing good and I miss you so much.
Cassandra Corum
March 30, 2005
Hey Big Guy,
It's a beautiful sunny day today, and it seems like these days often remind me of you...like you had a part in making them happen. Everytime I drive by the Hooka Bar, I think of you..remember when I saw you there? You were sitting back with your buddies, I hadn't seen you in who knows how long... I walk in and I hear this "CAAAAASSSSS!!!!" Before I could turn around, you were giving me a hug... that's just like you buddy. I saw what your sis wrote about a transformers shirt...funny cause that's what i rmember you always wearing. Playing tag or hide and go seek with our 'crew' on the Schweitzer play ground...we rocked. I miss you buddy, i know i'll see you again someday, you'll probably be hugging me before i even know it's you........Love you Big Man...Love Cass
crystal cravens
March 2, 2005
chris. my birthday as well as dads has come and gone, and theres no real reason for celebration anymore. we miss you so much. theres not a hour that goes by where i dont think of you. When im driving everything i see i can link to u somehow and its hard. i love you.
Patrick Brownfield
February 26, 2005
Chris - I can't believe you're gone. In three months or so it will be year. That's one year too long. I wrote 2 songs for you. I think of you everytime we play "Forget." I still cry. I still go over the accident scene in my head and come up with no answers.
My Song: "Blue Eyes in Heaven"
Things fall apart. Castles crumble, empires tumble to the ground. Good friends live, good friends die. We're just trying to stay alive.
Your blue eyes are watching us from heaven- I know that's where you are.
Your blue eyes are staring down from heaven- on Orion's belt of stars.
Speeding in slow motion, your voice is my soundtrack. It's only in my head. I'm tearing apart at the seams. It's harder than it seems, to hold it together.
And it rips my heart out!
Oh Christopher,help me lift this brick. Help me build this castle. I can't do it by myself. Your fortress will protect me, and it gives me room to grow.
I just want to reach these stars.
Blue Eyes are watching us from heaven.
I love you very much Chris.
Susan Burgess
January 12, 2005
Dear Chris,
This Christmas just didn't seem right without you. We all miss you so much, and love you dearly. Somewhere out there, I know you are loved and cared for. I appreciate all the times we spent together, your bright and lively character, and you're genuine goodness. I would give anything to spare your parents and sister the continued pain and loss they feel. We have a large hole in our lives, that never will be filled. I know your journey on will be filled with all the qualities you expressed here and lessons you will work out there.
God bless you and keep you safe in his love,
Aunt Sue
Kayla Ellis
January 9, 2005
Chris....
wow, i havent written you in such a long time. I hope your doing ok, i think about you all the time. I pray for you. Things have gotten harder, and it seems so hard to realize that you are gone. Crystal and I had a long talk the other night, it got pretty emotional, we talked about you and my mom.
I like to think that you are around. i notice little things, when i think about you, the wind blows, or a song you liked comes on when i talk about you. I like to think thats your way of saying hi. I hope your ok, i miss you. "hey mr. grumpy gills...." sorry, i couldnt resist! much love cravey
xoxo
~kayla
Joyce Cravens
January 2, 2005
Chris, I love you so.
Peace out.
Mom
crystal cravens
December 31, 2004
chris.. miss u so much.. love u.. i kno ur lookin out...
Georgia Israel
December 25, 2004
Chris we miss you so much. We love you and know that your with us every day. Merry Christmas.
Crystal Cravens
December 20, 2004
Chris-
its been months but it feels like days, and our time just isnt the same withou you. every morning i wake up and struggle to get through the day just to wake up and repeat the cycle again. the pain doesnt deminish. all hopes and memories with you for the future have been destroyed. and of all the questions to be asked the one that repeats itself over and over again is why. why someone like you. why someone with so much potential and hope for the future. why someone who impacted so many lives and meant so much to people. the list could go on. theres a void in our lives that will never be filled... and i cant even imagine the future years without you, but i have no choice. thanksgiving was tough, and i found myself wanting to say i wasnt thankful for anything, but i was. christams season means nothing. our family isnt the same anymore. instead of looking forward to christmas day, i dread it because its just another day but its an even bigger reminder of family and how your gone. i saw a transformers shirt the other day and had to stifle the urge to buy it for you for christmas. we miss you and love you so much and we will never forget the memories, joy, and laughter you brought to our lives. you will always be the big brother i look up to, and i thank you for the lessons you have taught me through life. i love you... mi nilda enyalie chris... tenna ilya are quen... le are my callo... always and forever
Susan Cravens Burgess
December 17, 2004
Dear Chris,
It seems like only days since you left us, and none of us are in the Christmas spirit without you this year. Your smiling face, affectionate voice and very presence are yearned for each and every day. Your parents are despondent without you, your sister and grandparents miss you so, and then those of us who had minor parts in your life pine away wondering just how this could happen to someone so sweet as you. You know that I love you and think of each and everyday. Stay close to God, child, and one day we will be together again.
