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Elaine TOBIN Obituary

TOBIN, Elaine Francis A former resident of Creekside passed away on May 1, 2015 in Sonoma, CA. She was one of three daughters born in Detroit, Michigan on July 18, 1932 to Daniel and Helen Sullivan. Elaine is survived by her loving and devoted husband, Walter Tobin whom she married in 1954 in Detroit, Michigan. In 1973 they moved from the Chicago area to settle in Los Altos, CA. A job transfer to Cincinnati, OH in 1983 took Elaine and Walt from the state they loved. They returned to California in 1990 to retire in Sonoma. As a full-time mother to six children, many of Elaine's volunteer activities revolved around her children's schools and her Catholic faith. In Sonoma she was an active member of St. Francis Solano Parish. Elaine loved bringing friends together for a competitive card game of Bridge, and was an active member of several Bridge clubs. Many people may be unaware that Elaine was a talented artist because her focus and devotion was to her family. Elaine will be deeply missed by her children: Tom (Karen), Peggy (Graham), Maureen (John), Mary Kay (Hal), Sheila (Ken) and Bill (Nicky), as well as by her sixteen grandchildren and ten great-grandchildren. She is survived by her sister, Joan. She is predeceased by her parents, and sister, Mary Ann. There will be a private service for family. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to a charity of your choice.

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Published by Sonoma Index-Tribune from May 5 to May 6, 2015.

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Will Chai

April 29, 2025

I always remember you, Elaine Tobin. Remember the happy hour in Sonoma village, grape yard and taste-good wine.

Tiffany

May 13, 2015

My sincere condolences for your loss. It is always difficult to lose a love one. May you find solace in the wonderful memories shared. And may the God of all comfort give you peace during this most difficult time.(2 Cor.1:2-4)

May 10, 2015

Elaine, a long time and dear friend all the way back to Clarendon Hills Il.. we shared many good times. Love to Walt and the kiddos. Pat O'Donnell

Will Chai

May 5, 2015

Elaine had a happy and quality life,owned a big family and many great family members.She had well balanced the life and interesting. Missed her always.

Eriz McVey

May 5, 2015

I loved being with Elaine. Fun indeed. She had a great sense of humor and hard to beat at Bridge. She will be missed by so many friends as well as her dear family.

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