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John Trainor Obituary
Worcester - John Francis Trainor, 58, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 10, 2019 at the Rose Monahan Hospice Home after a courageous battle with cancer.
John was born in Worcester, son of Francis J. and Mary Jane (Grady) Trainor and graduated from St. Peter-Marian CCHS. He then graduated from New England School of Accounting and Worcester State College. John worked for the City of Worcester for many years, most recently in the Worcester Public School system as a facilitator. He had a strong Catholic faith and was a longtime member at St. John's Church. John was very proud of his Irish heritage and created many wonderful memories on his trips to Ireland with his family. He was known as a "people person", always there to advocate or support the less fortunate and socially challenged; a quality found not only in his professional life but also his personal life.
John enjoyed traveling, especially trips to warmer climates with Alicia, spending time at the house on the Cape, and he cherished spending time with his family at gatherings, holidays or simply watching the Patriots games. Six months ago, John became a grandfather to Owen Patrick, a role that brought many hours of laughter, smiles and great joy to him.
John will be dearly missed by his best friend and wife of 35 years, Alicia M. (Makowiecki) Trainor, two children, Eric J. Trainor and his wife Ashley of Worcester and Laura Jayne Trainor of Bennington, VT and his beautiful grandson, Owen Patrick Trainor. John also leaves his father, Francis J. Trainor, two brothers, James M. Trainor and his wife Pamela and Brian J. Trainor and Lisa and a sister, Sharon A. Zenevitch and her husband Mark, all of Worcester, several nephews and nieces and his two trusted yellow lab companions, Indy and Edward.
Visiting hours to celebrate John's life are Friday, December 13th from 4 until 8 pm at Callahan, Fay & Caswell Funeral Home, 61 Myrtle Street. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 am on Saturday, December 14th at St. John's Church, 40 Temple Street. Burial will follow at St. John's Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations in John's memory may be made to the Pan Mass Challenge, 77 4th Avenue, Needham, MA 02494 or by visiting donate.pmc.org
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Caroline Burke
December 16, 2019
Our sincere sympathies for your loss. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Lots of love from Paddy, Bridget, Caroline and Ann Burke, Co.Mayo
Kathy McKee
December 15, 2019
My thoughts and prayers are with John's family during this very sad time. I worked with John at the Worcester Adult Learning Center for many years. Anytime I would stop by his office he would stop work and would genuinely ask about my family and me.Our visits were short, work to be done, but leaving his office I always felt genuinely cared about. I know your memories of John will help with this loss. You are in my prayers.
Sincerely, Kathy McKee
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Joe & Kathy Sharry
December 14, 2019
God Bless
Ed Burke
December 14, 2019
Sharon,
My deepest sympathy to you, John's wife, children and your entire family. John and I had many a great time in high school. I saw him a few times after graduation and he always had the biggest laugh and the best sense of humor in the room.... I will keep you all in my prayers.
Ed
18 years of happy memories!
James Harriman
December 13, 2019
We would like to send our deepest condolences to Alicia, Laura and Eric. We miss all of you coming down to the Cape, when you were visiting. It doesn't feel the same without you being across the street during the summer, and at various times during the year! Alicia, stay strong, you married a good man and he will be missed! God Bless and we wish you the best in this difficult time! Please don't hesitate to come down and say Hi! Sorry for your loss, you were the best neighbors! Love you all, Jim, Deb, Nick and Casey!
Kate Toomey
December 12, 2019
Please accept my deepest sympathy and prayers on the loss of John. John Trainor was a Gentleman In so many ways. He possessed a kind and caring soul that epitomized the faith he was raised in. John was an observer and participant in politics, and if he was your friend, he was most loyal. The world has lost a great human being and we are all poorer for it.
deborah desto-kozlowski
December 12, 2019
My prayers and sympathy go out to the family at this difficult time. What I knew of John, he was a lovely man. Deborah Desto-Kozlowski
Betty Hanlon
December 12, 2019
My prayers are with the entire Trainor familyGrief never ends, but it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of Faith. It is the presence of Love.
sue spear
December 12, 2019
My thoughts are with you an the family. What a legacy he has left behind, such a kind an loving person. I pray for you through this difficult time.
