Search by Name

Search by Name

Anthony Pacheco Obituary

Anthony J. Pacheco, 72, of Shrewsbury, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on Tuesday morning, October 27, 2009.

Anthony is survived by his devoted wife and best friend, Gloria B. (Sturgis) Pacheco, with whom he celebrated fifty years of matrimony on the fourth of October; a son, Michael Pacheco of Northborough; a daughter, Lucinda "Cindy" Benoit and her husband Michael of Holden; six grandchildren, Kyla, Anthony, and Kaitlyn Pacheco and Lindsay, Eric, and Paige Benoit.

Also a sister, Mary Ferraro and her husband Joseph of Worcester; two brothers, Manuel Pacheco, Jr. and his wife Marguerite of Sterling and George Pacheco and his wife Darlene of Shrewsbury; an uncle, Carlo Baldino and an aunt, Caroline DePari both of Worcester; many nieces and nephews, that he loved deeply. He was blessed to have many loving and supportive friends and co-workers over his lifetime.

Anthony was born in Worcester, son of Manuel and Philomena (Baldino) Pacheco. He grew up in Worcester's Shrewsbury Street community where family and friend were made for life. Anthony and his wife have lived in Shrewsbury for forty-seven years. He graduated from Commerce High School, Worcester Junior College, Northeastern University and Raytheon's Advanced Management Training at Harvard University. He served his nation proudly in the National Guard, during the Berlin Crisis.

Mr. Pacheco retired in 1999 as Vice President of Technical Services for Raytheon Service Company, after having worked for over forty years. He and Glo enjoyed ten wonderful years of retirement, vacationing in Aruba and spending winters in Naples, Florida. He enjoyed golfing, dancing, trips to the Mohegan, and traveling around the world. He loved his family and cherished his many friends. Tony was a vibrant man and lived life to the fullest.

He was a life-long member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel - St. Ann Parish, the East Side Improvement Club, the Men's Biscegliese Society, East Post 201 American Legion, Mechanics Hall, and Wachusett Country Club. Tony had a deep passion for New England sports, especially, for the Red Sox and Patriots.

The Pacheco family would like to thank Dr. John Platt for his kindness, compassion, and personal attention given to Anthony during his illness.

The funeral for Anthony will be held Saturday October 31st at 11a.m. in Our Lady of Mount Carmel – St. Ann Church, 24 Mulberry Street, Worcester (Guests, please proceed directly to church). Interment will follow in Mountain View Cemetery, Shrewsbury. Calling hours will be held Friday, October 30, from 4 p.m until 8 p.m at Mercadante Funeral Home and Chapel, 370 Plantation Street, Worcester.

In lieu of flowers, please honor Anthony's memory by making donations to the Anthony J. Pacheco Scholarship Fund at St. Peter-Marian High School, 781 Grove Street, Worcester, MA, 01605.

A LIFE WELL LIVED!

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Oct. 28 to Oct. 29, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Anthony Pacheco

Not sure what to say?





November 5, 2009

Gloria and Family, Be assured that Our Lord had a smile on his face when Tony arrived. He was a special friend because he was a special guy and he made me a better person......God bless you all....to have known and worked with him will always be special for me.
Both you and Tony are in our prayers now and for the long haul. Pat Roddy

Donna Moy-Bruno

November 1, 2009

Gloria and family,
Our love and heartfelt condolences to all of you..we share your grief and sadness in the loss of Tony who was larger than life to so many.
Tony was my first boss at RSC, and I fell in love with him the minute I met him..he reminded me of my dad, tough and demanding with high expectations of those within his organization but gentle and caring at the same time..I cherish the wonderful memories of you and Tony,both of you, deeply loved by our mom & dad, grateful for your attendance at all of our weddings and important family celebrations. Tony, center stage on the dance floor at my wedding,waving the white napkin while dancing to the tarantella, his exuberance drawing smiles from everyone in the room..that's how I will remember Tony. The Moy & Bruno family

Lorenzo and Gerry Grosso

October 31, 2009

Dear Gloria and family -Gerry and I will always have very fond memories of those beautiful sunny afternoons in Aruba filled with laughter and joy. Our sincere condolence and prayers are with you and your beautiful family.

