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John Wade Obituary

Jewett City - John D. Wade, 45, of 109 Quinebaug Camp Road, died unexpectedly Saturday morning at The William W. Backus Hospital.

He was born in New Haven on Jan. 3, 1962 the son of Doris (Cooper) Wade of Big Sandy, Tenn., and the late Milton Wade.

John was a 1980 graduate of Ledyard High School. Following graduation he became employed as a painter at Electric Boat in Groton having worked for the past 27 years. He was a musician and loved music. John was a avid golfer, loved ice fishing and was a avid Red Sox and New York Giants fan. He was a regular patron at Arremony's Bakery.

On Sept. 19, 1992 he married Shirley (Gauvin) Wade at Sacred Heart Church in Taftville who survives him. Besides his wife and mother he is survived by two sons, Joshua and Nicholas Wade, both at home; three brothers, Jeffrey Wade of Ledyard, Jesse Wade of Gales Ferry and Jerry Wade of Plainfield; one sister, Janet Woods of Gales Ferry; and numerous nieces and nephews.

He was predeceased by one sister, Jennifer Wade.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Bur1al on Thursday at 10 a.m. at Sacred Heart Church in Taftville, meeting directly at church. Burial will follow in St. Mary's Cemetery Griswold. Calling hours at the Guillot Funeral Home, 75 So. B. St., Taftville will be Wednesday from 6 to 9 p.m.

Please omit flowers. Donations may be made to the family for his children's education fund.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jul. 10, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for John Wade

79 Entries

Shirl, Joshua, and Nicholas

December 10, 2008

Dear John,

We little knew that morning that God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly; in death we do the same.

It broke our hearts to lose you; you did not go alone, for part of us went with you, the day God called you home.

You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide, and though we cannot see you, you are always at our side.

Our family chain is broken, nothing seems the same, but as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.

Love always,

The Gauvin & Romeo Families

December 10, 2008

In Loving Memory of John D. Wade
January 3, 1962 - July 7, 2007

Dear John,

If we could have a lifetime wish, a dream that would come true, we'd pray to God with all our hearts for yesterday and you. A thousand words can't bring you back, we know because we tried. Neither will a thousand tears, we know because we cried. You left behind our broken hearts and happy memories too...But we never wanted memories, we only wanted you.

Love,

Michele Beirne

July 13, 2008

Johnny's Our angel

We always knew Johnny was an angel.
But now we all know for sure.
His friendship, kindness, honesty and sincerity was so pure.

His leaving so soon, left us weak and heart broken.
You see Lord, we weren't through with him.
Just because, you have spoken.
Our future looks sad, even quite dim.

If we could take back just one day.
We would be selfish and want him to stay.
You say you have a better plan.
Please, don't expect us to understand.

And now Johnny is with you.
We feel lost, don't know what to do.
Should we grieve and cry, sing even pray?
There really isn't enough words to say.

Johnny was our angel, and to us he will always be.
You have taken him away and we don't all agree.
Tell us we will see him again some day.
That doesn't make our pain go away.

So Lord, keep him safe and hold him tight.
We'll pray for that day with all our might.
Your holding our angel we love so dear.
Our time to see him is ever so near.

Love, and miss you so very much.

Michele

janet woods

July 8, 2008

My beloved brother John,
I never would have imagined that i would be typing into inter-net-space- thinking that you were here.Wish you were here.One year seems like a decade, an eternity. 7/7/07...
You are missed more that you would have ever thought , though i tried to let you know. I miss making sandwiches and seeing you at break. That was a special time when you would stop by."i'm just a way down the river, a hundred miles or more."

Jeff Wade

July 7, 2008

John, 365 days have passed sinced you left us so suddenly. A whole year. And not one day has gone by when you were not in our thoughts or in our hearts. We all go about our daily lives both without and with you. I never knew a year could pass so quickly and last so long at the same time. I'm missing you so very much my brother: and not just me I know...but I dont' have the words or heart to speak for anyone else. I do know ALL of your family and freinds miss you and love you dearly.

