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Patricia Ann Gorski Ybarra Patchett

Patricia Patchett Obituary

Our beloved wife, mom, daughter, sister and auntie Patti went home to the Lord Monday, Jan. 6, 2014. Patti was born in February 1969 in Milwaukee, Wis., to Bill and Kathy, the third of four daughters. She lived in Milwaukee and Brunswick, Ohio, until she moved with her dad and sisters to Santa Paula, Calif., in 1979. She moved to San Luis Obispo in 1987 and married Christopher Ybarra in 1991. They raised their daughters in San Luis and Bakersfield, Calif. In 2008, Patti married Allen Patchett and blended their families of five daughters. Patti attended elementary schools in Milwaukee, Brunswick and Santa Paula, Calif. She graduated from St. Bonaventure High School in Ventura, Calif., in 1987, and continued her education at Cuesta College in San Luis Obispo to pursue her career in firefighting and paramedics. She was a student at the PCF Academy and firefighter in San Luis Obispo County, and a paramedic for AMR in Santa Barbara County. Patti's true calling was to be a paramedic. She loved nothing more than helping others in their time of need. Unfortunately, an injury during a rescue call ended her paramedic career. She continued her ministry of serving others by waitressing at the San Luis Obispo Country Club. Patti loved music, as we all saw through the dancing and heard through the radio blasting. She loved walking her dogs on the beach, hiking through San Luis' mountain trails and hanging out with her family and friends. We all loved it when she made dozens of tacos! Patti absolutely adored and cherished her family and friends. Patti is survived by her husband, Allen Patchett; parents, Bill and Carolyn Corrao; and daughters Jessica (Nick), Sabina (Colton), Krissy, Mikayla (Brandon) and Maddie. She is also survived by the father of her daughters, Christopher Ybarra; sisters Teresa (Ben), Caryn (Ron) and Sandra (Philip); nephew. Joey; nieces Ashley, Ericka, Faye, and Olive; in-laws Hap and Roberta Patchett; brother-in-law. Dan (Renae); and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. She was preceded in death by her mom, Kathy; and grandparents. A celebration of Patti's life will be held at 1 p.m. Monday, Jan. 13, 2014, at Mountainbrook Community Church, 1775 Calle Joaquin in San Luis Obipso. The Patti Patchett Memorial Fund has been generously created for Patti's daughters at any Rabobank www.rabobankamerica.com. Correspondence to her daughters can be sent to Mountainbrook Church at the above address.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Jan. 10, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for Patricia Patchett

25 Entries

Valeri 1st cousin

January 19, 2014

I have a few memories of Patti when we were young, we used to get into fun trouble together. One time that stands out the most is when we were throwing a baby inner tube up to the light fixture and broke, cut my shoulder and we were both scared to go tell our mom's. We walked out quietly and finally my mom (aunt Sandi) noticed and yelled at us but we were calm. On the way to the hospital we kept looking at each other and giggling. We must of been in shock I felt no pain (yet) and Patti was glad it wasn't her. We were just trying to have some more fun I suppose cause we didn't realize we would be getting grounded.
We had many good times together. If we lived in the same state I'm sure we would of stayed closer.
If you girls ever need anything. I am here for you. I Love you all.
May you find peace in your grief. I pray and hope that the Lord will be the source of your strength during this difficult time and always.
Love and always a part of me.
Valeri,

January 17, 2014

Dear Jess, Sabina, Krissy and Allen. I remember as a baby when your Grandpa and Grandma lived off 32nd and Scott in Milwaukee when your mom had a cast on the bottom half of her body. If I remember correctly she needed to have her legs or feet straightened. Your mom was so creative in finding ways to crawl to accomplish her task. She was a true survivor. Please take comfort in knowing she is with all of her family and friends that went before her. Love, Uncle Frank Germanson

Dawn Pasterski

January 16, 2014

We had many fun times growing up. Riding bikes,running up and down stairs at grandma and grandpas house. To our latest visit here in Wisconsin. I remember when uncle Bill said you guys were moving to California...I was devastated but you said we would always stay in touch. Patti has raised beautiful loving daughters, and I loved watching your pictures on FB. Amazing memories, there's a rough road ahead but I know you all will be ok, you all seem to be very close with a lot of family support. Stay strong. I'm going to miss you patti. I'm so sorry for your loss, my prayers are coming your way.

January 16, 2014

Allen & girls, please don't hesitate to call on the NFA Aux. or me... Jeanne 2992

Christine Popok

January 14, 2014

To Patti's family I want you to know I cherish her smile. Growing up together in Santa Paula and then St Bonaventure bonded us early on in life. What a blessing she was. Sincerely, Christine (Tulberg) Popok

Gretchen DeBacker

January 13, 2014

So very sorry for your family's loss. Patty was always smiling and always sweet when we saw each other. I am shocked and saddened by the loss of such a beautiful person.