Much love always,
Auntie Sue
Erika Black
December 6, 2004
Hey Chris, It seems just yesterday George, Alea, you and me went to get sushi, an we laughed all night. I think about you every day. I talked about you in class, friendship was brought up, and how to tell if someone was a true friend. I love you, and miss you
Georgia Israel
November 6, 2004
Chris I miss you so much. I saw Scott and George last night and it brought back all my memories of you and everybody from the forth of july. Wish you were here. Love you.
crystal Cravens
November 2, 2004
hey bro...
dad got his viper on monday... and we said he would never do it lol. miss u more than ever sorry its been so long since ive written... i love you...
Georgia Israel
October 24, 2004
Chris we miss you so much. Every day it gets eaiser but its still hard for us to realize that your gone. Love you so much. Cant wait to see you again.
Raha
October 16, 2004
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of Chris. The neighborhood just isnt the same any more and it never will be. Chris you are missed by so many and I hope in heaven you feel all the love that so many have for you. You will never be forgotten. I know that you are in a better place now. God Bless. Joyce, Brent, and Chrystal please call or come over if you ever need anything.
Matt Gualco
October 10, 2004
"Til all are one"---optimus prime
There's not a day that goes by that chris isn't in my thoughts.... we all miss you so much chris, avery time I listen to "Next Day Flight" song "Forget" it just takes me back to the first time you played the drums for me and how each hit made my hart jump!! and know it still dos each time I hear that song playing,You were a true friend chris and for the rest of my time you will be in my thoughts.......
my thoughts and prayers are with you Joyce,Brent and Crystal,
-matt gualco
Georgia Israel
October 9, 2004
There's not a day that goes by that chris isn't in my thoughts and dreams. Im here for his family if they need me. We love you chris.
Don & Sherri Foltyn
October 7, 2004
Brent,Joyce & Crystal,
Not a day goes by that you are in our thoughts and prayers...and that we think of CHRIS with a tear and a smile. We miss hearing his drums...and seeing his big smile, and friendly wave as he goes by our house.
Know we are here for you,
Don & Sherri
crystal cravens
September 18, 2004
hey bro:
i miss u more then ever... things just arent the same anymore... they never will be. we had a party for u the other nite at kaylas, dustin came down from tahoe and asa niel and other people we there... we watched videos of you. they were comforting, becuz i heard ur voice and saw ur smile, but they were hard to watch, cuz i wanted to reach out a embrace you, but i kno when i tried, nothing would reach back. we have lost all of our volleyball games, except for one, that one was on your birthday, this last thursday. i played one of the best games of my life, and i think it was becuz of your strength. happy 21st, and sorry im late for writing. theres not a second that goes by and i dont think about you. it feels were being ripped apart from the inside out. i miss you. i love you. always.
Kayla
September 18, 2004
CRAVEY!!
Your birthday was 2 days ago. Congrats!! Last night some friends and family gathered and we had a party for you! We watched some funny movies of your little stunts that would make us cry of laughter! It was so great to see your smile, only it was just on a tv screen. My personal fav was the kinko's stunt!
Im at the house always, with Crystal and visiting mom and dad. It makes me want to cry, knowing you can never come back. Everyone misses you, too much! Since you have gone, some of our spirts have dimed greatly. All they have now are the happy memories of you, and kinko video's, lol! Anyway, I just wanted to wish you a happy 21st birthday! And I hope your ok where ever you are! We love you Cravey!! And miss you, and the bright smile. I'll keep in touch, never will forget you!
