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John Knight
September 14, 2020
It's been a minute cousin. I still miss u everyday. I keep a picture of you and uncle charlie on my desk that I am able to see all the time. We I get down I look at your smiling face to bring me light. Rest in peace Lil Cuz
Arlesia Bailey
September 22, 2016
I miss you beautiful sister. It's hard to believe ten years have passed. Today is your birthday and my bond today is just as strong. Know that you're thought of daily. Happy Birthday H! I love you. ~Arlesia
CATHY Plank
September 22, 2007
Heidi, Today is your birthday.I wish you were here to celebrate it.I know that you are celebrating with your dad.Please take good care of him.We love you both.Happy Birthday Honey. Love,Cathy.
Dondi May
September 14, 2007
Today is the first anniversary of Heidi's death. I find it hard to believe that we have all somehow survived for one year without seeing her amazing smile, and hearing her sweet laughter.
I have spent the day reflecting on her life and what she meant to me.
I loved my sister and miss her so much more than anyone knows.
Marqui Makupson
April 22, 2007
Mom I miss you more than anything in my whole life. It just seems like yesterday that you and I were playing Outburst Jr. I feel as if I will see you tommorow but I never do. I know that I will see you again
Dondi May
March 14, 2007
My sweet Sister, it has been 6 months since you left us. My journey to continue on in life without you has been very challenging. I have discovered that losing someone you love is like a wound that is ever so slow to heal; no amount of salve or medication will ease the wound before it’s time. I miss you more than I could have ever imagined, you are never far from my thoughts.
My love is with you.
Mariah Makupson
March 2, 2007
I always think about you and I hope your up in hevaen waiting for me.
Alberta May
February 13, 2007
Heidi,
Months have passed but I still think of you daily. I find I still
remember what your smile looks like, what your laugh sounds like...even
what you wore to my high school graduation. Most of all, I recall the
happiness you and my mother shared as loving, deeply connected sisters.
I remember your weekend shopping trips, phone conversations that would last for hours and your attempts at coaxing my mother along on some of your adventures. You were one of her joys, and she was yours. Anyone could see it.
Heidi, you will always be beautiful and loved and most importantly,
never forgotten. I miss and love you, but I know you are happy and
still so proud of your beautiful children.
A Tribute in the sands of Hawaii
January 12, 2007
Cathy Plank
December 26, 2006
Heidi, Yesterday was Christmas.I was at your dad's house.I kept waiting for you to call and wish us a merry christmas or for you to walk thru the front door and ask your dad what he cooked.This was our first Christmas without you and it was oh so hard.There was such a void.It had to be incrediably hard for the kids.Heidi, you are gone but certainly not forgotten.We all love you and miss you terribly.Our only comfort is knowing that you are now pain free and at peace.Merry Christmas sweetie.Love always and forever. Cathy
Damon Brown
November 8, 2006
Heidi I am missing you so much but deep down I know you are finaly at peace.
Rafael Lambert
November 2, 2006
Dear,Heidi
I want to say i love you dearly you was there for me when nobody eles was to talk to me an tell me when i was wrong or right i love you so much you are the best mother anybody ever can have even that you are my sister after my mom passed i fault you where my mom you and my mom are the queens in my life an nothing will ever take that away from me you have two kids i will love and try to help for a life time you are alway in my heart I LOVE YOU BIG SIS
Mustapha Hydara
October 23, 2006
Heidi, I only met you on a few occasions (at work) but I vividly remember your warm, beautiful smile.
May your soul rest in perfect peace.
She was loved
October 22, 2006
Father and Mother
October 22, 2006
Heidi was always there for hugs
October 22, 2006
Peggy Smith
October 20, 2006
Dear Dondi and family:
You have taught me alot this past month Dondi--about Grace & Dignity and the importance of making every moment count. I was with my children and their families last night and I saw thru different eyes and heard thru different ears,and saw how precious life is. I know that you are making a difference in your sister's children's life,by spending weekends with them. They are so fortunate to have you in their lives. I believe that your sister lives on thru her children,so you are spending time with her too--maybe that trip to the Oregon coast will come true someday. I also need to thank my friend Bob,for helping you thru this process Dondi,cause he does know how to walk thru grief with dignity and find light on the other side. Thanks Bob for taking care of Dondi. Remeber I'm here if you need to talk Dondi. I Love you. Peggy
Don B
October 19, 2006
Dearest Heidi,
It had been 7 years since I last saw you and your beautiful smile.
I can still remember all the good times we shared together especially the river rafting trip. I remember you were both nervous and laughing at the same time which made it difficult for me to assist the rest of our raft crew in rowing. I could hardly contain my laughter with each wave that threatened to flip the raft over. You were a true trooper as you liked to call yourself. As one of God’s children, you have truly been a blessing in the lives you have touched including mine. I know your spirit will continue to shine in us all.
My deepest sympathy goes out to your entire family!
Rest in peace……you will be missed
Don B.
Dondi May
October 19, 2006
I felt my spirit break when I lost my sister. This grief I feel is like a strong, unforgiving undertow. No matter how hard you try it pulls you under and your only hope is that in the end, you will continue to have the strength and energy to be the victor.
