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Joy Lytle Obituary

Joy Bennett Munsell Lytle Our daughter Joy Bennett Munsell Lytle, was taken from us unexpectedly December 28, 2007. Nicknamed "Jelly Bean" by her grandfather, J.B. moved through this life with a maturity beyond her years and an elegance matched only by the ballet dancers she admired and performed with as a young girl. It took two trips to Texas Women's hospital in Houston for Joy to join us here on earth May 7, 1981, but she quickly made a spiritual connection to it and to nature. The outdoors - the wind, the water, the hills - defined the way she lived and tied her tightly to her family and many friends. She grew up enjoying the shores of Lake Travis with her closest friends, her brothers and sisters. J.B. was always anxious to be in the water, hiking the hills and reaffirming nature as her space. Camping, snow skiing, visiting the Tetons and a family trip to Yellowstone National Park remain special memories. J.B. wore a smile and giggled all of the time, and instinctively saw the best in everyone she met. She will be most remembered as an incredible mother to her children, Jason Kole and Malia Storm. She spent her days with them and was an active member of a mothering program in Leander. Kole and Malia inspired J.B. to continue her studies. She talked often about how she intended to make education a centerpiece of their lives so was studying to become a teacher. We think she would have been a great one. She graduated a semester early from Austin High in 1999 and loved reading, epic stories and history. She began reading the entire library of Dr. Suess and Berenstain Bears to her children from the day they were born and never missed a night with them. J.B. had a family and extended family that will surround her memory forever, including her mother, Diane Bennett, sister Janae, and brothers Sean and Leo, her grandparents Ida Schonberg, Raymond and Jaqueline Bennett, Beulah Munsell and her great grandmother Blanch Bennett, her father Matthew Munsell and his family Cheri Stanton, Erica, Anna and Jennifer Hollingsworth, and her Aunts Uncles and many cousins: Michelle Tanner and her family, Anthony Bennett and his family and Mark and Bethany Munsell and their family. Joy was a force of nature who shared a strong connection with her Dad in the beliefs and ways of the wolf. She howled at the moon with her dogs Patch and Gidget and quietly, instinctively served as a guide for all of those around her. She was an integral member of the pack and will be sorely missed. Joy had an incredible sense of humor and was a lover of music yet an incredibly bad singer. She had beautiful blonde hair and a warm, welcoming presence, yet she never left any doubt about where she stood if the occasion called for it. J.B. loved beautiful works of art and was one herself. The family will receive guests at Laguna Gloria on Wednesday, January 2nd, from 4:30 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. at 3809 West 35th street in Austin. In lieu of flowers, the family would welcome contributions to the Kole and Malia Lytle scholarship fund at Austin Community Foundation, 4315 Guadalupe St. Suite 300 Austin, TX 78705. Beck Funeral Home, (512) 244-3772

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Jan. 1, 2008.

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Michelle Tanner

May 7, 2008

27 Years ago today a free soul was born into this world..you are so sorely missed, Joy. Happy Birthday!

Aunt Shelly

Karen Klecka

February 17, 2008

I have clicked on this Guest Book at least a dozen times and I can't write a word. My mind is flooded with JB memories. Matty's Volente house, Joy was about 9 when I met her. She and I would hang out for hours chatting and swimming. After we had James, She babysat for us, we supported her trip overseas, celebrated high school graduation, watched her get married, rubbed her prego belly and to think we won't ever see her extreme beauty or hear her contagious laughter is heart-breaking. We are so saddened to have lost an angel on earth. Matty, Cheri, the Girls, Diane, Kole and Mylia words are not possible to convey my hurt and sadness. There is a Void in our lives now and forever!
Godspeed Joy............
Mike and Karen Klecka

Dennis & Terry Nadeau

February 7, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jennifer Puryear

February 4, 2008

"I'll lend you for a little time a child of mine," God said.
For you to love - while she lives
And mourn for when she's dead.

It may be six or seven years
Or twenty-two or three,
But will you, till I call him back,
Take care or her for Me?

She'll bring her smiles to gladden you,
And should this stay be brief
You'll have her lovely memories as solace for your grief.

I cannot promise she will stay,
Since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.

I've looked this world over
In search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd
Life's lanes, I have selected you.

Now will you give her all your love,
Nor count the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to call to
Take her back again?"

I fancied that I heard then say,
"Dear Lord, Thy will be done,
For all the joy Thy child shall bring,

The risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter her with tenderness,
We'll love her while we may,
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay.