Dad, Mom, and Crystal Cravens
September 16, 2004
STAR LIGHT STAR BRIGHT,
YOU ARE THE BRIGHTEST STAR IN THE HEAVENS TONIGHT,
AS WE LOOK UP TO SEE YOUR SHINING STAR,
WE FEEL YOUR LOVE FROM THE HEAVENS AFAR,
WITH NEVER ENDING MEMORIES OF HAPPINESS AND LOVE,
YOUR SMILE IS THE LIGHT FROM HEAVEN ABOVE,
CHRIS YOU WERE GOD'S GREATEST GIFT TO SHARE FOR AWHILE,
WE TAKE YOU IN OUR HEARTS EVERYWHERE,WITH TEAR AND SMILE.
TODAY YOU'RE 21ST BIRTHDAY.
WE WANT YOU TO KNOW LOVE IS BEAMING UP TO YOU FROM CHERISHED HEARTS BELOW, CATCH IT AND HOLD IT, AS WE WILL TOO, THE MEMORIES OF YOUR SMILE ARE AS BRIGHT AS YOU. YOUR STAR WILL SHINE BRIGHT ON YOUR LOVED ONES HERE, FOR WE KNOW FROM ABOVE YOUR LOVE IS ALWAYS NEAR.
THANK YOU SHERRI.
Paul Burgess
September 16, 2004
To Brent, Joyce, and Crystal,
It is hard for me to put into words exactly what I feel today, but it is both sorrow and joy. Chris showed me so many things in life, just being himself. I have found it very hard to go to the gym these last few months, being that I saw him there so much, but I know Chris would want me to keep going, to be strong just like he was. For that reason I have been pushing myself harder and harder to go every day I'm off. I miss him very much, every day. I still remember his smile and that always makes me cheer up. His smile and his laugh are the things I'm sure all of us will miss most. I hope, especially today that his strength, smile, and laugh can help us all through every day we now must face.
As always if you guys need anything, just call I'll be there.
Love,
Paul
Susan Cravens-Burgess
September 16, 2004
To Joyce,Brent and Crystal,
Today is a very special day in our lives--- it is the day 21 years ago God gave us the gift of Christopher. He was a precious baby, a darling little boy and such a fine youngman. The fact that he left us too soon is all too traumatic and heart wrenching; we don't understand it and miss him so.
I bought him a gift for his birthday way back in May when he and Steven visited me. I'll treasure it as a remembrance of the love I had for him and the love I know he had for me.
He was, from what we saw, a bright, loving, well-liked guy just doing his thing as young men do. The day he and Steven visited he seemed restless as he slouched his long torso into my chair. He spoke about the classes he was taking in school; said he really liked the art history he was taking, but knew it wouldn't be very marketable. He thought maybe somewhere along the line he might do some sort of business, but wasn't sure what that might be. He said he didn't think he'd leave the area to go to school to finish up his college. He talked about the kids who were his friends and the how fun it was just to hangout and do nothing. Ah, summer and youth. It was such a luxury to have his company.
I remember when he worked at Safeway, he'd always try to bag my groceries and take things to the car for me. Then he'd give me that big smile and a hug and tell me he loved me. And I'd tell him I loved him-- and to stay out of trouble! Oh, yeah he'd say and be off with his buddies. The night he left us on the 20th, I didn't talk with him much... just watched him hold little Kyle and stroll past the kitchen window with a big smile on his face talking to someone on his phone. I wish I had talked to him more and shared more with him, but his life was so busy and full.
There is a saying that only the good die young, and Christopher was and is very good. He had that low key pleasant disposition that made him so special, so very easy to be with. I know he is with God, so as a pray with God each day I talk to Chris also. I know wherever he is he is happy, safe and very much loved by all. And will always be.
We who saw him grow and love him so, do miss him more than words can say. He knew we loved him; how much he may not have known and how much it hurts now that he's gone he couldn't fathom. I know we'll be together with him again and for that I'm grateful. So on his birthday, I say "Thank you God for bringing such love and light as Christopher into my family. Thank you for letting him be in my life."
To you my brother, sister-in-law and Crystal dear, may God's love comfort you and lift your spirits up.
Much love always,
Susan
teddy burgess
August 5, 2004
To Everyone and My Family:
I would like to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart for the support and love that inspired something such as this for my cousin. He was a special part of so many lives. In the end, that is our true legacy. What we leave with others, wisdom, fun, laughter, knowledge, all of these will pass to the next.