I miss Heidi so much. My loss is not only for what we shared, but what will never be. There are so many things that we just put off because we would get busy, and it seemed like there was always going to be time. We let the entire summer go by and never drove down the Oregon coast like we talked about so many times. We never hit Vegas by storm, we were in no hurry – there was always another time. Please know what I have so painfully learned – there may not be another time.
Rest, my dear Sister, in peace you so deserve.
De'mond Harris
October 12, 2006
Heidi I can right a book about us.I know I miss that smile of yours and miss stareing in those crazy beautiful eyes of yours.I still can't believe that your gone,I find myself calling your phone numbers,but no answer.No Heidi to talk too,crack jokes with like we did every day for years.If I knew that thursday morning would have been the last time I would of talk to you I would'nt of let you tell me that you was busy at work and I would of told you how much you mean to me,how much I love you and that I need you here with me.I cherish those last five months we spent together because we spent a lot a time together.You were always there when I needed you,I wish you would of let me make your life a lot easyer and maybe you would be still here,but you were so independent and I love that and hated that at the same time you would'nt let me help you like I want to.I miss giving you those hugs that you like so much.Everybody knows and knew that you were my girl no matter who you are I had in our life,but I know for sure we will be together in are next life time LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER!!!!
"LOVE NOUG" I MISS YOU!!!
Tonja Jackson
October 7, 2006
Even though I hadn't seen Heidi in over 30 years, the lost is still felt. My deepest condolences to Dondi and the rest of the family.
Alberta May-Koehler
October 5, 2006
Dear Dondi and Family:
We extend our deepest sympathy as well as our prayers for you and the family. Heidi was a beautiful and caring individual as well as a devoted mom. We all loved her, but God loved her best. We will miss her, but she has gone to a better place.
Tanisha Williams
October 4, 2006
Heidi~my beautiful big sister,
I have so much to say, but not sure how to say it... For now I'll just say I love you and miss you so much. Your smile will live in my heart forever. Love you always!
Your lil' sister...
I love you big sis!
Tanisha Williams
October 4, 2006
Felicia Brank
October 3, 2006
Dear Dondi and Family~
Heidi will live on in all of our hearts and memories. I will always remember her for her beautiful smile and sweet personality. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lil' Bobby and Aunt Heidi
October 3, 2006
Mike Tate
October 3, 2006
You will always have a special place in my heart...XOXOXO
Teresa Taylor
October 2, 2006
Dondi, I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. I can only imagine what you and your family are going through. May God be with you and your family, my prayers are with you
Dondi May
October 2, 2006
How do you capture Heidi in a few words? You don’t, and I can’t.
I had the privilege, pride, joy, and some frustration of being Heidi’s big sister. So Please, indulge this sister as I try to talk about Heidi and her life.
I am nine years older, so in many ways Heidi was like "my baby" when I was growing up. When she was a toddler, Heidi would always climb in bed with me and pull my eyelashes to wake me, annoyed doesn’t even begin to cover it. My baby sister was like a shadow and I could not ditch her no matter how hard I tried. Much to my chagrin, I was forced to look after her, and bring her everywhere I went. I would tell my friends "I found her up a tree, fed her some bread crumbs and she followed me home". When we were adults she told me that hurt her feelings and made her feel unloved. How could my sister ever feel unloved?
At Heidi’s viewing, I spoke with a man who told me my sister was the most beautiful girl at Cleveland High school, and that he and countless other young men were madly in love with her. Oddly enough , my first thought was that I couldn’t wait to get home and call Heidi to let her know what this handsome man had said about her.
My sister cast so much light in so many ways, in so many of our lives. With utter sadness and complete heartbreak I was forced to discover, that at only a few days before her 34th birthday her light shone no more. I try to find comfort in the fact that she has left sparks of light in all of us, especially her beloved children Marqui and Mariah.
I will love you always “Sister Dear”.
margie mcinnis
September 29, 2006
dondi,
i want you to know that i am just a phone call away at any time. i am greatful that i got a chance to get to know you and your family and i will always cherish those good memories. hedi and lee were our little brothers and sisters. we use to have lots of fun.heidi was beautiful.
i will always miss her.
Peggy Smith
September 27, 2006
Dear Dondi and family:
My heart goes out to all of you,especially Heidi's children.God will mend broken hearts,if feelings are allowed to be shared and shown to others. I know that Dondi is a gentle soul,and I'm sure her sister was too. Great role models for children.Memories of Heidi will always stay in your heart,so you all can visit with her when needed. I hope by Springtime, that your family's hearts will be healed enough,to be able to look into the center of a tulip---and see Heidi's face smiling up at you. God Bless you all. If there's anything I can do--just ask!!!
yvonne knight
September 26, 2006
Heidi i am going to miss you so much.I love you so much and always will Be at peace. Love Yvonne Knight
Elaine Weaver
September 26, 2006
Dondi, I am sorry to hear about your loss. My condolences to you and your family. May your sister live on forever in your heart.
