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Gregory Barlow Obituary
Major General Gregory P. Barlow
passed away peacefully on July 4 at the age of 74, due to complications from Alzheimer's Disease.
Barlow was born in Charleston, West Virginia, on July 16, 1939. He graduated from Highline High School in Burien in 1957 and from Seattle University with a Master of Arts degree in administration in 1966.
From 1989 until his retirement in 1999 Barlow served as Adjutant General of the State of Washington, during which he commanded the Washington Army and Air National Guard, consisting of over 8,000 soldiers and airmen. His distinguished military career began in 1964 when he was commissioned as a second lieutenant through the ROTC. He entered into active duty in 1966, and served in Vietnam in 1967 and 1968 as a Special Forces aviation officer, completing more than 1,000 combat flight hours. Prior to appointment as Adjutant General, Major General Barlow served as the Commander, 81st Infantry Brigade (Mechanized) which was round out to the 9th Infantry Division, Fort Lewis, Washington.
Throughout his military career Greg received numerous meritorious honors. Some of his major awards and declarations included the Distinguished Service Medal, Silver Star, Legion of Merit, Distinguished Flying Cross, Bronze Star Medal, and Purple Heart, among many others.
Additionally, Barlow served as executive director of the Medina Foundation. His numerous civic affiliations included Boy Scouts of America; Chief Seattle Council; Pacific Northwest Grantmakers Forum; United Way of King County; Washington State Department of Social Health Services; Seattle Rotary Club; Pioneer Broadcasting Company; Adjutants General Association of the US; National Guard Associations of the US and Washington; Association of the US Army; and American Legion Foundation of Seattle.
Greg was preceded in death by his parents Paul and Rosita ("Zita") Barlow. He is survived by his loving wife of 48 years, Eli; his daughter, Ona Steigenga and son-in-law Richard Steigenga of Snohomish; his son, Eric Barlow and daughter-in-law Shauna Barlow of Bellevue, and grandchildren, Dillon, Alex, Joshua and Natalie - all of whom he adored.
A funeral Mass will be held at 11:00am on Thursday, July 11, at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church in Covington, followed by internment at Tahoma National Cemetery. A celebration of life will follow at 1:00pm at Meridian Valley Country Club.
In lieu of flowers, it is suggested that contributions may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, Western and Central Washington State Chapter, in Greg's name. Sign Greg's online
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Memories and Condolences
for Gregory Barlow
Jim Dayhaw
July 3, 2020
He was a man among men.....all his accomplishments out shine most of us normal men who can only hope to
one day be compared to him.....a natural leader.
I loved him as the brother I never had....wish we could have got back together before his passing.
God bless him, and his family.
Larry Bounds
July 1, 2020
I still remember what a great leader he was.
Jim Dayhaw
July 14, 2019
he was very special....it was evident even as a teenager in St Albans WV....I loved him as a brother.
God bless him..RIP old friend.
Bill Price
July 1, 2019
Greg was my best friend for over 60 years. I think of him often, as well as Eli and his family.
Don Blue
July 1, 2019
On behalf of the fourth corp Mike Force There isnt a member who will ever forget Greg. He was always there when you needed him and you could always count on him to help you get what ever you needed. May God Bless his family and May he Rest In Peace.
Larry Bounds
July 1, 2019
Rip
Jim Dayhaw
January 8, 2014
Greg and I were close buddies in the early 50's in St Albans, WV....he went to Charleston Catholic HS and I went to St Albans HS...we would compare our football accomplishments (he was superior in all he did)...I tried to find him in the later years (was told erroneously he became a Priest, which made perfect sense to me) but was not able to find him til I GOOGLED him a couple of years ago and found his retirement article. Then I was unable to find his phone number and gave up....wish I hadn't. He was unique even in High School...so handsome and personable...I could never be anything close to what he was...one of God's special people...I will always remember him with fondness and love...
RIP Greg...Jim Dayhaw an OLD friend.