Kerry (McFarlane) Mallett & Family

March 19, 2008

Shirley, Joshua and Nicholas,

I wanted to let you know that I think of you and your family often. Emma says a special prayer for John every night and then says another special prayer for you, Joshua and Nicholas. Always know that our family is here for you and that you and the boys are always in our thoughts and prayers. We look forward to spending time with you and the boys this summer!

With much love,

janet woods

November 23, 2007

I have many things to be thankful for this season.
I am thankful i was able to spend time with my brother just because... the fish were biting...the ice was hard...we had wood for the fire.
his lunch hour and his proximitry to my home to his work.Many afternoons were filled with him playing his favorite Chuck Suchey songs or just being with us.But i think i am most thankful for his family.Shirl,Josh, Nick, and all his in laws, who truly loved Johnny. John had a way of making all feel welcome at his table, at his home.Shirley, i love you as a sister.We shouldn't be going through this.I will always envy the love you shared with the Wade family.You are a true sister.
I love you more than i can show.
peace be with you.

Janet Woods

August 29, 2007

hello cherished friends and family. Many of you have asked me about a fund set up for Johns boys Josh and Nick.
I visited with Shirl the other day.
There is an education fund established at Putnum Bank. One for Joshua Wade and another for Nickolas Wade.
Shirley and the boys are doing o.k.
this tragedy is still so fresh. Time heals, but it takes time.
God bless all of you & and tell all your loved ones they are loved. With love from Johns sister,

George Magrey

August 2, 2007

It has been almost a month since Johnny sailed away to that distant shore. While we cried as we watched Johnny's ship disappear over the horizon, remember that somewhere on that far distant shore, sails are appearing on the horizon, and someone is saying,"Look! a ship is coming." Not a day goes by when I'm listening to music, that I don't think of Johnny. We were both fans of Garrison Keeler's "Prairie Home Companion" show and that's probably where Johnny first heard Chuck Suchy sing "Dakota Breeze."..Johnny was an oustanding musician with a unique, folksy style. I often told him that if he were famous he would be the type of performer who wouldn't need a backup band. Just he and his guitar would be enough. In my opinion much like a James Taylor. But Johnny was content just playing for himself, his friends and family. Now when I listen to Don McClean's " American Pie" and the part where he sings of the music dying, I remember Johnny as well as Buddy Holly. Johnny..You are greatly missed.

Melissa & Danny Johnson

August 2, 2007

Hi,

We think of you everyday. Please call us if we can do anything or just need to talk. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love Missy, Danny, Dallas, Dakota

Richard Adamec

July 31, 2007

Shirley,Nickolas and Joshua,my condolences go out to you all for the lost of your Husband and Father.He was one of the better co-workers that I had worked with,I will truly miss him.Big Rich

Carrie Traynham

July 25, 2007

Shirley,Nickolas,Joshua,I'm sorry for the lost of your Husband and Father,my condolences goes out to you all.

Brenda Hoffman

July 24, 2007

Shirley and boys,

I am so sorry for the loss of your husband John. I don't know if you'll remember me but I was once a painter and then I transfered into chemistry.
I know it is hard for you to imagine now but John will always live on forever in your heart and when you least expect it you will feel that presence deep in your soul.
I will miss John, he was always so kind to me and ready to lend a hand.
God is closest to the brokenhearted
May he bless you with comfort and peace. You and your boys are in my thoughts and prayers Shirley. Take care of yourself.

Jessica Murphy

July 24, 2007

I would like to thank everyone for their kind words and prayers, and I would like to ask if anyone has any pictures of my uncle John, please send them to me (or copies of them). ([email protected]) I am making a slide-show DVD and I need as many pictures as I can get. Again, thank you everyone.

Maria and Neil Lavin

July 23, 2007

To all of the Wades, we were shocked and saddened to hear of John's passing. We cannot even begin to imagine your heartbreak. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Elaine Key

July 19, 2007

Shirley,Nicolas,Joshua,I am feeling your lost.The last I saw Johnny was on an overtime day at EB,I was pot tendening for a blaster,Johnny came over to recheck the blasting pot to make sure that everything was hooked-up correctly inwhich it was and at the end of the job he said "GOOD JOB ELAINE",bless his heart.When ever I would see Johnny either at EB or the Subbase inwhich wasn't often I would ask him how you and the boys are doing and his answer was "It could never be better".I will always remember Johnny as being a happy go lucky person.My condolences goes out to you and your family.God be with you.

