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Anthony Trafecante Obituary
Rutland - Anthony J. Trafecante lll 57, died peacefully Saturday December 10th in the Brigham & Womens Hospital surrounded by his loved ones after a courageous battle with Cancer. He is survived by his wife of 29 years Gina (Sciascia) Trafecante; a son Anthony J. Trafecante IV, and his companion Kristen of Shrewsbury; 3 daughters, Carissa B. Coakley and her husband Timothy; Brianna N. Trafecante and her companion Daniel; and Marlena P. Trafecante, all of Rutland. His two granddaughters that he adored and loved with all his heart, Scarlett and Violett Coakley. A nephew Graziano and niece Cinzia Mungo. "Tony" is also survived by his Brother in Law Graziano Mungo; several aunts, uncles, and cousins. He was predeceased by his sister Tamra Mungo in 2015.
Anthony was born in Worcester, son of the late Anthony J. Jr. and Dolores "Dee Dee" (Davini) Trafecante, and lived in Worcester many years before moving to Rutland. He was a graduate of Burncoat High School. Anthony worked for the Boston Local 6 International Association of Heat and Frost Insulators and Asbestos workers. He attended the Church of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel-St Ann.
Anthony enjoyed cooking, and loved being at his home in Rutland gardening and spending time with his family grilling by his fish pond. He especially loved watching YouTube videos with Scarlett on his lap in "papas chair". Anthony was a wonderful husband, father and grandfather who will be deeply missed by his family and friends.
Anthony's funeral will be held on Friday December 16, 2016 from the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL 370 Plantation St. with a Mass of Christian burial at 10:00AM in the Church of Saint Patrick, 258 Main St. Rutland. Calling hours will be held on Thursday from 4PM to 7PM in the funeral home. Entombment will be in Worcester County Memorial Park, Paxton. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to the Jimmy Fund, at Dana Farber Hospital P.O. Box 849168 Boston, MA. 02284. To leave a message of condolence or share a special memory of Anthony please visit his memorial site at
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Memories and Condolences
for Anthony Trafecante
Jackie and Michael Duval
December 5, 2019
I have very fond memories of "Scruffy" which was a name I liked calling him and he would laugh every time I called him that! He was around a lot as he and my son Michael were good friends. All of his friends called him Truffy so I then made it "Scruffy".
My heart hurt when I read his obituary ! He was a very nice kid! It isn't easy to get over the death of your loved one.
December 21, 2016
To the Trafecante family, What a great tribute to Anthony, watching the video, our D'Errico family grew up across the street from the Trafecante's, we had lots of good times together as young children in the neighborhood. "Death takes the body. God takes the soul. Our mind holds the memories, and our heart keeps the love. Our faith lets us know we will meet again." My deepest condolences,
Diane D'Errico Polli
Anthony Cappabianca
December 18, 2016
To the Trafecante Family,
Shared sorrows. Played baseball with Tony for EastSide. He was a very good player who was always smiling and just did his own thing. Great to see how much he loves his wife, kids, grandkids, family and friends. The video is a wonderful tribute to Tony (Anthony). God Bless! John 3:1-16
Respectfully,
Anthony Cappabianca
David Kroll
December 16, 2016
Rest in Peace brother
December 16, 2016
WE at Waters Corp. will miss you Tony R.I.P.
Summer 2012 with Truffy, Gina, and Brianna.
John Scotti
December 15, 2016
When you are friends with someone for almost 50 years, you have a bond. You don't have to talk with or see each other every day. You can live 1200 miles away. But you pick up right where you left off, as soon as you hear each other's voice, or run into each other unexpectedly, or come "home" for a visit in the summer. You treat your friends' kids like friends and family. You challenge your friend's 8 year old, who you just met, to hit your whiffle ball fastball in the back yard at your 4th of July cookout. And when he does, you celebrate! That's a type of friendship that's everlasting, like family. Gina, I know you know, and I hope you kids know, that Truffy had friends. Lifelong friends. I am proud to say he was my friend. Many others feel the same way, I'm sure. I know a certain "peppernose" from Agate Ave. and a knucklehead from Millbury who will agree with me. Truffy was just naturally a friend to anyone he met, and more so to some. I'll miss him, but I'll forever cherish the memories, and I know you'll do the same. God bless you and keep you. Love you guys! Sincerely,
John "Jase" Scotti
Mike Bennett Local # 4
December 15, 2016
May you Rest In Peace. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Ed Markevicius
December 15, 2016
Rest in Peace my brother. My deepest sympathy to Gina and family. He will never be forgotten.
Love,
Eddie Markevicius
Donna D'Errico
December 15, 2016
To Gina and family, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. And the love of friends carry you through your grief. With all my Love God Bless. Donna D'Errico
Gregg Mc Comiskey
December 15, 2016
Rest In Peace my brother . Prayers to your family, you will be missed by all who knew you.
I worked with Tony on and off for years , was with him on his last day of work. Tony was a great guy who cherished his family more than anything. May the Angels guide you my friend.
Louise Ricciardi
December 14, 2016
Sorry to hear this rip anthony and prayers to your family.