Sgt. Richard J. Rabe
December 7, 2013
In the early 90s MG Barlow was gracious enough to grant me an interview for the "Evergreen" magazine of the WA Army & Air National Guard, where I discovered he was a leader filled with empathy for those he commanded, and inspired us all to excellence in performing our duties. He shared his deep wisdom generously and set an outstanding example to follow. He had few peers, and was loved by his troops. May he rejoice in heaven forever.
September 10, 2013
Greg attended Charleston Catholic High School in Charleston WV but did not graduate with our class in 1957. At class reunions, we often talked about his accomplishments and what a great guy he was. We are so sorry to hear of his passing. We will keep Greg and the family in our thoughts and prayers.
August 14, 2013
Dear Eli and Family,
I met Greg in the mid-90's when he was the TAG and I was in the job search mode. In the course of the discussion he was the consummate gentlemen and sharing our common college, Seattle University, we grew closer. In his Medina Foundation role and in my Red Cross role in Seattle, we interacted several times and it was exceptionally professional and always wonderful to be in his presence. I miss his professional touch and his modest demeanor. I count myself lucky to have met Greg in my life.
All of my best,
Tom Fletcher
US Army Retired
Seattle University '73
Roy Swenson
July 23, 2013
I had the extreme pleasure of serving with and for MG. Barlow. He was a great mentor and leader for all that wanted to learn, many could learn from this fine dedicated soldier.
The Barlow's knew when I was going through the same loving care for my wife Betty suffering with the same that MG. Barlow went through.
Our thought's and prayers now are extended to his lovely wife Ely.
Rest in peace MG. Barlow, and God Bless you Ely..............
Larry Bounds
July 22, 2013
What a loss for the Barlow family, and all who served with him or new him. I was his Battalion Master Gunner when he served as the Battalion Commander of the 803rd armor in Everett Washington.
santos Contreras
July 15, 2013
I knew greg when he was a freshman at Seattle University. He was bigger than life even then and was a great guy to be around. He was full of energy and always had a smile on his face.
July 11, 2013
It was an honor to serve with and for General Barlow. He was a great leader not only in the Military but also in the community. I always will admire his professionalism and his belief in Honor, Duty, Country. God Bless Eli and the family. CW4 (Ret) Rita Jane Vacek
Dave and Anna Siefert
July 11, 2013
Our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers go out to Eli and family. Greg was a soldier's soldier whose legacy will live on as an inspiration for others to follow. "Attack!" was the word inscribed on his sword and total dedication to his soldiers and country was what was written in his heart. Greg, while you will certainly be missed by those who were privileged to know and serve with you, rest now and know that you will never be forgotten. Thank You!!!!
July 11, 2013
I met Greg in the early 1970s in his Medina Foundation office after my friend Booth Gardner had referred me to him for advice. Over the years of getting to know Greg, I found him to be a natural and charismatic leader, with a unique combination of steel and heart. Booth once said that when Greg walked into a room, you could feel the energy change. My heartfelt condolences to Eli and Greg's family for the loss of this extraordinary man.
July 10, 2013
Greg's high school annual said: "I came, I saw, I conquered."
It lasted a life time.
July 10, 2013
I had the pleasure of spending time with Greg Barlow during his stay at Emeritus at Harbour Pointe Shores. He spoke fondly of his beloved wife Eli, his children and grandchildren. His greatest memory was for the soldiers that he was in command over and I believe that he is still watching over them now from above. You can rest now General Barlow as your command is finished and all is good and your troops are safe sir..My condolences to Eli and family..
