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Paul Michael McEachern

1937 - 2020

Paul Michael McEachern obituary, 1937-2020, Portsmouth, NH

BORN

1937

DIED

2020

FUNERAL HOME

Farrell Funeral Home, Inc.

684 State Street

Portsmouth, New Hampshire

Paul McEachern Obituary

PORTSMOUTH - Paul Michael McEachern passed away on Tuesday, August 18, 2020, at his home in Portsmouth with his family at his side and the sound of Cape Breton fiddle music in his ears. Born on December 30, 1937, and raised on Stark Street in Portsmouth's Creek Neighborhood, Paul was the second of eight children born to Archibald D. McEachern, a night watchman for the City, and Ann Regan, a homemaker.

Being half Scottish and half Irish, Paul was blessed with a love for all things Celtic, music and art. Along with his siblings, Paul heeded his parents' advice to better themselves through education and put himself through college and law school with house painting and the G.I. Bill. As a member of the New Hampshire Bar for more than 50 years and a past president of its Bar Association, Paul relished nothing better than taking on a tough, uphill fight, usually to the chagrin of his law partners.

Like his father before him, Paul was a lifelong, loyal member of the Democratic Party, committed to justice for people of all creeds, colors and orientations. He was first elected to public office as a young Navy veteran while at the University of New Hampshire, serving in the New Hampshire Legislature, a seat he would return to later in life. He also served as city councilman and assistant mayor for the City of Portsmouth and attended the raucous 1968 Democratic National Convention pledged as a Eugene McCarthy delegate against the Vietnam War. Twice he won the New Hampshire Democratic Party's nomination for Governor. As a trustee of the trust funds for the City of Portsmouth, Paul was instrumental in establishing the Prescott Park Arts Festival and was a lifelong supporter of the arts.

Despite his many professional accomplishments, Paul never strayed far from his working class roots, living all his life close by the City's industrial North Mill Pond, or "the Regan Riviera" as he liked to call it. Much to his family's amusement, Paul phoned Farrell's Funeral Home three days before his death to make his own arrangements for a burial at sea, outside the six-mile limit, demanding of John Leith, the proprietor and a fellow Creek resident, that he be charged full price. Immediately following his death, his sons dressed him in his favorite suit and then laid him out and his siblings came to the house to say their goodbyes before the final ride to Johnny Farrell's.

Paul leaves behind his loving wife Shaun whose care for him in his final weeks amazed all who were privileged to witness. Paul was the proud, loving father of Claire McEachern (Malibu, Calif.), Alec L. McEachern (the Creek), Duncan Archibald McEachern (Paris, France), Deaglan McEachern (the Creek) and Molly Hulefeld (Ipswich, Mass.). He was the even prouder grandfather of Jack McEachern, Cara McEachern, Duncan Michael McEachern, Grace McEachern, Lucas McEachern, Coline McEachern, Helena Mandeville, Marielle Mandeville, Tiernan McEachern, William Hulefeld, Isabelle Hulefeld and Julia Hulefeld. Paul was also extremely pleased to have met his first great-grandchild, Vaughn J. McEachern, who was born just weeks before Paul's passing. Paul is also survived by his siblings Mary Keenan (former Mayor of Portsmouth), John H. McEachern, Duncan Anthony McEachern, William McEachern, Catherine D'Amours and Margaret McEachern. Paul was predeceased by his parents and his brother Raymond J. McEachern.

SERVICES: A public memorial service will be held on Saturday, September 12, 2020, at 1 p.m., weather permitting, at the Portsmouth High School athletic field, 50 Andrew Jarvis Drive, Portsmouth, N.H.

Donations in Paul's memory may be made to the Advocates for the North Mill Pond, a New Hampshire non-profit organization, 111 Sparhawk St., Portsmouth, NH 03801, for the commissioning of a granite sculpture in Paul's memory to be located at the newly created Paul McEachern Memorial Park on the banks of the Regan Riviera.

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Published by Seacoastonline.com from Sep. 1 to Sep. 4, 2020.

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Rita

November 6, 2020

My heartfelt condolences to Shaun and family. Paul was a wonderful man.
Rita Barcoe, Co.Wicklow, Ireland.

Mark Tilton

September 7, 2020

My condolences to Paul's family. He was a wise man who shared humor and empathy with all. A true and respected friend for many years.

Leigh Baysden

September 6, 2020

Shaun and family, Please accept my deepest sympathies in Paul's passing. My family and I send prayers from Virginia.

Leigh Carroll Baysden

Robert Houle

September 4, 2020

My sincere condolences to Shaun,and the McEachern clan for the loss of an exemplary human being.
He will always be remembered for fighting the good fight against all manner of wrong doing from the get-go, and he only got tougher/better as he aged.
We met at UNH in '61 when he was my direct supervisor as business mgr. of the school newspaper, The New Hampshire. Come to think of it; he may have hired.
Pax vobiscum, Paul.
Je me souviens,
Bob Houle

Gene

September 3, 2020

I remember Paul as a kind man and engaging parent. I enjoyed a few sleep overs at the Meadow Lane home as Alec and I were friends in elementary school. The meals were home cooked and superb. I thought it funny that following the evening news all family members would disappear into their books. Alec and I were competitive in academics, he far surpassed me. I’ve also had the pleasure of friendships with many other family members through the years. I wish this family well navigating their grief, remaining aware that they will all hold so many beautiful memories of this great man who influenced our world. Thank you Mr. M for your service to our world, may you rest peacefully.
Sincerely, Gene Schmitz.

terry wood

September 3, 2020

Paul was a good friend over the years. He and his partner were a good mix. I don't know anyone who didn't like him.

Patty O'Connor

September 3, 2020

Paul was a wonderful, generous and caring man. I was privileged to meet him and get to know a little bit through my work at the Greater Piscataqua Community Foundation. He helped me figure out several issues regarding our office space on the North Mill Pond as well as some other issues with Portsmouth nonprofits he severed. He will be missed. My condolences to the family.

Bob Lister

September 2, 2020

My condolences to Paul’s family. Thank you to all the members of the family for their continued service to the Portsmouth community, the state and our nation. I had the opportunity to work with Shaun as a School Board member and Paul, the attorney as a member of the City Council. My thoughts are with you all. I am very grateful to have known Paul.

gary holmes

September 2, 2020

My condolences to Paul's family. I came to respect Paul many decades ago as a young lawyer and that respect grew as I saw him take on cases where his sense of right, his passion and talent created a formidable presence. The community and Bar will miss him!

Liz Good

September 1, 2020

I’ll always remember Paul’s dedication to his clients when representing them in land use applications before the various City boards. I had the pleasure of greeting him when he came into the Planning Dept. He was soft spoken but so polite and kind. My sympathies to his family. He has left an amazing legacy.

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