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Martin Cuff Obituary

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Martin R. Cuff, age 36 of San Antonio has gone to the Lord on Sunday, November 8, 2009. His comedic personality, his caring heart and Good Samaritan will be missed. Martin loved music and songwriting, he was an Author and a true Rocker. He was a loving husband, son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend. He is preceded in death by his father, Martin Ramirez Monreal; his grandparents, Isabelita Alaniz and Jesus F. Alaniz; and grandfather, John L. Miranda. He is survived by his wife, Aisha A. Cuff; his son and love of his life, Xavier Bleu Cuff; mother, Maryann Miranda; sisters, Velia M. Gonzalez and husband, Juan Manuel, and April Padron; beloved nephews and nieces; mother-in-law, Gloria Alaniz; father-in-law, Cristelo Padron, Jr; brother-in-law, Cristelo Padron, Jr, III; and he leaves behind many cousins and loving friends.
ROSARY
WEDNESDAY
NOVEMBER 11, 2009
7:00 P.M.
PORTER LORING CHAPEL PROCESSION
THURSDAY
NOVEMBER 12, 2009
10:30 A.M.
FROM PORTER LORING MASS
11:00 A.M.
OUR LADY OF
GUADALUPE CATHOLIC CHURCH
1321 EL PASO
Pallbearers: Lupe Navaira, Greg Araujo, Abel Andrew Zamora, Juan Manuel Gonzalez, Mark Ramirez and Jacob Casias. Interment in San Fernando Archdiocesan Cemetery No. II.
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Published by San Antonio Express-News from Nov. 11 to Nov. 12, 2009.

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Ray Ray & Erica Garcia

November 8, 2020

Our sincerest condolences to the family and especially our smart, funny handome friend, Xavier Blue! I'm sure your dad was a very special man just as you are growing up to be. Love, Ray Ray and Erica

April Galvan

November 6, 2020

Martin no matter how many years have passed I will never forget you brother-n-law. You were very special and God needed you more. We had so many fun family memories because of you that still come to mind and make me laugh. You were an awesome daddy to Xavier. You were more like a brother who always gave me great advice even when you didn’t always agree with my choices. I remember talking to you about music or just stuff that was bothering me. I knew you wouldn’t stay serious and end up making me laugh instead I promise to always watch over and be there for Xavier. He has grown into a handsome young man. I know you are proud of him and smiling down from Heaven with our mom Gloria Alaniz. I have learned to accept the situation because I know God has a purpose for everything and I know you wouldn’t want us to be sad and crying. Although it still hurts us that we have not had closure on what really happened, what I do know is that you are in the arms of our Lord Savior and that’s all that matters. Rest in Heaven brother, gone to soon but always in our hearts. Love your sister -n-law April,David,Harmony,Symphony,Madisyn Galvan

Aisha

July 4, 2012

Happy Fourth of July Martin..just thinking of you and the last 4th we spent together...we went with your family to mission stadium to watch the fireworks and made your nephews and nieces laugh the whole way..we miss you so much...love always

Aisha

March 27, 2012

I was thinking about you this morning as I drove to work. Cant believe its going to be almost 3 years since you been gone. Xavier is getting so big you would be so proud of him. He has accomplished so much and has come a long way. I know you are watching him and guiding him from above. He is my world and I thank you everyday for giving him to me. He is my life. I promise to take care of him always and will always keep your memory alive and let him know what a wonderful father/daddy you were to him. Love

Lil Sis April

February 15, 2012

Happy Valentine's Day Martin!!! LOL I know you thought this day was corny. One of the many funnys thing i remember about you is when somebody would give you a hug,you would hug them really fast because you didnt really want to, you just wanted to get it over with which was so funny...You had a funny way of showing you cared but thats Martin. You never tried to be something you were'nt. I'll never forget how funny you were brother. Rest in Peace,Love your sister n law

Love Aisha

December 22, 2011

Martin, just two years have passed and it still seems like yesterday that you were taken from us. There is not a day that goes by that I dont think about you. They say it gets easier as time goes by but I dont believe that to be so. Theres no amount of time to make it better and time wont bring you back. The holidays have been the hardest for me because its around the time that you were taken from us. Xavier loves you so much and I always try my best for him to always remember you. I know you love him and are watching him from above. I miss you my dear friend. No one understands the pain that I feel. I wish that I could find justice for whoever did this to you and our family but I guess their time will come. Only God knows right?..RIP Martin and I will always have you in my heart..

