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John Paire Obituary
CHARLTON - John D. Paire, age 40 died tragically Friday, September 15, 2017 when his bicycle was struck by an automobile on Rt. 20 in Charlton. John was born on January 28, 1977 in Worcester, MA. He is the son of David J. Paire and Janice L. (Lavoie) Szlyk.
John is survived by his wife of 8 years, Renee (Gaylord) Paire, one daughter, Millie and two sons, Lucas and Keegan. His father, David J. Paire and his wife, Lois of Dudley. His mother, Janice L. (Lavoie) Szlyk and her husband, Edward of Lighthouse Point, Fl.; his sister, Jessica Paire of Barrington, RI; his nephews, Michael, Noah and Jack and a niece, Emerson. In addition to his family, he leaves behind his mother-in-law, Cheryl Gaylord, father-in-law, Paul Gaylord, sister-in-law, Tracy Bouffard and brother-in-law, Derek Gaylord. He will also be missed by aunts, uncles, cousins, countless friends, colleagues and students, past and present.
He was a dedicated educator in his tenth year with Dudley-Charlton Regional School District. He was the former principal at Dudley Middle School recently leaving to return to the classroom to spend more time with his family. Prior to his tenure in Dudley, John was a member of the Bartlett High School and Burgess School communities where he was an enthusiastic teacher, coach and administrator. John is a graduate of Shepherd Hill Regional High School and Seton Hall University, New Jersey where he was a proud brother in the Phi Kappa Theta Fraternity. He later received a Master's Degree in Education from Lesley University in Boston. John enjoyed watching and talking about the Red Sox, Celtics, and Patriots, but his favorite teams to support were Lucas, Millie and Keegan's baseball/softball and soccer teams. He enjoyed being with friends and listening to the radio, be it sports-talk radio or the music of Phish, Grateful Dead and MOE.
Above anything and everything, John loved being a husband and father. His favorite job was being Dad. He looked forward to each and every moment spent with Renee and his children. Spending time on the lake with his family, traveling to Florida, a recent hiking adventure with his dad, and coaching his children's teams made John truly happy.
A memorial service will be held 10:00 am on Saturday, September 23 at Shepherd Hill Regional High School, 68 Dudley-Oxford Rd., Dudley, MA with Rev. John White officiating. Burial will be privately held at a later date.
Memorial calling hours will be Friday, September 22 from 4-8 pm at Bartel Funeral Home and Chapel, 33 Schofield Avenue, Dudley, MA. In lieu of flowers donations to can be made to the John Paire Student Support Fund (c/o the Dudley-Charlton Regional School District, 68 Dudley-Oxford Rd. Dudley, MA 01571). This fund has been established in John's memory to help all Dudley-Charlton children have access to an enriched, well-rounded educational experience regardless of their socioeconomic status.
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September 25, 2017
Just heard this news today. He was such a wonderful man. I had a couple children go thru the school system and they spoke of him often. I even got the chance to meet him at one of the school events. He cared about everybody. So Sad. RIP Mr. Paire. God needed more angels.....
Maria Gurriere
September 24, 2017
My condolences! John was the VP at Dudley Middle for my 6, 7, and 8th grade years. He will be missed.
September 23, 2017
Mr. Paire,
Thank you for all you did for our family and for being such a positive role model for all your students and community. Our deepest condolences to the Paire family.
God bless,
The Rollins family
Landry
September 22, 2017
John,
What a smile...you lit up the world! It was an honor to witness it. I am so very sorry. We will see that smile in the stars
Bob,Sally,Laura,Michelle&Stefanie Paquin
September 22, 2017
Renee ,we are sorry for your loss , our thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family . Hugs and prayers
September 22, 2017
Dear paire family,I didn't know mr.paire personally, however I offer my sincere condolences to you all. I pray that the God of all comfort will help you to deal with this great loss. (1thessalonian I : 1-3 )
The Marengo's
September 22, 2017
Renee, Millie, Lucas and Keegan,
There are no words to describe our grief for you. John was an amazing man who care for each life that came in his path. His kindness and passion were infectious to everyone. How blessed we all were to have him touch our life. We lift you and the entire family up in prayer and our arms embrace you in love. Our deepest sympathy
Peter Ahr, Ph.D.
