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Elizabeth Goerke Obituary

Elizabeth (Betty) Goerke
03/16/1931 - 08/25/2024
Betty Goerke, 93, beloved mother to three children, award-winning teacher, author, archaeologist, and historian, passed away peacefully at home on August 25, 2024.
Betty was born on March 16, 1931, in Cedar Rapids to Ralph (Baz) Bridges Bagby (a highly decorated WWI pilot) and Anne Robertson Bagby (a former "columnist for the lovelorn" at the Washington Herald), who raised daughter Betty and three sons in Evanston, Illinois. Betty was preceded in death by her husband Jon (2023) and her brothers John, Jay, and Jim Bagby.
As a child, Betty was a proud prankster whose main-sometimes competing-passions were playing the piano and reading. She often resolved the competition by pretending to practice with a novel propped up on the piano. Betty was certainly helped by her perfect pitch, but she still put in enough hours of real practice time to play the latest Boogie-woogie tunes by ear when her friends wanted to dance to them in high school. Betty cherished her relationship with Roycemore School and friends from that era throughout her lifetime.
After graduating from Radcliffe in 1952, where she focused on history, Betty did some postgraduate study at Northwestern and the American School of Classical Studies in Greece, which inspired her to consider a career in archaeology. Once back in the States, however, that dream was dampened by a professor who commended Betty's work, but noted that her "smartest career move" in this male-dominated field would be to marry an archaeologist.
Instead, Betty met and married medical school student (and eventual physiology professor and researcher) Jon Goerke. She got a taste of teaching in those early years, which she very much enjoyed, at Prospect Hill School in New Haven and Branson School in Marin, while her husband completed his medical degree, internship, and residency in New Haven and San Francisco. Nevertheless, Betty had no second thoughts about trading in teaching for motherhood during Jon's draft service, which took them to an American military base in Germany, and a subsequent residency in Boston. With that training complete in 1962, Jon took a job at UC San Francisco, which enabled the couple to return to their beloved Bay Area and settle in Mill Valley, now with three young children in tow.
Although Betty often later told her students that those years as the mother of three toddlers had been the favorite part of her career, she felt a strong call to teach as they got older. A master's degree from San Francisco State in 1969 enabled her to start the next phase of her career in 1972 as a teacher of archaeology and physical anthropology at the College of Marin. As Betty garnered appreciation awards every year from the student body, it became clear to all that teaching was her true calling. As one student noted: "Betty Goerke is one of the truly rare teachers who can take a general education course, such as her Anthropology class, and turn it into something illuminating. I walked into her class with no interest, except for a credit on my transcript, and walked out filled with passion for Anthropology."
Over the course of her 35-year teaching career, Betty also spent much time in the field, learning about the history of Marin's original settlers, the local Miwok people. As she traveled farther afield to broaden her knowledge in other areas, Betty's trips included flintknapping school with Jeffrey Flenniken in Washington State and archaeological work at sites in Kenya with Richard Leakey, India with J. Desmond Clark, and Egypt with David Silverman. Although she did not get a chance to work with her idols Diane Fossey and Jane Goodall in Africa, Betty's teaching was greatly inspired by these icons and she did manage to arrange for her primatology classes to visit and observe the work of another important primatologist, Francine "Penny" Patterson, then teaching modified sign language to the famous gorilla Koko at Stanford University. Betty was eager to share her passions with the entire College of Marin community and happy to be able to introduce her idols Richard Leakey, Don Johanson, Dian Fossey, and Jane Goodall as guest speakers to the campus.
In the 20 years following retirement, Betty had time to write about and engage more closely with the people and causes that were closest to her heart. She published four books: Chief Marin: Leader, Rebel and Legend (2007); Discovering Native People at Point Reyes (2012); Adventures of Two Coast Miwok Children (2020), which is being used in grade school classrooms in Marin County; and A Broken Propeller (2018), which is dedicated to her father. Betty proudly served on the boards of Marin's Museum of the American Indian (MAI), the Miwok Archaeological Preserve of Marin (MAPOM), and the Mill Valley Historical Society (MVHS). And she was happy to be able to lead the effort of installing an historical plaque in Mill Valley in 2009 to recognize the home of Chief Marin, known to the Coast Miwok as Huicmuse. At this ceremony, Betty was deeply touched to be recognized as an Honorary Elder of the Federated Indians of Graton Rancheria. In later years, as Betty continued to write and lecture, she was honored in 2012 with a Milley award for "Creative Achievement in Literary Arts" and in 2022 with a Lifetime Achievement Award (presented to her and Chuck Oldenburg) from the Mill Valley Historical Society.
In carrying out all of these endeavors, Betty had the unwavering support of her husband and "team member" Jon, who always encouraged and accompanied Betty as her private photographer and videographer in the field, and as her first reader and audio-visual technician when she wrote and lectured "in retirement."
Betty is survived by her children Jon (Ann) and Katie Goerke and Robin Heard, nephews Joe (Anne) and Jeff (Kat) Bagby, nieces Jean Cliff-Robertson (Dave Jacquin), Barbara Bagby, and Catherine (Doug) Kolsrud. Although Betty was close to her maternal cousins (now deceased) and fond of all of their six children, she had an especially close relationship with her "honorary niece" Rosemary Cole Nielsen (Dana Nielsen), who looked out after Betty's brother Jay in his later years, and who went out of her way to help Betty stay connected to her hometown and family.
Betty's children are grateful for the long-term help and support of friends and family, and for the dedication and support in Betty's final months and days from the kind and wonderful caregiving and hospice teams from Brightstar Care and By the Bay Health.
Memorial Service: Sunday, November 3rd, 2:00 - 5:00, at the Mill Valley Community Center. All are welcome to attend.
In lieu of flowers, please send any donations to the American Friends Service Committee: https://secure.afsc.org/a/24rr_d?ms=WEB25NV