April Padron

December 6, 2011

Gone Too Soon, You will Always be missed...Until we all meet again Martin you are always in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. Rock Rock Rock Forever!!

Your Sister N Law April

Love Sister n Law April

October 24, 2011

Martin,
You were always like a big brother to me and gave me advice on life. I also have learned because of you that life is short. You should always say "I love you or Goodbye" to the ones you love because it could be the last time you talk or see them. I know that you are watching over all of us. I laugh to myself sometimes when i think of the funny sayings you would tell everyone. You made lots of people laugh and cry from laughing so hard. I was remembering the other day you made me give a ride home to this guy you met at the movies, we found out he was homeless when we dropped him off. You made this guy feel happy and encouraged him to do something with his life. You had many friends not because what you could give them but because they loved you. Xavier is so happy with his new brother Peanut and I know that’s all that mattered to you was for him to be happy. Harmony "Buki" calls Baby Chris, “Baby Martin” and she doesn’t change from saying that. I believe God sent us “Baby Chris” because CJ loved you so much and needed baby Chris to keep him busy. CJ and I always laugh about you brother and will never forget you. I will be getting married to David November 10th 2012, I know you will be there looking over us. Say hello to Grandpo and Grandmo Chavela. I'm sure your making them laugh in Heaven, we will never forget you, until we meet again RIP brother… Love your Sister n law April, David, Harmony and Madisyn

Lettie Marin

October 11, 2011

How time has passed by..it will be 2 yrs this Nov. 08 that God took you to Heaven..Adam and I still talk about you..especially when we see the Gene Simons show..lol..I know you are watching over all of us and especially Xaiver..He is so big and yes looks just like you..Xavie.your daddy could write poems out of love ..and could allways make us laugh..we miss you Martin..

Lettie and Adam Marin..

Letica Ramirez

October 11, 2011

You are still very missed Martin! May you RIP

Martin and his best friend Jacob at Xaviers 3rd birthday party

aisha cuff

October 11, 2011

Martin and Pablo...he loved him like he was his father

Aisha Cuff

October 11, 2011

Martin and Xavier in the ER...he loved Xavier so much

Aisha Cuff

October 11, 2011

Martin and Xavier at Chuck E Cheese..he would pick him up from daycare and spend the afternoon with him

Aisha Cuff

October 11, 2011

Martin and the guys during CJ's welcome home party from bootcamp

Aisha Cuff

October 11, 2011

Martin and I at our honeymoon in Vegas

Aisha Cuff

October 11, 2011

Martin and Jacob at our wedding being silly

Aisha Cuff

October 11, 2011

Martin and Xavier at the zoo..

Aisha Cuff

October 11, 2011

October 11, 2011

aisha cuff

August 8, 2011

Happy Birthday Martin....xavier sent you balloons for your birthday..He loves you song much...you would be proud of him

April Padron

August 7, 2011

Happy Birthday Brother, we miss you and know your watchg over all of us...gone too soon.
"Love ur lil Sis April"

Lil Sis April

June 20, 2011

Happy Father's Day Martin...
I miss you brother and you are truely missed by a lot of people, especially Xavier. I haven't found it in me to go to your site to visit you yet. I like to remember you like if you were just at the house. We miss you..RIP
Love April,Harmony,David & Madyson

