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Kevin Mullane Obituary

Mullane, Kevin James 21, suddenly on Sun., Nov. 29, 2009. Loving and proud Daddy of Braeden James; dear son of Dan and Kathi Arbini and the late Bryan Mullane (Suzanne Ell); dear grandson of Fritz and the late Norma Hoffman, Joyce and Don Patt, Eugene and the late Rita Arbini and the late James Mullane; dear nephew of Luke and Connie Smith, Diane (the late K.C.) Hoffman, Keith (the late Gail) Hoffman, Deb and Tim McNamee, Mike and Nancy Arbini and Barb and Jim Menner and the late Kenneth Patt; our dear cousin, great-nephew, godson and friend. Services: Funeral at KUTIS SOUTH COUNTY Chapel, 5255 Lemay Ferry Rd. (at Butler Hill), on Thurs., Dec. 3, 9 a.m. Interment St. Matthew Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to a trust fund set up for Braeden James Wehrsten-Mullane at US Bank. Visitation Wed. 3-9 p.m.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Dec. 1, 2009.

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Nancy Willard

December 20, 2009

Kathi and Dan,
I just heard your devastating news.
I hope you can find some peace in knowing that you have been wonderful parents.
Take comfort in God, your memories and each other.

Jila and Steve Napoles

December 15, 2009

Our deepest condolences to my Uncle Don and Aunt Joyce and the rest of Kevin's family and friends. May Kevin's memories keep him close in your hearts...always.

Terri & Joe Balota

December 14, 2009

Kathi and Dan,
We are so deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family have been through to much but will come through this strong with all the love and prayers. Also know part of Kevin lives on in Braeden. We are here for you if you need anything at all.

December 12, 2009

Dan and Kathi,
This is Scott B.'s Mom. I wanted to
send my sympathy on the loss of your precious son. I am so sorry.
Everyone spoke so highly of Kevin.
He was truly a special person.
Sue Johnson

Michele Lesinski

December 10, 2009

Kathi,
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God gives you peace and heals your unimaginable pain.

Valerie Houseman

December 9, 2009

Dan and Kathi,
So very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I pray that your friends, family, and treasured memories you have of him will bring you comfort and strength.

Georgia Druen

December 8, 2009

Dear Kathi and Dan,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your son Kevin. Having been there, I know that you can learn to live with the pain -- as impossible as it seems right now. Hang onto each other and onto that beautiful baby!

Robyn & Lou Hecht

December 6, 2009

Kathi and Dan,
I can't begin to feel your pain. we're so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. I know God has a bigger plan for Kevin. May you find peace and comfort in His arms. Please call me if you need anything at all.

December 6, 2009

Kathi and Dan, and family,
our deepest sympathy, to all.
We are so sad for your loss.
God must have a special job for
Kevin, taking him so young.
We loved him also... as we love you.
Love and many prayers for the ones left behind.

Love,
Judy, Walt and family
Navarre, Fl.

Kevin & Ellen Bristol

December 6, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Kevin and Ben 12/26/94

Amy Markham

December 5, 2009

Kathi, Dan and Family,

When I think of Kevin I think of the happy childhood he and Ben shared; the bond they had almost instantaneously. They both always supported each other and had a 'brother-like' friendship. I wish it would've continued through the years, but they seemed to drift apart and then you and I also didn't see as much of each other and I missed our friendship. PLEASE call me if you need anyhing at all; so SORRY i missed the funeral. I was just SO schocked to hear the news and have been thinking of nothing else since. Hang in there girl and be greatful you have a piece of Kevin in Braedon.

Yvonne Wunderlich

December 4, 2009

Kathi & Dan, I cannot begin to express my sorrow and love for you both. You have given so much Love and time to help Kevin. You both have done everything you possibly could have done. May time , family ,and friends help you through this horrible part of your lives. May all of this have a reason, a purpose....Maybe to save another!!! May Kevin live through Braeden!!!!! I thank God you have each other!!! All my Love, Yvonne & Al

Lauren O

December 4, 2009

Kathi & Dan-
Kevin will always be a part of my life. I have many wonderful memories that I will always keep close to my heart. I am an old friend of Kevin's and he was a great friend. Always brought a smile to everyone's face. We will miss him dearly. Kevin, I know your looking down on us and we all love you soo much. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love ya Kevin!