Donald Hogue

July 19, 2007

My heart and prayers go out to the wade family. John was a kind and carring person who loved his family, life and music. It has been many years since I've seen John or his family. I think about them often because it was the kindness and gentleness they had towards people. That I will never forget.

Chris Evans

July 19, 2007

This certainly is a time of sorrow and sadness. Forty five was way too early. I haven’t really hung around with John since we were in our early twenties but looks like he had a great life. I knew, through Jerry, that John was a solid family guy. After looking at the pictures at the funeral parlor it looked like John also knew how to still have fun. I was little jealous seeing his fish pictures and the hole in one announcement. I also could tell how much he was loved. With so many people at both the wake and funeral you had to know he meant a lot to people.
Since I received the call about John’s passing, a call I never expected, my mind has been churning up so many great memories of Lake St. I remember spending time going to the frog pond, Monkeys ledge, the reservoir, the pines, the fort, and Ledyard Center. We filled our childhood days riding bikes (and destroying them), skateboarding, football in the Silva’s backyard, wiffle ball, swordfights, sledding, snowball fights, and many other things. As we went into our teenage years spent our time working at Holdridges, partying, and listening to music. Ted Nugent’s “Stranglehold” and “Great White buffalo” will always remind me of John. John was always into playing guitar but I remember his singing. He had a very introspective, bluesy voice. He also had a love of the song “House of the raising sun”.

Later on John, Jesse, and I were all working third shift at EB and our commutes had some funny incidents. One night I was driving my old Dodge Dart and Jesse and John were both sitting up front with me. John was sitting next to the passenger door. It happened to be pouring out that night. As I hit a rather large puddle water came up from the floor board like a fire hose onto to John. I guess the carpet had been hiding the hole. Jesse and I couldn’t stop laughing at first. A soaking John immediately climbed into the back seat and had many choice words for Jesse and me. I also started to notice something odd about the times John was driving home in the morning. Squirrels, deer, and potholes were much more abundant when he drove. I often would fall asleep on the way home only to be awakened by the swerving of the car. When I asked John what happened he would say that a deer or squirrel or cat ran out into the road. Then one time I stayed awake only to notice that John kept looking over at Jesse in the passenger seat. As soon Jesse nodded out John would jerk the wheel. When asked what happened John answered said “A cat run out in the road”. That’s enough of the stories.

To all of the Wades, I am truly sorry for your loss but comfort yourselves with the good memories of John. To John, thanks for the memories and friendship.

Does any body know the true story of when John got caught in Miss Nardone’s tree? I wasn’t there but have heard about it over the years.

Chris Evans

Gene Laroux Jr

July 17, 2007

FROM A CAMP ON MOOSEHEAD LAKE, MAINE
These were my gut thoughts July 8 sun pm, after receiving a call sat from Shirley that John passed away. I wanted to relay some of these feelings during calling hrs,but could not be there. Now back in CT want to share some of these memories with you.
Many of you don,nt know me Gene Laroux and my wife Chris.
Sometime about 8-10 years ago John and Shirley moved to Quinebaug Cp Rd. ( THE OLD STOTTS FARM )
Was,nt to long and Shirley had a garden,and what she did,nt need she would drop off the vegtables to the neighbors. Of course Chris would do things in return and they become very good friends.
Then me and John got to know each other. I have to say, I,ve meet a lot of people in my life,but never a finer person than John Wade.
He was a soft spoken person,never lost his temper and was always willing to help someone in need. And to top it off he was a great family man.
He had a sparkle in his left eye and that was Josh,accourse the sparkle in his right eye was Nick and the joy in his heart was his wife Shirley. And working on the house and barn to improve the property the way Shirley wanted it.
John and me had some good times fishing,and talking about big fish stories and drinking a couple beer,s around the outside fireplace,sun,rain, or snow,what ever.
As some of you already know,John also could play a good tune with his guitar and sing some real good country blue grass. One I liked he sang a few weeks ago "Dakota Breezes". I think he leaned how to play from his father.
He will be sadly missed by Shirley,Josh and Nick and both families.
But also missed by his friends ,co-workers and neighbors like me and Chris.
Shirley,Josh and Nick will need a lot of help and understanding till time heals over. I know me and Chris plan on doing whatever we can to help out these good friends.
And as for John Wade,rest in peace my friend untill we meet again.
Or in John,s words, THAT,S WHAT I,ME TALKIN ABOUT.
Gene and Chris

