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Michael B. Brown

1946 - 2020

Michael B. Brown obituary, 1946-2020, New London, CT

BORN

1946

DIED

2020

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New London, Connecticut

Michael Brown Obituary

New London - Michael B. Brown, 74, died Feb. 20, 2020, after a ferocious battle with Light-Chain Multiple Myeloma.

Mike was born in 1946 in Montreal, Canada to Jack and Frieda Brown. Somewhere in his young life, he developed a fascination regarding submarines, and he wanted in. As we learned at a recent USS George Washington Carver reunion, Canada has three submarines – one for each coast and a spare. That did not provide enough opportunity for Mike and he dearly wanted to become a member of this fraternity and in order to do that, he needed to become a citizen of the United States. In retrospect, this was serendipitous as his father was an American and this paved the way for his admission to the U.S. Navy.

Surviving are his wife of 33 years and companion for more than 45 years, Mary; his stepdaughter, Cathy Wilson and her husband Scott Walsh. In addition, he is survived by his mother, Frieda Brown of Vancouver, Canada who will turn 99 this month and his Uncle Sam of Montreal, Canada who is 101. He has two brother, Clyde and wife Anita Brown and Si and wife Mary Jane Brown who all reside in Vancouver, Canada. Mike was uncle to Jeffrey and Robert (Clyde and Anita's children) and to Danial and Illana (Si and Mary Jane's children); he was great uncle to four grandnephews and two grandnieces. He has eight cousins, Marvin Smolar, Howard Smolar, Neil Smolar, Stephan Smolar, Larry Smolar, Riesa Burke, Edith Brown and Aaron Brown.

But the above list does not do justice as to who Mike considered family. The list is long – the names go back decades. There is no possible way to mention everyone. But know this, once you entered into "the family", you rarely left. And you could enter the realm in a variety of ways… perhaps you were an old Navy buddy or the relative of a Navy buddy; perhaps you were a new military enlistee he met while enjoying the local Coast Guard concerts (he didn't hold a grudge if you were from other branches of the service); maybe you were from the Surfers Drum and Bugle Corps or maybe you were a child/grandchild of one of the original members of the Surfers; you could have been a neighbor; maybe you were a friend of a friend. It really did not matter how you came into his orbit – the trajectory to Mike was varied – what wasn't, was the lifetime relationship that developed. The man was tenacious about keeping in touch and he frankly did not care if you did not appreciate a 5 a.m. phone call. He was going to make sure he touched base with you and you were going to hear what he had to say. Get used to it, or as he was so often heard to say - "If you are going to hoot with owls, you must soar with the eagles". In other words, get up because the day has begun.

Mike was a self-taught man who graduated high school in Montreal and then joined the U.S. Navy. He served on the USS Sam Houston (SSBN-609); the USS Irex (SS-482) and the USS George Washington Carver (SSBN-656) where he was on the Gold Crew as a Nuke Electronics Technician. He credits the Navy for the formal education he received but his ever-curious mind allowed him to succeed far past what a high school education was traditionally thought to be able to deliver. After he left the Navy, he joined the Millstone Nuclear Power Station, and he served with distinction in many ways. Mike served as the Unit 3 Instrumentation and Controls Manager during unit startup. Mike lead the development of a new Technical Training Program where his leadership, imagination and creativity came into full bloom by using strategies never before imagined in the Nuclear Industry. Mike was chosen to become the Director of Quality Assurance for the Northeast Nuclear Program. Following his career at Northeast Utilities, Mike consulted in a number of initiatives including the integration of the Garden State Parkway and New Jersey Turnpike organizations, a clear demonstration of incredible versatility of thought and the courage to tackle any problem without the fear of failure that limits so many.

In addition, he singularly developed and championed a science program with Three Rivers Technical College (then known as Thames Valley Technical College) that challenged people with strenuous science and math courses to be capably prepared for employment in technical positions. In all roles that Mike was challenged with he displayed tenacity, created positive results and elevated the status quo to re-define what excellence looked like.

However important the measure of a person by career success is, it only defines one component of a positive life. Mike was totally altruistic. All his life, Mike was a dedicated mentor to his subordinates and a positive influence to his leaders and a benefactor to students of all disciplines. Mike loved his community and worked on many projects to elevate his town and its citizens. Mike regularly gave of his savings to support struggling young people who had talents and aspirations, but not the money to pursue their dreams. Many musicians, artists, engineers and scientists were able to get an education due to Mike's support, encouragement and generosity.

Mike has completed his work on earth. Heaven now will receive a servant whose influence remains today on all who had the benefit of his life, energy, benevolence, leadership, love, and example. Mike Brown, an extraordinary individual, with a superb mind and boundless intellectual curiosity, coupled with a tireless work ethic has left this world a better place from his efforts.

The family will gather at noon Monday, Feb. 24, with a 1 p.m. service at Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Avenue in New London. A private interment will follow immediately at the Norwich Hebrew Benevolent Cemetery in Preston.

In lieu of flowers, the family is creating a scholarship program at Three Rivers Technical College in Mike's name. Donations can be made to the: TRC Foundation , 574 New London Turnpike, Norwich, CT 06360. Please note the donation is made in the memory of Michael B. Brown.