Fe Rosario Strother

December 4, 2009

Kathi,
I am so sorry for your loss, I will include you and your family in my prayer. God Bless you and your family.

Fe Strother

Gregory and Chad Livingston

December 4, 2009

Dear Kevin, his Family and Friends,

As Kevin's middle school basketball coach and friend, I wanted to express my deepest sympathy's to you for his loss and I'm so sorry for you. I deeply apologize that I could not make his services.

As you know Kevin and Chad were friends in those days, skate boarding (Kevin was awesome), playing basketball, staying over watchin' "the Goonies" eating pizza in the basement.

I will always remember him giving us a laugh! He had a golden heart, no matter who he met he was kind, courteous and always laughing! I have a special place for him in me and I know my son Chad does as well.

One thing I know is Kevin loved his parents and his friends. I'm sure he loved his new family very much.

As his coach I wish I could have been there more when and/or if he needed. As his friend I want his son and family to know that his father was a good hearted boy, man and person. He never hurt a soul!

Love always and God will take care of you!

Tess

December 3, 2009

To Kevin's Family and Friends,
Yesterday and I'm sure today has been extremely tough. Keep the good times rolling in our memories and kept in our hearts. I'm sorry for all who were close to him and will keep you all in my prayers. I hope all will learn from Kevin and know life is precious and worth living so let's make it worth while. Love and Peace Kevin you will be truly missed but never forgotten

Barb Menner

December 3, 2009

Kathi, Dan, & Family,
Nothing anyone can say can convey our sorrow that you all feel.
I wanted to tell you that today when sitting at his service all I could think of was when we used to go to the zoo and visit Dad and ride on the train. Those were such happy times. I remember when we used to go to 6 Flags and get so wet. Jim really hated getting wet.haha My boys loved playing with their "cousin". Remember when we made the T-Shirts for the Dads and Grandpas? Those were such happy times. Life will never be the same; but please comfort yourself in knowing that Kevin had a wonderful childhood and parents, aunts, uncles, and grandparents all who love him.
With Great Sorrow,
Barb

Angie Stuckel Abfall

December 3, 2009

I am so deeply sorry for your loss and do not have words to express my emotions. I have known Kevin since grade school and have many wonderful memories of him and Stephanie hanging out. It seems like yesterday they were sitting in my dining room working on a project for high school. I am so deeply sorry and my family is here for you if you need anything at all.

Karen & Greg Winters

December 3, 2009

Our prayers, love and thoughts to Joyce & Don Patt and their entire family during this tragic time.

Cardinal Hill Cottages, Branson

Katie

December 2, 2009

Your son will be your legacy. Look down and protect him. God Bless You

December 2, 2009

Kathi,

It's been a long time since I've seen you and just heard the sad news. Know that you are In my thoughts and in my prayers. I can't even imagine....you are too sweet to have to go thru this. Sue Kuse

Sue Kuse

December 2, 2009

Dan & Kathi,
You know we love you both and we loved Kevin. We pray that God will heal your hearts and keep your memories. We are so sorry to see you go through this. Just know that we are here for whatever you need.

Love you~ Steve & Val

Josephine & George Van Cleave

December 2, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Bridget Wolff

December 2, 2009

Dear Kathi & Dan,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Please keep strong in your love for each other and how much you love Kevin and Braeden.
Many prayers and thoughts are being sent to you by friends and family to lift you up and give you much needed strength.
I will see you soon!
Love,

Chad Livingston

December 2, 2009

Chad and Greg Livingston would like to show appreciation for a great human being and a great friend of mine... Kevin was like a brother to me, he will be my only friend known to have been in my mothers wedding.... Kevin I will never forget you.. the memories I have and the inside jokes we got will never be forgotton...I hope to see you one day my friend.. until then just keep lookin over us.. RIP Kevin.. We love ya

Candy Hageman

December 2, 2009

The Hageman Family is sending you our sympathy and prayers. Please know you are in our hearts at this difficult time. We look at the time we had Kevin in our lives as a gift we will never forget.