Glen McKinney
July 10, 2013
To Eli, and family:
Deepest condolences and heartfelt prayers for you all. I (Glen) was there working with Barlow from when he was a Captain on the way up the chain, and he was an inspiring leader and an honor to work with. I had the privilege of serving in Team Spirit in 1989 with him, as well. Sir, it was an honor to serve with you, and you will remain an inspiration to many. Rest in Peace. SFC (Ret) Glen D. McKinney, and daughter, Mindy McKinney Kerbs
Don Blue
July 10, 2013
Met Greg in Vietnam while a member of special forces.. To all of us in the Mike Froce knew Greg as Shotgun 22 always above us like a guardian angel. My deepest sympathy to his family Greg will be missed but never forgotten.
July 10, 2013
Dear Eli and family,
I am truly sorry for the premature loss of your husband, father, and grandfather. I am also very sorry that I am unable to attend the services and celebration of his life tomorrow.
I had the pleasure of serving as his Assistant AG for the Army National Guard of Wash. the last six months of my service before retirement in 1989. It was one of the major highlights of my career. He had incredible insight and leadership ability.
May our Lord's peace and blessings be with you and yours, particularly in the immediate days ahead.
Sincerely yours, Jerry Dines.
Jake and Judy Hulen
July 10, 2013
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Gregs passing. Jake thought a lot of him when they worked together in the
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We were so sorry to hear of Greg passing. Jake thought so much of him when they were in the Guard together.
Kathleen & Jim Lumbert
July 10, 2013
Sending prayers and heartfelt sympathy to Eli and all of her family. Greg lived well, worked hard and was admired by so many. His soul has been released to soar with the Angels. God bless him and all of the family.
July 10, 2013
Thank you for serving our country. --Seattle University Army ROTC program.
Louis Wright
July 10, 2013
I had the privilege of receiving Greg's
council during the early 90's when he
served on Pioneer Broadcasting's board.
He was instrumental in charting a course that led to a successful turn-
around of that company's operations.
His service to country, state, civil
and commercial enterprises was exemplary.
July 10, 2013
Dear Eli.
You may not remember me. Bill and I met Greg when he was at Karr House. He was such a gentleman and always so pleasant. Please accept our condolences at this difficult time. May he rest in God's Peace. Melody and Bill Liukko.
Robert Mickle
July 10, 2013
I had the honor of working with Gen. Barlow on the Medina Foundation for a number if years in the '90's. He was as fair with his fellow man as he was astute. I for one will miss his presence.
July 9, 2013
My wife and I didn't meet Greg until a year and a half ago and didn't know him as the general but as a Knight of Columbus, a gentleman and a beloved member of St. Jerome Parish in Ocean Shores. We would have so liked to know him longer. Rest with God - George and Lori Barth
July 9, 2013
Greg Barlow was a great friend, an outstanding military officer and pilot. Adjutant General for the Washington State National Guard from 1989 to 1999, his skillful leadership was instrumental improving the facilities at Camp Murray and the readiness level of the Washington State National Guard, both in the Army and Air Force. Greg set high standards for all, was a great leader and will be sorely missed.
Skip Pixley
Daniel Jackson
July 9, 2013
MG Barlow was a great Leader and mentor. It was an honor to have known him!
Glenn Worthington
July 9, 2013
MG Barlow was truly a leader who left a legacy for all leaders to follow. He commanded thousands, yet always had time to care for individual soldiers and family members. He was the last person to shake my hand when I boarded the plane to deploy to Desert Storm. He was the first person to greet me when I returned home from the war. His concluding remark at the end of every presentation he made as a commander inspired all of us. "Attack!"
Denny Burton
July 9, 2013
Memories
From the movie Mash and our uncontrollable laughter, to holding you in my arms a few months ago.
You have passed your final check ride with honor. Enjoy your flight west.
"What do you think Denny?"
Johnny Lee Talley
July 9, 2013
I met Greg in 1982 in which I was his driver during our times at the Yakima firing range as part of the 803rd Armor Bn, WA. During this time I got to know this great Officer and how his mentorship and leadership would affect my life. This warrior changed my life forever. Thanks to him I was able to go attend U.S Army helicopter flight school, and start a career in the Army that I had only dreamed of. He has touched so many people and will be missed by many.
