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Joseph Pacetti Obituary

Joseph E. Pacetti, 83, of Quincy, passed away peacefully at So. Shore Hospital on Aug. 11. A lifelong Quincy resident he was raised in So. Quincy and lived in Hough's Neck for over 49 years. A Korean War Veteran, US Army, Joe worked for the Post Office for over 30 years, delivering mail to his neighbors and in Quincy Center. After retiring in 1985, he opened The Locker Room in Wollaston where he sold and bought sports cards and memorabilia for 15 years. An avid bowler, Joe was a member of several So. Shore leagues and a volunteer umpire for the Hough's Neck Women's Softball League. A true Boston sports fan, he especially loved the Red Sox and Patriots. Joe was happiest at family gatherings at the pool and apple picking with his grandchildren. The beloved husband of the late Marion J. (Nash) Pacetti, Joe was the loving father of Richard Pacetti of Whitman, Stephen F. Pacetti, Michael J. Pacetti, Jo-Anne Pacetti and her husband John Scarcella and Susan Pacetti, all of Quincy; beloved "Pa" of Santina, Ricky and Stephanie; dear brother of Anita Hill of Quincy and Gloria Sproul of Randolph; and is also survived by many nieces and nephews. Visiting hours will be held on Thursday, August 16 from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Dennis Sweeney Funeral Home, 74 Elm St., Quincy Center. Family and friends are invited. On Friday there will be a gathering at the funeral home at 9 a.m. followed by a Funeral Mass at 10 a.m. at St. Joseph's Church 550 Washington St. Quincy. Burial with Military Honors will be at St. Mary's Cemetery, W. Quincy. Donations in Joe's memory may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Pl., Memphis, TN 38105-1905. stjude.org. For directions and online guest book please visit dennissweeneyfuneralhome.com 617-773-2728

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Published by The Patriot Ledger from Aug. 15 to Aug. 16, 2012.

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Francis Moran

August 9, 2019

Dear Friend, Think of you when passing the old homestead. And of Marion also. Rest easy. Peace to your lovely family

The McCann Family

August 17, 2012

Joe was a great guy. He and Marion were wonderful neighbors. Thoughts and prayers to the entire Pacetti family

Kevin Davis

August 17, 2012

I am sorry that I was not able to attend. Your Mom & Dad were special to my Mother & Father. Joe & Marion - Dan & Gloria stood the test of time. I remember so well your Dad delivering the mail in the heat of the summer and at times letting himself in (my parents never locked the house)(he had an open invite to do so) to get a cold glass of water or sit down and have the lunch he had in his bag.

Helen Kelly

August 16, 2012

Sue and Joanne, so sorry for the loss of your Dad. I'll always remember him umpiring our Hustler games.

Keri (Mortimer) Sullivan

August 16, 2012

To The Pacetti Family-

Please accept my sincere condolences in the loss of your Dad.

Maureen Goldie

August 16, 2012

Sue and Mike, I am sorry to hear that you dad passed. I enjoyed bowling with your parents and hearing your dad call strikes, balls, and your OUT at our softball games. You are in my prayers.

Frank Moran

August 15, 2012

I babysat for his kids, watching his family grow. With his recently passed & lovely wife Marion, as much a part of our community as the blue ocean that surrounds it. May he & his bride find peace w/ their neighbors in heaven. Condolences to the family.

August 15, 2012

I will always have fond memories and deep respect for both Joe and Marion. They were true friends of my parents, especially after my Dad passed. They always remembered to include my mom. My mom commented on it often. God Bless you Joe. P. Davis

Dan Boyd

August 15, 2012

God bless you Mr Pacetti !

August 15, 2012

When I was a little kid....mr pacetti was my aunts mailman...plus he lived behind her. We always looked forward to seing him.
I have fond memories of "Joe".....may u rest in peace my friend....

Paula Munroe

August 15, 2012

To the Pacetti family I am sorry for the loss of your father. May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of him. Such a nice man. Paula Matthews Munroe

sandy gagne'

August 15, 2012

To the child of Joe iam truly sorry for the lost of r father. He was the funniest mailman we ever had always joking and smiling. Sandy Gagne'

Barbara

August 15, 2012

Thank you Mr. Pacetti for your service to our country, rest in peace.

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