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Thomas R. Jodry

1997 - 2019

Thomas R. Jodry obituary, 1997-2019, San Luis Obispo, CA

BORN

1997

DIED

2019

Thomas Jodry Obituary

Thomas R. Jodry 12/97 - 9/19 Our hearts are saddened with the loss of our son Tommy and we miss him so much. We loved him with all our hearts. In the course of his life he brought us so much happiness. He was such a cute kid. He loved playing with his cars, reading his books, and wearing his Woody "Toy Story" costume. He could easily talk to any adult, was funny and witty, and loved doing the things all little boys do. From a young age he had a passion for drawing. As he got older he began to create his own beautiful and unique stencil art. Tommy admired President Barack Obama and plastered a stencil of him everywhere. And oh, man could Tommy write a story. He could have been a novelist. He had an innate talent to express himself in writing ever since he learned how to write. He would be doing a much better job of writing this than I am. He played the guitar proficiently for many years and it was the joy of his life. He and his friends played for our very ill friend Sylvia's fundraiser. He had so much kindness in his heart. In recent years he spent much of his free time growing and selling cactus and succulents. He took up this hobby when he was twelve years old and wanted to make a little money. All his customers were impressed with his entrepreneurial spirit. I'm sure they will all miss meeting him in his beautiful cactus garden and his new 805xeriscape landscaping business. But now Tommy is gone. He lived for 21 short years. His high school years did not go well for him and his self esteem wavered as a result. Depression and anxiety took its toll and help in SLO county was so unavailable. He was set to sign himself into an alcohol rehabilitation program but circumstances led him into the wrong situation that ultimately led to the loss of his life. He so much wanted to get better. So we need to thank all the people who did reach out to him; his family, his very good friends who stood by him, the counselor and psychiatrist who were willing to work with him and didn't close their doors to him, and all those other people in our village who showed concern and compassion towards him. We will all miss him, his parents Mary Jane and Bill Jodry. His siblings, Victor and Carmen Rust, and Juliette Jodry. His uncles Glenn and George, cousins Patrick and Pete, his grandmother Denise, and all his loving Aunts, Uncles, cousins, and family scattered across the country. Goodbye Thomas, please keep an eye on us all from heaven. Service Information: Viewings: Thursday 9/19 & Friday 9/20 from 1-3pm, 5-8pm at Chapel of the Roses in Atascadero, with praying of the rosary Friday at 6pm. A funeral Mass will be held Saturday 9/21 at 10am at Saint William's Catholic Church.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Sep. 19, 2019.

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Cynthia J Smith

September 13, 2023

Thomas will never be forgotten, Bill and Mary Jane have a candle burning for him forever in their hearts.

Katie Sorensen

June 1, 2020

We grew to know Tommy through our shared love for cacti and succulents. We enjoyed each time we visited with him in the garden

Claire Vollmer

October 6, 2019

To Bill and Mary Jane and your family, I was so saddened to read of the loss of your son. A tragic loss of such a beautiful soul. My Hope is that he is no longer in pain. I know the heavens are brighter because of his beautiful star.

Alice Price

October 6, 2019

I did not know Thomas but my thoughts are with his family and friends. I want to thank his family for putting it out there that there is an extreme shortage of help for these issues and although he wanted help it was hard to find. I believe if more people open up about this struggle it will bring attention to this issue so many of us face (myself included) and it could save lives. Thank you, and Thomas is in my prayers.

Donna Fogarty

October 2, 2019

I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son Tommy. Please known you are in my thoughts & prayers.

Sharon Allen

October 2, 2019

Love and God's healing for Bill & Mary Jane. Tommy will be with you forever in your hearts until you join him in Heaven.

Cindy and Dale Goddard

September 30, 2019

Love and prayers to your family. Godspeed to Tommy

loretta grondahl

September 21, 2019

Oh Bill. My heart aches for you. We love our kids so much. Wishing you and your family peace.
Loretta

Peggy Diaz

September 21, 2019

Our hearts are heavy with the loss of your son... our prayers go out to your family as you try to work through this very difficult time. It is a reminder of how precious the lives of our children are- I went straight to my daughter to hug her...so sorry for your loss.

September 20, 2019

Oh Bill, I was so saddened to hear about this. Hugs and love to your family as you go through this. Roberta Hart

Gene Barre

September 19, 2019

I'm so sorry for your loss. I did not know your son or know his amazing family. I lost my son Michael to the same terrible disease 7 1/2 years ago. Please know that all of you as well as Tommy will be in my prayers. I'd like to thank you for being so honest about his struggles. I think it is very important for us to do that so that others might learn from our loss. May god bless you all. I'm sure the boys will keep the light on for us in heaven until we join them.

Mary Peracca

September 19, 2019

I am so sorry to hear about losing your beautiful son, Tommy. I'm writing because I unfortunately understand something about your grief. I lost my only child, Ian, at age 23 from the same things you wrote about Tommy. Thanks for sharing his wonderful childhood and fantastic traits. Thanks for your honesty about how difficult life can be for our young adults. If only our love was enough to carry them through the hardships.
I have found help and healing though the support group at Hospice, SLO. It might be a help to you at some point.
Hugs to you and your family.

Nancy Welsh

September 19, 2019

Each day I read the SLO obits. I promised to never do that but as an old lady it has meaning. On a very rare occasion one catches my eye as your son. He has a wonderful history. May God give him peace and let him write stories in heaven. Thank you for sharing his life.

September 19, 2019

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19

Viewing

1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

Chapel of the Roses

Atascadero, CA

Sep

20

Viewing

1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

Chapel of the Roses

Atascadero, CA

Sep

20

Viewing

5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Chapel of the Roses

Atascadero, CA

Sep

20

Rosary

6:00 p.m.

Chapel of the Roses

Atascadero, CA

Sep

21

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

Saint William's Catholic Church

CA

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