Ron D'Eramo
December 14, 2016
Gina, So sorry for your loss. I remember you two as a great couple. My thoughts and Prayers are with you and all your Family
KIm Lizotte
December 14, 2016
Gina and family, I am so sorry to hear of Anthony's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
December 14, 2016
Giny, Ant, Riss, Beebop & Lana- im so so sorry for your loss! he was lucky to have the best family around!! love you all!
Rest Peacefully Truff!!
-Dizzy Dawn
Richie Vrusho
December 14, 2016
Thank You for your friendship during the disco years. You were always a good friend. My sincere Sympathies to the Trafecante Family.
Richie Vrusho
371 Club
Richie Vrusho
December 14, 2016
Thank You For Your Friendship During the Disco Years You were always a good friend. My Sincere Sympathies to the Trafecante Family
Andrew Giangaspro
December 14, 2016
So sorry for your loss. There wasn't a time that I saw truffy without a smile on his face, he will be missed. Rest in Peace my friend.
Anthony & Debra Maddox
December 14, 2016
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
December 14, 2016
Gina,
I often saw "Truffy" when he was with my son, Michael, at his apartment, or out somewhere,in their younger days. He was the nicest of Michael's friends. Michael and I are so heartbroken for you and your family. Our loving thoughts are with you.
Jackie Duval & Michael Duval
Erik McGowan
December 14, 2016
I am very sorry for your loss. Tony was the first guy I worked with when I moved to MA and started with Local 6. He was always fun to be around and just a great guy. We spent some time working on your home being built while we were supposed to be at the power plant ;) He will be missed.
Julianne DeFeudis
December 14, 2016
Bri, we are very sorry for your loss. Our thought and prayers are with you and your family. Gene and Julie DeFeudis
Nancy DiIorio
December 14, 2016
Marlena, and family, so very sorry that yor Dad ,husband passed. You all are in my prayers
Kimmie Lee
December 13, 2016
Truly sorry for your loss. May Mr Trafecante rest gently
Rich & Marianne Boucher
December 13, 2016
Bumping into Truff every now and then through the years, He was always a pleasant guy to talk to, a class act.
Our sympathies for you Gina and your family.
Lisa and Bob Pascarelli
December 13, 2016
Dear Gina and Family we are so sorry for your loss Thoughts and Prayers to you all
Bob and Lisa Pascarelli
Jesse Anifantis
December 13, 2016
Tony you will be greatly missed. It was a pleasure to work with you over the years. May you rest peacefully .
Paul Barry
December 13, 2016
Gina and children I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of great memories playing sports and handing out with Anthony from harrington Way through North High School. You will always be remembered for that great smile.
Mr.& Mrs. Richard Molinari
December 13, 2016
Dear Gina and Family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Please accept our sincere condolences.Truffy was truly a great guy; his beautiful smile and sparkling eyes would always light up a room. We always had a good time with him and his wonderful family on Coburn Ave. He will sadly be missed but never forgotten.
With warm thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
Rachael Phelan
December 13, 2016
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."-an Irish proverb
I am so deeply saddened for your loss- he was a wonderful, loving and caring man. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you all.
Mike Daboul
December 13, 2016
Gina and family,
I'm sorry for your loss.
December 13, 2016
so very sorry for your loss may he rest in peace my condolences to you and your family! adele giaquinto!
Cheryl Mathis
December 13, 2016
Gina and Family my thoughts and prayers are with you all. The love you and Truffy shared was precious. What a good man and father. Stay strong.
Cheryl Misale
December 13, 2016
Gina, so sorry to hear about Truffy. I know how close he was with my brother Mike. I will keep him in my thoughts and prayers.
Carol Degon
Toni (Therrien) pisani
December 13, 2016
Gina I am so sorry for your loss my prayers are with you and your family
Bruce and Nancy Swett
December 13, 2016
We are so sorry for the loss of our North High Classmate and friend. You are
in our thoughts and prayers.
Bruce and Nancy Swett
December 13, 2016
Gina and family
So sorry to hear about Truff.
Good friends as you know since we were very young.
~Jim Dagle
shelley smith
December 13, 2016
Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Blessings and peace to you and your family
December 13, 2016
My condolences to Gina and family.
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us everyday, unseen, unheard, but always near.
Tina and Russ Simmarano
Toni Marie Ceffalo
December 13, 2016
To the Trafecante family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you during this impossible time.
December 13, 2016
We are so sorry for the loss of a great classmate from North High School. We will always remember the great friend that he was. Our thoughts are with the family.
Bruce and Nancy Swett
Nancy Osbon
December 13, 2016
Gina and family
We are truly saddened by the loss of your beloved husband and father. We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely, The Osborn Family
Mark Skiesto
December 12, 2016
Gina and family I'm so sorry for your loss.
Kathy (Piccinino) Buduo
December 12, 2016
My condolences to the Trafecante family.
I'm so sorry to learn that Truffie has passed away.
He was a great guy I've known since grammar school. Makes those memories even more special now. God Bless!
December 12, 2016
To Gina and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Words cannot convey how sad we are that Truffy passed. Unfortunately we are away and will not be able to attend the services, please accept our apologies and condolences.
Tommie and Lori Simone
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