Teri Pillar

July 17, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to all of John's family and friends. I grew up in the neighborhood with Jeff, Jesse,John,Jenny, Janet, and Jerry and remember games of football, baseball, and TV tag in the street. Great times with lots of music in the house, the frog pond and monkey's ledge.

Much time has past, but the memories are so fresh. May your memories of your son, brother, husband, and father bring you comfortin the days ahead.
Teri LaFlamme Pillar

Marie Treadway

July 14, 2007

To Shirley,Nick &Josh, Johnny was a great guy,he was instantly liked by all who met him. He would do anything for anyone.I remember John from good old Ledyard high,a fellow Vo-Ag student.Then on to EB where we crossed paths again and I got to know him better.Then I met my future husband Steve and found out that he was also a friend of John's.Steve and John became fishing buddies.When the cold winter winds would blow and the ponds were frozen, and normal people were holed up safe and warm, you'd find the two of them out on the ice, poles in the water and a bud light in hand.Then over to Johns house to warm up by a roaring fire.The 4th of July picnics were always great, John and Shirley were the best of hosts.We crossed paths so often living in the same town that we still expect to see his blue silverado outside Arremony's bakery or the local pub or just passing on main street with a friendly wave. We'll miss him very much,especially Steve when the fish are biting. We hope that you and both your families can find strength and peace in the coming days. And always remember that we're there for you should you ever need us. Your friends Marie & Steve.

Janet woods

July 13, 2007

as i write this today, it is Friday July 13th.We buried our beloved brother
yesterday in a field near his home and
near the very waters in which he caught
great bass for us all to enjoy catching
again.Today our hearts are heavy, and will be for some time to come,but in that sorrow, there is a steadfast promise. Never let a day go by without telling your loved ones that they are loved.I was fortunate to have a great relationship with Johnny. we had our moments, but Johnny knew i loved him because i told him so. I would like to thank everyone for the cherished stories, memories, and truly heartfelt condolences offered to our family.The out pouring of love and the lives John touched is most awesome. I pledge to you all to continue to share on this space provided first by The New London Day paper, and by all who loved Jonny for a year. A dear friend from time ago spoke of this wonderful service permanently.This, i believe, would be an incredible gift for Joshua and Nicholas and shirley. Grief is hard and personal even if we are all grieving the same soul.
they say friday the 13th is an unlucky day.I say, turn it around. For it was 7/7/07 that became my most unfortunate day,yet here on Friday july 13 were ok., not great, just ok.
Peace be with all who loved my brother for he gave peace to all whom he loved.
truly he is with the Lord

Sandra Palardy

July 12, 2007

To the Wade family,
May the love of family & friends bring you comfort, may time heal your sorrow and help you find peace.
With sincere sympathy in your loss.

25th Wedding Anniversary 1983

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25th Wedding Anniversary 1983

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John with brother Jerry 1992

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John with brother Jeff 1992

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John with Melanie

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John with niece Melanie 1989

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Valentino's 1993

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Vernon Wade, Jr.

July 12, 2007

It is reassuring how that family -even 1st cousins -can sometimes quickly warm to each other even if they have spent very little of their lives together. And it was so with John when we were reunited a couple years ago. Perhaps it was as much John's easygoing nature that makes me wish I had known him better as an adult.
Our hearts are with all of you, John's family and friends, and we pray the grace and peace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.
Vernon Jr., Kerrie, Ashley, Abbey, Annalise and Ava Wade

Jessica Murphy

July 12, 2007

At 6:30 in the morning on July 7, I received a phone call that, though I did not know at the time, would change my life forever.