Chris, Candy, Jordan, and Tanner

Nancy J. Natsch

December 1, 2009

To the Family & Friends of Kevin James Mullane,

Kevin had a special and unique spirit. He embraced each of us who knew him in a profound manner and memories of his spirit will forever be in our lives.

Remember every piece of joy and light Kevin brought into the world and into our lives.

God Bless To All - Rest In Peace Kevin!

With Sincere Condolences ,
Nancy J. Natsch

Lynn Bochanitn

December 1, 2009

Kathi & Dan, Beloved Son Those we Love remain with us, for Love itself lives on. Cherished memories never fade, because one loved is gone. Those we Love can never be, more than a thought apart, for as long as there's a memory, they live on in our heart. This is so true as long as you keep the memories he is never far away. I will keep you in my prayers & my heart & you know I will always be there for you Love & Peace

Michelle (Stinebaker) Iannicola

December 1, 2009

I babysat Kevin when he was 9 years old and will never forget what a sweet boy he was. I looked forward to spending time with him after school everyday. We loved to play basketball in the driveway and joke around with each other. He always made me laugh and was like a little brother to me. I have no doubt that he grew up to be a very wonderful young man. Kathi, you were always such a sweet lady to me and I am so happy that you have a grandson that I'm sure reminds you so much of Kevin. I am a mother now too and can't even begin to imagine the pain you are feeling right now. I hope you are able to find peace in the fact that many people love Kevin and are proud to say they knew him. I will pray for your family and never forget the face of that sweet 9 year old boy.

Emily

December 1, 2009

Connie, Friends and family,

Im sorry for your loss, I have known Kevin since middle school, he has always made me smile. I wish you all the best.

Julie and Matt Thompson

December 1, 2009

Kathi and Dan,

Our hearts are saddened to hear of your loss. Know we hold you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Kelly McClard-Messerla

December 1, 2009

I watched you skateboard on my driveway growing up and when highschool came gave you rides to school saw the joy on your face when you said you were having a baby boy, most importantly you were a great friend to my brother and you meant a lot to my family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jeff & Cindy Meyer

December 1, 2009

Kathi & Dan,
Our prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Donna Reiss

December 1, 2009

Dear Kathi and Dan, my mother's and grandmother's heart aches for both of you and your father, Kathi, and the rest of the family. So much sorrow and sadness. I pray and know that God will help you through this, but I also know that the pain will probably never go away completely. How can we help you? We love you,
Donna Reiss & Elaine Bertle

Diane Alonzo

December 1, 2009

Dear Kathi and Dan,

I was deeply saddened to hear of Kevin’s death and want you to know how difficult it is for me to express how very sorry I am for your loss.

I will never forget Kevin’s amazing smile and those big brown eyes that looked up at me every morning as he came into my third grade classroom. Without a doubt, he was always the “bright spot” in my day.

There is no way I can begin to imagine the pain you now feel with losing a child, but I wanted to let you know that my thoughts are with you. No words can express how much a part of your life I know Kevin was, and will always be. You never truly lose the people you love. His memory will be a treasure you will always carry with you. He will be held in your hearts forever.

While there are no words to help ease your pain, please know that you are close in my thoughts and prayers.

Tim Trojahn

December 1, 2009

Kevin losing you has been one of the hardest things i have ever came across. Listening to songs that remind me of you are keeping my spirit up, and keeping a strong faith. Our whole group of friends were the best group of friends. We all miss you soooo much man. Sooo much! We know your in a better place now, hanging out with Bryan. I remember me, you, and your dad would just kick it on the front porch, smoke cigarettes, and listen to Lynard Skynard. Those were the days, and one day we can all do that again. I love you so much.