When a star as bright as Chris is extinguished, we mourne for the loss of the light to ourselves, and the light that would have been further brought to others. I had known of Chris most of my life but had not truely known him the way that many others had. For that I am regretful, but he and I shared a love and bond that was unspoken and unneeded. I will miss not having the opportunity to know him better in the future, but perhaps that is the will of the allmighty. We will meet again. As will we all......
Thank you
Javidan Family
July 28, 2004
Brent, Joyce, and Crystal
We just wanted to let you know that out family thinks of Chris everyday, and he is dearly missed. You are in our prayers and we love you.
Crystal Cravens
July 19, 2004
To the community: I would like to take this opportunity to thank each and every one of you for your thoughts and prayers. The abundant ammount of community support has helped us so much through this time. Your thoughts and prayers are not going unherd, and are also helping christopher move further along on his journey. Chris was a great kid and an outstanding brother, son, and friend to many. He will be deeply missed but his spirit will live on through each and every one who knew him. We need to focus on the memories we had with him, cause it will be one of the things to keep us going, and keep us smiling. So thank you for all of your help, you guys have been awesome, we couldnt have asked for anything more.
Pam Kingsley
July 15, 2004
I just want you all to know I think of you and Chris every day. My prayers are with you.
Dustin's Mom,
Kayla and Ellis Family
July 4, 2004
The first time that I had ever met Chris, was when he had brought Crystal over to my house. He just wanted to make sure parents were home, and NO BOYS! The caring brother he was, always looking out for his little sister. I never really got the chance to know him fully. But the stories I have heard, explain enough, that no one will ever meet anyone like him in the world. He was just one of those people who was always happy, and when u were sad, he was there to brighten your day. To anyone who loved him, you will always have the joyous memories. To crystal, joyce, and brent, my thoughts will be with you always.
Grace, Ken, and Nate Rabiroff
June 30, 2004
Dear Joyce, Brent & Crystal:
We send you our thoughts and love during this very difficult time. What a tragedy! We were so devastated by the news. We will always remember Chris as a sweet and very talented boy, and we know how much he'll be missed by all who knew him. I especially remember Nate's first garage band with Chris's great drumming, and their first gig at the Teen Center. It's hard to understand why some depart from this world too soon. Chris's spirit will live on in all of our memories, and in the music that he loved. With deepest sympathy, Grace, Ken and Nate
Evelyn Anderson
June 29, 2004
To the Cravens family,
I just wanted to offer my deepest sympathy on the loss of Chris. My son, Aaron, went to Barrett and Rio with Chris. They both played percussion and had a great time playing music together. When they both played in rock bands, they played a gig together and I had the priviledge of watching Chris rock out on the drums. It was a real treat for me. When Chris worked at the grocery store I would always look for him to take my groceries out so we could have a little chat about music and cars. Chris was a truly great young man and he will forever be missed. Aaron is currently serving a mission for 2 years in Mexico and I know that his heart will be broken with this news. But his prayers and our prayers will go with all of you. I hope that the knowledge that your son touched many lives in a positive way is of some sort of comfort to you at this time.
Sincerly,
Evelyn Anderson
Raha
June 28, 2004
I met Chris in the first grade and lived next door to him. Him Crystal and I would play together and go trick-or-treating together every year.I watched Chris grow from a young boy to a wonderful man.Chris was always happy and cheerful and I will never forget that. He was the most polite person I have ever met. My family and I will miss him greatly. There are not enough words to express how much he will be missed. I love you Chris and I will see you someday again. God Bless. Joyce, Brent, Chrystal, If you ever need anything please do not hesitate to call. Love you guys.
Jan johnson
June 26, 2004
Cravens family,
I want to express my sincere sympathy to all of you. I was so sorry to hear of your loss, I can only imagine the loss of a son and brother and my prayers are with you all. Crystal christine and I want you to know that you are always welcome at our home and if you need anything at all we are here.
Sometimes we do not understand why our loved ones are taken from us, but know that Chris is now in the hands of the Lord and oneday you will be with him again.
My prayers are with the entire Cravens family.
(Christine Johnson's mom)
Daniel Westover
June 26, 2004
I had the pleasure of being Chris' Algebra 2 teacher several years back. He was a gifted mathematician, and a pleasure to serve. My sincere condolences on his passing. We lost a good one way too young.
