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Brian Evans Obituary

Brian David Evans 21 year-old son of Elizabeth and Dave and older brother of Grant, died tragically on Sunday morning, September 24. Brian slipped and fell from the roof of his residence in Boston, where he had recently begun his third year at Northeastern University. Brian was a political science major and was enthusiastically planning his first internship to commence in January 2007. Brian had an affectionate, engaging and eclectic personality. He was a gourmand from a very young age; he loved art, design and color and had a strong sense of his unique personal style. Brian was open, outgoing and welcoming, with a vivid imagination and a wry sense of humor. As a young boy, he played ice hockey, soccer and baseball with local club teams; he ran cross-country and track in high school. Brian took up snowboarding in 7th grade and loved it so much that he attended several summer camps in British Columbia, improving his skills and technique on the Canadian glaciers. From infancy, Brian and his family have enjoyed sailing their boat on San Francisco Bay. For the past several years, Brian joined family and friends in the Friday night regatta series during the spring and summer. While at Northeastern, Brian pursued his love of sailing as a member of the club sailing team, honing new skills on the Charles River. Brian's passion for music first expressed itself in singing with the Ragazzi Boys Chorus. In later adolescence and continuing until the present, music became the glue that bound many of his closest friendships as, together with his buddies, Brian made, mixed and synthesized music for themselves and others. All three of the friends Brian roomed with at Northeastern are music technology majors and accomplished musicians. Brian had a brilliant mind with incredible curiosity about the world and everything in it, yet his academic performance was challenged by dyslexia and ADHD. The depth of his intuitive understanding of mathematics and science often took teachers by surprise. In Brian's elementary and middle school years, he took great pride in stumping teachers with his science fair projects. Although facing difficult odds, Brian was determined to succeed. He was fortunate to attend Charles Armstrong School, a nationally recognized school for dyslexic children in Belmont. With the support of his family, friends, teachers and counselors, Brian graduated from Junipero Serra High School in 2004 and earned an academic scholarship to Northeastern. Brian thrived in the vibrancy of San Francisco; he was happiest combing through used record stores, "stylin'" courtesy of a combination of thrift stores and designer boutiques, listening to music and "chillin'" with his friends both here and in Boston. Brian always enthusiastically volunteered to be a personal tour guide to family and friends visiting either of the cities he so enjoyed. Despite their seven-year age difference, Brian and his younger brother Grant had a close, loving and playful relationship. He was Grant's biggest fan in both academic and athletic endeavors. A loving son and brother, Brian's favorite times with his family were engaging debates at dinner, family holidays and sharing varied, adventurous and exotic vacations - whether in the ranches and jungles of Brazil, body surfing and kayaking on the East coast, riding a camel in Egypt, snorkeling in the Red Sea, bartering on market days in Italy and France, sailing and exploring the reef in Belize, or simply learning to surf in San Diego, water skiing in the Delta or driving the Coast highway. Through all of his experiences, Brian learned the value of tolerance and diversity and developed a keen sense of fairness and compassion; he co-founded the Diversity Club at Junipero Serra H.S. These principles became central to his view of the world. It is an even greater tragedy that Brian's life was cut short before he could fully share his skills, talents and passion with a larger community. Brian will be deeply missed by Elizabeth, David and Grant; by his grandparents, Mary and Joe Asip and Betty and Jerry Evans; by his extended family and his many friends, both locally and across the country. A viewing will be held Fri., Sept. 29, 4-7pm at Sneider & Sullivan & O'Connell's Funeral Home, 977 S. El Camino Real, San Mateo 94402. A Memorial Service will be held Sat., Sept. 30, 11am at St. Bartholomew's Catholic Church, corner of Alameda de las Pulgas and Crystal Springs Rd., San Mateo, CA 94402. In lieu of flowers or other remembrances, the family requests memorial contributions be made to The Brian Evans Memorial Fund, c/o Peninsula Community Foundation, 1700 S. El Camino Real #300, San Mateo, CA 94402 (650) 581-4372.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Sep. 28, 2006.

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Barbara Glick

October 26, 2006

Elizabeth, David and Grant

I was saddened to hear of your loss. Brian will always have a special place in our hearts.