I am still in shock, it all happened so suddenly, and he was the last person in the world I every thought I would have to say goodbye to.

I am happy to say, however, that my last memory of Uncle John was a great one. His car was giving him trouble and he decided to stop at my house. While waiting for my uncle Jesse and my stepfather Tony to come home, he went downstairs and grabbed my mother's guitar. He sat down in the kitchen, where I was washing dishes, and he asked me if I wanted to hear a song. Of course I said yes and he began to play " West Dakota Breezes", which I have recently come to find out was one of Uncle John's favorites.

I will forever cherish the memories of Christmas breakfasts and Fourth of July picnics. I will always remember John and Shirley's wedding and the births of their two wonderful boys. I love you Shirley, Josh, and Nick. I love you and I will miss you tremendously Uncle John. Someday, I know I will see you again, I will see your permanent smile, and you can sing me another song. Until then, I have my memories.

Dick Johnson

July 12, 2007

I will miss the golf and the good humor John always displayed. All that knew him will miss him. Fair winds and following seas to him always.

Wendy Hicks

July 12, 2007

I was saddened to hear of John's death. I am happy that I was able to see John, grown into a handsome man and loving husband and father, and meet his beautiful wife and kids when we had our family reunion a couple of years ago. I will always remember John's grin, his imagination, and energy when we were all kids playing together on weekends and holidays. (I am the oldest child of John's Uncle Sputters (Vernon).) My family and I will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Donna Kenyon

July 12, 2007

I have not seen John since we all used to hang out in the Wade's basement many, many years ago. So many memories of kick the can, listening to music and just plain having fun. I cannot express how sorry I am for your loss but you will all be in my prayers. God Bless.

Becky Tashea

July 12, 2007

So very sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy to all family members. We were not fortunate enough to have known John, but based on the part of the family we do know Im sure he was a great guy. Our hearts are with all of you.
Dick & Becky Tashea

Timothy Wade

July 12, 2007

I am John's cousin. I am so sorry to hear about John. Deepest Love and Sympathy.

Melanie and Kevin Wade

July 12, 2007

Kevin and I were deeply saddened to hear about Uncle John. Though we have not been able to see him much in recent years, we will always have fond memories of Easter egg hunts at his home, Fourth of July picnics, and serenades from his guitar. We will miss you, Uncle John.

To Shirley, Joshua, Nicholas, and the rest of the Wade family--you have all been in our thoughts in this difficult time. We remember the great times that we had with you all and are thankful for all of the love that you and Uncle John gave to us.

Frank, Virginia and Cheryl Murphy

July 12, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Rick Curcuro

July 12, 2007

It saddens me because it has been a long time since I've seen John. But, like often happens with old friends, I assumed and looked forward to that chance moment when we would run into each other and he would meet me with that smile and calm.

My first memory of John:
Honing his pool table skills with brother Don on Oakridege Drive listening to Lynyrd Skynyrd after school.

This being my first introduction to "Sweet Home Alabama" and "Free Bird". All of which bring me memories of John, Jenny, Jerry and Jesse jammin at the Wade's.

I know John's high school friend-ship with my brother Don is what brought me together with Jerry, only one of a few of my true life long friends.

Of course there was Holdrge Farm Nusery where we all learned that work ethic and how to be men.

To the Wades:
I am sorry for your loss may the fondest of memories bring you comfort.

Love Rick and family

Susan Caruthers

July 12, 2007

It is difficult to believe that John is gone. I guess we take for granted the people that we love will always be with us. I have very special memories of John (as well as all the Wade cousins). We had such great times when we were little. John, Jenny, and Janet and I were always with each other on those wonderful weekends when our families were together. John would always be on my side. While this always made me feel special, I think he used this as a means to torment his sisters. I always loved his impish grin. You knew he was up to something by the twinkle in his eyes. These childhood memories are great and I will always treasure them. I wish I had gotten to know the man he had become. I am so glad that we saw y'all 2 years ago in Cape Cod. What a wonderful group of cousins. Shirley, Joshua, and Nicholas, I want you to know how much I love John. I am so sorry for your loss. I saw how happy John was at our family reunion and how proud he was of you. He loved showing you all off. Aunt Doris, I can't imagine how difficult this is for you. We are praying for you and will help you anyway that we can. Jeff, Jess, Janet, and Jerry, I love you all too. I never want to miss an opportunity to tell you that you are all very special and that I love you. If you need anything we will be there.
Susan, Marty, Elisa, Hannah, Rebekah, and Sarah Caruthers