I stand and Salute you Sir! RIP.
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Shauna Barlow
July 9, 2013
Shauna Barlow
July 9, 2013
October 2000
Shauna Barlow
July 9, 2013
Jerry Wilkins
July 9, 2013
General Barlow was a great friend and mentor. He was a consummate professional during all the times we worked together. He was one of four men that had the most impact on my career. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
July 9, 2013
In the late sixties, Greg was my supervisor at the state Dept. of Motor Vehicles (now Licensing). Unbeknownst to him, he became one of the most important influences in my career. I will always hold him in the highest regard and am deeply saddened by his passing. His legacy will live on in all who knew and worked with him. He was a fine leader and great person. My thoughts are with his loved ones as they cope with his loss. Sally Hicks
Anne Vatshell
July 9, 2013
DEAR Eli and Family,
My thought and Prayers are with you all, at this difficult time
July 9, 2013
I had the pleasure of serving under General Barlow in the WA National Guard and at the WA Military Department. All who served with him benefited from his leadership and mentorship. He will always hold a very special place in the history of WA National Guard.
Rick Patterson
Colonel, WAARNG, Retired
Beth
July 9, 2013
Gen Barlow was a man with many talents. I know he will continue running interference for Governor Gardner now that they are together again. He was a great man! I am so sorry I will still be on travel and will miss the gathering. My prayers
Don Couture
July 9, 2013
Greg and I joined the WANG about the same time. We became friends, flying partners and shared many experiences,stories and laughs together. I will miss him!
In Baghdad serving as Greg taught so many to do.
July 9, 2013
I remember what a pleasure it was to serve under Greg's leadership and am grateful for the opportunity to learn from him. I benefited from his mentorship, and the Army benefited from his leadership.
Jim Dubik
Lieutenant General
US Army, Retired
Rich Bartell
July 8, 2013
An ultimate leader, warrior, and soldier's soldier. He was polished and erudite. The finest general officer I have ever known. May he rest in peace!
Mike
July 8, 2013
Greg was a friend, mentor and leader! His style of leadership was a rarity and he touched many lives in a positive manner. Mine was one. God speed dear friend!
Barry McCaffrey
July 8, 2013
First met Greg 1983 when he commanded the 81st Bde WA NG tank battalion during 9th ID maneuvers at Yakima Firing Center. A brilliant field soldier and commander. Probably the best battalion commander I ever observed.
Continued to watch Greg with admiration throughout his distinguished career. He was the epitome of what a citizen soldier could be. A man of enormous integrity, personal courage, great judgment and compassion.
Greg was always full-on engaged...but he made it seem easy.
Lots of us are better people from having learned by his example.
Greg.. Your time on earth is done. Rest in peace.
Barry R McCaffrey
General USA Ret
[email protected]
Seattle, WA
MAJ (ret) Tommy Daniels
July 8, 2013
Greg and I served together in the Vietnam War. He was an 0-1 Bird Dog pilot and I was in the IV Mike Force, 5th Special Forces. Although his mission was visual reconnaissance, he burdened his small aircraft with four machine guns and supported us by directly engaging the enemy from dangerously low altitudes. Whenever one of our units was in trouble, he'd refuel and rearm, and remain on station long into the night until the situation stabilized.
In appreciation for his exceptional dedication, bravery, and flying skills, our unit presented him with a Green Beret. He was a great friend and soldier, and I'm honored to have known him.
I pray that Eli and his children are comforted that he no longer suffers and they find strength through God's grace.
Walt Howe
July 8, 2013
I first met Greg when her had just returned from serving in Viet Nam, and enjoyed following his career at each of his important positions. Loyalty, honor, committment and dedication to State, country and family. I'm sad I can't join in honoring and celebrating him on Thursday!
Alan Olson
July 8, 2013
I am very sorry for your loss. It was a pleasure to serve under your husband, when he commanded the 803rd Armor Bn, 81st Brigade, and the Adjutant General. He truely cared about every Soldier, he will be missed.