March 8, 2011

WE LOVE YOU MARTIN!!! RIP...... APRIL

Love your lil Sis April

March 8, 2011

Martin its hard everytime a new month passes by. You are truely missed here on earth. Xavier looks just like you. I am so proud of Xavier. When I see him i remember all the wonderful memories we all had as a family. Xavier brought great joy to all of us when he was born. Yes I still get sad when i think of those fun times we had like when i picked you up to take him to the clinic and you had him dressed all tight and warm and it was hott outside..LOL you were always concerned about him being sick. You were a wonderful father in that short time you were apart of his life. You always put Xavier first. Your never put drinkg and going out before him like some dads out there do. Your priority was to be a father and I will always remember to share this with Xavier when he grows up. Buki misses you and sees your picture and says ''uncle martin is in the sky. im sure your cracking your jokes up there. David and i will be getting married Nov 10th 2012. I finally found a hardworking respectable man that puts his family first and loves me for who i am. He loves Harmony like his own, i know you would have loved David. He is sarcastic funny like you but i know LOL you work alone....i miss you bro there is no one else like you...i know you'll be watching over us in heavan

Love always your wife Aisha

March 8, 2011

Today is the 8th...another month has gone by..You are always in my thoughts..Xavier is going to play t ball this year..and for some reason he wants to have the number 8. He has really grown this past year..and is so smart..you would be so proud

Love Sis April

December 6, 2010

Martin,

Your favorite time of the year is here. I know you would always joke about the gifts you got for christmas...LOL like the open box of cherries my dad gave you for christmas. We miss you and think of you all the time. Its hard not to bring you up.I tell David if you only got a chance to know my crazy brother n law. I find myself talking about all the funny things you would say and do to make us laugh. Xavier is missing you so much. Him crying for you breaks my heart and I think its just so unfair for him not to have you. I will always keep your memory alive for him. As his only Tia that knew you most and loves him dearly, I will make sure to always share with him as he grows older the fun times we had with you...RIP brother we miss you!!
Love your Little Sister April

Love always your wife always Aisha

November 9, 2010

Yesterday was a year since you been gone. Xavier and I went to see you and took you a beautiful arrangement. He always goes straight to where you are..I never have to tell him. It has been a hard week cause I think of all the memories we have shared. I will always cherish them and will share them with Xavier. You were taken too soon and just always want you to know that I you are will never b forgotten

Little Sis April

November 2, 2010

Martin it is almost a year and we miss you dearly. I was looking at your pictures with Harmony and still cant believe your not here. i know i shouldnt be sad because your in a better place but we miss your jokes. Xavier look so cute on Halloween. I know you watch over him and Aisha. They have been blessed to meet Max who is a great man who loves them both dearly. I know you would want Aisha to be happy and move on with her life. You will always be my brother and i love you for everything you did for me. I will never forget you. Harmony ask for you all the time,she must see you because she said the other day " I see Uncle Martin"..then i know your there. RIP Brother you are missed but not forgotten...

Love always Aisha

October 26, 2010

Martin...there is not a day that goes by that I dont think of you. Xavier still asks for you and are always on his mind. I feel eventhough he doesnt understand fully what happened, he is a very smart boy. You would be so proud of him and I know you are always watching over him. I miss you deeply and this is my way of talking to you eventhough you are no longer with us.

Love always your wife Aisha

August 9, 2010

Martin, your birthday and 9 months since you were taken from us was this pass weekend...Xavier your mother and I went to the cemetary to leave you flowers...It was so hard to go there at first but for some reason feels more peaceful each time we go there...I know we may not found out who did this to you but we will never give up hope..Xavier is growing up so fast...he asks for you everyday..there is not a day that goes by since it happened that he does not ask for you..I miss you so much..and my love for you is forever..there is no one like you..you were one of a kind..I will make sure to let Xavier know what a wonderful person you were..You will never be forgotten...