October 31, 2009

Dear Gloria and family -Gerry and I will always have very fond memories of those beautiful sunny afternoons in Aruba filled with laughter and joy. Our sincere condolence and prayers are with you and your beautiful family. Lorenzo and Gerry Grosso and Angela

Joe Carbone

October 30, 2009

I am sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you all. Anthony used to visit me on his trips to California as we shared family and friends. Grace Carbone was married to Frankie Baldino thus we were family. from Mexico bless you all and remember Anthony had a good life and great family.

October 30, 2009

To the Pacheco Family,
Please accept our sincere condolences-
You are in our thoughts and prayers
Ruth Cangello & Susan (Cangello)Stanton

Jimmy & Betty Gallagher

October 29, 2009

Dear George & Family,

We were very sorry to read of the passing of Anthony. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.

October 29, 2009

Gloria and Family,

It is saddening to hear of my friend, Tony's, passing. My memory's are absolutely positive and gleeful!

From a business perspective, we did not always agree but we always (almost) resovled our differences amicably.

I found Tony to be a most caring person. He helped me and supported me, not only professinaly, but also personally.

I just loved the guy !!! (and still do ).

(Glo;
I will always remember the time (tho you may not) when you & Tony & I, bumped into each other at Mohegan, and I had a big coffee stain on my white t-shirt , obtained on the drive down. (My first trip to Mohegan). Neither of you mentioned the stain but, I could hear, and feel,your husband thinking, " Don, you look like a slob !! I believe the only reason he did not use those words was because you were there !!!

God Bless and best wishes to you and your family !!

Don Johnson

Scott and Lucy Record and Family

October 29, 2009

To Gloria, Michael, Cindy, and the entire Pacheco family...I found out this morning when I got off a ship that the Lord had called Anthony to his side. The Record family wish to convey to you our most sincere and heartfelt condolensces at this time. Tony served me my first cup of Kale Soup that his Dad Manny had made; complete with the pig's head in the pot. That image, along with his passion for life and extreme generosity, bonded Tony and I for life. An incredible business man, family man... simply, an incredible man. We were all blessed to have spent time with him...

October 29, 2009

To the entire Pacheco family... our sincere condolences on your loss of Tony...he was an outstanding man and a very kind hearted individual. Gloria, may God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
The Lucente Family

Bill and Marge Benedict

October 29, 2009

George, Darlene and Pacheco family
So sorry to hear of your brother's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless

Blaise & Andy Buduo

October 29, 2009

We send our deepest sympathies at this most difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Morton Brond

October 29, 2009

Dear Gloria and Family,

So very sorry to hear about Tony. He lived a full and enjoyable life.Had the pleasure of knowing him for the 14 years I was at RSC and it was a joy to work with him.

Lorraine and I have very fond memories of the several business trips the staff and wives took over the years.
My sincere condolences on your loss.

Kristin Pacheco

October 29, 2009

Gloria and Michael, My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family during this most difficult time. I will cherish only the fondest of memories that I shared with Tony, for eternity....

Heather Podziewski

October 29, 2009

Gloria, Michael, Cindy & Family, Please accept my deepest condolences. Tony was a wonderful man, full of genorisity to others and a passion for life. He will truly be missed at family gatherings as he was the life of the part. The love you have for one another was always evident when you hit the dance floor. With good reason, my grandparents, Terry & Mike are truly devastated by his loss. Please let us know if you need anything. Love Heather, Shawn, Katie and Jay Podziewski.

October 29, 2009

DEAR GLORIA,GEORGE, MANNY AND MARY MAY I EXTEND MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR YOUR HUSBAND, AND BROTHER TONY. WHAT FOND MEMORIES I HAVE ON SHREWSBURY ST. AND ADAMS ST. SCHOOL. DANCES WE ATTENDED AND OF COURSE EAST PARK. MAY GOD KEEP HIM WARM AND WATCH OVER HIM. A REAL GOOD FRIEND FROM THE NEIGHBORHOOD.

GUS GIUSTINO FT.PIERCE, FLORIDA

Frank DeSantis

October 29, 2009

Gloria and Family:
George and Family:

Our deepest sympathy to the entire family. Anthony was a real gentleman and friend. Mom and Dad always enjoyed his company.

