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Rev. Dr. David A. Kerr

1940 - 2019

Rev. Dr.  David A. Kerr obituary, 1940-2019, Kennebunk, NH

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David Kerr Obituary

KENNEBUNK, Maine and GULFPORT, Fla. - Rev. Dr. David A. Kerr, 79, passed away peacefully at York Hospital on Sunday, August 11, 2019, after an epic battle with Parkinson's Disease, surrounded by the family that adored him.

Over the course of his 50-plus years of ministry, he often spoke of "the dash" representing the life lived between the date of our birth and the date of our death. He always encouraged his congregations to make sure they had few regrets about what they did with that dash.

David's dash started with his birth on June 14, 1940 in Everett, Massachusetts, to Frederick B. and Emma Lily (North) Kerr. He attended public schools in Everett, eventually graduating from Everett High where he often performed the lead in school musicals. Knowing from an early age he wanted to become a Methodist minister, he proceeded to earn his associate's degree from Lindsey Wilson College in Columbia, Kentucky; his bachelor's from Western Kentucky University, and his master's from Union College in Barbourville, Kentucky. He also attended Vanderbilt University and received his doctor of ministry degree from Lexington Theological Seminary in 1972.

At Lindsey Wilson College he fell in love with a beautiful Southern belle named Faye Dean Wise and married her on June 2, 1961. They embarked together on a 58-year partnership of love, adventure and ministry.

This adventure led them to churches in Kentucky, Tennessee, New Hampshire, Massachusetts and Maine. Over the years David touched the lives of thousands through his ministry, counseling, and much-treasured friendship. He presided over their joyous celebrations during weddings and baptisms, and guided them thru heartbreak during the loss of loved ones or rough times in general. On every occasion he brought his uniquely gentle warmth, sincerity, compassion and goofy humor.

He took part in overseas missions to the former Soviet Union, the Middle East, Nicaragua and Haiti over the years. He developed a strong commitment in particular to the non-profit organization Partners In Development, inspiring his entire family to do the same.

In 1992 he was recognized as Pro Portsmouth's Citizen of the Year during the annual Market Street Day celebration, after serving as senior pastor at First United Methodist Church for ten years. He was greatly surprised to receive this award, since he was told he was only on stage to give the event's opening prayer. Then the start time for the annual Market Square Day Road Race had to be delayed a few minutes while he ducked into a nearby food tent to change into his running shorts. The award recognized not only his efforts in the church but also service as a commissioner with the Portsmouth Housing Authority, his role in helping to start Cross Roads House, and other contributions.

Even after he "retired" in 2002, Dr. Dave continued to serve behind the pulpit as the occasion arose. For a time served as interim minister at the Church on the Cape in Maine, and he preached one Sunday every summer at Little Harbor Chapel in Portsmouth.

David enjoyed jogging, hiking, boating and travel, but nearly two decades ago he suffered the beginning of a series of physical setbacks eventually diagnosed as Parkinson's Disease. He fought hard to keep the disease at bay, staving off the effects longer than most would have predicted and continuously astounding his doctors. His body suffered from repeated falls as he continued to push the limits of what he could do physically, but his spirit never wavered.

He was predeceased by both his parents and his beloved brother Donald Arthur Kerr. In addition to his loving wife Faye, he leaves behind sons D. Allan Kerr and wife Nicole of Kittery, Maine, and Mark Kerr and wife Robin of Kennebunk, Maine. His grandchildren are Shane, Cody, Maddie, Layla and Nolan Kerr; Zachary Benton and wife Ashleigh, and great-granddaughter Annabelle Benton. He also leaves a sister, Janice Flight, and his sister-in-law, Debbie Kerr, as well as brother-in-law Willis Wise Jr., and wife Karen.

SERVICES: Friends may visit from 6-8 p.m. on Thursday, August 15, 2019, at Bibber Memorial Chapel, 67 Summer St., Kennebunk, Maine. A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. on Friday, August 16, 2019 at Church on the Cape, 3 Langsford Rd., Cape Porpoise, ME 04046. A private family internment will be held at First Parish Cemetery in York, Maine.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Church on the Cape at the address listed above, or to Partners In Development Inc., 174 High St., Suite 106, Ipswich, MA 01938.

