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Adam Barker

1977 - 2017

Adam Barker obituary, 1977-2017, Mishawaka, IN

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1977

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2017

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Adam Barker Obituary

Adam Barker

Jun. 12, 1977 - Jun. 11, 2017

MISHAWAKA - Adam Ross Barker died one day shy of his 40th birthday on June 11, 2017. He was a uniquely gifted person and led a remarkable life. Born in Bloomington, IN, he moved with his parents to Mishawaka when he was a little more than a month old. He was a delightful infant, sleeping through the night after his ninth day of life. By age three, he resembled having another adult in the house. His bond with his family was incredibly close, maintaining a lifetime of focus on the welfare and happiness of his parents, Ron and Karen Barker, and his little brother Andy - whose first word “Da” was pointedly a reference to Adam.

Adam went to a variety of schools as we pursued what we thought was best for him. The Mishawaka Gifted and Talented program was a critical foundation, built further by three years of Trinity at Greenlawn. He then went to Penn in hopes of pursuing physics, but quickly grew bored. He was accepted at IUSB during his sophomore year in high school and completed over 40 hours of mathematics there while still attending high school. He became a near Olympic-level small-caliber marksman, ranking 33rd in the competition for the 1996 US Olympic shooting team. He dawdled a bit as he began college officially in Bloomington, but then returned to IUSB to cheerfully complete his degree in Computer Science in 1999 under a group of brilliant and dedicated professors.

The rise of his career was meteoric. Beginning with a prestigious internship at Trilogy in Austin, Texas, he quickly moved on to be one of the early software designers at Google. He was Lead Designer for the team that built and launched Gmail. In 2007, he announced to his unpleased father that he wanted to leave Google “because it was just getting too big”. But then, “Don't worry...” he said, “I'm going to a little company called LinkedIn.” There too, he was a Lead Designer. He earned a number of software patents and was awarded honorary “Engineering Jackets” from both Google and LinkedIn. When LinkedIn went public in 2011, Adam immediately left to begin his own company with a friend in Toronto, Canada. While there, he was vividly impressed with the decency and effectiveness of the Canadian National Health Care System, which he desperately wanted extended in some form to America. His company, named EmployTouch, developed a tablet-based employee time clock with software features that simply blew away the antiquated mechanical clocks of the day. The company was acquired by Ultimate Software in Weston, Florida in October 2013 and Adam returned home to Mishawaka to be near his family. He loved Mishawaka, continuing to work from home and flying periodically to Florida to consult and manage a design team for Ultimate. He believed that mentoring people in his profession was one of life's greatest joys.

Adam was full of good cheer, wry humor, kindness, compassion and generosity. It was hardly possible for anyone to mention a need but what he would fulfill it two days later through Amazon. He donated unselfishly to charities, including WVPE Public Radio and Pet Refuge. He loved his cats and treated them with a tenderness that most men would hardly understand.

Adam did have some very serious girlfriends but never, to their disappointment and ours, chose to marry. He had a deep passion for building LEGO models with his mother and brother, and probably set some sort of record as a customer of that company. He was also an extraordinary photographer and chef and was in the process of developing a new passion for woodworking. He loved travel and served as a Google Ambassador to Sweden in 2006. In the last year he had traveled with his parents to Mexico, Italy and around the American West, producing beautiful photographs along the way.

Adam became ill with severe headaches and a variety of illnesses in August last year. His health troubles waxed and waned through the next ten months, but no firm diagnosis ever emerged. Though no cause of death has yet been determined, it appears likely he died of a combination of his medicines and congestive heart failure. Such a tragedy!

Nearly all deaths create deep grief for the remaining family and loved ones, but Adam's loss is one of those that can only be described as “utterly shattering” for those who remain. We hardly know how to go on without his love, humor and perceptive companionship. He leaves bereft his mother, father and brother as well as John Justice and his wife Deb. John, whom we added to our family as a teen, quickly became and always remained like a brother from another mother. Adam also leaves behind aunts and uncles, Kenneth R. and Sarah Evans Barker, and Phil and Barb Yasson, and many cousins. Friends have called from around the world to express condolences. We extend the most heartfelt thanks to all our dear friends and acquaintances who have attempted to console us in our grief.

