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Candace Jenkins Obituary

Candace Jenkins, architectural historian and historic preservation consultant, and for 22 years a friend of Bill W., died suddenly at her home in Belmont on Thursday, April 29, 2010. She was 59 years old. Ms. Jenkins leaves her beloved husband, Ted Gartland, her father, Richard Jenkins of Yarmouthport, her dog, Maggie, and many, many friends. She was predeceased by her mother, Doris (Emery) Jenkins. Ms. Jenkins was born in Brockton, graduated from high school in Duxbury, and was a graduate of Smith College. She held an M.A. in preservation studies from Boston University, receiving one of the first degrees conferred. Ms. Jenkins began her career at the Massachusetts Historical Commission, where she briefly managed grants, but quickly moved on to directing the National Register of Historic Places program for Massachusetts and working on a wide variety of preservation efforts statewide. She left the Massachusetts Historical Commission in 1984 to become a private preservation consultant. Her work as a consultant covered almost every aspect of architectural history and historic preservation in Massachusetts, but focused on several major areas, including the history and reuse of state hospital complexes and preservation master planning for, among others, the Charles River Basin, the Worcester public schools, the Watertown Arsenal, and McLean Hospital. In addition, Ms. Jenkins researched and wrote historic structures reports for numerous landmark public and private buildings, including U.S. customs houses and post offices from Maine to Oklahoma, the Union Station in Worcester, and the Old Manse in Concord. She also prepared preservation plans for MIT and Boston University, and more thoroughly researched and beautifully written National Register nominations than we can count. She was the author of Between the Forest and the Bay: A History of West Falmouth as revealed in Its Historic Buildings and Landscapes. Candy was passionate about science fiction, rock music, her dogs, Cape Cod, and her husband Ted, who made her feel safe, strong and very happy. She was a great lover of nature-birds, animals, and all open spaces. She celebrated her 40th birthday trekking in Nepal, embracing the dust and confusion of ancient market cities and the isolation of frozen campsites at 12,000 feet. Casual conversation with her seatmate on the flight to Kathmandu revealed him to be Sir Edmund Hillary, the famed mountaineer. She studied print-making with artist Leonard Baskin, spent a year as a ski bum before graduate school, and learned to love the jazz piano of Dave McKenna when she worked in high school at the Chatham Bars Inn. When she brought friends to hear him play at the Copley Plaza, he always sang the 1940s classic Johnny Mercer love song, "Candy," just for her. A long-time resident of Belmont, Ms. Jenkins restored her small Federal house and filled the yard with lush gardens. Ms. Jenkins will be remembered by her friends and colleagues for her thorough-going professionalism, her wide-ranging knowledge of architectural history, her grasp of the nuances in the historical landscape, her sense of justice and integrity, the shining loyalty of her friendship, and the deep care and concern she bestowed on her parents and her friends. Her untimely passing leaves a profound gap in our lives and the preservation community. Friends are invited to attend a service commemorating her life on Saturday, May 15, at 2 p.m., at the Carriage House of the Codman Estate, Codman Road, Lincoln, Mass. Donations in lieu of flowers can be made in Candy's memory to the World Wildlife Fund, www.worldwildlife.org.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from May 6 to May 13, 2010.

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"Ciddy" Young

July 7, 2010

To all her friends and Candy's husband, Ted: I am sitting here in Moss Beach, California - a small town not unlike Duxbury, MA - where I knew Candy. It is now July and I only just learned of Candy's passing from a friend, ironically via F/B. I was a friend of Candy's in High School. Although I was a female "jock" and she was a cheerleader (and Prom Queen dating Dick McEvoy, the school's accomplished athlete and Prom King from the Class of 1969) we never-the-less shared many other interests.

We both worked the summer after High school graduation in 1969 at Hannelt's Nursery in Kingston. (The summer of Woodstock!) I remember that one winter weekend while still in High School, her parents took us down to visit a cottage on the Cape, (Chatham perhaps?) but, when we arrived, there was no heat! We lay in our beds shivering and giggling in the cold cabin all weekend. I think I enjoyed the trip, but remember being happy to return to my parents warm house at 24 Fort Hill Lane in Duxbury! After I went off to Pine Manor and she to Smith, we sort of lost touch. Her parents, who always impressed me because they went for a ritual walk each night after dinner, had sold the home on Meeting House Lane in Duxbury and moved down the Cape, I believe to Yarmouthport. I remember getting back a Christmas card I'd sent to what I hoped was her new address, and so, I don't know how, but after that we never did get back in touch.

I am so sorry that I was not able to later on find her on F/B and hook back up. It is hard, from such a distance, but the internet and vehicles such as Facebook have made that a bit easier. Now that moment has passed, along with her. We shared our interests in Gardening and Horticulture, and had we not moved physically apart, I’m certain that we'd still have remained friends. I wish you the best, getting over your loss. Please send Richard my condolences as well. It's just wrong for a father to out-live his child. And Candy was a very devoted daughter, as I’m sure the same was true of being your wife. I know you will miss her, but over time you will be left with only a dull pain, and happy memories. My best from the “Left Coast” of Northern California.
Cid Young

Margo C.