Your Lil Sister April

August 7, 2010

Happy Birthday Martin! We miss you brother.I cant believe its your birthday again..It is 9 months tomorrow that you left to be with our father. It is very hard for me to go visit you. I know you are at peace but I still cant believe you arent here. Harmony is getting bigger and she still calls you "Tio Martin". I know you watch over her because she says your name and giggles by herself. She sees the angels and her TIO...We miss you and will never forget you. I'm hearing "wind of Change" from the scorpions and it reminds me of when you would play your music..Happy Birthday Martin, love always April And Harmony Bella

Lil Sister April

July 9, 2010

I pray that we find who did this before Xavier's 1st birthday without you. I think of you everyday and taught Harmony how to pray at night and ask you to watch over us. I know that you do. We miss you tremendously and it seems so quiet without you here making the family laugh. I dont want to call this an 8th month anniversary because it sounds to much like a celebration. May God touch the hearts of the people who did this to you soon so we all can have closure. You are missed but not forgotten brother.
RIP love always your only Sister-N-Law April

Love Always Your Wife Aisha

July 8, 2010

Today is the 8 month anniversary since we lost you!..We have not forgotten you...there is not a day that goes by that Xavier and me dont think of you..He asks for you everyday..I feel so sad that you are no longer here with us but I know you are watching over us..I can feel you all around us..I love you Martin always and just wanted you to know that we will never give up and we will find out who did this to you..it may not be as soon as we would like but I know in my heart that the truth will soon be found out..

Your Little Sister April

June 22, 2010

Happy Father's Day Martin! You are remembered by all of us as a great daddy! Xavier looks so much like you. I saw him on Father's Day and it hurt me so much to not have you here with him. I wish we could find out who did this to you soon, RIP we love and miss you.....

Velia Gonzalez

June 10, 2010

Hello my little brother! I miss you sooo much. My heart continues to hurt knowing that I will never see you again on this Earth. I always think about us beings kids and the fun that we shared with our music and all the tons of movies we watched together. I love you and keep missing you! Luv, your sister B

Velia Gonzalez

June 10, 2010

Hello my little brother! I miss you sooo much. My heart continues to hurt knowing that I will never see you again on this Earth. I always think about us beings kids and the fun that we shared with our music and all the tons of movies we watched together. I love you and keep missing you! Luv, your sister B

Your Sister April

June 10, 2010

I know i get busy but there isnt one day that goes by that i dont think of you. You always made us laugh and it is very hard not to have you and your jokes anymore, i sometimes catch myself telling David your sayings and he laughs ""i work alone"" you always would tell me..."your sister has jokes". Today i ran into the Gonzaba family the ones who own mexican restraunt and they were sad to hear what happen to you. They remembered you as Santa Clause. We miss you martin and it still breaks my heart everyday that Xavier cant see you one last time. Its not fair that he cant ask you to catch a ball with him or just simple father and son time. I know i shouldnt hate but i am still very angry inside about what happened. I know you wouldnt want that but you know your sister n law is stubborn. Rest in Peace my brother. We Love you

Your Wife Always

June 9, 2010

Yesterday was 7 months since we lost you...Xavier and I miss you sooo much..life has not been the same without you and sometimes things that seemed important arent that important.. I wish you were here..but I know you are watching over us and are here in spirit..I love you Martin always...

Love always Aisha

May 21, 2010

Martin I miss you...

Love your wife always Aisha

April 30, 2010

Martin I love you!! I miss you so much....just heard Sailing away by Styx and just broke down...

Your Sis April

April 6, 2010

We havent given up.....RIP

Your wife and son

April 5, 2010

Just wanted to light a candle in your memory...love you always

Martin his mom at our wedding

March 30, 2010

Martin and his sister

March 30, 2010

wedding party

March 30, 2010

Martin being funny

March 30, 2010

Love Your Little Sister April

March 2, 2010

It gets harder and harder as time goes by for me. i get angry martin that this person still hasn't said anything. I ask God to touch this persons heart and hopefully they do whats right and turn themselve in. I dont know if i will feel any different if i knew who did this to you. I dont know if it would make things better or worse for me. I want to tell that person what they took away from us. We really miss you brother. Its not fair. My heart breaks everyday that we hear nothing. You taught me life is short and i never take a day forgranted. I still cant believe that your not here, i wish this was all a dream and you were still here. Buki misses her Tio, she watches the videos you made for her. I pray that we find the person soon. Rest in Peace Brother....