Dan Westover
Robert Chang
June 26, 2004
I had the honor of having Chris as my best friend during my childhood. Since the first day I met him, Chris was always so friendly and warm to his friends. Whether it was playing tag outside during recess or playing Mortal Kombat at his house, Chris was the guy who could always bring a smile to my face. I am very lucky and grateful to have had him as a childhood crony. Thank you Chris, for giving me the great gift of your friendship.
To Mr. and Mrs. Cravens, and Crystal:
Together, Cravens family have given me so many great memories of the elementary and middle school years. For this, I am indefinitely grateful.
While these words are not able to truly express the entirety of how I feel right now, in this time of grief, my deepest sympathy goes out to you all.
Love,
-Robert Chang
Crystal Cravens
June 26, 2004
cravey...
wow... what do i say about a kid like you... you were my kid brother... the one a grew up with.. the one who i so sadly say that i came to neglet seeing your face everyday. that smile... the one that u always had... the same one that would light up a room when you walked in. Your presence was felt by everyone and you touched so many... its about 1 30 sat. morning... and we are having your services today... i dont want to have to realize the fact your not coming back but nothing i do will change it... i will never forget what you told me and the lessons you taught me... and i will miss the loving... overprotective brother that was once on this earth... but if i thought u were overprotective... now i have like 40 brothers all lookin after me and makin sure that im well looked after. Mom and dad and takin it hard... dad the most.. but we still remember the good times... and thats all we can do till we meet again... i love you cravey... u were a one of a kind and i will never forget you...
love always and forever...
crystal
Josh May
June 26, 2004
I met Chris when I joined the band Avington. The band started in early September of 2003. So I knew Chris for about 10 months. Over that time I got to know a bit about him.
He was always very kind and cheerful. I always felt that he was a fun-loving kind of guy. When we hung out he just tried to be light-hearted and make others feel comfortable. I enjoyed my short time getting to know Chris and am so sad that I could not get to know him better. He was a great friend and bandmate. He will be terribly missed.
Whitney Williams
June 25, 2004
To the family of Chris Cravens-
You raised a wonderful boy. I attended highschool with Chris and shared many music classes with him. He was a talented musician and caring individual who always could light up the room with his smile and send a crowd roaring with laughter. You will be greaatly missed.
Your Friends At The Department of Toxic Substances Control
June 25, 2004
Dear Joyce and family,
We are so sorry for the tragic loss of your beautiful son, Chris. Please know that you and your family are in the thoughts and prayers of each and every one of your friends and fellow co-workers here at DTSC.
Matthew Burnette
June 25, 2004
I knew Chris from Safeway as a co-worker. He was a great kid. Always upbeat and happy. He was the type of person you were happy to see and liked to spend time with. I will always remember his smile and the look in his eyes when he was playing a joke or was just having a good day. Chris I will miss you.
Tammy & Monica Bizallion
June 25, 2004
To the Cravens Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at such a difficult time. God bless you all.
Dustin
June 25, 2004
This was a small glimpse of our friendship....
When I Look To The Sky
by TRAIN
When it rains it pours and opens doors
And floods the floors we thought would always keep us safe and dry
And in the midst of sailing ships we sink our lips into the ones we love
That have to say goodbye
And as I float along this ocean I can feel you like a notion that won’t seem to let me go
Cause when I look to the sky something tells me you’re here with me
And you make everything alright
And when I feel like I’m lost something tells me you’re here with me
And I can always find my way when you are here
And every word I didn’t say that caught up in some busy day
And every dance on the kitchen floor we didn’t dance before
And every sunset that we’ll miss I’ll wrap them all up in a kiss
And pick you up in all of this when I sail away
Whether I am up or down or in or out or just plane overhead
Instead it just feels like it is impossible to fly
But with you I can spread my wings to see me over everything that life may send me
When I am hoping it won’t pass me by
AND WHEN I FEEL LIKE THERE IS NO ONE THAT WILL EVER KNOW ME THERE YOU ARE TO SHOW ME --- friends forever
Georgia Israel
June 25, 2004
Chris we will all miss you very much. You have tought us all so much and we will remember everything. You ment the world to so many people and we all will never forget you. Rest in peace.