Carmen Leonard
September 26, 2006
Dondi, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Keep your sister in your heart, somewhere that's close. She'll be there when you need her most. You are in my prayers.
September 26, 2006
I have never known a person a beautiful as you inside an out. You are were and always will be my best friend, my lover and my soulmate.Those angel eyes staring into my soul. Your pain iz gone I miss an love you always an forever my beautiful LADY your man Shawn A Harris.
Abby Routh
September 25, 2006
Dondi, my deepest sympathy for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you rest in peace Heidi.
Adrienne Meadows
September 25, 2006
Heidi, what can I say? You will be missed. It was a joy to know you, to work and laugh with you on the nightshift. Just your smile lit up the night, may you rest in peace and be with God, I will miss you.
Rob Cook
September 24, 2006
I hope you are at peace. It was an honor to have known you. I will miss seeing your pretty,smiling face that always greeted me in the morning when I came into work to start my day. My prayers go out to you and your family. You will be deeply missed.
Gloria Natividad
September 24, 2006
Heidi...My hope and prayers are with you. God Bless You!
Genience Tinsley
September 24, 2006
Heidi,
It's been a long time, I know you are in a better place now. You are still loved and will be greatly missed. Love you always, G
A loving sister
September 24, 2006
A loving Mother
September 24, 2006
Sisters Always
Dondi May
September 24, 2006
sandra bennett
September 24, 2006
heidi ,god bless and may you rest in peace.you are god angel.
Hattie Jackson
September 23, 2006
Dondi and family:
I was truly sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved sister, mother, aunt, daughter and friend, Heidi. I'm sure your hearts are breaking, but God will mend broken hearts if he's given all the pieces. You're in my thoughts and my prayers.
Hattie
Trudy Jarvis
September 22, 2006
Heidi,
I never met you, but I do know your sister Dondi. I know you were a daughter, sister, mother, aunt and a friend to many. My prayers are with you and all your loved ones who will miss you forever. May you rest in peace.
Mike Marquez
September 22, 2006
Heidi, You touched the lives of many. It is a definate tradgedy that you were taken from all who knew you too soon. You will be missed greatly.
David May
September 22, 2006
I would like to express my deepest sympathy, and to encourage Heidi's family to be of strong courage in this very difficult time. Although she is no longer with us, the love and joy she shared with others will never be forgotten. Share, her joy and zest for life with her children, Mariah and Marqui. Help them to achieve the goals and dreams she so much wanted for them. By doing so,that same joy and love of life, can and will be manifested in them. And her spirit will always be present in those lives in whom she has touched.
vera scott
September 21, 2006
Heidi I wish that I could have been there with you, may god bless and keep you
Herman Blackwell
September 21, 2006
God Love You....
Herman Blackwell
john knight
September 21, 2006
we grew up together like brother and sister. You were very special to me. Even when we both were in the military and living in different states we stayed closed. I could always count on your smile cheering me up. I will miss the times we spent talking about your dad and my mom. I will miss the times we spoke about how we were raising our kids. I will miss doing family things with you. I love you cousin and will miss you much. Love eternally your big cousin. John
Natalie Cooks
September 21, 2006
You will be missed. Rest in sweet peace.
Kristina Padua
September 21, 2006
May your soul rest in peace, Heidi. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Riley and Isabella Kestner
September 21, 2006
My children have gone to school with Mariah and Marqui at Alki and Pathfinder. Riley and Isabella Kestner are so sorry that they lost their beautiful mommy. Our hearts break for you all! Love Isabella, Riley and Stefanie Kestner
Natina Dudley
September 21, 2006
My deepest sympathy to your family in this difficult time. We will miss your smile brightening the night.
Darlene
September 20, 2006
Heidi, I love you.
Fran Bodine
September 20, 2006
I had never met Heidi, but Dondi often talked about her sister. I am very sorry to hear of your loss and please let us know if there is anything we can do.
Barbara Bailey
September 20, 2006
I remember when you came to live with me and began to call me mom. I spent most of my time running after you and Arlesia. You both tried to outsmart me. But you weren't slick. Mom will love you forever baby...
Leo Cruz
September 20, 2006
Heidi, I miss you and you will always be in my thoughts. I miss you...Leo
Arlesia Bailey
September 20, 2006
You will forever be my sister. Even when we skipped a month or two speaking, we would pick up the phone and it would seem like no time had passed. I learned so many important lessons from you, like, "never go to sleep angry" because you never know when you won't wake up. And always end a coversation with I love you. I will a always love you, H. Until we meet again...
George Lambert
September 20, 2006
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Beverly Anderson
September 20, 2006
Heidi you will truly be missed by all who's lives you have touched God Bless you Beverly and Schanice
Tracye Stanley
September 20, 2006
May your soul rest in peace from your VA family member
Anthony May
September 20, 2006
Aunt Heidi would often babysit my sister and I when we were younger and my mom would tell her not to let us watch scary movies. After one time spending the night I had nightmares saying someone was going to get me but when asked I said I couldn't say who. I didn't want to get Aunt Heidi in trouble with my mom because she had let my sister and I watch Nightmare on Elm Street :).
I love and miss you very much Aunt Heidi.
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