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John Cox

1949 - 2021

John Cox obituary, 1949-2021, Worceser, MA

BORN

1949

DIED

2021

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Miles Funeral Home - Holden

1158 Main St

Holden, Massachusetts

John Cox Obituary

John C. Cox, 71

Worceser - John C. Cox, 71, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on Sunday, May 2, 2021 after a battle with Melanoma. He was born in Portsmouth, NH, the son of John J. and Virginia L. (Whitten) Cox and lived in Worcester for most of his life.

He leaves his loving wife of 45 years, Caro B. (Curtis) Cox; six children, Terry O'Malley and her husband, Brian of Spencer, John Turner, Jr. and his wife, Cheryl of Spencer, Cheryl Hull and her husband, Brian of Dudley, Mark Turner and his wife, Mary-Beth of Shrewsbury, Jessica Cox Valade and her husband, Troy of Worcester, and Monica Charest and her husband, Jason of Holden; his sisters, Deborah Cox of Sutton, Mary Coomey of Sandwich, and Catherine Santee of Onset; twelve grandchildren, John III, Maegan, Kayla, Brian Jr., Devin, Ryan, Cameron, Tanyon, Brooke, Ava, Andrew and Adrien; four great-grandchildren, Nathan, Adelyn, Logan and John IV; and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his son, Matthew Cox and his brother, Philip Cox.

John proudly served his country in the U.S. Coast Guard for 20 years, retiring with the rank of RM1 in 1988. After earning a Bachelor's Degree from Worcester State University, he continued his career working for the Social Security Administration as a claims representative for 22 years before retiring in 2012. John spent his retirement years helping to care for his younger grandchildren, traveling with his best friend Caro, and spending time at their summer home in Wells, Maine.

John was proud of his Masonic affiliations and was Past Master of The Athelstan Lodge in Worcester. He was a current member of the Boylston Lodge in West Boylston and was the Presiding Commander of the Worcester County Commandry. He belonged to the York Rite Bodies of Worcester and was Past Grand King of the Grand Royal Arch Chapter of Massachusetts. John was also a member of St. Michael's on the Heights Episcopal Church in Worcester, the Harold N. Keith American Legion Post 204 in West Boylston and the American Federation of Government Employees. He was a history enthusiast and an avid reader with an encyclopedic knowledge of many things. John was devoted to his family and cherished time spent together with his loved ones.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend calling hours from 4 to 7 p.m. on Friday, May 7th in the Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main Street, Holden. Due to Covid-19 restrictions and for everyone's safety, appropriate social distancing and wearing of a mask will be required. A private memorial service and burial will be held at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Michaels on the Heights Episcopal Church, 340 Burncoat St. Worcester, MA 01606. To share a memory or offer an online condolence, please visit

www.milesfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from May 4 to May 5, 2021.

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Steve hall. ( kathy hall 1955-2020)

April 28, 2025

Kathy always liked john

Terry L Cox

April 29, 2024

Dad, when you were here I was in a wheelchair and was told I would never walk again. 6 years later, I went to Boston, had the 7th total knee reconstruction with total knee replacement, and with Gods mercy and grace, i am now beginning to walk again with a walker. I know your watching me Dad, get stronger every day. And you would love to know how very happy I am now. Brian is a very good husband to me. In your memory this year, I plan to donate for them to play Taps in your memory at the Memorial Day Veterans Rememberance Ceremony in DC! I Love you and always will!

Terry Cox

April 28, 2023

Was thinking of you today, Father. I thought of the day you took me to see the Christmas movie, A Christmas Story, and how that little boy made me think of you as a young boy growing up in the 50s. I Love You and Miss You. I do think on you often.

Richard ,Blaine

June 5, 2021

Omg....Good friends at C.G.Woods Hole....I will miss you my friend....

John and Toni Stacey

May 7, 2021

Dear Caro, Deborah, Mary, Catherine, and Extended Cox Family,

We are saddened to hear of John´s passing. He was a True Gentleman with a quick wit and always had a knowledgeable insight on any given subject.

Prayers of Comfort and Strength to all of you at this difficult time.

Marjorie Tucker

May 7, 2021

My friend will be greatly missed.

Theresa O'Brien

May 5, 2021

Jim and I are so sorry to hear of John's passing. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Mary Collins

May 5, 2021

Worked with john for many years at ssa my prayers are with his family at this time

Mary LeBlanc

May 5, 2021

I will always remember my days with John at social security. He was such a pleasure to work with. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. Mary & Ted

Terry Cox

May 5, 2021

Goodbye Father
I Love You
I will miss you

Steve hall

May 5, 2021

John and my wife kathy hall were best friends and worked together a long time at social security in worcester. I am very sorry to hear of his passing. My deepest sympathy to your family

Tom kennen

May 4, 2021

My condolences to the entire family. I only spoke with John a couple of times,but he was great to talk too. Very educated.

Stephen and Nancy Smith

May 4, 2021

Our sincere sympathy and condolence to Caro and the Cox family at John's passing.

Kristen & Jim clark

May 4, 2021

Cheryl and family ,
We are so sorry for your loss. May your memories bring some peace

Maegan Anderson

May 4, 2021

You will be deeply missed! I will personally miss all of your words of wisdom and no matter what was going on you always took time to ask how I was doing. We love you!

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