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Published by Seacoastonline.com from Aug. 12 to Aug. 15, 2019.

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Maren Havenstein

September 20, 2019

Dear Fay, Don and Mark,
I'm so sad to have read about David and I'm angry that I did not watch the internet. I'm not logged in to Facebook, but I've had the idea that something happened.
I want to express my deepest sympathy to you in this way. I am with you in thoughts.
I like to think about our joint meetings. Whether in Scotland or with you in Maine.
Also with us a loved one has gone. Jörn died of "ALS" 5 years ago and we are very sad about his death. He was only 52 years old ...
If you want to answer me, Mark knows my address.
Love from,
Maren and Mark Leon from Hamburg

20.09.2019

Karen Sullivan

August 31, 2019

Dear Faye, I am devastated to hear about David. Both of you are two of the most generous, empathetic and loving people I know. I'm thinking of you and your family at this most difficult time. Love, Karen Sullivan

Yvonne Susla

August 27, 2019

Dear Faye, I am so sorry to hear about David! I have missed both of you since you left York! Don & I really enjoyed spending time dancing & socializing with you! Don passed away Jan. 19, 2016. My thoughts are with you! Love, Yvonne Susla ❤

Dave & Joy Landry

August 26, 2019

Sending our love to the Kerr Family, Dave touched our lives in so many ways when we attended the Portsmouth UMC. We are so greatful that we had this time with Dr Kerr. He will always be in our hearts!
Dave & Joy Landry

Richard Maina

August 25, 2019

Dear Faye, Don and Mark,

I was saddened to learn of Dave's passing and regret that I didn't get to visit him this summer. Dave helped me immensely after my former wife passed, counseling me, even though I was not a member of his parish. I was honored that Dave married Nancy and I in June 1994. I will miss the breakfasts and great conversations we had together. Dave was truly a great man who made the world a better place. God bless him and your family. Peace and love to you all!

Rollin and Stella Mcqueary

August 23, 2019

Faye so sorry for your loss.

August 14, 2019

A great obit to a guy who lived his dash !

August 14, 2019

Faye, Don, and Mark
Our most sincere sympathy to you all in Dave's passing. He was such a warm, loving,inspirational man. We will always treasure his ministry and our 43 year friendship, especially recent phone chats. Wish we could be with you this week, but know you are in our prayers.
Audrey and George Miner

Judy Goehring

August 13, 2019

Faye, Donald & Mark, Our family is enriched by the presence of Dave in our lives throughout the years. David shared in so many of our celebrations and heartaches from our days at St. James UMC in Merrimack and beyond. I feel blessed to call you friends. My girls were with me when I heard the news of Dave's passing. We are all saddened by the loss of this wonderful man. We love you all. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.

August 13, 2019

Rev. Kerr performed our wedding ceremony on January 5, 1991. It was a beautiful ceremony and he added humor to it which we loved. We'll always have fond memories of him.

Most sincerely,
Glen and Mary Lou Graper

August 13, 2019

Our love to you and family, Faye.
Frank and Gwen

Debbie & John Howe

August 13, 2019

Dear Faye & Family, Sending our sincere sympathies to you & your family. We have missed you & David as our neighbors on Perkins Dr.! Was glad to run into you both now & then. Prayers to your family. Sincerely, John & Debbie Howe
York, Maine

Donna Powell

August 13, 2019

So many memories beginning in the little white church in Merrimack, NH in 1972. Dave and Faye hv always held a special place in our hearts through out the years. We will all miss Dave so very much. Sincerely Donna, Rik and Chris Powell

Rev. Lori Eldredge

August 13, 2019

My condolences to the Kerr family. David was an early mentor in my ministry, always an inspiration: his work with The Fishermens Players in "The Son of Man" and his advocacy of Civil Rights. He was a beloved colleague, and friend. May God bless him, his family, and all he loved.

August 13, 2019

Our sincere sympathy to the Kerr Family.
We attended First Methodist Everett with the Kerr's
Dick & Diana Alsterberg

The Bibber Family

August 13, 2019

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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