Constance (Connie) Frank

July 12, 2007

I am deeply saddened by John's sudden passing. John was my first cousin, and our families grew up together and practically spent every holiday together. Two summers ago, I was able to see him at a family reunion after over 30 years. We had a wonderful time with everyone, and vowed to stay in touch. What struck me in particular about John was how I could see the little boy still framed in his face. I have written a short Haiku for John and his family--it is the easiest way I can express what he means to me, so I hope that's ok:

John’s Haiku

Framed within that face
Here the little boy appears
That I remember…

Brothers and sisters
Living a happy trail through
Entwined childhood years.

Young summer twilights
and beaches, Thanksgiving feasts,
And Christmas snow joys.

Softly shrouded woods,
Grass and moss quilted beneath,
Sheltered kindred play.

Bravely hunting for
Salamanders and tracking
Dinosaur fossils.

Easter always birthed
A new hunt for egg treasures—
Did we find them all?

Our fathers’ voices
Boomed and played while our mothers'
Sang smiles and filled us.

Our homes constructed
Of kindred time counted; and
Distance in between.

Mirrored eyes reveal—
The child in each one of us
Remains within all.

--Constance (Connie) Wade Frank
July 11, 2007

Laura dandridge

July 11, 2007

Dear Shirley, Joshua, Nicholas, Doris, Jesse, Janet, Jerry, Jeff, family and friends. I remember growing up as a kid, spending every chance I could at The Wades residence. It was such a warm happy family place for me to be. Jennifer was my very best friend and Idol from 6th grade till her untimely death. I would count the minutes untill I could play the guitar with Jenny, and be totally enthralled with John and Jesses'guitar playing. Janet was always like my little sister . one year difference seemed like a lot back then. Jenny passed, the years flew by. Janet is now my very best friend in the world. If a week goes by and I don't talk to her I freak! I would like to say that John was a great man who never raised his voice. The whole family had the most impact on who I am today and I will be forever greatful to you all! Doris,Shirley, my heart goes out to you. Everbody please know that I am here for you in your time of need...If you need a shoulder to cry on or a gallon of milk just let me know..I will love all of you forever. Johnny please tell Jenny I miss her and can't wait to see her again....

Mark & Amy Baker

July 11, 2007

Shirley, Josh & Nick,
Sending you our thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathy. You will never truly lose John as he will always remain in your hearts.

Kurt Biederstadt

July 11, 2007

It seems surreal to think I will never talk to John again. Even though I live out of state now I still looked forward to seeing John. I’m so happy I got to spend time with him at Tony and Janet’s wedding. He never changed from the time we first hung out to the last time I saw him. He had a great warmth about him that always made anyone he spoke to feel good. I have so many memories of John, all are good. We have been friends since the Holdredge Farm days. I know I will never forget him. I’ll remember his “Jonnie Cool “ walk after he beat me in pool or something else and his great smile.Thanks for always being a friend John!To John’s wife and son’s, I cannot even imagine the depth of your sorrow. My prayers go out to you. Please always remember that those of us who knew John loved him like a brother and are part of the family. If there is anything I can do please ask.

John Felty

July 11, 2007

While I never really got to know John, I knew his son, Josh, enough to realize that Josh had a special and caring father. My thoughts and prayers are with the Wade family during this difficult period.

jerry wade

July 11, 2007

Sometimes during quiet moments at work or at home,even before this horrible and tragic event.I would close my eyes, and let my mind take me back to a time more simple,when anything seemed possible.I am transported back to my childhood home in Ledyard,with all of my brothers and sisters. and there is a guitar playing, sweet and slow.And it is John....."Wanna jam my man?" he says with smile." You bet I do bro,you bet I do."

