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James O'Connell Obituary

James "Jim" J. O'Connell, age 86, passed away peacefully at home in Carlsbad on January 8. Devoted husband of Joan M. O'Connell. Beloved father of Mary Kate, Karen, Alison, Elizabeth (and Brad) Estabrooke, and Meghan (and Devin) Foley. Adoring grandfather of Ash and Nomi. Dear brother to Kay DiFazio, the late Mary Ackerley, and the late Daniel O'Connell.Jim was most known for his sense of humor, positivity, ability to make everyone feel important, and his infectious laughter. He will be deeply missed by his cherished family and friends. May his soul rest in eternal peace.Funeral Mass at 11am on February 27 at St Patrick's Catholic Church, followed by a Celebration of Life at Harding Community Center, both in Carlsbad. All are welcome.In lieu of flowers, please dedicate a gift in Jim's memory to support Extended Opportunities Program & Services (EOPS) scholarships at https://bit.ly/donateforjim. Jim was an integral part of Brother Benno's Scholarship Program which awards EOPS scholarships to those who have experienced hardships in their lives. This cause was dear to his heart.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Feb. 18, 2024.

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Steve DiFazio

February 25, 2024

My Uncle Jim was a relentlessly positive person. He was an important person throughout my childhood and I always looked forward to our visits to see him, Aunt Joan, and our cousins in Weymouth. More recently, he has called my mom (his sister Kay) every day, and always managed to make her laugh. This was especially important in recent years when my mom has been bed-ridden, and that call was always a bright spot, even on the darkest days. I can still hardly believe that my mom won't be handing me the phone any more for some warm and light-hearted banter with Uncle Jim. We will remember him fondly and miss him dearly.

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