Your Wife Aisha

March 1, 2010

Martin...just was thinking about you and wish you could see how fast Xavier has grown in these past few months..He takes care of his mommy and he is really shown and made me realize that he is stronger than people would think..We miss you..love you always

Your wife always

February 8, 2010

Martin today is three months since this horrible accident...I really miss you..I need you sooo much words can not express how much I am hurting. The days have been so dark and empty without you. The only thing that keeps me going is our son and Im really trying to make everything happy for him. He thinks and talks about you everyday.. We will never forget you

Yoir Sister April

February 2, 2010

Martin,
I think of you everyday,we dont forget about you bro...I was telling David yesterday that its very hard not having you here to laugh and get advise from. I remember when we went to Tijuana and Universal studio in California.I found a picture from that time. I look at it and wonder why you had to go so soon. I remember all the great times in my heart. I know it probably drives people crazy that i talk about you alot but ive never lost someone so close to me & tragic. Im learning to just think of you not talk out loud about you and keep the memories in my heart,xavier looks so much like you. I promise to give him all the love i have.I know you would be so proud of him in his martial arts class....Rest in Peace Brother.....
Love, your Sis April

Aisha Cuff

February 1, 2010

Martin, I miss you sooo much..its going on almost three months and it still hurts like it was yesterday. Everyday is a challenge cause Xavier reminds me so much of you. He asks for you everyday and its so hard. I dont think I will ever get over this. Im hurting so bad since I lost you..

Little Sis April

January 25, 2010

Hey thats so weird Martin "Just thinking about you baby" the song from Lionel Richie is playing...one of your favorites...while i just finished writing you,,Rest in Peace Brother...

Love your Sis

Your Wife Aisha

January 6, 2010

Martin...
The New Year came..and it was soo hard to close out 2009. It felt as if I was leaving you behind..closing a chapter in my life that I didnt want to let go. We miss you sooo much...Xavier asks for you everyday..I will never let him forget you..I tell him you are always with him and looking out for him..Love you always

January 5, 2010

Martin, my husband and I didn't get the chance to meet you but just to let you know we enjoy spending time with Aisha and Xavier. You all will always be in our hearts and prayers.

Jason and Nancy Villa

Brenda Alvarez-Alva

January 3, 2010

Martin, buddy, this was not a normal holiday. I guess you can say I feel this is not real. We spent that day with you and never thought it would have been our last. I am so grateful we had that moment to catch up and take in your sense of humor on our everyday lives. So much has happened that I know you would make us laugh about that we can't share with you and it just kills me knowing whoever did this to you will never realize what they did to your family and friends who looked forward to that laughter. You were truly a friend to everyone and it was that friendship we had that I will miss the most. Who the heck is gonna hear me vent now and make me laugh about it. Love your buddy, Brenda

Your wife

December 18, 2009

Martin, this will be our first Christmas without you...but I know you are with us in spirit all the time..I was looking at some photos of you during Christmas time. I know how much you really enjoyed seeing the look on Xaviers face when he opened a gift from you..I miss you buddy always..Christmas will not be the same without you

Your wife

December 17, 2009

Martin, Xavier asks for you everyday..he says your up in the sky in heaven..I know he misses you so much in his own way..it hurts so much to know that you are no longer here..I know you are always in his thoughts as well as mine..love you always

annick gray

December 9, 2009

Aisha, I can not even imagine what you and your family are going through. My deepest condolences to you and yours. I hope you know that my prayers are with you during this time. May god bless you and watch over you and xavier during your time of need. I also want to wish you a joyous holiday even though martin is not with you physically he will always be with you and your baby boy..take care always,