Jim Berg

July 11, 2007

To the Wade Family, I'm truly sorry to hear about John. He was one of my brother's best friends when they were both younger. I called TJ last night and told him the sad news, he cried.

I have been away from CT for a long time but I remember John well from school, EB, and him coming over with TJ, he never had a harsh word and always had a great smile.

God bless his family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Barbara LaFlamme

July 11, 2007

I was very sad to learn of John's death. My condolences to the entire family, and especially to Jeff...we were neighbors and friends in Barrett Park along time. I will let Roger in Florida know of your loss.

George Magrey

July 11, 2007

I first mey Johnny and Jesse about 27 years ago. Johnny and I started working at EB at the same time. How I got to be good friends with the Wade family was through our mutual love of the same kind of music. Mainly Blues, Gospel, and Bluegrass. Johnnny was one of the nicest people I ever met and could ever hope to meet. I'll never forget our ballgames, and trips to Boston to see the Red Sox, or just hanging around listening to John and Jesse play their guitars. It just doesn't seem fair that such a great person was taken from us at so young an age, but as Jess says God must have a plan for him. My heart goes out to Shirley, and Joshua and Nicholas as well as the whole Wade family. I can only imagine how Doris must feel losing two children so young. That's just not the way it should happen...George

Jesse Wade

July 11, 2007

Jonny was not only my brother, he was my best friend.We had a few moments in our lives like all brothers do,but he was always there for me.Thats the way he was.John was a devoted family man,most unselfish,and had the biggest heart of anyone i have ever known.
My heart aches for Shirley and the boys.I'll always be here for them and will do all i can for them.It is not fair that he was taken from us so soon,but i guess God had other plans. I love and miss my brother so much, but i know i will see him again some day. On behalf of my family i thank every one for for their kind words and cherished memories shared in this guest book, for they really mean alot to me and my family.

Tony Woods

July 11, 2007

Shirley, Joshua and Nicholas
After moving to Ledyard in the winter of 1974 It was tough to adjust to a new town and making new friends. I met Jeff and Jess that spring working for Holdrige Nursery at the farm. Jess and I Became Great Friends as well as the rest of the Wade family. John started to work at the farm a year later. As young men growing up in Ledyard we learned what a hard day's work was all about. We called ourself the crew John, Jess, Dave, Kurt and I and were always together. I will always remember Johns smile and his good natured spirit. His love of life Is something most men strive for but never achieve. I loved john like a brother and will miss him dearly. Shirley my heart felt prayers go out to you and the boys. I will always be there for you.

cooper wade

July 11, 2007

John was a much loved brother and a great uncle.I will miss him very much. I am sad that I did not get to spend more time with him.I thought he would always be around to have fun with me and my father.I will cherish forever the I spy book he gave to me.I love my uncle John

Tami & Scott Kersteter

July 11, 2007

Shirley,Joshua and Nickolas Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow.May your fondest memories help you through this most difficilt time.Our prayers are with you.

Bob Macek

July 11, 2007

Shirley, Doris, Jeff, Jess, Janet and Jerry, nothing I can say will lessen the pain you must feel. You have my heartfelt sympathy. I am shocked and sorry for your loss. They say that the good ones are taken to soon. That certainly fits for John. Josh and Nicholas, I know you don't know who I am, but know this, if you grow up to be like your Dad, you will be fine men.

Dick & Carol Roy

July 11, 2007

John was a very close neighbor for years. He, his brothers, and I played much baseball in the streets in front of the houses. We have occasionally played golf even as couples. John was a great friend. Our sympathy extends to all but especially to Shirley,his boys, and mother (Doris).

Melissa Hoye Townsend

July 10, 2007

Jonnie was one of my father's dearest friends and a huge part of my childhood. He was always so wonderfully supportive and encouraging of me. Some of my favorite memories are of pitching horseshoes with my dad Jonnie and Jesse. And of course as a kid trying desperately to convice him that he should join me in rooting for the Yanks - but you can never really sway a Sox fan can you? I am truly sorry for the loss of you husband, brother, and especially for the boys loss of their dad. He will be missed.

