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Jay Johnson Obituary

Jay Johnson

March 29, 1953 - March 21, 2015

Jay was the colorful owner of the Club Deluxe, a bar and musical institution in the Haight Ashbury (1511 Haight Street) for nearly 26 years. One would have found him singing there most Sunday nights until, unfortunately, cancer robbed him of his lungs.
Jay was born in Chicago on March 29, 1953. His family moved to San Mateo just before his second birthday; he always considered himself a Californian to the core and more importantly, a San Franciscan. Jay graduated from Aragon High School in 1971 and from the College of San Mateo in 1973. He then moved to San Francisco, residing in the Lower Haight.
Jay was an entrepreneur his entire life. He started selling antique furniture in his early 20's and became a life-long collector and curator of interesting memorabilia, art and furniture. In 1985, he opened Ground Zero, one of the first cafes in San Francisco to serve specialty coffees. At the time, the Chronicle review stated: "the owner/coffee machine operator's personal interpretation of survival chic does achieve that smart, bombed-out look. I like him and his arty place."
In 1989, Jay opened Club Deluxe in the Haight Ashbury, going against the reputation of the hippie- and dot-comer-populated neighborhood by opening a sleek retro bar dedicated to the mood and music of the 1940's and early 50's. He reinvented himself, presiding over his bar resplendent in vintage suits, ties, and hats. The bar had a reputation as the nesting place for the swing scene. The music was always the reason for the Deluxe, which since its inception has showcased live music seven days a week.
It was at this point that Jay began his own professional career as a singer, with an affinity for Sinatra, Bennett, and Martin. Most Sundays found him singing at the Deluxe accompanied by a small combo. Years later, in yet another reinvention, he sang bossa nova music, this time in vintage Hawaiian-style shirts.
Although the Deluxe and music always remained his main focus in life, he also owned the Orbit Room Cafe on Market Street, designing the interior and doing most of the work himself.
Jay had a love of all things vintage, with a particular fondness for mid-century modern furniture, art and photography, and 1940's clothing. He was an excellent athlete, and enjoyed golf, yoga and Pilates. He was an avid reader of history. Jay enjoyed annual fishing trips with his uncle and cousins in Canada, and tramping around the woods at his sister's place in Lake Tahoe. He was a world traveler, from Thailand to Budapest, Mexico to West Berlin.
A life-long bachelor who leaves behind a string of broken hearts, Jay's biggest passion in life was music. An accomplished guitarist and even better singer, he lived his life true to his idol's song,"I Did It My Way."
Jay is predeceased by his father, Gerald Warner Johnson, and his two beloved dogs, Petey and Petra. He is survived by his mother, Mary Ann Johnson, his sister, Kymberly Pipkin, brother-in-law Jerry, nieces Shari Malejan Jochem, Melissa Griffin, Marialena Malejan-Roussere, Sarah Jerney, and Katie Gardner, and nephew Miguel Carisoza. He had nine grand nephews and nieces. Jay is also survived by his Uncle Jack Malejan, Malejan cousins Todd, Dean, John, Leslie (Houfaidi), Leah (Lust) and Cynthia (Temple), and Johnson cousins Craig, Luke and Seth.
Jay passed away at home with family by his side on March 21, 2015. About a month before he died, Jay mused that it would sound more interesting to die at 61 than 62 (his birthday was coming up), reasoning that 61 is a prime number with no divisors other than itself and one, and that was Jay-unique to the end. Jay will be sorely missed by all who knew him as he was treasured by many. Friends Sarah Wilde and her husband Chris Pankow will be taking over the Deluxe where they will keep Jay's spirit and the music alive.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Mar. 24 to Mar. 29, 2015.

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Shari Malejan Jochem

March 21, 2024

I miss you uncle Jay!

Ziegelmeier Peter

March 19, 2023

Your are Missed!

Brian Sennikoff

March 18, 2023

We miss you buddy

Brian the Tennis Guru

April 6, 2022

Hey jay if
You´re reading this
From
Above we
Really should have hung out
A
Bit
....
Still
Here
Strange
Days never
Did make
It
To ground zero looks
Like you
Had
A
Good run

Peter Ziegelmeier

March 18, 2019

I miss the men !

Mother

April 17, 2015

Now, and at the hour of our death...Amen You will be missed greatly.

Susan Spencer Atherton

April 6, 2015

Rest in Peace Jay.

Diane

April 6, 2015

Sue from school said you were a great kisser. You're one that got away from me. RIP fellow Aragon grad.