But should the angels call for her
Much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that come
And try to understand."

Michelle Tanner

January 30, 2008

Joy-Joy,
That was the name that most of your family called you when you were very young. That didn't last long as you grew into a young lady at an early age with your wisdom and beauty and elgance, leading the way. You were graceful, polite and sincere when we were together. Who could not smile if they were in a room with you. I will never forget the first time someone called me Aunt Shelly..it was the day you were born and I ran out and bought a stuffed animal 10 times the size of you.....I will miss hearing you call me Aunt Shelly You are dearly missed in my heart.

Aunt Shelly

John & Jana Grimes

January 30, 2008

Diane,
Jana and I did not know your daughter but we are so sorry for your loss. We know that words can never heal your pain but please know that we will keep you in our prayers. May GOD bless and comfort you as you raise your grandchildren.

Jill

January 30, 2008

Diane, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

The Girls hit NYC Love Ya Joy, Remi

January 30, 2008

"Girls Trip" NYC Luv Ya Joy

January 30, 2008

Gerri Lynne Lacour

January 29, 2008

Joy, Although we did not stay in touch after our parents divorced, I kept up with your life through other family members. You grew up to be such a beautiful woman, who had two beautiful children.

I'm grateful we share the same little sister. (Janae)

Not a day has gone by since you were taken from us, that I haven't thought about you. I pray for your family often.

Love,

Kim Boyd

January 29, 2008

Joy, you have always been a special daughter and sister to us

Gregg Phillips

January 29, 2008

Helen and I extend our most sincere sympathies to you and your family for your loss.

Kamie Harmer

January 29, 2008

Joy I had the pleasure of meeting you. Such a wonderful spirit! I know you will be a guardian angel to those you love. We will all show our love and spirit to your children and to your family.

God Bless You.

Bonni Mundy

January 28, 2008

Matty,

You and your family contiune to be in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.

Bonni

Arlene Besetzny

January 28, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Misty Muniz

January 14, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure no words can express how you must be feeling. I have sent out a link to this college fund to all my friends and I feel that God will move in great ways to make good things happen for these childrens future. I will keep you all in my prayers for the days to come. I did not know them personally, but my friend did and I know how hard it must be to even talk about it, so I leave you with this:
Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live,—John 11:25 God bless you all! Misty

P. Russell

January 9, 2008

My heart aches for your loss. God bless you and those beautiful children. Though I did not know Joy personally, she was a student at the same college I attend. I was horrified to hear the news. May time heal your wounds and strengthen your memories.

Michelle Basa

January 9, 2008

My deepest sympathy to Joy and her entire family. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I was a student at WGU with her in the Teachers College. I
know she would have made a wonderful teacher. God bless her beautiful
children and may they never forget that their mother is always with them and watching over them too.

Catherine Cantieri

January 9, 2008

I was privileged to know Joy, to work with her, to be her friend. She was perfectly named, a source of delight for everyone around her. She should not have been taken from us so soon, but we were lucky to know her. The manatee misses you, Joy.

Tera & Neil Oldenkamp

January 8, 2008

Joy,
When Neil and I first met you, we knew you were special. You always had a charming way and a quick smile. You will be missed by many. We pray for your family and your children. May God hold you in his arms and bless you.

Jill

January 7, 2008

I'm so sorry for the loss of Joy. I think of her often.

Judy Burrell

January 5, 2008

Sending thought and prayers to the entire family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Marcia Cuellar

January 4, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. I corresponded with Joy in studies at WGU. My prayers are with you, may Christ strengthen and sustain you.

Dr. Pamela Parkinson

January 4, 2008

Joy was my student at Western Governors University, Teachers College, and I will miss her. May she grace Heaven with the energy and kindness she displayed here with those of us who loved her.

Kristin

January 3, 2008

I only had the opportunity to meet Joy in person a few times, but she had a awesome bubbly personality and infectious smile. As a part of her "family" here in Iowa - we just want to express our sympathy and love to her family and children! Hold the memories of her close to your heart!

Lisa

January 3, 2008

I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter, mother and sister. I do not know you personally but work with Sam Stone and know that he is a kind person. To know that he and his family is going through so much sorrow hurts my heart. I will keep you all in my prayers and especially pray for Joy's young children.

