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Cordell Kirby Obituary
Cordell Anthony Kirby, born May 1, 1949, passed away on January 2, 2013, after a lengthy battle with cancer. The dignity and courage he displayed during the past four years inspired everyone who knew him. A man of quiet strength, Cordell was devoted to his family and the people he loved, and always met life head-on with resolve and determination. He was preceded in death by his parents Betty and Gene L. Kirby, Jr., and is survived by his loving wife of 29 years, Monica Rufer-Kirby, brothers John, Gene, Philip and Matthew Kirby, sister Monica Lee Kirby, son, Kevin, daughters Erica and Jennifer, and grandchildren Logan, Katie, Christopher, Colin and Grace.
He will be greatly missed.
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Brenda Kirby
May 27, 2013
Peace be with You.
Charlie Korbell
February 13, 2013
Cordell was my best buddy in the Catholic school. We always sat by each other. We seemed to also just click. Ocasionally the Nuns would separate us just to keep order... What a really sincere and caring guy with a very quick wit and who would do anything for you. So sorry about his passing but so glad he was part of my life at an early age. God Bless and best wishes for Cordell's family.
Charlie Korbell
Jennifer
January 12, 2013
He was not only the best father I could of wanted; he was also one of the strongest, kindess, most gentle men I have ever known. He taught me to keep going, and now because of him I can. I will always love you and miss you daddy.
Ginger Roberts
January 8, 2013
My condolences to all the Kirby family. I have fond memories of Cordell and his brothers and sister at St. Mary Magdalene school. Prayers for all of you.
John Kirby
January 8, 2013
Goodbye Cordell. May you rest in peace.
Loretta Smith
January 7, 2013
My prayers are with the Kirby family. My brother, Gary, was a dear friend to the Kirby family. The Lord called Gary home April 6, 2004, so I believe I understand the sadness and heavy hearts. God be with you. Loretta Smith
Debra Dvoroznak Farar
January 7, 2013
My deepest sympathy is extended to my children Stephen, Eric, Kimberly Kirby their father Philip and the entire Kirby family. Cordell was a beloved uncle, brother and brother-in-law. His memory will be kept alive by love left behind.
Arlene Falcon
January 7, 2013
My condolences to the Kirby family. May you find comfort in wonderful memories of Cordell that will live in your hearts forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bubbles Thomas
January 7, 2013
Cordell left me a Beautiful God Daughter Erika. He will not through her eyes be forgotten.
January 7, 2013
THERE IS A BOND THERE THAT CAN'T BE BROKEN NOT ONLY FOR HIM BUT ALL THE kIRBY'S
DARLENE
Matthew Kirby
January 7, 2013
To my brother Cordell, all my love and prayers. Eric and Josh both asked me to send their love too. Cordell, you will always live in our hearts.
January 7, 2013
I am so sorry to haer this .He was my first love and the Father of my first born. Even tho we divorsed we were still friends. I am so sorry he had to fight a battle of cancer and so sorry for his family.
Darlene Weiss
Cindy Hessong
January 7, 2013
My condolences to the Kirby family. My prayers are with you.
Kathy Harrison-Alexander
January 6, 2013
God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be
So he put His arms around you
And whispered "Come to me." Peace be with you Cordell, til we meet again.
Patrick Medola
January 6, 2013
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Glen Pfeiffer
January 6, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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