Blake Villa
June 24, 2004
I had the opportunity to attend High School with Chris and also shared a few clases with him. Chris was extremely intelligent and without question was always willing to lend a helping hand. He will be deeply missed but Chris's spirit will always be a living testiment that only the good die young. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jaimi Kupper Kevin Pugh
June 24, 2004
We would like to sent our deepest sympathy to the family of Chris.. We never knew him. But the loss of a child is unbareable. We stoped that night on the side of the road to help.. I said a prayer for him and his friend... Again I am sorry for you loss and I pray that you will get through this with the love of family and friends...
Cody McKibben
June 24, 2004
They told me Monday that Chris had died. At first, I couldn't believe it. I still don't.
The Lord gives and the Lord taketh away.
But why? He was too young--only 20. He had so much ahead of him, so much life left in him. It had been so long since I saw him--two or three weeks since our barbeque. I should have called him like I was thinking about doing, before it was too late. Chris was our James Dean.
I remember lightin' it up with you, bro. I remember how you were the first one of us to get a car--how we cruised Sacto nights all the time. I remember how much you and I had in common. I could totally see myself in your shoes. I remember yelling out the windows to Limp Bizkit and loud, angry music. I remember tearing up the town and getting ourselves in trouble all the time. I remember hanging at your house, playing games and chilling in the spa, kicking back. I remember always knowing you were my friend at 2 in the morning. I miss you, man. I would have asked you to be my groomsman one day.
Why did I let myself drift away from you, Chris? How could I? You were always one of my best friends for the last six years. Chris, I pray that God will take your soul, my friend. I am so sorry I was not there. I can feel you here with us still. Please know that we all loved you, brother. We all cared and we will miss you. I hope to see you again one day. I pray for your parents, your grandparents, and for Crystal.
John Farrace
June 24, 2004
Chris, you made friends with my brother, Patrick, when I was in 5th grade and you often chilled at our house. I met you and we became friends. About that time I started to shape my true self as a person and you were such an important influence, for that, I thank you. You are one I will always continue to look up to. You always had an aura of joy about you that always spread to everybody in your presence. Everytime my brother told me about the stuff you guys did I couldn't help but laugh and think that one day I would continue this new tradition of harmless pranks that made people smile. Your desire to reach the apex of greatness/humor became an element of importance among all of your friends and family.
Bowyer Debbie
June 24, 2004
I am so sorry about your loss. My heart goes out to all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Debbie Bowyer (Lauren Potter's Mom).
Matt Leach
June 24, 2004
All my thoughts and prayers go out to anyone who knew Chris, especially his family and close friends. While I wasn't a very close friend of Chris', I did attend the same High School and occasionally talked with him outside of school. He was a very positive person and had a tremendous outlook of life. Chris would constantly be smiling and making jokes and those memories of him with forever live on with me.
God bless you Chris, you will be dearly missed.
Ann Pedersen
June 24, 2004
Chris and I have been going to school together since 3rd grade. I've watched him grow from a cute little chubby boy, into a tall, handsome, young man. He was a dear friend to me, and I will never forget him. He was much too young, but he sure had a great time living his life. My deepest sympathy goes out to Crystal, Brent, and Joyce. Love, Ann Pedersen
Susan Ries
June 24, 2004
Chris,
I have known you my whole life. Even though we are not blood related, I still have considered you, Crystal, Joyce, and Brent family. I remember all of the birthdays, holidays, and other times our families would spend together. I remember as little kids, when we went on rides together at Disneyland. I remember when my mom, dad, sister, and I would come over to your house. We kids would race to go play video games. We always had fun whether we were swimming, having dinner, or just talking. I remember when you taught me how to play your drums. You were so generous and patient. You were always a nice, smart, and wonderful person. I looked up to you. When we all grew older, we spent less time together, but when we made time to see each other, I always had a great time and learned a lot from you. I remember the time when we all watched fireworks together on the Fourth of July. I loved just spending time with both of our families. I won't forget the last time I saw you. I was so surprised because it had been such a long time. I'm glad I got to spend that time with you. You showed me that you were the same kind, nice, thoughtful, and good person you always were. Even though you are no longer here with us, you will always exist in our hearts. God is lucky to have someone as special as you in heaven now. You, your family, and your friends will all meet again someday. We will never forget how you touched the lives of everyone you met. You will be truly missed.
