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Robert Douglas "Bob" Graham Jr.

1942 - 2019

Robert Douglas "Bob" Graham Jr. obituary, 1942-2019, Sacramento, CA

BORN

1942

DIED

2019

Robert Graham Obituary

Robert (Bob) Douglas Graham, Jr.passed at his Sacramento home on April 23, 2019 due to illness. Bob was born January 19, 1942 in Sacramento, California. He grew up in the farming community of Courtland, California in the Sacramento Delta. Bob lived in Sacramento his entire adult life and worked as a farmer for many years on his family farm in Courtland. He was known for his exceptional Bartlett pears and for a variety of other crops including tomatoes, corn, wheat, safflower, and sugar beets. He was a hobbyist and collector throughout his life with a wide range of interests. He played the Scottish Highland bagpipes for many years with his sons and enjoyed trying his hand at a variety of other instruments including the Northumberland smallpipes, mandolin, ukulele, guitar, and penny whistle. He was a 5th generation Californian and loved California history with a special interest in John C. Fremont and Fremont's time exploring and establishing California before and during early statehood. Bob's self-published book on Fremont is used today by the California State Park service to educate students visiting many parks. He loved his family and sharing his many stories and experiences gathered over the years. Bob loved the outdoors and enjoyed spending time in his garden, traveling to the Sierras, and visiting the California coast including Point Reyes Station and Inverness. Bob is survived by his wife Jane whom he knew since early childhood and to whom he was married for 54 years; sons Robert and William and daughter Clara; William's wife Susan; grandchildren William and Margaret; niece Amy Rucker and her family and nephew John Gilmore, cousins Kathie Hutchinson and Marilyn Lawson; and friends developed over many years. He is preceded in death by his parents, Barbara and Robert; sister Mary Gilmore; step-father Wayne O'Neill; and grandparents Marie and Edward Pickett and Florence and Russell Graham. According to Bob's wishes, no services are planned. He will be interred in a private ceremony at East Lawn Memorial Park & East Sacramento Mortuary. Contributions in memory of Bob may be made to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, 7750 College Town Dr., #210, Sacramento, CA 95826, or www.lls.org.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from May 11 to May 12, 2019.

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Shelley Burns

May 5, 2023

I loved Bob and Jane and their family. I will forever fondly remember Bob as the great friend he was to me and my family.

Shelley Burns

March 7, 2020

Dear Jane and children of Bob, I am shook up. I emailed Bob a couple times recently and when he didn't answer I finally decided to look online. Bob was so important to me and my family, as was the rest of your family. Bob was so supportive and me and especially of Ryan. I am so very sad that he has left us. I am especially sad for your whole family. And, the community will also miss Bob9s presence. Sending loving hugs to all of you. Shelley

May 18, 2019

Dear Jane and family, I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. I ran into you ,Robt. and Clara Friday at Sprouts. I was always so glad to run into you both with Chloe . I enjoyed our greetings with my dog Mizti and before that with Perry Como. If you pass by 1901 7th, ring the bell. irene lara 916 446 6292,

May 13, 2019

What a fun memory of having Bob stand out in front of his house giving all of the SWS walkers Halloween treats. The shortbread was terrific. Jane and family, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Beverly Bales

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May 11, 2019

My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Bob. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure when it fills your heart with love and brings you joy. May you find comfort in Jesus promise of the hope of everlasting life on earth at John 6:40.

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