September 21, 2017
As faculty adviser to John's fraternity, Phi Kappa Theta at Seton Hall, I remember John as an outstanding brother. I've heard from many of his brothers in the past few days; we all regret his passing. He did more in his short life than many of us can hope to do in more. May he rest now in peace, and may his family treasure the memory of a truly great man.
MJ
September 21, 2017
Sincere condolences to the family.
May God sustain you at this time
Please find comfort from his word
Where he promises he will
"comfort your heart
and make you firm"
during this time of great loss.
2 Thessalonians 2:16,17
With deep sympathy
Margaret Caresquero
September 21, 2017
To the Paire family,may you have peace and comfort at this time of need. Just want too leave a bible gem at this time and it is taken from Isaiah check 25 verse 8 which shows that God will swallow up death forever and he will wipe all tears from our faces. And the envelopment that cover us which is death,God will remove forever. What a wonderful time to look forward to, very shortly we will be able to be reunited with our dear love ones again.
September 21, 2017
My condolences to the family. May the God of comfort strengthen you during this difficult time.
Dianne Dubsky
September 21, 2017
I knew John first as a jr. high student at SHRHS. Years later we crossed paths at DMS, but now John was my "Boss". When we weren't talking business, John was proudly sharing family stories. R.I.P.
Prayers for you and your family.
Dianne Dubsky
David & Aimee Vitkus
September 20, 2017
Dear Renee and Family, so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
pat wade
September 20, 2017
Why does it seem that the kind, generous, loving, and caring individuals are taken from family and friends too soon? Memories are Forever, A Friend♥♥♥
Sandra Vezins
September 20, 2017
Wishing you Peace to bring comfort and courage to face the days ahead and Loving Memories
to forever hold in your heart. Sending our sincere condolences to All who knew and loved Mr. Paire. The Vezina Family
Sue Spahl
September 20, 2017
Mr. Paire was a true champion for the kids. We can not imagine a greater loss to the DC school community. My boys were blessed to have known him, and he has a special place in our hearts forever.
September 20, 2017
Renee, My deepest sympathy to you, Lucas, Millie, and Keegan during this difficult time. John certainly made an impact on everyone who knew him and may that bring you comfort and peace as you try and find the strength to get through the days ahead. May the memories of John fill your mind, warm your heart and lead you through. My sincere condolences.
Mrs. Esposito, DMS Secretary
Diane Savage
September 20, 2017
Thinking of you Miss Renee and your family, Tom and Diane Savage
Jill and Caleb Moody
September 20, 2017
We will miss you Johnny Paire.... so many fond memories from high school to look back on and cherish. You will live on through your 3 beautiful children. Renee- we are thinking of you and are here for you. All our love and prayers and warm thoughts....
Becky Miglionico
September 20, 2017
Renee, Lucas. Keegan, and Millie certainly have
an extraordinary angel watching over them. John's heartwarming and proud stories of his family demonstrated his undying love for them all.
He will forever live in all of our hearts.
Lynn Neith
September 20, 2017
So sorry for your loss. The community has lost a great educator and friend.
Eddie & Carline LaPlante
September 20, 2017
Our condolences to John's entire family, there is no greater loss that a husband, father, son and a great guy who did so much for his community. Hopefully, the many great memories you have shared will bring comfort in the coming days.
September 20, 2017
Dear Renee, Lucas, Millie, and Keegan,
I am so deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. He was indeed an exceptional educator and a truly wonderful man. I am deeply honored and blessed to have known John and I remain comforted that his legacy lives on in the hearts and minds of all who have known and benefited from his kindness, sincerity and compassion.
It is my hope that the love of family and friends will comfort and strengthen you in the days ahead. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sean & Sarah Gilrein
Brenda Roy
September 20, 2017
So sorry ,all I heard was good things about Mrs Pairs. Was a great menMy thought and prays are with the family
September 20, 2017
Renee, kids, and family,
There are not words to express how truly devastated I am for your loss.
Prayers that time may ease your suffering.
"Like the morning sun you come, and like the wind you go"
Elizabeth Arslen
September 20, 2017
My heart and prayers go out to everyone who knew him and to his whole family. :( A life taken to soon but an angel now looking down for all who loved him. I heard of this story didn't know him but feel for all of you that did. He sounded like a remarkable human being that loved his family dearly. May he Rip.Praying for you all .
