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Mary Dezso Obituary

Storrs - Mary Theresa (Salembier) Bouley Dezso, 75, of Storrs passed peacefully to eternal rest on Wednesday, May 9, 2007.

She was born in Woonsocket, R.I., the daughter of Alphonse and Angela Salembier and moved to the Storrs-Mansfield area in 1952. Terry started her higher education career while raising nine children and went on to finish her B.S., M.A., and PhD, ABD.

Terry was an emeritus faculty member at Three Rivers Community College where she developed their first ever program in early childhood education. More recently Terry put her passion of the Montessori teaching philosophy into the successful development of one of the only Montessori Teacher Institutes in New England. Prior to her tenure at Three Rivers Community College Terry taught at both the University of Connecticut and Eastern Connecticut State University. She was a long-time president of both the Northeast Association for the Education of Young Children and Connecticut Association for the Education of Young Children as well as an accreditation commissioner for the National Association for the Education of Young Children. Terry was a renowned specialist in early childhood education and received numerous awards and recognitions for her work. Most importantly she has made a loving and lasting difference in the lives of hundreds of students and children including her 14 grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. Terry's patient and enduring love for children manifested itself in countless ways.

In addition to her parents, Terry was predeceased by her former husband, Henry Bouley Sr. and three of her children, Henry Bouley Jr., Christine Bouley, and Christopher Bouley.

She is survived by her sister, Irene J. Cetaruk of Chelmsford, Mass., and her brother, Alphonse H. Salembier of Flagstaff, Ariz. In addition, she leaves her remaining beloved children, David Bouley, N.Y., N.Y, Martin Bouley, Lake Tahoe, Nev., Jon Bouley of Coventry, Mark Bouley of Tolland, Michelle Bouley formerly Ferris of Tolland, and Theresa Bouley formerly Picard of Storrs.

Her family will receive friends from 2 to 5 p.m. on Sunday at Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St. (Rt. 195), Willimantic. Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. on Monday, May 14, at St. Thomas Aquinas Chapel, North Eagleville Road, Storrs, with interment following in St. Joseph Cemetery, Windham.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Three Rivers College Foundation-The Terry Dezso Scholarship Fund- 574 New London Turnpike, Norwich CT 06360.

May she rest in peace.

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Published by The Day on May 10, 2007.

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Hayley and Randy Corwick

May 11, 2007

David and family-
Please accept our most sincere condolences on the loss of your mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Betty and Perley Robinson

May 11, 2007

Dear family members of Terry.
I knew her for such a short time, as a wonderful next door neighbor here at Glen Ridge. I have special memories of the evening we spent hearing folk music at the Vanilla Bean. I was constantly surprised by the different hats she had worn, and impressed by her achievements in the field of Early Childhood, an area dear to me (as a pediatric nurse consultant to nursery schools). I'll miss her.
"Terry, We Hardly Knew You"

Rikke Wassenberg

May 11, 2007

To the family of Terry Dezso

I knew your mom for a long time. When she was at UCONN we were on faculty together. She was a kindness to the world. I also knew her as a parishoner at St. Thomas and such a woman of great faith.. I am sorry for your loss and the loss of the world who really needed more women like her... I shall pray for your memories that they may be as vivid as the day they were created and may those memories bring you comfort.

Stephanie Miller

May 11, 2007

Family and friends of Theresa,
What a wonderful influence she was to me durning my time at Three Rivers, I am blessed to have known her. May you have the peace of The Lord during your time of loss. Be Blessed!

Lisa Barrett

May 10, 2007

Theresa and family -

It sounds like you took after your wonderful mother! So sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Much love,
Lisa, Stephen, Alisha and Stephanie Barrett

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