The special connections in our lives made through music are always the warmest. Unfortunately words can never convey the sadness that a melody can.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Norman, Barbara and Jesse

Mary McCollow

October 25, 2006

Elizabeth,

I was so sorry to hear the news about Brian. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I remember Brian as such a helpful and friendly young man when you and I worked on the auction together. God Bless You.

Mary McCollow

Michele Mullen

October 4, 2006

Liz:
I just heard from Kathy about your terrible loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Kathy Donigan

October 4, 2006

Dear Liz, Dave and Grant-
We were so shocked and saddened to hear the news about Brian from Liz Choy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Kathy and family

Mary Tatomer

October 2, 2006

Dear Elizabeth, David and Grant,
When Andy called to tell us the sad news of Brian's tragic passing we were shocked and saddened.Our prayers and thoughts are with you all during these difficult times.
Mary and Bill Tatomer

Terri Dial

October 2, 2006

Dear Elizabeth, David and Grant,
I hardly know where to begin. So much so that I've begun this note five time. Your tragedy is simply unfathomable and my heart goes out to you. To lose Brian so young when his life held so much promise is an agony. I know you are inconsolable but please know that you are in the hearts and prayers of many friends (no less than twelve of whom emailed me in London to tell me of Brian's terrible accident).
Much love to you.

Debra Pritchard

October 1, 2006

Dear Elizabeth, David, and Grant,

Words don't convey my deep sadness - it still doesn't seem real. Watching Brian grow up from across the street, hearing him howl when I walked into your motion-activated sprinklers (for the deer he told me), and hearing some of his teenage nights outside on the island separating our houses - it seems impossible.

With heartfelt condolence,
Debra

M S

September 30, 2006

Elizabeth & family,

I am so sorry. He knew he was loved and supported.

May God rest his soul.

jane tight

September 29, 2006

Dear Evans Family,
Our son, riley, is on Grant's football team. We are so very sorry about your loss. We cannot imagine how you feel. Reading the obituary, we can see the well-lived, rich family life you have had together. riley is our third son of four, also dyslexic, and we can appreciate the hard-fought life Brian had. His exuberance, interests, intelligence and talents are so apparent when you see his life in print. I am sure that Brian will leave an enormous hole in your family. We send our heartfelt blessings at this tragic time.The Menlo community will support you in any way you need.
Jane and Tim Tight, riley tight

Ward and Helen Marianos

September 29, 2006

We send our heartfelt sympathy to Brian's family and friends in your time of loss. May God give you comfort that only He can give.

Ted Hall

September 29, 2006

With deepest sympathy. We understand and share your loss. Today is the 10th anniversary of the death of our beloved son, Timothy.
Ted & Laddie Hall

Mireya Rodriguez

September 29, 2006

Dear Elizabeth, Dave and Grant,
I am in disbelief to hear such sad news and my heart is truly broken. May God and our Blessed Mother give you peace and serenity in this time of sorrow. My deepest sympathy and all of my love.
Mireya Rodriguez and Family

Mariel Clemensen

September 29, 2006

To David and Elizabeth:
Your immense love and care for your children will remain forever in all of our hearts...
in grief, Mariel and Nelson

Peter Judge

September 29, 2006

Dave, Liz & Grant,
I am flooded by emotion and can hardly imagine your grief & deep sadness. Nancy's & my thoughts are with you.

May you find solice and peace in the tears that will flow and may they flow to a river, a river of Brian's music and may that river and those sounds be comfort to you and a sign to Brian of your love, for I know it was, and is, great.

Peace and Blessed Be...

Peter & Nancy

Paul Stann

September 28, 2006

The love of a Ragazzi family will remain with you forever. May God bless all of you for the happiness you have given so many.
Paul, Almuth & Carsten Stann

Fely Hayes

September 28, 2006

My condolences Elizabeth to you and your family. My prayers are with you during this time of sorrow.

Janice Woods

September 28, 2006

David, Elizabeth and Grant,
My prayers are with you at this time of great sadness. Brian will always have a bright spot in my heart. He will be remembered fondly and with love.
Janice Woods

Kara Barden

September 28, 2006

Sorry for the loss, Brian will be missed by many!

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