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Beverly Rhodes

5/10/1943 - 8/14/2025

Beverly Rhodes obituary, 5/10/1943-8/14/2025, Waterford, CT

BORN

5/10/1943

DIED

8/14/2025

FUNERAL HOME

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home - New London

12 Ocean Avenue

New London, Connecticut

Beverly Rhodes Obituary

Waterford- Beverly Rhodes, 82, of Waterford, passed away peacefully Thursday, Aug. 14, 2025. She was born in Springfield, Mass., May 10, 1943, the daughter of Louis and Jean (Gordon) Ratnowsky. She was the wife of Alan Rhodes who survives her.

Mrs. Rhodes graduated from Springfield Technical High School and spent her early years as a children's librarian including time at Waterford Public Library. She had worked as a librarian assistant, retiring after 29 years from Waterford High School. She enjoyed helping students with their research for school projects.

She was a member of Congregation Beth El and was often honored for her volunteer work for the New London Community Meal Center preparing weekly meals and was known for her delicious tuna noodle casserole. She was an avid mahjong player, attending Groton Senior Center games and participating in Mahjong tournaments. Beverly also was a member of the Shennecossett Yacht Club, spending many summers boating on Long Island Sound with Alan, who considered Beverly his first mate. She had great appreciation for arts and craft shows and attended many throughout the year. Beverly expressed her own creativity with a hobby of beading colorful earrings and necklaces for her friends.

In addition to her husband, she is survived by two sons, Craig Rhodes of Waterford, and Jeffrey Rhodes and his partner Yxa Bazan of New York City. She will be remembered by many who loved her warm and nurturing ways and the laughter she inspired with her quick wit and charm. She was predeceased by a brother, Philip Ratnowsky; and a sister, Sheila Berger.

A graveside service will be conducted at 11 a.m. Monday, Aug. 18, in the Beth El Community Cemetery, Lestertown Road, Groton. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Smilow Cancer Center in Waterford. The Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home has been entrusted with arrangements.

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Published by The Day on Aug. 16, 2025.

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Michele LaBonte

August 19, 2025

Alan and sons
John and I are sincerely saddened by the loss of Beverly
The service was a beautiful tribute to her and all of you.
Please get yourself strong as you are missed on E dock.
Love from John and Michele

CeCe Ross

August 17, 2025

To the family of Mrs. Rhodes
I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I send my deepest condolences. She always smiled and had a kind word to say always. She was such a sweet person.

Godbless
CeCe (from Rite Aid)

Laurie

August 17, 2025

I enjoyed visiting with Beverly on E Dock every summer. She always had a great story to share to spread joy. I treasured Beverly's positive outlook on life, always smiling. Thank you for touching my life, always in my heart. Sending hugs to Alan and Beverly's family
Laurie Haddock

Richard D Haddock

August 17, 2025

Beverly was a wonderful, beautiful treasure who always had a warm smile and kind word to share. Many fond memories and plenty of stories, recipes and USCG tales were exchanged dockside.

Love and prayers for Alan and family.

The Bergeron Family

August 17, 2025

Bev was a great person and was great with the kids. She would always do my girls nails when they were young down at Shenny. Our boat was across from Alan and Bev. We have some good memories from Shenny, she will be missed.

Stephanie Norwood

August 17, 2025

Alan, very sorry to hear. We missed you this summer. Beverly was a lovely lady and Jeff always enjoyed talking to her.
Steph and Chris Norwood.

Joe and Linda Sivo

August 17, 2025

Alan, We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You both have been missed on E Dock. Beverly always stopped to chat before heading to your boat. Such a sweet lady, she will be missed.

Dave Fairman

August 17, 2025

Rest in Peace Beverly

Doris and Marc

August 16, 2025

We have so many wonderful memories of our visits to Connecticut, sharing special occasions and time spent together. You will be greatly missed. With much love
Doris and March

David and Jennifer Bednarz

August 16, 2025

Thinking of you in this most difficult time. You were both missed this season on E dock.

David & Jennifer Bednarz

August 16, 2025

Alan-
Thinking of you in this very difficult time. You both have been missed on E dock this season.

Ruth Discordia

August 16, 2025

Alan, just remember all the times you had together. Tom and I cherished our boating relationships.Beverly was a very warm and giving person.

Joanne Barres

August 16, 2025

My deepest condolences on Bev´s passing. I spent many mornings playing mah johngg with her at the senior center. She will be missed.

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Beth El Community Cemetery

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