Jon Draper

April 4, 2015

I was looking for an obit of my neighbor and began to scan the entire list - then JJ's name jumped out at me, causing me to pause in sorrow - and I only hung with some of his crowd for a couple years in the early 80's. He was a friendly young studly hep cat with a nifty style sense, warm friendly demeanor, and an admirable skill of running a few different businesses. Too bad the cigarettes robbed him of longevity. We all hate to read about any kind of cancer.

Elizabeth

April 1, 2015

What a lovely tribute. Thank you, Jay, for all the great memories. The Deluxe was my go-to for music and G&Ts in the '90s. Sincere condolences to family and friends.

Jay

peter ziegelmeier

March 31, 2015

You will be missed, a great loss for us all !

Ezmerelda Gorey

March 31, 2015

To my Deluxe family; I am so overwhelmed with love for you. So good to see you again! Damn we are a stylish bunch. I love you all. Be well, be happy, be free. Rest in Peace Mr. Johnson, until we meet again, save me a spot on that guest list, wherever you end up, I'm sure it'll be one hell of a party! #ClubDeluxe https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVtoketLsYE&feature=youtu.be

Jan Astill

March 31, 2015

So sad, i used to love Club Deluxue , so sassey.

Paty Huthert

March 31, 2015

So many memories and so many great times. You always treated us like family and we love you still. Rest in peace my friend. See you on the other side. x

ken steele

March 30, 2015

I proposed to my wife at the deluxe 24 years ago. It was and will always be our place. Jay was a class act. Dutch, a great bar tender

Thom story

March 30, 2015

You were such a inspiration when I had Bodyware, next door. Ready with advice for a small business. Will miss running into you Jay!

Mark Eastwood

March 29, 2015

I had the honor of playing with Jay on Sunday nights at the Deluxe for years in the early '90s. He was a work of art. Love to you old buddy.

Mary Garrett

March 29, 2015

Jay, may your soul be filled with song, and may you sing forever more as you plays among the stars.

We'll find you in the morning sun
And when the night is new
We'll be looking at the moon
But we'll be seeing you

Scelestia's sister,

Ellen Herlihy

March 29, 2015

Jay, you were a heartthrob, a stand up man, a talented crooner, and a heck of swell guy. Thank you for being you. You are among the heavenly bodies now, and I'll smile at ya still here from below.

Danielle garrison

March 29, 2015

Thank you for so many fun nights and memories! You will be missed and remembered!

Connie Champagne

March 29, 2015

Jay invited me to be the first vocalist to grace the stage at Club Deluxe, when I was hired to sing at its grand opening party. I sang there many times with Vise Grip & the Morty Show. He was always kind & generous to me, like the time he taught me the Keely/Frank duet "How Are Ya Fixed For Love?" which we recorded for his album, well before Brian Setzer sang the tune with Ms. Stefani. We both knew they stole his idea--our version is better, of course. He will be missed.

Jeff Howald

March 28, 2015

Me and Jay met with a handful of mutual friends in N.Y. city in 1990 and had a Sunday Gospel brunch at a midtown manhattan restaurant,to everyones surprise Jay got up and offered to sing a tune with the gospel choir it was a spiritual awakening for Jay. Months later he was back in S.F. putting together his own band. you will be missed

Sally Ka

March 28, 2015

I will forever keep the texts you sent to me only weeks before you passed. I regret my stupid busy work schedule what prevented me being able to accept your invitation to visit. You will forever be in my heart.

Fawn

March 27, 2015

Spent many days and nights at Deluxe back in the day. So sorry to find out that Jay has died. He was a great man.

Stannous Flouride

March 27, 2015

I heard through the Haight St. grapevine last year thatbthat Jay was sick and the next time he came into Roberts Hardware I asked him about it. His answer was stunning and yet inspirational.
"Yeah. I've got stage for lung cancer." He said in an almost blasé tone, and then just went on about his business of fixing something at the bar.
There was an acceptance in his words and actions that spoke volumes about his strength.
He will be missed and well remembered by all who knew him.

Brian Sennikoff

March 27, 2015

A very cool and interesting dude, I liked him so much i let him have one of my dogs. RIP it Jay.

March 27, 2015

A very cool and interesting dude, I liked him so much i let him have one of my dogs. RIP it Jay.

L Simmons

March 27, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lory Spencer

March 27, 2015

Sorry we lost track of each other over the years...you were always kind to me, and your love of animals was touching. Rest easy, old friend. ~Lory

sandy callahan

March 27, 2015

Gone way too soon.

March 27, 2015

It's hard to believe that we will never see you again...

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