sue spear
December 12, 2019
Alicia, So sorry for your loss. I pray that your cherished memories with John bring you some peace and comfort at this difficult time. Please take care. My heartfelt sympathy, Peg Daniels
Dave Austin
December 12, 2019
Going back Twenty five years or so, we lived just down the street from the Trainors. We shared many days nights and Cape trips together. To Alicia, Laura, and Eric; He was a wonderful man, his goodness, kindness understanding and generosity was unequaled. I am sure he will be sadly missed by all who ever knew him. So very sorry for your loss. The Austins, Dave, Patti, Erika and Alex
Dave Austin
December 12, 2019
Going back twenty five years, we lived just down the street from the Trainors. Our kids grew up together and we shared many days nights and Cape trips. To Alicia, Laura Jayne and Eric.. I know he will be missed by all who ever knew him. So very sorry for your loss. The Austins, Dave, Patti, Erika and Alex
Tina (Natale) Mandeville
December 11, 2019
Dearest Alicia and Family,
I am deeply saddened to learn of John's illness and untimely passing. A flood of wonderful memories from high school days shared at St. Peter - Marian came flooding back. John was always such a joy to be around and I was blessed with his kindness and friendship. All of you remain close in thought, heart, and prayer during this time of unspeakable grief. I wish you strength, comfort, and resolve. He is at peace now and so you must be. Rest assured he took your love with him and when he arrived to our Heavenly Father, your faces were imprinted on his joy filled soul. Always remember, love is eternal and families are forever. Until you meet again, may God's grace and blessings rest upon you always. I cannot be present at the services, but I will honor his memory nonetheless. With sympathy and in remembrance....
Joan Fitton
December 11, 2019
So sad to hear of John's passing. My condolences to everyone in the Trainor clan. I used to look forward to seeing John at DAB when he worked for the Worcester Public Schools Federal programs. He certainly had the best stories! John always went above and beyond to get the job done. He was a true advocate for every single student in the Adult Education program. Rest in peace, John. You truly made a positive difference to the lives of many. Thank you for being such a wonderful person.
Cindy Gagliastre
December 11, 2019
I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. I worked with John at The Salter School. I ran the child care center and cared for Laura and Erica. My thoughts and prayers to you Alicia and Laura and Erica.
Cindy Gagliastre
Paula Knight
December 11, 2019
"My deepest sympathy to Fran, Jim and the Trainor Family on the passing of your son and brother. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Rest in Peace"
Bob and Martha Wally
December 11, 2019
We are terribly sorry to learn of John's death. He was a wonderful presence at Fanning.and it was such a pleasure to see his smile and have a conversation with him at the start of the day. We are thinking of his family and remembering in our prayers all who love John.
Bob and Martha Wally
December 11, 2019
John's untimely death is so sad. His warm smile and great personality were a joy. We are terribly sorry that you have lost such a wonderful husband, son, father and sibling.
Sal Degon
December 11, 2019
Jimmy, sorry to hear of your loss, I'll remember John in my prayers.
Gerard Malone
December 11, 2019
Our deep and heartfelt sympathy to Alicia and family on the passing of a very special person. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Gerry and Jo, Ireland.
Laurie Dougherty
December 11, 2019
Heartfelt condolences to the Trainor family for such a sad loss. Rest in peace.
Phyllis DiBenedetto
December 11, 2019
I will forever remember John's kindness and thoughtfulness. Rest in Peace!
Bob Cuccaro
December 11, 2019
Thinking of a terrific Trainor family during such a trying time. God bless your brother and son and God bless you all.
Judy Thompson
December 11, 2019
I am so very sorry for your loss of John. May warm memories be a comfort at this difficult time.
The Wyman's
December 11, 2019
With deepest sympathy of the passing of John. The Trainor family has another great guardian angel watching over them.
Ann Marie Lundell
December 11, 2019
So sorry to hear this! My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Dianna Biancheria
December 11, 2019
Such a wonderful man, a true loss to our living world . My GodBless him as he enters the gates of Heaven . I am so sorry for all of you and can only hope your fond memories help you through this difficult loss. My prayers are with you
December 10, 2019
Your light will forever shine bright , and guide us to to do Right....
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