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Velna Ruth McDuffie Huffstetler

1932 - 2020

BORN

1932

DIED

2020

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Velna Huffstetler Obituary

VELNA RUTH MCDUFFIE HUFFSTETLER Velna Ruth McDuffie Huffstetler, a loving mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully at Trinity Grove on March 19th at the age of 88 years. She was preceded in death by her parents, Jasper and Annie McDuffie, as well as three brothers and five sisters. Velna was wonderfully devoted to her four children Sherry Sansone (Bill) of Wilmington, Bobby Huffstetler (Freida) of Whiteville, Joni Sturdy (David) of Wilmington, and Emily Shipman (Steven) of Wilmington. She was a beloved grandmother to her seven grandchildren Mandy Smith (Chris), Robbie Huffstetler (Rikki), Brooke Tyndall (Stuart), Brooke Wynot (Andy), Clay Huffstetler, Alex Shipman, and Andy Shipman (Sara), as well as her thirteen great-grandchildren Blake and Claire Smith; Reese, Rylee, and Reagan Huffstetler; Cooper, Dawson, Brody, Asher, and Davis Tyndall; Ava Wynot; Brayden Justice-Mintz; and Brantley Shipman. In addition to her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, Velna is also survived by her longtime companion D.C. McKeel of Whiteville, and one sister, Mrs. Hazel Cox (Tommy) of Andrews, NC. Her life was a living example of her favorite Bible verse, Jeremiah 29:11 - " 'For I know the plans I have for you' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'" A special thank you to caregiver Joyce Lennon and the entire staff at Trinity Grove for your loving kindness and caring of our precious Mom, Gram, and Gia. Due to public health concerns, a private graveside service will be held at Carvers Creek United Methodist Church, with Reverend Jimmie Tatum officiating. To honor her memory, in lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Employees Education Fund, Trinity Grove, 631 Junction Creek Drive, Wilmington, NC 28412. Condolences may be shared at www.andrewsmortuary.com

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Published by Wilmington Star-News on Mar. 21, 2020.

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Debra McQueen

March 26, 2020

To the family. My condolences to you
in this difficult time. Praying God will comfort you in your time of sorrow.

Wanda Hayes

March 26, 2020

To all the family...holding you close to my heart as you journey through such grief. I have wonderful memories of time spent in Carvers Creek with each of you and your mom. She was a sweet and beautiful woman.

ANNA RUSS JOHNSON

March 25, 2020

To The Family, Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of all of you at this difficult time. It seems that
we have lost so many in our family over the years and it's never easy to let them go. What helps is looking to
Our Heavenly Father, He is the One that gets us through time and time again and He will be with you through
all our trials and troubles. He gives us the Peace we need in troubled times. My thoughts and prayers are
with you also. Love and Blessings, Anna Russ Johnson

Debra Becker

March 25, 2020

What wonderful God filled woman. My heartfelt sympathy to her family ,she loved you all.

nellie macon

March 22, 2020

We are praying for all of you. Terry and Nellie

March 22, 2020

Our hearts go out to you in the passing of your precious mother. Helen Blinn and daughters , Pam & Mary

Shawn McGreevy

March 22, 2020

Eternal rest grant unto her o lord and perpetual light shine upon her. May her soul and the souls of all the faithfully departed Rest In Peace.

Elaine Porter

March 22, 2020

My most sincere condolences to the three sisters whom I came to know over the past 11 months at Captain's Court. Velna was such a fine lady and I can only imagine the wonderful family times that were had by all the large, loving family in the years past. You girls set such an example of devotion and caring with your daily visits and you brought so many smiles and loving touches to all of us around Velna. I feel privileged to have known you and wish you peace and comfort in your memories of good times with your mother. Sincerely, Elaine Porter

Sally Matthews

March 21, 2020

Emily I am so sorry to here about the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jo Weaver

March 21, 2020

Joni I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your wonderful Mother. Brooke talked about her so much I felt like I knew her.
She's at peace

Joann Grier

March 21, 2020

To my very favorite aunt and also a wonderful friend. I'm so thankful for the wonderful memories of good times together with her and children. Sherry, Bobby, Joanie and Emily you are in my thoughts and prayers. Know we in Gastonia love you! Visit when you can.

Lauren Cole

March 20, 2020

Mike and Lauren Cole wish to extend our deepest sympathies to Velmas family and special friends. We will always remember her as a kind and loving woman.

Laura Smart

March 20, 2020

My sincerest condolences and hugs from afar to all of you! You will be in my thoughts and prayers ind the coming days! Your devotion to Ms. Velna was admired by those of us who cared for her and your smiles and joy that you brought to TG will certainly be missed!

Jack Grier

March 20, 2020

Many fond memories of Aunt Velma! Sweet dear aunt; be remembering you folks during this time!

Wilma Bullard

March 20, 2020

My heart goes out to all you cousins in the loss of your mom. Your days ahead will be filled with loneliness, but just rejoice in the fact that she is no longer on this earth facing pain and discomfort. She is sitting at the feet of Jesus, basking in His glory, with all her loved ones!!! Prayers for you all in the days to come. Love you!

Kate Keenan

March 20, 2020

To Sherry, Bobby, Joni, Emily and family and extended family....we send you our condolences and virtual hugs. Velna always had a smile and there is not a more devoted family support system at Trinity as you ALL. Rick (Mr. Whistles ) and John are going to miss trying to guess which one of you was there helping.!! Your love, energy and faithfulness to Velna was an example to us all. Blessings and may each of you feel God's comforting arms around you. Sincerely, Kate Keenan

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