Lucy Frank and Louis DeSantis

Dee Hatch

October 29, 2009

Dear Mrs. Pacheco, Mike, Cindy and Michael.
I am so sorry for your loss. I have many wonderful memories of times spent at your home. There was nothing as beautiful as watching the two of you dance. My prayers and thoughts are with you all!
Dee

Tom Belezarian

October 29, 2009

George & the Pacheco Family:
So sad to hear of Tony's passing. My thoughts are with you. A great guy that will surely be missed.

October 29, 2009

I have thought of Tony daily and of George and Darlene and the rest of the beautiful family. My heart (and that of my husband, Alan I am sure) lies with you all. Much heartfelt sympathy, Lynn Brenner

Ginny MacDonald

October 29, 2009

Dear Gloria, Michael and Cindy

Here I sit in Naples , Fl crying because of the loss of this cousin of mine . He was so much fun to be with ( even if we could disagree about almost anything)The one thing we did agree on was family and how it always was first!He was the shining light in our family , he is admired by all of us .
Gloria , I am so happy that Gary and I got to see him in last couple of weeks . I will always remember his courage when he was so ill and still got dressed in a suit to attend his beloved Aunt Angie's wake and funeral. I said it then and will say it again , noone but Anthony would have done that... It was quite moving.I know that your positive spirit is going to help you through the days to come as it always has. We are so sorry we can not be there , but know we are with you in our thoughts and prayers. We will see you when we return .
God Bless you
Always with Love ....
Ginny and Gary MacDonald

October 29, 2009

Mike, I was saddened to hear of the passing of your father. I know first hand of the void this will leave. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Gerry Shelby

Leonard DiLiddo

October 29, 2009

"Gloria" Just wanted to extend our condolences to you and your family for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers our with you and your famility at this time.
Love Lenny and Donna DiLiddo

Martha Strom

October 29, 2009

Dear Cindy,

So very sorry to hear of your dad's passing. Sending much sympathy, and many prayers.

Martha

October 29, 2009

Dear Gloria, Cindy & Michael,
It was with a heavy heart that I read about the death of your father, and what a terible loss this will make
in your family. God have mercy on his
soul, and may he rest in peace.
I will be praying for him, and I want you to know all my children will
be praying for him. May your Guardian
Angels be ever at your side as you travel down life's path.

Terry & Bill Demalia,

Chuck Kurland

October 28, 2009

Dear Mike, I offer my heart felt condolences for your loss. I know how important your father was to you and can not imagine how much of a void it will leave. Please also extend my thaughts to your family. Sincerely, Chuck & Karen Kurland

Andrew Migliorini

October 28, 2009

Hi Gloria,
I was so sorry to hear about Tony, We had many memories together at Raytheon. Ralph Dolce called to let me know..
I'm living in Las Vegas, and may be in the Boston area by Friday.
I hope to stop by.
Please accept my condolences, Andy Migliorini

Gianfranco Ritacco

October 28, 2009

Dear Gloria and family,

We were so sorry to learn of the passing of Tony. Please except our sincere condolences for your loss. He was a wonderful man and will truly be missed. Love, MaryAnn & Gianfranco Ritacco

October 28, 2009

Gloria and Family,

Graeme and I were saddened to hear of Tony's passing. We fondly remember our shared dinners (and laughter!) at the Calabria Club. May you be sustained by warm and cherished memories and the loving care and comfort of family and friends.

God Bless

Maria Leone and Graeme Sharrock
Chicago, IL

Sandi Mastro

October 28, 2009

Gloria, Cindy, Michael and Family,

We are all so very sorry for your loss.
Tony was a wonderful man and will be truly missed.

You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

With Love,

The Peter Mastrototoro Family

Jeff Green

October 28, 2009

Dear Gloria, Mike, and Cindy,

I want express condolences to you and your extended family with the passing of Tony. I'll remember him as a vital man, strong and determined, rugged, with a confident grin on his face. As a teenager I always felt at home when I came over to your house and Tony would have something funny to say, usually about my lack of ability to dress! He was a competitve person who made his presence know in the business world as an execitive at Raytheon and also as raquetball champ at his club where beat much younger guys for many years. He also probably took more than his fair share of card games "down the club".

So sorry to hear the sad news. He was a great man.

Jeff Green

Showing 1 - 31 of 31 results

Make a Donation
in Anthony Pacheco's name

Memorial Events
for Anthony Pacheco

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Anthony's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Anthony Pacheco's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more