JoAnn Bond
September 20, 2017
Dave Paire and the extended Paire family,
Our heartfelt sympathies to all. He we truly be missed. He was a great teacher, coach and mentor. God Bless you all during this difficult time.
All Our Love,
The Bond Family,
Glen, JoAnn, Jesse and Lindsay
Paul, Helena, and Sean McCarthy
September 20, 2017
Renee, please know we send our prayers and strength to you and all of John's extended families, coworkers, and students.
Tracy Christensen
September 19, 2017
We will always be grateful for the example Mr. Paire always set for everyone. Even on his most trying days he always had a smile. Thank you for being there for Michael and Jacob, Mr. Paire. They knew you cared. Our prayers are with Renee, the children and the family for peace and comfort.
Linda Collins
September 19, 2017
The first time I met Mr. Paire was when he came into the kitchen at CMS the first day of school and introduced himself to all of us lunch ladies. He had a big smile on his face and I just knew in my heart he was a good, kind soul. My deepest condolences to all his family and friends.
Kristin Doyle
September 19, 2017
Mr. Paire,
Thank you for all your time dedicated to our children at DMS, it was always appreciated. You will truly be missed. To the family, we are so sorry for your loss.
Mindy Shaughnessy
September 19, 2017
Mr. Paire had a huge impact on my son while he was a student at Dudley middle school. My son knew that if he ever needed ANYTHING that he could go to Mr. Paire. What a wonderful feeling for a child of his age to have a sholder to lean on during some tough times as a pre-teen. I will be forever grateful for the support from this amazing man!
Rick LaCross
September 19, 2017
Dave, my condolences to you and your family in this difficult time.
Melissa and Randi
September 19, 2017
Renee, we don't know each other but my daughter knew Mr Paire from school and she just like so many will miss him and wants to send prayers to you and the children. Her heart aches for your family during these difficult times....we are terribly sorry for your loss
Deb D.
September 19, 2017
Many, many prayers of comfort and peace for John's family and friends. He will not be forgotten, nor will you.
Father Paul Holmes
September 19, 2017
As John's fraternity chaplain, in Phi Kappa Theta, I can attest to the fact that all his brothers are hard hit by John's passing. We all loved John very much here at Seton Hall. And we will miss him terribly. We send our deepest sympathies to John's family. May the Lord keep John close to His sacred heart!
Pat Seagrave
September 19, 2017
Renee, Lucas, Millie, and Keegan,
Please know that John (your Dad) was your biggest champion! My favorite memories of him--- are of him relating stories of what you all did! He was SUCH a PROUD DAD and he loved you more than you could know!!! Pat Seagrave
Kate Smith
September 19, 2017
Education changes the world, and John was an exceptional educator. His life, though short, has influenced and changed thousands of people. John is not gone, he is a part of us. He will live on, forever, in all of our hearts. Renee, Lucas, Millie, and Keegan, my heart weeps for you. Your husband/dad was truly a special man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Robin Gibbons
September 19, 2017
Our loss is Heaven's gain. John was the best. Truly a person who always made everyone around him feel good about themselves, ready with a smile and kind, encouraging words. Renee, Lucas, Keegan, and Millie, my heart breaks for your loss. It was obvious how much he loved you all, as you were his favorite topic of conversation. May your husband and dad, my colleague and friend, Rest In Peace. He will truly be missed.
September 19, 2017
I don't have words to describe the sadness felt for the community and family who have lost such a man but please know I am sending you strength you need to get through the coming days.
May we all cycle on,
Oz
Meg and Carrigan Linde
September 19, 2017
Renee, Lucas, Millie, Keegan and the rest of John's family,
No words can express how deeply sorry we are for your loss.
Carrigan still talks about how awesome he was when he came to talk to the class last year and still uses the pencil he gave the kids. I only interacted with John a handful of times but could tell you were his world.
Our deepest condolence and please know we're there if you need it.
Pam Maynard
September 19, 2017
Dave, I am so sorry to hear of this tragedy. My deepest sympathy to you and family . Pam Maynard
Sherri Hoffman
September 19, 2017
Renee, Lucas, Millie and Keegan,
My deepest condolences. John spoke of you all daily and loved you very much.
September 19, 2017
I didn't know John but I am an educator and I want to offer my condolences to his family and students. An educator such as John seems to be one in a million. Please know his legacy will live on in us as educators and as mothers and fathers.
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