Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
FUNERAL HOME
Elizabeth Amanti Obituary
Betsy was born on Dec. 25, 1927, in New London, to Thomas Joseph and Mary Elizabeth (Hendry) Cahey. She attended St. Mary's Elementary School and graduated from Chapman Technical High School in 1945. Upon graduation, she went to work at Southern New England Telephone Company as a switchboard operator until 1951. She especially loved going over to the Submarine Base where she helped sailors place calls to their loved ones during World War 11.
She was united in marriage to the love of her life, Milton Thomas Amanti on Sept. 10, 1949, at St Mary Star of the Sea Church in New London, together they celebrated 57 years of marriage. He predeceased her on Sept. 2, 2007.
In 1972 after raising her family, Betsy returned to the workforce at the Judicial Department of the State of Connecticut, where she worked as an assistant clerk at GA 10 in New London. She retired in 1989.
Betsy was a communicant of St Mary's Star of the Sea Church where she was an active participant until her illness prevented her from attending services. She was an avid reader and especially loved doing crossword puzzles. She loved spending time with her family and friends and her monthly luncheons with the "Over the Hill Gang'" as they affectionately referred to themselves.
She is survived by her son, Thomas J. Amanti and his wife, Rebecca; and her daughter, Patricia A. Hoskins and her husband, Perry, all of Waterford. Also surviving are her grandchildren, Christina Amanti of Westerly, R.I., Lisa Amanti of Boston, Mass., Amy Hoskins of New London and Brandie Ballard and her husband, Rob, of Las Vegas, Nev. She is also survived by her sisters, Jane Perka of Ballston Spa, N.Y. and Ruth Ann Ramaccia of Groton; and her brother, Charles Cahey of Waterford. Additionally she is survived by numerous nieces, nephews and cousins, all of whom will miss her dearly.
She was predeceased by her granddaughter, Erin Lynn Hoskins.
Her family will receive relatives and friends from 4 to 7 p.m. Sunday, July 7, at the Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montauk Ave., New London. The funeral will assemble at 9 a.m. Monday and proceed to a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m., at St Mary's Star of the Sea Church, 10 Huntington St., New London. Internment will be at St. Mary's Cemetery, Jefferson Avenue, New London.
The family would like to thank the nurses and staff at Beechwood Rehabilitation Center and the nurses and staff of the 4th floor of Lawrence + Memorial Hospital, as well as Vitas Innovative Hospice Care, for their loving care and support given to our mother during her illness. A special thanks to Lynda Annibalini and Mary Ellen Tudisco for the home health care provided over the last several years and to Deb Connors for her kindness and spiritual support.
In lieu of flowers, donation in her memory may be made to St Mary's Star of the Sea Church, 10 Huntington St, New London, CT 06320.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Elizabeth Amanti
Alana Salter
June 30, 2019
We love and miss you Aunt Betsy, and Uncle Milt. Thinking of my Connecticut cousins and our fond memories of being together. Love Alana
Ramona Glascock
July 10, 2013
Hi Tommy, Patricia and family,
I have many fond memories of Aunt Betsy. My first trip on a plane was to Connecticut with Uncle Vincent and Aunt Francis when I was 9 years old. Your Mom (and Dad) made me feel right at home, especially with her wonderful sense of humor and ability to make me laugh. Even though our times together were brief and I am blessed to have known and loved her. Warmly, Ramona Raine Glascock
Brianna and Steven Mitchell
July 9, 2013
Oh I am so sorry to hear this! We truly loved Aunt Betsy!! I know she meant a lot to my grandmother and she will truly be missed! Love all of you guys and you are in our prayers!
Alana Salter
July 9, 2013
Dear Tommy and Patricia and families,Just wanted to let you know how sorry we were to hear about Aunt Betsey leaving this world. May God hold you close as we all keep you in our prayers. Our parents never really leave us,I am sure that you will feel her presence daily. We love you all and will miss your mom deeply. I know mom will miss her chats to catch up on the family.
Andrea David
July 9, 2013
Our sincere condolences to all grieving over Betsy's loss.All of us in Alabama are sending our thoughts and prayers during this time.
Andrea David
Grand daughter of Ann Amanti Raine
Tomaszek Family
July 9, 2013
Tom and Family
Our sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Mother. May all those happy memories help you all during this very difficult time. Our prayers are with you all.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)©Copyright 1998-2008
The Tomaszek Family
Tom, Linda, Deborah, "TJ" and Kevin
Ron Bannister
July 8, 2013
Tom & Family,
I was a student of yours at Montville High in my freshman year. I remember you as an excellent teacher. I am deeply sorrowed at the passing of your beloved mother. I too have lost my mother in 2007. My mother was very proud of me as yours was of you. My deepest sympathies and prayers in this time of grief. As long as we remember the love that will forever be in our hearts, they are never truly gone.
john smart
July 8, 2013
tom to you and your family my profound condolances . your mom was a special lady.
Dave Taglianetti
July 8, 2013
Our sincere condolences on the loss of your mother.
The Taglianetti Family (Elm Street, New London)
Donna DeMartino Bailey
July 7, 2013
Tommy, Tricia and families, Your mom was an amazing woman and I hold such wonderful memories of her. From hanging around with Tricia to our lunches every day at GA10. She taught me so much about life and was always such a kind person. May your memories help you through these difficult times. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Frank Barravecchia
July 7, 2013
Tommy, sorry for your loss, your parents were so proud of you.
Rich Mallove
July 7, 2013
Tom and his family, So sorry for your loss. Your Mother was a great lady.
Rich Mallove
July 7, 2013
Tom and family, so sorry for your loss. Your father was a good man.
Marilee Walker Dyer
July 6, 2013
Tricia,
So sorry to read about your mom's passing. I have wonderful memories of your parents driving us to and from St. Mary's. May God be with you at this sad time.
Marjorie Perry/ Murphy
July 6, 2013
Dear Tom and Tricia, I was so saddened to read of your Mothers passing..I have so many memories of the Colman St. Families....especially babysitting for both of you :) when I was a young girl, your Mom was someone I looked up to...she was always so kind to me...I remember spending all day on Saturdays taking care of you and just spending time with her and your Dad..also have many fond memories of your Aunts Ruth, and Jane and their children. My prayers are with you as you face this difficult time. Please know that Betsy left many people with wonderful memories to keep in our hearts. God Bless
Ron Sachatello
July 6, 2013
To the Amanti children:
Your mother was a very nice person and together your mother and father had a good long life together.
Tina Campbell
July 6, 2013
So sorry to hear Betsy passed. I worked with her at GA10. She was a great lady and so much fun to work with....
Prayers and condolences to her family and friends.
July 6, 2013
So sorry reading about your mother our thoughts and prayers are with you love Angie and Kay
July 6, 2013
So sorry to read about your Mom's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rosemary and Don Lewis
Mary & Samuel Porter-Price
July 6, 2013
Dear Amanti Family,
Our sympathy goes out to you upon the loss of your mother. May your many happy memories of her bring you comfort in the days ahead. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Showing 1 - 20 of 20 results
Make a Donation
in Elizabeth Amanti's name
Memorial Events
for Elizabeth Amanti
How to support Elizabeth's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Elizabeth Amanti's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
