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Matthew Schaeffer Obituary

Schaeffer, Matthew Joseph Passed suddenly Friday, October 5, 2018. Beloved son of Mary and Donald Schaeffer; loving brother of Crystal (Ray) Flynn and D.J. (Julia) Schaeffer Jr.; beloved father of Kayla Renee, Miranda Lynn, and Madison Nicole; loving co-parent with Angela Roth, and Papa Cookie of Ava Grace Bonagurio; Dear grandson of Alan and Marian Schaeffer and the late Joseph and Josephine Dalba. Nephew, uncle, cousin, and special love of Chantel Lyle, and friend to many. Special son of Brian (Korie) Zelch. Services: Visitation at KUTIS SOUTH COUNTY CHAPEL, 5255 Lemay Ferry Rd., Saturday, October 13, 11 a.m. until service at 1 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Oct. 10, 2018.

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Patriotic Spirit Spray

Gary Castens

Sent Flowers

October 10, 2018

Rest in peace brother! I will always remember that huge smile!

October 10, 2018

Angie, Kayla, Miranda, Madison, Don, Mary, DJ,& Crystal- my heart and prayers go out to you all during this difficult time. It may have been a long time ago, but we (Matt, Angie, and I) had some great times and I will forever think of Matt and laugh. Angie- please call me if you need anything 314-435-1444. I'm so sad and I can't believe he is gone. Matt will forever be missed by many.

Heather Schroeder (Latas)

October 10, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with Matt's family. Don and Mary, I know you are grieving but hold those memories close to your heart, they will help you heal.
Patti Redel

Memories Cherished 2006

October 10, 2018

Matty - I can't believe you're gone, your leaving us will be a forever rippling impact to family, friends and all those who loved you. I'm going to miss that smile and your qwerky one line zingers and our random chats/texts. The clouds will catch your falls now Mumble. Fly high and full throttle! #138 #MemoriesCherished

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Memorial Events
for Matthew Schaeffer

Oct

13

Visitation

11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.

Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, South County Chapel

5255 Lemay Ferry Road (at Butler Hill), Saint Louis, MO 63129

Oct

13

Service

1:00 p.m.

Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, South County Chapel

5255 Lemay Ferry Road (at Butler Hill), Saint Louis, MO 63129

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Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, South County Chapel

5255 Lemay Ferry Road (at Butler Hill), Saint Louis, MO 63129

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