May 19, 2010

I don't know if words can describe what Candy was to me, how much her friendship, wisdom and guidance touched me and helped me to move forward. She was in my heart and always will be.

May 14, 2010

Dear Ted,
May you fnd comfort through this difficult time.
You are in my thoughts and Prayers.
Fever

Jodi Hilton

May 13, 2010

Ted, I'm sorry I never got to meet Candy, but I wanted to express my sympathy to you. I am deeply sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you during this sad time.

Ellen Thompson

May 13, 2010

Ted...my heart and prayers are with you. Candy was such a special woman, and your partnership together, always shined brightly. A loss of a spouse is beyond unthinkable....one is never prepared for a tragedy of such magnitude.. I can only say that you might want to take it day by day....hour by hour....minute by minute.....use friends and family if this soothes you, and embrace solitude when necessary. There is no recipe for dealing with this kind of profound loss. I share your grief, and will pray that time will ease your burden. Fondly, Ellen Thompson (Faulkner Group)

J

May 13, 2010

Teddy, Your love for her will keep her close and her love for you will keep you strong.

May 11, 2010

I was deeply grieved to read in this morning's Boston Globe about Candy's death. I want to send my sympathies to her husband Ted and to all of her family members. Although I was not a close personal friend of Candy, I had a professional relationship with her for many years, actually decades. She was always helpful and friendly, with an understated sense of humor that could have been easy to miss. Ironically, only a few days ago I was looking into some of her work on the history and architecture of state mental hospitals in Massachusetts, a pioneering study that some would have been too squeamish to undertake. I was interested but not surprised to find that it was used as an assignment for a course at Smith.

Candy and I were also fellow Cape Cod lovers.


Cynthia Zaitzevsky, Brookline, Massachusetts

Kate Gorham

May 11, 2010

Ted, I never had the pleasure of meeting your wife Candy but I could tell how special she was through her impact on you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

May 10, 2010

May your memories live on
ever so brightly in your hearts.
As the last enemy, death is to be
brought to nothing.

Emily Sweeney

May 10, 2010

Ted,
I heard the sad news about Candy...I'm so sorry for your loss :(

May 10, 2010

"The true beloveds of this world are in their lover's eyes, lilacs opening, Christmas lights, school bells, a landscape, remembered conversations, friends, lost voices, one's favorite hat, autumn and all seasons, yes, it being the earth and water of existence, memory." a slightly modified quote from Truman Capote, for you Ted and for the memory of my beloved friend, sponsor, adopted sister, Candy.
Nancy R, Cambridge

Lyn Familant

May 9, 2010

I grew up in Brockton many years ago and Candy and I were neighbors, classmates, and friends. We lost touch after she moved to Duxbury. Over the years I have = wondered about her. I even tried contacting her just a few months ago. How sad it was today to learn of her passing, but how inspiring to learn of her many passions and contributions.

May 9, 2010

Sorry for your loss Ted, you know who's rocking in the Freeworld! and keep on struggling up, its a good thing, be good to you...Ralph K

Lilia Halpern-Smith

May 9, 2010

I am still getting used to not seeing Candy in her garden as I come home or start my day. Having the fortune of being neighbors for the last six years we were able to share some treasured moments that I will always hold close to my heart.

I always knew Spring had arrived when Candy was readying her garden for the seasons. My family and I are so grateful for having been able to know her.

Candy's memory will serve as a reminder of the amazement of life through nature and our own existence.

Hang in there Ted, we are here for you.

May 9, 2010

Ted, you are in my loving thoughts and prayers, as always. I am so sorry for your loss.
love you,
Camilla

Ellen Caouette

May 9, 2010

Ted, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Candy will be missed tremendously.

carol keeling

May 9, 2010

Ted, my thoughts are with you. Candy was kind and loving toward me. One of my proudest moments was her asking me to give her her anniversary medallion Carol Keeling

Scott Shannon

May 8, 2010

Ted, Candy made this world better by her presence, actions and love for others. I've learned through her inspiration and yours. She'll be missed but not forgotten. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

George Hargraves

May 8, 2010

Ted, Candy was an angel sent by God to
help us all and as you and I know, she did. We will all miss her. So wear the cloak of grief and sorrow. But also
let it fade away, as it will over time, replaced by happy memories.
We will all see her again, one day.

Ann Marie Gartland

May 7, 2010

Ted, we are so sorry for your loss. Candy was such a wonderful and caring person. We feel fortunate to have known her. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Linda Bellantoni

May 7, 2010

Candy was a true friend...someone who was always there for me and gave deeply of herself to others. I will miss you Candy...God Bless You!

Andrea Stone

May 7, 2010

Candy will always be an angel in the lives of everyone who knew her. She certainly touched me.

Robert Johnson

May 7, 2010

Candy truly helped make the world a kinder, gentler place. She is an inspiration to many, now and forever.

Kim Davis

May 7, 2010

Many years ago Candy I worked together. Since then we saw one another only periodically but she was always interesting, fun and interested. I will miss her.

Janice Reed Messier

May 7, 2010

Candy was a true inspiration to many, kind to all, and she will be sorely missed. My sincere condolences Ted.

Lisa Foley

May 6, 2010

I'll always be grateful for the example set by the life of this rare, beautiful woman. Rest in peace, Candy, and thank you.

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