Paquet Kathi

December 1, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.

Kathi Paquet (Monsanto)

Cody Runyon

December 1, 2009

Kathi and Dan,
When i met Kevin i saw how much of
a beautiful person he is.I will always love him and never forget the days i was blessed with him,it felt like we were the each other backbones.He will never leave my heart.My blessings are with all of you.
Friend Always,
Cody Runyon

Debby Everett and Al Ackermann

December 1, 2009

Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Our hearts go out to all concerned.

Jasmin H

December 1, 2009

To Kevin's family,
I am sorry to hear about your loss, and this is truly a loss to so many. I am an old friend of Kevin. He was such a great person and we shared many laughs. I will never forget the joy Kevin brought to me on a daily at school. I only wish to have him in my presence again, but God had other plans for him and he is now at peace. Your family is in my prayers and I hope that God remains by your side through this very hard time.

Lori & Sam Yancey

December 1, 2009

Dear Kathi and Dan,
Our hearts reach out to you, wishing you strength and courage through this time of deep loss. We pray that through your enduring faith you both will find peace and comfort.

Alvanus Cole

December 1, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Karen (Mulitsch) Dickens

December 1, 2009

Kathi and Dan, along with the entire family,
My heart and words can not come close to expressing my sincere sympathy and love for you at this difficult time..May the Lord embrace you with his love,peace,courage, and strength as you go through this difficult time. Trust and have Faith and He will bring you through...GOD BLESS
With Much Love and Prayers,
Karen (Mulitsch) Dickens

Charlie Hughes

December 1, 2009

Dan and Kathi, You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lauren

December 1, 2009

To Kevins Family & Son,
I can not image what is going through your minds.. but I hope that through this rough time you may find happiness.. And now that a little part of kevin will live on through his son. and always remind him of his father what a wonderful man his father was. Rest his soul. May all of you learn from such a tragic death, and live in honor of Kevin.
Godbless you all!
Lauren

Ruthie & Denny Halbach

December 1, 2009

Kathi & Dan, you have endured so much and I know you feel your strength will not last, but they say God never gives you more than you can handle. Let us know if there is anything at all that we can do for you. We know with all the love and prayers coming your way, you will come through this stronger yet. We love you,

Mary Blanchard

December 1, 2009

Dan and Kathi, we are so sorry for your loss. Please know that we are all thinking of you and your family in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your Monsanto MQC Family

Devonia Fischer

December 1, 2009

Kathi & Dan, My thought and prayers are with your family.

Margi

December 1, 2009

Kathi & Dan,
It is with such a heavy heart that I send my love, prayers, and condolensces. The Hoffman branch of our family has suffered so much heartache and loss within the past 3 months and I pray for peace and strength for all of you. I know it's hard, but hold on really tight to your faith. I lift you in prayers, I love you very much, and if you need anything, please call.
Your cousin

Sue Henson (Berberich)

December 1, 2009

Dan & Kathi, please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of all who love and know you during this difficult time. In time, I pray that you'll find peace.

Amber (Toben) Duggins

December 1, 2009

Kevin will forever be a part of my life. We have many wonderful memories that I will forever keep. I'm sure he was a wonderful father. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. I am so sorry for our great loss.

Beverly Hughes

December 1, 2009

Kathi and Dan,

I know there are no words that can express the sorrow you must feel. Please remember all the wonderful times together and know that Kevin is at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Tammy Wiltse

December 1, 2009

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Jan Gillmann

December 1, 2009

Dan & Kathi,words cannot express the sorrow we feel. We loved Kevin so much. He was a good person, and I know he loved you both. I pray that he's at peace now. We hope you both can find peace now also, you are great parents and did your'e very best for Kevin. You know we are here for you. Love you both, Hal, Jan, Neal & Bret

December 1, 2009

From the moment Kevin entered this world he was a special part of my life.....I will never forget that
Marci

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