Arlene & Don Gray
July 8, 2013
Though we only got to know Greg in the last few years, we knew what a wonderful person he was. Bless you Eli and your children.
Arlene and Don Gray
Lisa Steiner
July 8, 2013
May God, His Angels and Saints lead you into heaven, my friend Greg! Thank you for always being so good to me and it was an honor and pleasure to know you.
To Eli and the Barlow Family my heartfelt condolences to you during this time.
Fondly,
Lisa Steiner
St. Jerome Catholic Church
Ocean Shores, Washington
July 8, 2013
MG Barlow was the Adjuntant General when I was hired at Camp Murray after I retired from the military. He was defintely a soldier's commander. He will be missed. RIP
Paul Fison
July 8, 2013
Greg was one of the finest men I have ever known and a great person to work for. He will be missed.
Jerry Smith
July 8, 2013
It has been an honor to know and serve with Greg for many years, a dear friend. Many great memories from the Guard, flying with Greg many hours, great times. Gods peace to you all, with love.
July 8, 2013
AS an old high school, college, and military friend we were very sorry to hear of the untimely passing of Greg. All our best to Eli and the family.
Tom and Betty Hill
George & Cherrie Van Hollebeke
July 7, 2013
Greg to me was a pillar of strong ethical behavior followed by his ever present sense of humor, gregariousness and
readiness to celebrate others' good fortune. He led by example in doing what was necessary when whatever had to be acted upon. But above all I know that he cherished his family foremost who may now go forward with a descendant part of him ever with his watchful and protective concern. 2100hrs
Note: Nobody is said to "get all the gifts" but Greg certainly was blessed with many and shared with many...
July 7, 2013
Dear Eli, Ona & Eric, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Greg made a tremendous mark on my life with his unconditional trust and mentorship. He started me down the path of a new life, and one which allowed me to give back and to make a difference in this world. I'm forever grateful.
Blessings, Gordy Graham
Christina Wilson
July 7, 2013
I was honored to know Greg during my years of foundation work. I am saddened by his passing . My condolences to the family.
Michael Stark
July 7, 2013
A joy to serve in his commands. He remains the example of leadership.
Milton Towne
July 7, 2013
Gone to soon but never forgotten, so glad
I was able to see him one last time. My condolence's to the family.
July 7, 2013
Your such a special man, husband, father and friend. Duke and I will miss you very much. Eli, our thought and prayers are with you and your family. May the peace of the Lord be with you.
Bill Price
July 7, 2013
sympathies to Eli, Eric and Ona, as you know Greg and your families have been friends to ours for over 50 years. Greg was such a kind man and friend, his loss is great.
David & Tracy FINSTERBUSCH
July 7, 2013
A wonderful friend and neighbor. He will be missed
Sharon Luecke
July 7, 2013
My sympathies to the Barlow family .Alzheimer's is a terrible disease , as I know , watching my mother pass with it.
Dan Martin
July 7, 2013
Fellow vietnam veteran and friend, you will be missed. "welcome home greg"
Rich Heino
July 7, 2013
Sorry to hear of Greg's passing.
Pam Henry
July 7, 2013
An end to an era! I am lucky to have had such a wise and kind friend. I have been a trustee with Medina for years and was fortunate to know Greg during that time. Dear Eli, my thoughts are with you, Eric and Oona. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Russell & Suzann
July 7, 2013
Greg will remain in our hearts forever.
Michael & Vicki Brehan
July 7, 2013
So sorry for your loss..."May God be your close companion who walks beside you in your time of grief, and carries your burden when it's too heavy to bear." Have faith that Greg watches over you from Heaven and prays for your happiness here on earth.
Jeanne Finke
July 7, 2013
I was pleased to know Greg here in Ocean Shores and send my condolences to Eli and all the Barlow family.
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