Your wife

December 8, 2009

Martin,
Eventhough it has been a month today...It feels like it happened just yesterday..My heart hurts so much that you are no longer here and I want you to know that we have not given up to find out who did this to you..Took you from us and your beautiful son who loves you sooo much..You were not only my husband but you were and always will be my best friend...love you always

Aisha Cuff

December 2, 2009

Martin,
There is not a day that goes by that I don't have you in my thoughts. Everyday that I look into our son's eyes I see you through him..We both miss you very much...You will always be in our hearts..Love you dear friend always

Your Sister

December 2, 2009

Hi Bro,
I miss you everyday and we keep your memory alive with your jokes and quotes you used to say.Its still hard to believe your gone. I still feel like your here. We all miss you and your ways.Bella "buki" got very sick on thanksgiving and hospitalized.I know you were an angel on her
side. Love your little sis April

Louanda Scott

November 17, 2009

Aisha,

I am so sorry for your loss... Keep his memories alive in your heart. Trust in God, he will ease your pain.

November 15, 2009

I'm sorry for your loss. God bless you.

Gayle Weinraub, San Antonio, TX
NorthWest Church of Christ

Linda Kaye San Roman

November 13, 2009

My prayers are with Martin's family and loved ones. I knew Martin for a short time but his kindness and grace will last a lifetime for me. I hope you know how he impacted all that came across his path. I know he is in a better place and he will always be in the heart of the ones he loved...May God bless his wife, son, and all that loved Martin.

Co-worker @ Chase

JoAnn (JoJo) McKay

November 13, 2009

I did not know Martin personally, but reading the guest book leads me to believe he led a beautiful life and was a beautiful person... My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Aisha, I am Chris's cousin.

Andrew Cervantes

November 13, 2009

I remember saying bye to Martin last week, and he seemed content. I would of never thought it would be a last goodbye. Martin made me laugh, and I will always remember him for his humor. My condolences go out to his family and everyone else. He was a good man, and I know he is dwelling in a place now where he can see how much he was loved in this life. Martin you will be missed.

Chris, Cat Cat & Daniel Enriquez

November 12, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers to Aisha, Bleu and family. We're going to miss you Martin. Thanks for all the great times. We'll cherish those memories forever. R.I.P. Buddy

TERRI RAMIREZ

November 12, 2009

MY CONDOLENCES GO TO AISHA, XAVIER,APRIL,GLORIA AND HIS MOM AND THE REST OF HIS FAMILY. WE WILL MISS HIS FUNNY CHARACTER THAT HE WAS. ITS WEIRD HOW I FIRST MET MARTIN AT THIS FUNERAL HOME WHEN AISHA BROUGHT HIM TO MY SISTERS FUNERAL IN 2002, AND NOW THE LAST TIME I SEE HIM IS AT THIS FUNERAL HOME. MY SISTER ALSO DIED IN THE BEGINNING OF NOVEMBER BEFORE THANKSGIVING. WE LOVE YOU MARTIN AND YOU WILL BE DEARLY MISSED. REST IN PEACE. YOUR AUNT

TERRI RAMIREZ

November 11, 2009

Aisha, our deepest condolences to you and your son. Martin was one of kind. I shared a lot of laughs with him at La Quinta. Will always remember his kindness of heart. We will truly miss him.

Daniel Estala and Rick Sanchez

Friends @ Chase

November 11, 2009

Our Condolences to the Cuff Family, may God Bless You & help you in this time of grief.
From all your co workers at JP Morgan Chase Bank

Patricia Jordan

November 11, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Words can not express my deepest sympathy for your loss. Martin was a great guy and we know how much he loved that little boy. May you find comfort in God's word:
Psalm 23:1-6
- John 14:1-3
- John 16:33
- Psalm 116:13
- 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
If you find yourself in the middle of pain, hurt and grief, I encourage you to pour out your heart to the One who holds the Universe in His palm and pray something like this:
“Father, help me know that You understand my pain. Help me to remember, right now, that You lost Your Son, and You know the pain of separation. God, please wrap Your arms around me and hold me in ways that only You can. Oh God, I hurt so deeply. Please be with me and manifest Your presence in ways like I’ve never known.”

