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Lorene Coates Obituary

Lorene Thomason Coates of 1345 Gheen Road, Salisbury, NC peacefully passed over to Heaven's shore while at her home on the morning of June 15, 2025. She was 89 years old. Lorene lived a full, abundant life to the very end. She enjoyed good health, continued living independently, and did whatever she chose daily.

Lorene was born on Jan. 13, 1936. The oldest of four children, she was the daughter of Junius L. Thomason and Mary Belle Hoffman.

She graduated as Valediction from Woodleaf School in 1954 where she was also an All-County Girls Basketball player. Her parents taught her the value of hard work, discipline, endurance, and a love for the Lord which she never forgot.

She worked for more over forty years for the ASCS Office and Farm Service Agency of the Department of Agriculture. She began as a Program Assistant, and after eighteen months, she was promoted to Chief Clerk. Eighteen years years later she became the County Executive Director. In 1995 she became a District Director and served in that position until her retirement. She hosted a weekly radio show and wrote a newspaper column in the Salisbury Post for twenty years. After her appointment as an instructor for the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), she traveled the country training all ASCS Employees on EEO, Sexual Harassment, and Civil Rights. She always maintained that "the best job I ever had was working with the farmers of Rowan County."

Following her retirement, she was elected as a Democrat to the NC General Assembly in 2001, serving until 2011. There she fought for the people of Rowan County and enjoyed bipartisan support. She retired from public office at the age of seventy-five.

Mrs. Coates was active in her church and community. She served as Chairman, Vice Chairman, and Secretary of Rowan Helping Ministries, was elected President of the Altrusa Club, and won the Outstanding Community Service for North Carolina and the Southeast Area for the FSA Employees organization.

A faithful member of Bethel Lutheran Church her entire life, she taught Sunday School and was a member of the Church Council. She loved God and her church. She raised her daughters to love God as well.

Lorene was preceded in death by her parents, two younger siblings, Ruth T. Eagle and Lloyd Ray Thomason, and her husband of fifty-nine years, Floyd Eugene Coates of Spencer. She leaves behind her daughters, Renee Coates Scheidt and Cheryl D. Waggener; her grandchildren, Nicole Scheidt Gardner (Jason D. Gardner), Tara Scheidt Fung (Jonathan Fung), and Justin Waggener; her sister, Gail Thomason Mullenax; and numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins. Her greatest joy during her later years was being "Mammaw" to four great-grandchildren, Dales Gardner, Amelia (Millie) Gardner, Charlie Gardner, and Brynne Rose Gardner. She will be greatly missed.

The family will receive friends at Bethel Lutheran Church, 355 East Ridge Road, Salisbury, on Sunday, June 2025 from 1:00 to 3:00 PM, followed by the funeral service at 3:00 PM. The burial will be in the church cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to Bethel Lutheran Church. "Well Done, good and faithful Servant... Enter thou into the joy of thy Lord." Lyerly Funeral Home is servicing the family.

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Published by Salisbury Post on Jun. 19, 2025.

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Arnold Chamberlain

June 27, 2025

What a fine Lady. A wonderful elected official. I considered Lorene a Friend. She leaves great memories to a first class Family.

Pat Sledge

June 23, 2025

Your Mother and grandmother was a lovely lady. Over the last few years, I would see her, and occasionally join her at breakfast at College BBQ. She usually brought a home grown tomato to enjoy with her meal.

Linda Burleyson

June 21, 2025

I sat beside Lorene on many trips with the agricultural tours with the Chamber. She loved visiting the farmers abd loved people so much. She told me about her grandchildren and how proud she was of all of them. Such a sweetheart!! I am so blessed to have spent time with her

Susan Shuping Linn

June 21, 2025

My Shuping family loved Lorene. She served our County well just like my Dad while Sheriff. At one time she even dated my brother Jack while in high school. Great memories.

GaryClareRobbie Simpson

June 21, 2025

Lorene you are such a a sweet soul that will be dearly missed. Heaven sure has truly gained another angel. It's an honor to know you, the simple fact that you would stop to speak and see how we are doing any and every time we saw you made us feel special. Much love & many hugs. Sending you a mater & grits..... This is not goodbye but until we see you again, love you !

Barbara Julian

June 20, 2025

To one of the sweetest and friendliest lady I have ever met, shopping, restaurants, and the salon, she always had a smile on her face and made you feel like a queen. Sweet lady I will surely miss running into you and I know that you have truly made many angels in heaven happy, because. Thats just who you were, WONDERFUL. RIP sweet lady.

linda elizabeth Headley

June 19, 2025

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Becky Lippard

June 19, 2025

Mrs. Lorene Coates was a great example, a friend, a champion, a Christian, a mother, and a wonderful person with a great smile. It did not matter where I might see her - she would smile and greet me and ask how I was doing and when I asked, the answer was "I'm fine. I'm so blessed." What a treasure! I am so thankful to have known this person. Renee, my heart is with you and your family.

Kenneth Womble

June 19, 2025

She was such a delightful person, She had a heart of gold,Go fly high my friend.This community will miss you.Godspeed.

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