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Stuart Downer Obituary

Stuart F. "Stu" Downer,75, of Marlborough died Wednesday (Sept. 19, 2012) at Miriam Boyd Parlin Residence in Wayland surrounded by his loving family. He was the husband of the late Joyce A. (Healy) Downer who died in 2001. He leaves his children Cheryl Armour of Marlborough, Linda Minnucci and her husband Joseph of Marlborough, Cindy Rhodes and her husband Matthew of Wareham and Stuart F. Downer Jr. of Marlborough. A brother Robert Downer of Burlington and a sister Kathleen Downer of Watertown. Also leaves 8 grandchildren: Caylie Armour, James Rhodes, Jarrod Rhodes, Patrick Rhodes, Samantha Downer, Dina Minnucci, Leah Minnucci and Nicholas Minnucci. He was the father of the late Leslie M. Downer and brother of the late Janice Rojas. He was born in Cambridge son of the late Stuart B. and Catherine (Cahill) Downer and has lived in Marlborough for most of his life. He was a graduate of Belmont High School and he was a U.S. Navy veteran of the Korean War. He was the former of the S.F. Downer Corporation Quality Meats in Boston and Marlborough for over 50 years until his retirement. He was a member of the Italian American War Veterans Post 45 of Marlborough,member of the American Legion Post 132 of Marlborough, the Watertown Elks and the Marlborough Fish and Game Association. He was an avid Boston sports fan and enjoyed watching all of his grandchildren playing sports. He enjoy vacationing with his family on Cape Cod,boating and fishing. He was known for his 4th of July cookout on the Cape for his family and friends. Funeral will be held on Tuesday (Sept. 25, 2012) at 9 AM from the John P. Rowe Funeral Home Inc., 57 Main St., Marlborough, with a Funeral Mass at 10 A.M. in St. Matthias Church, 409 Hemenway St., Marlborough. Burial with Military Honors will follow in Evergreen Cemetery, Marlborough. Calling hours at the funeral home are Monday 4 to 8 P.M. Those who wish may make memorial donations in his name to The Our Danny Cancer Fund,UMass Memorial Foundation, P.O.Box 2795, Worcester, MA 01613.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Sep. 21 to Sep. 22, 2012.

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September 30, 2012

Cheryl, Cindy, Linda and Stu,

I am very sorry for your loss. I have so many wonderful memories of your Dad and family that I will never forget. I am very lucky and thankful for growing up next to your family that made Linda Circle such a great neighborhood. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Take care,
Gary Chute

Karen Callahan

September 24, 2012

Stu, Very sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers.

September 23, 2012

My deepest sympathy to Stuarts Family
and Friends.I ejoyed talking to Stu at
the American Legion Post.Being a Boston
We had a lot in common.He was so proud
of His Family.Stu was a Gentleman that I will always remember.
Charlie Maher

Donna Barry

September 22, 2012

Stu. Very sorry to hear about the death of your father ..I have know him & your mother since I worked at sunnyside..They were both wonderful people & now will be together again. My prayers r with you & your family.

Susan Calvao

September 22, 2012

Stew....so sorry about your dad...big Stew was a great man! He will be missed by a lot of people..our thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family..deepest sympathies..Suzie White Calvao

September 22, 2012

It will not be the same in our neighborhood....Stu lived across the street from us and we have been used to seeing him on a daily basis...except when we was enjoying his Cape Cod digs(lucky man). I always loved his wife Joyce and now he will join her. I am so sorry to the family he leaves behind.

Cara McIntyre

September 21, 2012

Mr Downer, I'll never forget the trip to Jamaica I took with you and your daughters Cheryl, Cindi and Linda. We all had so much fun!! I've known you since JR High when me and Cheryl became lifelong friends. You and Mrs Downer were always so good to me. I will miss you ! It makes your passing easier to know that you are finally reunited with your beloved daughter Leslie and the love of your life, your wife Joyce. Rest in Peace.

Cara McIntyre

September 21, 2012

Mr Downer, I will always remember the trip I took to Jamaica with you and your daughters Cheryl, Cindi and Linda. We all had so much fun!! I have known you since JR. High when Cheryl and I became lifelong friends. I have so many happy and cherished memories of you and I will miss you terribly! I know that you are finally reunited with your beloved daughter Leslie and the love of your life, your wife Joyce!! May you rest in peace

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