Adam's remains will be cremated with visitation at Goethals & Wells Funeral Home, 503 W. 3rd Street, Mishawaka, from 4 - 7 pm on Wednesday, June 28, and where a Celebration of Life Service will be held at 11 am on Thursday, June 29. There will be a private burial in Fairview Cemetery at a later date.

We are going to begin a scholarship foundation in Adam's name for promising IUSB computer science students. Donations can be made to Ronald A. Barker to support that yet unnamed effort.

An online guest book is available at www.goethalswells.com.

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Published by South Bend Tribune on Jun. 18, 2017.

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Hugh Janda

June 13, 2024

Forever in our hearts!!

Nancy Jonas

July 1, 2017

Ron--I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. John Scott told me about Adam. I went to school with you at IU. Pam & John Dickenson's are good friends of mine. Prayers for you and your family.

June 29, 2017

Karen and Ron, What a privilege it was to have had such a talented and good-natured student as Adam in my classes. And how lucky he was to have had parents who provided an environment in which he could thrive. I will always remember Adam fondly, and I'm sure the same is true of all his teachers. Please accept my condolences on your loss. Sincerely, Bill Knight

Hossein Hakimzadeh

June 27, 2017

Adam was one of the brightest students I have had the privilege of teaching at IU. I am very saddened by his untimely passing. My deepest condolences to the Barker family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugh Janda

June 24, 2017

It is with the deepest and heartfelt feelings, that we pass on our family condolences to all of you. We are in shock and disbelief of this sad news. We will all cherish Adam's friendship forever. You are in our thoughts and prayers forever.

June 23, 2017

Dear Dr. Barker and family,
I am so saddened by the loss of your son, Adam. In all the years of going to you for my eyes, you always spoke so proudly of your boys. I know he was a fantastic individual and the world has lost one of its treasures.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of sadness.
Sincerely,
Jan Coy

John Babcock

June 22, 2017

Karen and Ron,
Linda and I are so sorry for your loss of Adam.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.

John and Linda Babcock

June 22, 2017

I remember Adam's kindness as his classmate at Trinity. I am praying for your family. Sara Walsh

jim augustine

June 22, 2017

Andrew, so sorry to hear about the passing of your brother...will light candles at the Grotto and my prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time...

Melanie Yasson

June 19, 2017

So sorry for your loss, prayers for you all

Tricia Lewis(IUSB)

June 19, 2017

So, So sorry Karen. May your memories be a source of comfort.

Kathi VanOverberghe

June 19, 2017

I am so saddened to hear of your son's passing...it is such a shock. What a beautiful tribute to his memory. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Susie Jensen

June 19, 2017

I am so saddened to hear of the loss of Adam. My deepest condolences to the family. May the Lord lift you up and give you strength during this difficult time. May the Lord bless you and keep you.

Susie Jensen

Villa Sara

June 18, 2017

I cannot express my grief and loss for Adam adequately in my own words; I fear they would be feeble and weak. Because truly, with rue my heart is laden at the loss of my friend.

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With rue my heart is laden
For golden friends I had,
For many a rose-lipt maiden
And many a lightfoot lad.

By brooks too broad for leaping
The lightfoot boys are laid;
The rose-lipt girls are sleeping
In fields where roses fade.

A.E. Housman,1896

DAVID KRIEGEL

June 18, 2017

Tragedy for the family and the world. What else had Adam left to accomplish? Much more

Jackie Imus

June 18, 2017

So sorry to hear of Adam's passing. My deepest condolences to all of you.

Nancy Flood Taghon

June 18, 2017

I was so sorry to hear about Adam's passing. What an extraordinary life he had.
He was blessed with a wonderful family and you are blessed with a lifetime of wonderful memories.

Larry Patterson

June 17, 2017

I just learned and offer my deepest condolences. From our conversations, I know how devoted you were to him and understand that the loss of a child has no equal.
So sorry!!

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