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"Ciddy" Young
July 7, 2010
To all her friends and Candy's husband, Ted: I am sitting here in Moss Beach, California - a small town not unlike Duxbury, MA - where I knew Candy. It is now July and I only just learned of Candy's passing from a friend, ironically via F/B. I was a friend of Candy's in High School. Although I was a female "jock" and she was a cheerleader (and Prom Queen dating Dick McEvoy, the school's accomplished athlete and Prom King from the Class of 1969) we never-the-less shared many other interests.
We both worked the summer after High school graduation in 1969 at Hannelt's Nursery in Kingston. (The summer of Woodstock!) I remember that one winter weekend while still in High School, her parents took us down to visit a cottage on the Cape, (Chatham perhaps?) but, when we arrived, there was no heat! We lay in our beds shivering and giggling in the cold cabin all weekend. I think I enjoyed the trip, but remember being happy to return to my parents warm house at 24 Fort Hill Lane in Duxbury! After I went off to Pine Manor and she to Smith, we sort of lost touch. Her parents, who always impressed me because they went for a ritual walk each night after dinner, had sold the home on Meeting House Lane in Duxbury and moved down the Cape, I believe to Yarmouthport. I remember getting back a Christmas card I'd sent to what I hoped was her new address, and so, I don't know how, but after that we never did get back in touch.
I am so sorry that I was not able to later on find her on F/B and hook back up. It is hard, from such a distance, but the internet and vehicles such as Facebook have made that a bit easier. Now that moment has passed, along with her. We shared our interests in Gardening and Horticulture, and had we not moved physically apart, I’m certain that we'd still have remained friends. I wish you the best, getting over your loss. Please send Richard my condolences as well. It's just wrong for a father to out-live his child. And Candy was a very devoted daughter, as I’m sure the same was true of being your wife. I know you will miss her, but over time you will be left with only a dull pain, and happy memories. My best from the “Left Coast” of Northern California.
Cid Young
Margo C.
May 19, 2010
I don't know if words can describe what Candy was to me, how much her friendship, wisdom and guidance touched me and helped me to move forward. She was in my heart and always will be.
May 14, 2010
Dear Ted,
May you fnd comfort through this difficult time.
You are in my thoughts and Prayers.
Fever
Jodi Hilton
May 13, 2010
Ted, I'm sorry I never got to meet Candy, but I wanted to express my sympathy to you. I am deeply sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you during this sad time.
Ellen Thompson
May 13, 2010
Ted...my heart and prayers are with you. Candy was such a special woman, and your partnership together, always shined brightly. A loss of a spouse is beyond unthinkable....one is never prepared for a tragedy of such magnitude.. I can only say that you might want to take it day by day....hour by hour....minute by minute.....use friends and family if this soothes you, and embrace solitude when necessary. There is no recipe for dealing with this kind of profound loss. I share your grief, and will pray that time will ease your burden. Fondly, Ellen Thompson (Faulkner Group)
J
May 13, 2010
Teddy, Your love for her will keep her close and her love for you will keep you strong.
May 11, 2010
I was deeply grieved to read in this morning's Boston Globe about Candy's death. I want to send my sympathies to her husband Ted and to all of her family members. Although I was not a close personal friend of Candy, I had a professional relationship with her for many years, actually decades. She was always helpful and friendly, with an understated sense of humor that could have been easy to miss. Ironically, only a few days ago I was looking into some of her work on the history and architecture of state mental hospitals in Massachusetts, a pioneering study that some would have been too squeamish to undertake. I was interested but not surprised to find that it was used as an assignment for a course at Smith.
Candy and I were also fellow Cape Cod lovers.
Cynthia Zaitzevsky, Brookline, Massachusetts
Kate Gorham
May 11, 2010
Ted, I never had the pleasure of meeting your wife Candy but I could tell how special she was through her impact on you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
May 10, 2010
May your memories live on
ever so brightly in your hearts.
As the last enemy, death is to be
brought to nothing.
Emily Sweeney
May 10, 2010
Ted,
I heard the sad news about Candy...I'm so sorry for your loss :(
May 10, 2010
"The true beloveds of this world are in their lover's eyes, lilacs opening, Christmas lights, school bells, a landscape, remembered conversations, friends, lost voices, one's favorite hat, autumn and all seasons, yes, it being the earth and water of existence, memory." a slightly modified quote from Truman Capote, for you Ted and for the memory of my beloved friend, sponsor, adopted sister, Candy.
Nancy R, Cambridge
Lyn Familant
May 9, 2010
I grew up in Brockton many years ago and Candy and I were neighbors, classmates, and friends. We lost touch after she moved to Duxbury. Over the years I have = wondered about her. I even tried contacting her just a few months ago. How sad it was today to learn of her passing, but how inspiring to learn of her many passions and contributions.
May 9, 2010
Sorry for your loss Ted, you know who's rocking in the Freeworld! and keep on struggling up, its a good thing, be good to you...Ralph K
Lilia Halpern-Smith
May 9, 2010
I am still getting used to not seeing Candy in her garden as I come home or start my day. Having the fortune of being neighbors for the last six years we were able to share some treasured moments that I will always hold close to my heart.
I always knew Spring had arrived when Candy was readying her garden for the seasons. My family and I are so grateful for having been able to know her.
Candy's memory will serve as a reminder of the amazement of life through nature and our own existence.
Hang in there Ted, we are here for you.
May 9, 2010
Ted, you are in my loving thoughts and prayers, as always. I am so sorry for your loss.
love you,
Camilla
Ellen Caouette
May 9, 2010
Ted, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Candy will be missed tremendously.
carol keeling
May 9, 2010
Ted, my thoughts are with you. Candy was kind and loving toward me. One of my proudest moments was her asking me to give her her anniversary medallion Carol Keeling
Scott Shannon
May 8, 2010
Ted, Candy made this world better by her presence, actions and love for others. I've learned through her inspiration and yours. She'll be missed but not forgotten. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
George Hargraves
May 8, 2010
Ted, Candy was an angel sent by God to
help us all and as you and I know, she did. We will all miss her. So wear the cloak of grief and sorrow. But also
let it fade away, as it will over time, replaced by happy memories.
We will all see her again, one day.
Ann Marie Gartland
May 7, 2010
Ted, we are so sorry for your loss. Candy was such a wonderful and caring person. We feel fortunate to have known her. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Linda Bellantoni
May 7, 2010
Candy was a true friend...someone who was always there for me and gave deeply of herself to others. I will miss you Candy...God Bless You!
Andrea Stone
May 7, 2010
Candy will always be an angel in the lives of everyone who knew her. She certainly touched me.
Robert Johnson
May 7, 2010
Candy truly helped make the world a kinder, gentler place. She is an inspiration to many, now and forever.
Kim Davis
May 7, 2010
Many years ago Candy I worked together. Since then we saw one another only periodically but she was always interesting, fun and interested. I will miss her.
Janice Reed Messier
May 7, 2010
Candy was a true inspiration to many, kind to all, and she will be sorely missed. My sincere condolences Ted.
Lisa Foley
May 6, 2010
I'll always be grateful for the example set by the life of this rare, beautiful woman. Rest in peace, Candy, and thank you.
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