Timothy & Deborah Shaffer

July 10, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Jim Boyles

July 10, 2007

I have knowed John from the time he was a young teenager. He was here at my home in Nashville in late 06. John will be missed by me very much.

bass buddies

July 10, 2007

now thats a fire!

July 10, 2007

forever

July 10, 2007

John with Shirley,brother Jesse and kids Joshua and Nickolas.

July 10, 2007

Chuck Lamprey

July 10, 2007

In our younger days, I saw John fairly often while visiting his brother Jeff and the rest of the Wade family at their home in Ledyard. Though I've since moved away from the area and hadn't seen John for several years, I'll always remember his easy smile and the way his enthusiasm seemed to spread to everyone he touched.

My deepest sympathies for the loss of your husband, son, brother, father and friend.

Ellen Kane, Samuel & Jacob Schumacher

July 10, 2007

Shirley, Josh & Nick ~

No words we say could ever take away the pain you are feeling right now. We hope it brings you comfort to know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.

If there is anything that I can do for the three of you, you know you can call me any day or night, Shirley.

With love and heartfelt sympathy,

The Camerino Family Steven,Tammy & Adam

July 10, 2007

Shirley,Josh,Nick and family,
Our hearts are filled with the sadness of this huge loss. Steven had the privelage of getting to know both of you long before I did but you always made me feel like I had been around for years. John could make any room light up with his smile and always you opened up your home making everyone feel welcome. Thank you for all the wonderful summer picnics we have shared they will be treasured memories forever! Smile in the good memories as Johnny would want it that way!!

Margie & Ron Stoven

July 10, 2007

I watched all of the Wade children growing up, always on the go and it appears always in mischief. All grew up to be such wonderful adults. Those memories of yesteryear are all so vivid, especially John's smile. My deepest sympathy go out to all of the family especially to John's wife, children and Doris.
It is never easy for those left behind...Many share your sorrow.

Michael & Patti Kenniston

July 10, 2007

We are deeply saddened by the news of his death. Our heart felt condolences go out to all of his family. I can still remember his smile from the last time we met. We will miss him, but never forget him, God Bless.

mary walton

July 10, 2007

shirley ,john was a great friend to us (greg ruley)and just a great person to all,you are all in my prayers,mary

Cheryl Sylvia

July 10, 2007

May the love and support of family and friends comfort you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mike Brown

July 10, 2007

We shared many laughs and good times at "The Mal" every June. Also cheered our beloved Sox! My prayers go out to your family and Godspeed to your wife and sons. I will remember the big smile and the fact that you were a good guy who enjoyed family, friends and life.

Mike Brown

Normand Rioux

July 10, 2007

With all my sympathy,to family & friends

Jeff Wade

July 10, 2007

I was fortunate to spend a lot of time with my brother the last two weeks of his life. We golfed twice and I spent the day at his home with his family and friends for his annual fourth of July picnic. There was truly no more likable and happy person as John. Always a smile on his face, you couldn't help but smile yourself when you were with him. He held a special place in Dodie's heart and she loved him not because he was her brother in law, but because he was himself. Dodie and I will miss him and his smile so very much. We will use the love we have for Shirly and Joshua and Nicholas to help us during this time and to help them. Shirly, we love you. John we miss you.

Steve & Margie Bell

July 10, 2007

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you strength during this time.

janet woods

July 10, 2007

my brother John "jonnie" was the greatest guy.always ready with a smile and a helping hand.He was there for me through out my life and was not only my brother, but a true friend.
every one whom John touched loved him instantly. such a loss.

Andrea Lapointe

July 10, 2007

To the Wade and Woods family,
I was shocked to hear of Johns passing. It is hard to understand why people are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing you were a special part of his life. If you need anything please do not hesatate. My thoughts are with you.

Carol Murphy

July 10, 2007

To my family and those that knew John ~
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. John was a good man and he will be missed by all who knew him. May he rest in peace with Uncle Milt & cousin Jen.
I miss you all and love you all very much.

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