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Julia Barnes Obituary

Barnes, Julia Terry On Monday, December 24th, 2018, Christmas Eve, Julia Terry Barnes died after a long struggle with a pulmonary illness. She was 83 years old. Julia attended Mary Institute in St. Louis, MO, graduated from Miss Porter's School in Farmington, CT and attended Briarcliff Junior College in Briarcliff Manor, NY. In 1953, she was crowned the Queen of Love and Beauty for that year's Veil Prophet Ball. Over the years, Julia was a supporter of the St. Louis Symphony and the Charless Home. She was involved with the restoration of the historic Richard J. Oglesby Mansion in Decatur, IL, and had an interest in nature conservancy efforts. In 1960, Julia married William Barnes III (deceased) of Decatur, Illinois. She is survived by her son, Charles L. Barnes (Laura), daughter, Julia B. May (Herbert), brother, W.T. Terry, Jr. (Val), sister, Elizabeth Terry, sister-in-law, Gloria Van Norden and her 5 grandchildren, Herbert A. May IV, Julia May, William W. Barnes, Charles L. Barnes, Jr. and Kathryn D. Barnes. The family would also like to express their most sincere gratitude to all Julia's caregivers and especially, Elaine Foster, for her steadfast professionalism and compassion. Julia was interred at a private family service in Elkhart, IL. A memorial service is planned for late Spring/early Summer 2019. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the St. Louis Symphony, Oglesby Mansion, 421 W. William St., Decatur, IL 62522 or the Little Traverse Conservancy, Harbor Springs, Michigan 49740. A SERVICE OF THE LUPTON CHAPEL

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Dec. 30, 2018.

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Julia San Fratello

November 21, 2020

Just wanted to let you know that I was named after your mom. My mother, Celia Marriott (formerly Celia Larson, then Celia Ruder) died in 2015. I am not sure they kept in touch after Farmington as my mom lived a rather wild life, but I know she thought the world of your mom. I wish I had known her.

January 9, 2019

To the family, I am truly sorry for your loss. Julia Barnes was a beautiful person both inside and out and I was blessed to have known her. I will cherish our friendship all the days of my life and I pray that God will continue to bless and strengthen your family during this most difficult time. Mary Jo Copeland (Decatur, IL)

December 30, 2018

To the family, I'm so sorry for the loss of your love one, may the loving support of your family, friends and prayers sustain you through this very difficult time. Isaiah 57:15

December 30, 2018

May the God of all comfort and mercy, grant your family hope, and comfort during this difficult time. Jeremiah 29:11

December 30, 2018

May the God of all comfort and mercy, grant your family hope, and comfort during this difficult time. Jeremiah 29:11

Donna Martin

December 29, 2018

Julia Barnes was a kind and generous person. As one of her caregivers it was a pleasure spending time with her. Donna Martin

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