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Esther Wittner Obituary
Worcester - Esther Wittner, 96, died peacefully on April 23, 2020 with her devoted and loving daughter, Wendy by her side. A native New Yorker, Esther grew up in Brooklyn, the youngest of five children. After marrying her loving husband, Esther followed Milt throughout the country while he was in the Army until they settled down in Elmont, Long Island. There they raised their son and daughter. Esther was a pre-school teacher until they left NY and traveled to San Diego in 1977. It was there that she pursued her love of teaching and began to work as a teacher and later as a Director of a Head Start Program. Esther and Milt remained in San Diego for 22 years with Milt sailing while Esther read the NY Times and studied for her BA Degree from The University of California at San Bernadino. In 1980, Esther proudly graduated at the age of 57. She was a lover of knowledge and a true lifelong learner.
In 1998 Esther and Milt packed up and moved to West Palm Beach to help out Esther's favorite sister, Adele, and Milt's brother. They enjoyed life in Florida until Nov. 2007 when Milt passed and Esther packed up once again and moved to MA with Wendy. Esther loved people and chose to move to Eisenberg Assisted Living in her quest for friends and the next new chapter in her "book". She lived there happily for over 12 years.
More than anything, Esther loved to be with her family. She was the favorite Aunt for most of her nieces and nephews and was often the life of the party at family gatherings of all kinds. She always had a smile on her face and a compliment to offer, so that you would smile too. She was a joyful, down to earth person, full of mischief and a passion for life.
Esther leaves her daughter, Wendy, and her husband, Robert Perrone, and their son, Jeffrey, and his fiance Daralene Cotto, and Brett, and his fiance Olivia Gilson. She also leaves the sparkles of her life, her great grandsons, Vincent and Lorenzo, as well as nieces and nephews.
A Celebration of Life will be at a future date. The MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St is honored to assist the family with arrangements
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David Kagen
May 10, 2020
Esther was a large part of my life growing up in NY and while living in Southern California. Her humor was always on point and her unconditional love meant the world to me. I'm grateful for the many fond memories I have of her during our time spent together together in NY, FL, CA, and MA. She was always the life the party and deservedly so. She was loved by many. May she rest in peace.
Elizabeth Battisti
May 10, 2020
Wendy, you know my heart goes out to you and your family. I know how much you will miss her, not only as your mom but best friend. She was a women ahead of her times and always a joy to be with. She always shared great life advice when we were kids, if only we knew then! Just know I am thinking of you as you go through the next few difficult weeks! I know Milt is waiting for her and they will go through the next adventure together again, at last!
Janice Harvey
May 10, 2020
There are people who come and go through our lives, who we stretch and strain to remember- not so with Esther. When you met her, you remembered her sincere curiosity about you; you recalled her humor and her warmth forever. She inspired those around her to be better, to do better, to treat one another with respect and compassion. She will be sorely missed by a world in need of people like Esther Wittner.❤
Darlene Seaton
May 10, 2020
Dear Wendy,
I was so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing.
Esther was a shining star of the Keepsake Floor.
She was beautiful, always dressed to the nines
(she told me, many a time, that she never wore pants) and very witty. I really enjoyed bantering with her and both of us laughing.
I know, all too well, what a tremendous loss this is for you and your family. I do hope you'll always take comfort in knowing that you were a loving, caring daughter to your Mom right to the very end.
With love,
Darlene (Paul and Lucille's daughter)
Roseann Boffa
May 10, 2020
Farewell Esther, you were part of my wonderful childhood growing up a block away, never a dull moment. Thank you for being one of my neighbors who kept an eye on all the kids in the neighborhood embodying "it takes a village". Rest in peace and know you are loved.
Vivian Peluso
May 10, 2020
Esther was so loved. It was an honor and a joy to be part of her family for over 40 years. We love her and will miss her.
Betty Benoit
May 10, 2020
Esther was always a joy to be around. She was always smiling, had a joke or a comeback in a funny but nice way. Happy to have met and call her "Friend". May you rest in peace. I'm sure you are keeping the Angel's in stitches.
Denise Sosnoff
May 10, 2020
I was so sorry to hear that Esther had passed away. My mother (Doris Gass) enjoyed spending time with her: playing RummyCube was a favorite! I, too, enjoyed talking with her, hearing about her pride & joy, her family! Seeing you at Eisenberg often and the annual events showed how fond all of you were of her...she was the queen of the family! My thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time.
Rhoda Needleman
May 9, 2020
Your Mom befriended my mother (Dorothy Swartz) when she moved into the Eisenberg. My mom so enjoyed her company. It was a pleasure to get to know your Mom. She had a wonderful personality and a great dense of humor. May the wonderful memories you have help comfort you at this time.
donna tozeski
May 8, 2020
Wendy Bob and family so sorry for your loss
May 8, 2020
DYNAMITE LADY!!! Loved, admired and respected by all who met her. Always made you feel good by acknowledging your positive qualities and bringing out the best in you. Very bright but very humble. She loved learning and valued books. She had a large collection of children's books. If she gave you one, you were honored. Esther was one-of-a-kind. Her style was unique from her beret to her Ugg boots. She has enriched and influenced so many lives and they were blessed to have known her. She will be sorely missed but her impact on people will never be forgotten. I love you Aunt Esther! Barbara Smith
May 8, 2020
Wendy,Bobby,and family ,sorry for your loss. Ester was an amazing strong woman and certainly a warm person with an infectious smile. Always enjoyed being in her presence. My sincere wishes for peace. Jean and Fan Turcotte
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