Chris Bramhall

January 2, 2008

I never had the opportunity to personally meet Joy, we only corresponded through work email. My thoughts and prayers go out for the Munsell family.

Cory Crim

January 2, 2008

I worked with Joy at TippingPoint, we never met. We communicated by email on several occasions and I am grateful I paid attention to her kind words. Our office was closed the week of Christmas, I checked my work email on December 26th and she copied me on an email exchange with a tippingpoint customer on the 26th, I will remember Joy's kind words and personal commitment.

Dale

January 2, 2008

You are a wonderful person and we cherish the time we had with you. You will be dearly missed, but you did leave us with wounderful memories. From myself and all my family, we love you

Dedi Ball

January 2, 2008

Joy,

I know you were a loving mother and I believe you will be with your children watching over them as they grow up to be responsible adults and parents. You will continue to guide them and bless them for the rest of their days.

Rest In Peace Joy

Kathleen Evans

January 2, 2008

It is with great sadness that I sign this guestbook. Matt, Diane, I can only imagine the shock and sorrow you must be feeling. My heart goes out to y'all and the entire family. I remember Joy as a young girl out at Matt's lake house. She was so beautiful and quite precocious. May her light shine on us forever.

Rebecca Paxton

January 2, 2008

Joy,
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I will pray for your children and family. Always know that your spirit will remain with us all.
Rebecca

Michael Gottschall

January 2, 2008

Joy was my first "real" girlfriend. She was the impossible gold standard to which I held every subsequent girl - not just her incomparable, breathtaking beauty, but her humor and honesty (sometimes to a fault!) and ability to make me feel so good and so strong. Years later, I met someone else that made me feel the way Joy did. I proposed to my wife after a only month. I am so thankful to Joy for helping me to recognize and appreciate a wonderful lady when God brought such a blessing (once again) into my life.

I just wish I could tell Joy this.

Yes, she would have been (and was) a wonderful teacher. As wise as she was in her youth when I knew her, I can only imagine what dynamic potential she had to reach many others.

I am so deeply hurt by this loss and I know it can only be the smallest fraction of what the family is feeling. You have every ounce of my heart and tears. I pray (and am sure) her positive impact will resonate in her children's lives (and all those who knew her) as it has in mine.

Vicki Thompson

January 2, 2008

Joy, I will miss you my dear. Thank you for sharing your Mom and "Grama" with me for the short time I knew you. Thank you for your sweet smile and constant giggling!

With love,
Vicki

Kennan Halladay

January 2, 2008

It leaves me with a heavy heart to hear of your passing. My sympathies and prayers to your children and family.

Vonda Samford

January 2, 2008

Joy we all are going to miss you so much. I'm going to miss the conversations we would have and the hiking with the kids. You have touched so many people and we have all grown to be better people because of you. I love you and you will always be in my heart.

Craig Hutchinson

January 2, 2008

Diane, Matt, Sean, Janae, Leo and all the rest of Joy's family, I am at a loss for words. My sorrow for you is endless. I was honored to be able to help in your time of need. Love, Craig

Lecia Ellis

January 2, 2008

Joy "there are no words", this is a profound sadness wedged deep in our hearts we will never forget you. I pray dearly for your children and family, but know they will love you and miss your bright spirit forever.

Ken & Kelly Pearson

January 1, 2008

Diane, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jim Skaggs

January 1, 2008

Joy-
No words can express the pain we all feel for your loss, no amount of tears shed will ever be enough. You touched so many in ways we may never truly know, what we do know is you will never be forgotten. We love you Joy, we will always love you.

Kacy Cochrane

January 1, 2008

Joy,

I am glad I had the chance to know you. I can only wish I had the chance to know you longer. I know we were not close friends but you always shared wise advice when it came to life and I still have some of that with me today.

Thank you for your honesty when no one else was willing to be honest with me last year. I am so sorry for what has happened but I know your drive and spirit will live on in your kids as they grow up.

Kacy & Tyler Hamilton

Amy Robinson

January 1, 2008

Joy, I will always remember having lunch with you everyday for the time that I watched Kole. You will surely be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Your spirit will live strong in your children's lives.

Heather Arroyo

January 1, 2008

Joy-

I didn't know you very well, or for very long. But you struck me as an incredibly warm, funny and outgoing young woman with a very bright future. I wish I could have had the opportunity to get to know you better. God Bless you and your loved ones.

Kari Shelton

January 1, 2008

I miss you Joy. We shared so many special times together. I love you!

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