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Oct. 22, 2024.

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Layne Doherty

November 22, 2024

I took physical anthropology at COM in the early 90s. I very much enjoyed Mrs. Goerke's class. She taught with such joy and charisma. I always felt engaged and excited to learn as she taught. Specifically I remember an end of semester get together where Mrs. Goerke warmly welcomed the whole class into her home. Several classmates sat down at her piano. It was a very nice time. Rest in Peace Mrs. Goerke. My sincere condolences to her family.

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Roycemore School

November 4, 2024

We are deeply saddened by the loss of Betty Goerke, a treasured member of the Roycemore community and a proud alumna of the Class of 1948.

In 2018, Betty was honored as the first Roycemore Alum to be featured in the Griffin Greats series, recognizing her extraordinary contributions to the world.

Reflecting on her time at Roycemore, Betty fondly recalled memories of playing the piano for her classmates during lunch, much to the chagrin of the School Principal. During her senior year, she chose the topic of archaeology for her senior presentation, which sparked a passion that she would carry throughout her distinguished career.

Her wisdom, dedication, and the legacy she leaves behind will be deeply missed. Betty was 93, and her passing has left a void in our community that will be hard to fill.

Andrea Haverback

November 3, 2024

Betty, it was always my joy to share and explore music with you. Your amazing ears and musicality combined with your adventurous spirit, always made it an interesting and inspiring journey. You were a wonderful and dear friend to me and I will never forget you.
Always in my heart,
Andrea

Maire Crowley

October 25, 2024

Betty..was a phenomenal teacher, a gifted instructor whose passion for all things; especially in anthropology, was contagious to all who had the privilege to come in contact with her on the COM campus .and in the world regardless of cranial capacity or opposible thumbs !
With love and gratitude from all of us, who you have inspired
Sincerely,
Maire Crowley

Sara Hicks Butler

October 22, 2024

My favorite teacher ever. In 1982 I was a student of anthropology at College of Marin and enjoyed the privilege of touring the Cave of Lascaux with her among other significant sights throughout France. Betty instilled a passion for learning and a zest for adventure that has lasted a lifetime for me. I will never forget Betty, and I am eternally grateful for having known her. My condolences to her daughter Robin who was on that trip, and to her other family members whom I unfortunately never had the occasion to meet.

Teresa Rodriquez

October 22, 2024

My favorite professor at College of Marin. Dear Betty, I still remember doing research with you at your home when you were writing your book. You will be missed. You inspired and supported so many - I won't ever forget you.

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