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Published by The Day on Feb. 22, 2020.

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Coy Wooten

February 27, 2020

Mike provided so many opportunities to so many. I will be forever grateful for the chance he gave me. God rest your soul Mike.

Al

February 25, 2020

Mary, I was saddened to hear of Mikes passing from my mom. Thinking of him brought back so many wonderful memories! ♥ To say he was a selfless and giving person who had an unparalleled work ethic would be an understatement. I know that every other former member of the Surfers Drum and Bugle Corp would agree - wed have never achieved the level of success we did without Mikes hard work, dedication and caring for all! He was truly an amazing man in many ways and one of a kind. Rest In Peace, Mike...

February 25, 2020

One thing I know to be true about my cousin Michael is his ability to give. His love for his fellow man was beyond incredible. I never understood just where he found time for himself. His love for his family & his love for friends that became family. He was a remarkable person. All those who knew him I have no doubt were touched by him in some way. He was an honorable soul. May his memory be for a blessing.

With Great Admiration,

Edith Brown, Silver Spring, Maryland

Fred Dacimo

February 24, 2020

What can you say...........he has gone to a better place (he has) we are all less for his passing (we are). On a personal level I am grateful on so many levels for having known and worked with Mike. As a senior manager Mike ALWAYS SPOKE THE TOUGH TRUTH even if it wasn't popular. Never sugar coated anything and threw down the middle fastballs every day. With that approach he was highly respected by so many and I count myself as one of his fans. That is just one dimension of a man but there were so many more. His generosity to his friends and community is legendary in both resources and time. His creativity / out of the box approach to solving issues made me at times think .....how the heck did you come up with that. The wonderful thing was when the approach was put into practice you got great results. I had the opportunity to see him in his last days in the hospital and while i know he was in dire straights his greeting to me was just like when he saw me at Millstone............not even the slightest difference. If he wasn't in bed in a hospital gown I would have said lets' go outside and get some air to talk. Thank you Mike for so many things.

February 23, 2020

So sorry to hear of Mike's passing. We are sorry we won't be there with you on Monday. We send our love and have wonderful memories of Mike. Love from Mark, Patty & Abby Rose

Rev. Mark Anthony Cornish

February 23, 2020

May God continue to provide peace and comfort to all of Mike's family and friends.
I am praying that the love of God would fill your hearts.

Barry Card

February 23, 2020

To all of Mike's family and friends, my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. I was a QC inspector during unit 3 start up, Mike was in charge of unit 3 I & C department, many great conversations I had with Mike, it would be an understatement by me to tell you how important Mike was to millstone power plants and the training department. no one better.

Bill Satti

February 22, 2020

Mary I'm so sorry to hear of Mike's passing. He was such a great man and a mentor to me, may it have been with the City of New London when he served on the Finance Board and later when I worked for him at Millstone. Thoughts and prayers and may he Rest In Peace.

Sal Orefice

February 22, 2020

So sorry to hear of Mike's passing. He was a remarkable person and I consider myself privileged to have known and worked with him.

My condolences to the family.

Mike rest in peace.

Carl Clement

February 22, 2020

So, so sorry to learn of Michael's death. High energy, tenacious, very smart in the most practical way. A really great leader, mentor, friend.

Candy Marien

February 22, 2020

Mike's tenacity in his fight for that and those whom he considered to have a talent, idea or concept, that could benefit some aspect of both industry and/or human life was remarkable. His constant quest to look at how things worked, grew and existed, and how they might be bettered was tiring to those of us who envied his energy. I never could understand how he could put so much into work and then extend himself even further into bettering his family and communities as well as maintaining his involvement with his shipmates. If anyone deserves to rest in peace, it surely is Michael. My sincere condolences to his family and close friends. He will be missed by many.

Harry Haynes

February 22, 2020

Mike had a High School education true - but anyone who knew him understood he also had a Ph.D in:

Leaderships and Management
Education
Psychology
Parenting
Governmental Affairs
Law
Medicine

With all this knowledge and capability Mike could have been wealthy beyond imagination but this was not his mission in life. He obtained all of these degrees for one purpose and that was to help others. Mike was the most selfless man I ever knew or ever will know. Judy and I are fortunate to have been in his orbit these past 45 years as a member of the Mike Brown Family.

In thinking of our Michael I was reminded of another Michael described in the Bible - The Archangel Michael. Now, I never knew our Michael to be particularly religious and he was certainly no angel. However, the similarities between these two Michaels is undeniable. On-line at https://www.learnreligions.com/how-to-recognize-archangel-michael-124278 you can read about the Bibles Michael and if you do, you will know that our Michael will be very well received and will get a warm embrace for a job very well done, a life lived in the service of others.

Mary, Cathy and Scott - we grieve with you for your loss but feel relieved to know that Michael has been released from his suffering. In the Months and Years that lie ahead we know that, together, we all will relive and enjoy our remembrance of Michael who will be missed but never forgotten.

Harry and Judy Haynes
Naples, Florida

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