Paula Hatler
June 24, 2004
Although I only met Chris once, he was like a brother to Dustin. Chris will never be forgotten & will be missed by so many. I am Dustin's Aunt & I know Chris was a big part of Dustin's life. Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.
matt gualco
June 24, 2004
"Til all are one"---optimus prime
Chris Cravens (1983-2004)
This guy/friend was a great man. to all who knew him his name was Chris but to me his name was "crazy" chris.....my heart goes out to his family they have lost a great son and we have lost a great friend.........Chris will live on by the stories we have of him each story is a chapter of his life and we will be the story tellers.each stories will have diffrent meanings to that person and my they hold on to them for the rest of their life!. I feel I have lost a brother ..... I miss you chris with all my heart like many people will chris is a" friend who lost his life before his time" like my friend Cody has said...........it is true and hurt me so.
Do not cry for Chris make him live on by the stories of his great life!
Chris we will miss you
-matt
Kareem Khan
June 24, 2004
Chris became one of my best friends when I met him in high school in the ninth grade. We both had an interest in math and physics, which helped bring us close together. I will always remember the times when we would talk about physics and the times that we would hang out at his house, Matt's house, or seeing sci-fi movies at Century. He will always remain a best friend and I'll never forget him.
Scott Lees
June 24, 2004
Chris,
You were a true friend through and through and you will be missed by many. You were one of the nicest guys I know. Your smile always brought warmth to my heart and your personality could light up a room. You were a great friend not only to me but many others. You were a loving, caring person and an extremely loyal friend. I know that I speak not only for me, but also all our friends when I say that you will be missed so much but the memories and all the laughter will live on. We will miss you dearly Chris, but we will never forget you.
Sharon Molinar
June 24, 2004
Christopher,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We will always remember and cherish the time that our families spent together. You were a very special boy, who grew up to be a fine young man. You will be missed by all of us and will remain in our hearts forever. We love you Chris.
Love,
Aunt, Sharon, Dennis, Shelly & Susan
Al & Beckie Kamrar
June 24, 2004
We know at times like these that words are not enough. Just know that you are not alone. In this troubled time if there is anything we can do please call. You and your family are in our prayers.
Annette Totty
June 24, 2004
I never knew Chris but was touch by the loss indirectly by friends who knew him.
I can only imagine that the loss of a child has got to be the most painful emotional experience that a parent can ever have.
I have prayed that God will comfort you all at this time!
Annette Totty
Don Moren, DC
June 24, 2004
My thoughts are with you and my sympathy
to your family.
Dustin Crawford
June 24, 2004
Cravey.............
*** When I Look To The Sky ***
When it rains it pours and opens doors
And floods the floors we thought would always keep us safe and dry
And in the midst of sailing ships we sink our lips into the ones we love
That have to say goodbye
And as I float along this ocean I can feel you like a notion that won’t seem to let me go
Cause when I look to the sky something tells me you’re here with me
And you make everything alright
And when I feel like I’m lost something tells me you’re here with me
And I can always find my way when you are here
And every word I didn’t say that caught up in some busy day
And every dance on the kitchen floor we didn’t dance before
And every sunset that we’ll miss I’ll wrap them all up in a kiss
And pick you up in all of this when I sail away
Whether I am up or down or in or out or just plane overhead
Instead it just feels like it is impossible to fly
But with you I can spread my wings to see me over everything that life may send me
When I am hoping it won’t pass me by
And when I feel like there is no one that will ever know me there you are to show me
Love You Always Bro!
Kathy Caldwell
June 24, 2004
Although I never met Chris, I am a very good friend of Kim Phillis and many of her family members.Joyce and Crystal were with us on 6/19/04 at a Pamp.Chef.party at Kim's grandma Phillis' house. I have always been impressed by the closeness of Kim's entire family and I know this hurts each and every one of them very deeply. I have two children of my own and one granddaughter. I just felt the need to let you know that others are praying and thinking of all of you, which then means that Chris touched the lives of people he had never met. From what Kim has told me he was a very special person and I am sure of that because he was a member of such a special family unit. May God be with you and yours and may it somehow take off even a bit of the edge of your grief to know that others care. Sincerely, Kathy Caldwell
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