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David Pape Obituary

David Joseph Pape Late of Millbrae and San Mateo County resident for 43 years passed away in Burlingame after sudden heart failure on September 5, 2008. Beloved husband of Gail Pape for 24 years. Loving father of Sarah and Andrew. Devoted son of Margaret Stirling. Dear brother of Carol Ott; Russell and the late James. Also survived by his cherished dog Copper. A native of San Francisco, CA, age 52. Commissioner of Millbrae Lions Club Baseball Program for many years; member of the founding family of Pape Meats in Millbrae. Loved and admired for his generosity and caring nature by many members throughout the community. The Funeral will leave the CHAPEL OF THE HIGHLANDS, El Camino Real at 194 Millwood Drive in Millbrae on Thursday, September 11, 2008 at 9:45 AM for Saint Dunstan's Catholic Church, 1133 Broadway in Millbrae, where a Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:00 AM and will conclude after. Family and friends are invited to visit on Wednesday, September 10th after 4:00 PM until 8:00 PM at the CHAPEL OF THE HIGHLANDS, with a Vigil Service beginning at 7:00 PM. His family appreciates donations to the Millbrae Lions Club, P.O. Box 328, Millbrae, CA 94030-0328.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Sep. 8, 2008.

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Carol Ott

September 5, 2009

Dave we think of you all the time and miss you so much. Our family's gathering today to be together on this first anniversary of your heart attack. You live on in us and I can hear your wonderful laugh.

Paul Medina

September 4, 2009

I worked right next to Dave when I first arrived at Rector Cadillac/Porsche/Audi. He was the coolest guy ever, loved transmission work, and made it so easy to be the new guy at Rector. You will be missed !!!!!

Sharon Wilson

October 8, 2008

Our love and prayers are continually with you Gail, Sarah, and Andrew. I know this guest book has and will in the future be a comfort to you...You know you have our love always. SherriPooh

What a wonderful man.

October 7, 2008

Tina Wiertelak

October 4, 2008

Dear Gail,
We were saddened to hear of Dave's passing. I will always remember his warm smile and huge hug when I visited California. His friendship will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Sarah and Andrew.
P.S. Do you think Dave is still working on Jay's (my Dad) Caddy?

Sharlee, Gary & Katie Erickson

September 30, 2008

Dave,
On your birthday we can only think of our dear friend and how much we miss you. You will be missed forever and will always be remembered for your easy laugh and wonderful spirit. We will love you always.

Wayne and Arleta Crandall

September 25, 2008

What good times we had with you. Remember you still have him because of Sarah and Andrew. We loved him like he was our own nephew.

David Gregory

September 20, 2008

Dear Gail, Andrew and Sarah,
we are so sorry for your loss.
Dave was a friend to us all, thru the years of knowing him, I can honestly say that he truly was an HONORABLE MAN! A GREAT GUY! A GOOD FATHER, GREAT HUSBAND AND A GREAT FRIEND.
He will be missed but never forgotten........Love you Dave.

The Gregory's

Vicki (Sattui) Pope

September 18, 2008

To the Pape Family,
I was so saddened to hear about Dave. I went to high school with him and he was the nicest, sweetest person, always friendly and genuine. I live in San Jose now, so just heard about this from my sister. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Mike Mc Namara

September 16, 2008

To the Pape Family.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Gail Pape

September 13, 2008

My Love,
I will miss you profoundly! Although I know you are not here, it is hard for me to really believe it. I know you are with us and watching over us always. Your kind, sweet spirit will always live on in our children. I will love you forever! Rest In Peace.

Carol Ott

September 13, 2008

My dear brother Dave,
Although we've received cards, flowers and condolences from framily and friends, I open my eyes in the morning and can't believe you're gone. I love you, Dave. I'll miss your presence here with us but your loving spirit will live on. Carol

Kathleen (Lynch) Butler

September 11, 2008

Andrew, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. He was such a special person that touched so many lives. I hope that the wonderful memories you have will help you all get through this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Nancy McCarthy

September 11, 2008

Gail, Sarah & Andrew,

We were so shocked to hear of Daves passing. We have fond memories during our Joe D days. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
The McCarthy Family

Jim & Kris Dillingham

September 11, 2008

Dear Pape Family:

Dave was so genuine -- such a great guy! We are sorry for your huge loss. We will miss his warm and smiling face around town.

Debbie Goble (Olson)

September 11, 2008

I just wanted to let you know how sorry I was to hear of Dave's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I haven't been to visit in so long and am sorry now I haven't made more of an effort to stay close to my family. Sorry I couldn't be there today.

Grace Villaflor

September 11, 2008

Dear Gail,
I am dearly sorry for your loss. I can feel you because I was in the same situation 9 yrs. ago. Hold on to your dear & loving memories with Dave. I am here and I am offering myself as a friend, call me anytime to ease any burden you might encounter. Be strong & with prayers you & your family will go through.

Jill Businger

September 10, 2008

We were shocked to hear of Dave's passing. He was a GREAT COACH and a great asset to our Millbrae community. He will be missed by all. May God Bless you and your family in this very difficult time.

Greg, Jill, John,
Daniel & Aubrie Gibson-Businger

Gina Moore

September 10, 2008

Gail, I don't know what to say except that I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.

Judy Lawrence

September 10, 2008

Gail,
I was so saddened to hear of Dave's passing. What a heavy loss for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this journey. I know your faith in God will carry you through. Much love.