Carol Cauley

January 13, 2014

Oh, just heard this news and my heart is so very, very sad. I loved your mother as I loved you girls. Please know that my heart is sending you love. Your mama was just wonderful and will be missed so very much. Take care of each other....

January 13, 2014

Condolences to you all. We all lost a beautiful soul, but know that she is in Heaven watching over you. All our love to you and the girls. Call if you need anything. The Waiters Family

January 12, 2014

Dear Jessica, Sabina, Krissy and my dear cousins Teresa, Caryn, Sam, and their families...Words cannot express the sadness that is felt over the sudden loss of a person who had an immense presence in so many lives. Hold tight to the loving memories and the special blessings of life that you shared. In times of tears, remember her laughter and in times of sadness, remember her smile. I wish I could be there to celebrate Patti's life. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers and will always have a special place I my heart.
Love, Cari (cousin from Wisconsin) and family.

Christine Popok (Tulberg)

January 11, 2014

For Patti's family: I just want you to know how much I love her smile. We lost touch after St. Bonaventure, but she is a true friend. With our SP and Bonnie connections, I feel forever bonded to your beautiful mom. God bless you Patti ??

Jennifer Van Beurden

January 11, 2014

My prayers go out to Patti's family. Patti touched my life with her kindness and her love for her family! I love you Patti!

Linda T. Duval

January 11, 2014

Our prayers and thoughts go out to Patti's family & loved ones. Although I only met you a few times I kept up with Patti through Teresa and her family. May God's peace and comfort surround all of you during this time.

January 10, 2014

we loved you and your girls, too. we will miss you. love, hap and berta

Scott Barnes

January 10, 2014

Dear Jessica and sisters, it is will great sorrow that such an awesome friend and neighbor for so many years is with God so soon. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. I remember once when she took me to the Hospital and helped me so much. God bless you all.

January 10, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of Patti's Passing. My wife and I worked with her at Poor Richards Press back in the 90s. Patti was always an awesome friend with a big smile. Our prayers go out to you all. David and Sheree McCoid

January 10, 2014

Our condolences go out to Patti's Family May the memories of Patti be held tight in your heart and the Lord give you peace and comfort knowing she is home with her Lord...Matt 5:4

Patti's second cousin Tommy & Gina Mundigler

Allen Patchett

January 10, 2014

I love you with all my heart and I miss you terribly. I am comforted knowing you are with God happy and healthy. Love your Husband

Cindy Haskell (Tuttle)

January 10, 2014

I remember Patti's sweetness and smile in high school and her willingness to be friends with everyone. We were all fortunate to know her. My condolences to her lovely family.

Cindy Haskell (Tuttle), Class of 1987, St. Bonaventure High School

Patrice Niles

January 10, 2014

I saw the LOVE you gave your daughters by the smiles in their eyes when they were with you! Your hard work and endless love has supported and raised three beautiful daughters! I will be here for them always and you will be in my heart forever ??

January 10, 2014

My deepest condolences to Patty's family, Patty and I were friends in HS and I have great memories of her that I will always cherish. She was a beautiful person, a gentle soul who always had the most loving and brightest smile. May you all find peace knowing that she is safe in God's presence and will always be with you.

Raquel De Los Santos
St Bonaventure Class of '87

January 10, 2014

I am speechless, this is just terrible and I am so sad to hear this news. Patti was an amazing lady and friend of mine whom I will miss very much. My heart and my prayers go out to Allen and the girls. God Bless. - Jen Tutko

January 10, 2014

To the family of Patti Ybarra Patchett,
We are deeply sorry for the loss of your Mom, Daughter and Sister. I knew her as a little girl, and only had the opportunity to meet her as an adult one time. She grew into a wonderful warm and loving lady. I know that she will be missed by all. Patti's second cousin, Roseann and Steven McCarty, South Carolina

January 10, 2014

I'm so sorry for your lose Allen.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Amy (Stewart) Williams

Mikki ( cousin)

January 10, 2014

Memories that really stick out with you and I are sitting on grandpa Harry's lap as kids cleaning his face. Or going to see ET movie and we both balled our eyes out. Lol
The funniest one was when I came out to visit you and you took me to the beach. I laid out to get some sun. You warned me many times that the California sun was different from Wisconsin. Of course I blew you off and said "aww, it can't be that bad" Hmm, you were right, an hr later I looked like a one sided lobster. You made fun of me the rest of that day. Yup.....you were right.

I will always keep you in my heart. I will always keep our memories in my mind. I will always love you cousin forever??

Michelle Wenslaff. (Cousin)

January 10, 2014

I love you and will miss you. I know one day we will be together again. You will always be in my heart??
"Go pack Go"

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