Benita Lozano

November 11, 2009

I used to work with Martin at La Quinta, and I have my good memories of him , the night the company treated us sandwiches ,and he was making them, he knew exactly how I wanted mine done, and it was really good!! and giving me a good tip on how to heat up my tamales one day, and others like that. I don't understand why people die soo young, but I hope his family can find confort in knowing that he is in a better place.

Dolores and Pete Torres

November 11, 2009

Aisha,
We were very sad to hear about Martin. We will always remember him as a compasinate and generous person always helping out, making us smile and laugh. He will be missed dearly. He has left behind a thousand moments that will live in our hearts forever. Please know at this difficut time that you and your son Xavier are in so many thoughts and prayers. Our deepest condolences to you and his family.

Martin and Xavier

November 11, 2009

jose & elma guajardo

November 11, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

delia guajardo

November 11, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

November 11, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

chrisina rodriguez

November 11, 2009

"WE" always had many laughs until we cried.. Never thought this day will come. He was an awesome kind of a guy, jokes never ended..now he leaves alot of memories that will carry on .. He was a like brother and a true friend..

Robert Flores

November 11, 2009

My condolences to Martin's family. You were an awesome friend... I remember the nights of playing music with Hector at you house and having to get up for school the next morning, but the songs were awesome... Sleep well brother see you on the otherside.

Karen and Carlos Perez

November 11, 2009

Aisha, our hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. May the peace of the Lord be with you, especially at this time of bereavement.

ricardo recio

November 11, 2009

We were like to pea's in a pod. And no one else will ever get these inside jokes again. I love you bro and i'll miss you every day. Thank you for so many great laughs. To quote you bro, "things always get better pappa."

Louie Aparicio

November 11, 2009

Aisha and Bleu our hearts go out to you. Martin will be missed by all. He was an all around great guy. The Family at Good Shepherd Parish in Shertz, Tx. also sends their condolences. We are here for you. The Aparicio Family

Sally Branson

November 11, 2009

My condolences go out to Aisha and her family. Martin was a very nice and kind man, he will be missed dearly. God bless all of you.

November 11, 2009

Aisha, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers are with you and your son and the Cuff family.

Sam Perez

April Padron

November 11, 2009

We love you so Much...
Your niece Harmony Bella you nicknamed "Buki" will miss her Tio

Thank you for always being there for us.

Proud Uncle

November 11, 2009

Proud Uncle Martin with his new Niece Harmony Bella

November 11, 2009

April Padron

November 11, 2009

I wanted to be the first person to share how much i loved my brother n law. Its 4am and i just woke up from a dream that my brother n law was talking to me, telling me to stay the night because he didnt want me driving home late with the baby. I feel such a sharp pain in my heart because he loved me so much, i was his sister and he always worried about me. This little box cant fit all the love we shared and memories we had together. I wanted to just tell Martin I will miss you and i love you so much it hurts so bad inside not to be able to talk to you. He was not my brother n law in my eyes he was my brother. I want all his friends to know that we had a special bond. Martin always stuck up for me and never left me alone. He helped so many people but the love and care he showed me was like no other. In all the years ive known him, martin and i never once got mad at each other. We were always there for each other. I never wanted anyone to hurt him. Our relationship was so special i will never have a Brother n law like him. He was funny and a show of his own...I love Martin and its gonna be so hard not to be able to hangout on weekends like we did. He left me the greatest gift and that is my Nephew who i love so so so dearly. Martin your at peace now and someday we'll be together again but you will always be in my heart......love your little sis April

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