Helen Wilcox Shackelford, age 95, passed away peacefully on July 19, 2021 surrounded by her family. She was born in Trinidad, Colorado, on February 6, 1926 to Herbert and Helen (Tixier) Wilcox. Her father owned or operated grocery stores throughout the Southwest, which allowed Helen to grow up in Arizona, New Mexico, Texas, Colorado and Wyoming.
In 1942, Helen attended The University of Arizona where she majored in history. There she met and married Lt. Dave S. Shackelford, on November 25, 1944. Over the next 20 years, they raised their family in various places around the globe, including the United States, Europe and Asia, while Dave served as a pilot in the US Air Force. Their final duty station was in San Antonio, where Helen has resided for the past 59 years. She had a deep and abiding love for the City, its people, culture and history.
Once settled in San Antonio, Helen attended Parish Draughon's Business College where she was later hired as a teacher. She continued her career in the vital statistics department at the Bexar County Courthouse and then was a devoted employee of Osborn Heirs Company where she retired after 30 years of service. When not working, you could find Helen supporting her four daughters and all the MacArthur Brahmas or enjoying a relaxing weekend at the family ranch in Blanco, Texas.
Helen had a keen and inquiring mind and was extremely well read. Throughout her life, including at the very end, she accepted the daily challenge of the most difficult crossword puzzles, and triumphed over them. Her deep love for history and family led her to compile a detailed account of her family's genealogy. She was never happier than when explaining family lineage or telling family stories to any of her offspring. Helen's other passion was travel and she was privileged to take each of her grandchildren on an overseas adventure, a trip none of them will ever forget.
Helen is survived by her four daughters and their husbands, Diane (Jerry) Turner, Stephanie (Gavin) Smith, Ann Lynn Perkins and Helen Lisa Shackelford; seven grandchildren, Langston (Meredith) Turner, Amanda (Chris) Flanigan, Ashley (Michael) Hanna, Courtney Turner, Brad (Lauren) Morgan, Stephanie (Michael) Sierra and Worth (Medley) Turner; and thirteen great grandchildren, Mary Helen, Wilcox and Tennie Turner; Sam, Caroline, and Diane Claire Sierra; Harrison and Bishop Turner; William and Catherine Hanna; Lindsey, Lillie and Bradley Morgan. She was preceded in death by her parents, Herbert and Helen Wilcox, and her son-in-law, Donald Morgan.
Helen's family wishes to express their sincere gratitude to Francis Rivera, Delores Esparza and Miranda Alderete for their loving care during Helen's extended illness, as well as to Guiding Light Hospice workers, Andrew, Meredith and Reuben. Burial will be in Blanco, Texas, following a private family graveside service. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the San Antonio Food Bank, the San Antonio Humane Society, Guiding Light Hospice or the charity of your choice.
A celebration of life will be held in the Mall at Towers on Park Lane on Saturday, July 31, 2021 from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Sponsored by Crofts-Crow Funeral Home - Blanco.
4 Entries
Coy Morgan
July 27, 2021
I will always remember Helen as a beautiful and classy lady. I loved talking to her. Deepest Sympathy to the family!
Joy Proffitt Swayze
July 26, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Helen for many years and always enjoyed visiting with her. The one thing
I know is that she loved her family very much and she enjoyed spending time with them.
Showing 1 - 4 of 4 results
Please consider a donation as requested by the family.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreThey're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more