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Raymond L. Jacobsen

10/27/1935 - 8/14/2025

Raymond L. Jacobsen obituary, 10/27/1935-8/14/2025, Niantic, CT

BORN

10/27/1935

DIED

8/14/2025

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Guilford Funeral Home

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Guilford, Connecticut

Raymond Jacobsen Obituary

Niantic - Raymond L. Jacobsen, 89, born and raised in Guilford and a longtime resident of Niantic passed away Aug. 14, 2025. He was the husband, life-long best friend, and soulmate of Barbara Knowles Jacobsen. They recently celebrated their 68th wedding anniversary.

Raymond was born in Guilford, Oct. 27, 1935, the son of Morris and Margaret Jacobsen. He was the loving father of Bruce Jacobsen (Kathy) and Julie Jacobsen Simon (Martin). He is also survived by one granddaughter, Corey "CJ", and three grandsons, Mike, Kevin, and Nick.

The youngest of eight boys, Raymond was predeceased by his brothers, Henry, Paul, Marius, Howard, Robert, William, and Edwin.

Ray honorably and proudly served his country in the United States Army.

Raymond was a 1953 graduate of Guilford High School, a 1962 graduate of University of Connecticut (Bachelor of Science in Mathematics), a 1970 graduate of Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute (Master of Science in Computer Science), and earned a certificate from Connecticut Culinary Institute.

Prior to retirement, Raymond worked as a computer scientist at General Dynamics Electric Boat, Sonalysts, Connecticut College, and the State of Connecticut at the York Correctional Institute.

He enjoyed spending time with family and friends, fishing, biking, skiing, hiking, gardening, kayaking, cooking, walking the Niantic boardwalk, bowling, and viewing wildlife in his backyard and at Rocky Neck State Park.

Burial services will be held privately.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Rails to Trails (Connecticut) or 30 Mile River Watershed Association (Mount Vernon, Maine).

To share a memory or leave condolences, visit www.guilfordfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Day on Aug. 19, 2025.

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Susan Reardon

August 20, 2025

I remember Ray from my years (so long ago) working at Connecticut College. He was always steady and professional in the days when computing was new to me. I also would see him around town, always smiling. Barbara, may your sorrow be eased knowing that Ray will be remembered with fondness.

Bonnie Vuilleumier

August 19, 2025

Such wonderful memories of Ray! At The Shack breakfasts, his holiday letters, one carnation for me when bringing them to Barbara at school! He was definitely one of a kind. My deepest sympathy and love goes out to you Barbara and your family. May he always be remembered with smiles.
Love, Bonnie

Dave Fairman

August 19, 2025

Rest in Peace

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