Karen Secrest

September 10, 2008

Gail! Wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I was very sadden to hear of Dave's passing. I am sorry your family has suffered such a huge loss. Take care of yourself and let me know if there is anything I can do for you. You know where to find me.

The Berkovatz Family

September 10, 2008

Millbrae Baseball will not be the same without Dave. He was a great guy and we feel very fortunate to have known him.

Melissa Mizel

September 10, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I hope you find a little solace in the love and support we all have for you at BIS.

Joyce Geranios

September 10, 2008

our condolences to the Pape family. We are so sorry to hear of Daves passing. Dave and I worked at Rector motors together. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sue Smith

September 10, 2008

Dearest Gail - I'm so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless and watch over you and yours now and always. Love and prayers, Sue

Dan & Debbie Salling

September 10, 2008

Gail,
Our hearfelt sympathy to you and your family. You had someone very
special in Dan! The memories you shared will be in your hearts forever!!
You are thought of and loved by many.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you,

BARRY PAPER

September 10, 2008

My condolences to the family. I worked with Dave at Stewart Automotive for the last 3 years, and he was a truly nice person, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

christy kuwahara-costa

September 10, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sending you hugs and my best wishes.

Kathy Symanski

September 10, 2008

Dear Gail:

I can't imagine what you are going through. Please remember you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers now and for always. If you need anything at all, please contact me any time, day or night. I am here to help you in any way. Just let me know what you need and when.

Love,

Bart and Kyle (Warman) Willis

September 9, 2008

To the entire Pape family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our prayers. May David's memory forever be a blessing.

Dan & Patty De La Cruz

September 9, 2008

To the Pape family

We are so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. We still can't believe he's gone.Dave was a great friend. He will be missed.He was Dan's side kick at work.It's not the same without him.
our thought and prayers are with you.

John Atno

September 9, 2008

My Condolences to the Pape family.
Dave was a Nice and Decent person.
I worked with him at Cadillac of Menlo Park.
John Atno

Michelle Salling

September 9, 2008

To My Gail,
I will forever remember Dave's smile that lights up both his face and yours. You, Andrew, and Sarah are in my heart and prayers every day. Love you all and here for you always.
xoxoxo

Cicero & Candido and Crew

September 9, 2008

Gail,
We wanted to send you our thoughts, prayers and love for you and your family. You are in our hearts and we are all here for you.
~BIS Custodial Staff

Mari King

September 9, 2008

To the Pape Family:

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in my prayers.

Mary Ann Waterman

September 9, 2008

Dear Gail, Sarah and Andrew, Just want you to know how very sorry we are about Dave's passing. Please let us know if you need anything. May his memory be a blessing!!
All our love, Dave and Mary Ann Waterman

Mark Chagaris

September 9, 2008

My condolences to the whole Pape family. Dave was truly one of the "nice guys". Mrs. Stirling and Russ, I'm sorry that I am unable to attend the funeral and offer my condolences in person. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Vikki Ouye

September 9, 2008

Dear Gail,

Please know how so very sorry I am for your grief and pain. I know I have no idea what you are going through right now - I can only imagine (and that is bad enough). Please let me know anything I can do (no matter what it is) to make it easier for you and your family - no request is too small. You are much loved!

Yours,
Vikki

Fritz Sattelmayer

September 9, 2008

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. I share your grief. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
I worked with Dave at Rector Motor Car Company.
Dave was a caring person and a very good friend. I will cherish memories forever.

Gary and Lorraine Haddock

September 8, 2008

What a sad shock to hear about Dave. Our condolences to the Pape family, especially Gail, Sarah and Andrew. Dave will be missed by all.

Kris Smith

September 8, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Pape family. We will always cherish the fun times we had camping/boating with Dave, Gail, Sarah and Andrew.

xoxo,
Mike, Kris, Paige & Eddie Smith

Jack and Geri Murray

September 8, 2008

We can't begin to tell you the sadness we felt upon hearing the news of Daves passing. He was a warm and wonderful person. Our condolences to the Pape family. He will be missed as much as we still miss his brother Jim. Great family.

Dan Murray

September 8, 2008

My condolences to the Pape Family I use to work for Giants and deliver to market

Bob Martinez

September 8, 2008

My condolences to Dave's family.
He was a great caring person and a
good friend.He will be missed.

Carol Schlimmer

September 8, 2008

Dave I happened to run into you in Wallgreens about three weeks ago and you gave me a big hug and a nice smile and when I left you I felt so good.
You will be missed
May you rest in peace
Love, Carol Schlimmer

John Akers

September 8, 2008

Working with Dave was a pleasure. He was great at his job, and went out of his way to help. He came to work with us in August 2005, and job wise he was an asset that will be very, very hard to replace. He made being his manager for the last year easy, always stopping by my office with progress on his work and a good word. On a personal level, he was one of the good guys in life and I will miss him.

Service Manager, Stewart Chevrolet Cadillac

ANTHONY DEVITO

September 8, 2008

MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE PAPE
FAMILY AT THIS TIME OF SADNESS,
DAVE WILL BE MISSED VERY MUCH.
I WAS VERY LUCKY TO HAVE WORKED
WITH HIM AT STEWART CHEVROLET
AND I AS WELL AS EVERYONE HERE WILL MISS HIM DEARLY

Sharlee Erickson

September 8, 2008

Dave our dear friend. Oh how we will miss you. Your wonderful sense of humor, your loving way, your friendly smile. You will be terribly missed in our lives. We love you.

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