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Susan Weaver Obituary

New London - Susan Lee (Randall) Weaver, born on June 21, 1965, passed away on Saturday, Dec. 22, 2012, after a courageous battle with melonomia.

She is survived by her loving husband of 26 years, Donald Weaver; and their two children, Leeanne Weaver of North Stonington and Bryan Weaver of Waterford. She is also survived by her two sisters, Irene Gibbs of Carlsbad, Calif., and Randee Jermainne of Chester; and her two younger brothers, John Ben Randall of Old Saybrook and William Randall of Springfield, Va. She will also be missed by her nine nieces and nephews and many cousins.

Susan was predeceased by her parents, Velma (Keefe) Randall and John Leslie Randall of East Lyme.

Susan graduated from East Lyme High School in 1975 and attended Mohegan Community College, earning a certificate for early childhood care. For the past 15 years, Susan was employed at Home Depot in Waterford.

Susan enjoyed outdoor activities including skiing, boating and spending time with her family. She was an active participant in the Special Olympics, participating in soccer and swimming. She was always proud of her medals and achievements while participating in team and individual events.

The family would like to thank the Connecticut Department of Developmental Services of New London for their support and care. We would also like to thank the staff and doctors from Oncology & Hematology Associates of New London.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at noon Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012, in St. Joseph Church, Squire Street, New London. Interment will be private at the convience of the family.

Contributions in lieu of flowers may be made to the American Cancer Society.

Fulton-Theroux Funeral Home, New London is handling the arrangements.

Please visit www.fultontherouxnewlondon.com for photos, tributes, directions and more service information.

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Published by The Day on Dec. 23, 2012.

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January 10, 2013

Susan will be missed dearly, I've known her for many years, and she always put a smile on my face. God Bless Donald her loving husband, and her family

(-=< Ray & Mindy Hamilton >=-)

January 2, 2013

Dear Don, Leeanne, Bryan, and the entire Weaver/Randall Family,

I belong to Groton New London International Church of Christ, and we have learned, through the Findings and their relationship with Bryan, of your sad loss; havin' lost both parents myself, I know, all too well, that very special sadness! Cannot imagine your loss, though, Don.

I have used this eulogy I wrote for my own mom as a grief enabler in both hospice work and my bereavement ministry. Understanding, only somewhat, the hole left behind, regardless the inevitability or forewarning, pray this helps some wee bit...to allow...enable…your grief! So truly sorry to hear about your wife, mom, sister, aunt, cousin, and friend. At least now she's at peace with our Lord…definitely keepin' y'all in my prayers!

When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss…inconsolable…she was my mentor! I like to think that I got my character from my father, but my mind and its capacity from m'dear sainted mother!!! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity dearly close...a cherished, hard-won prize...but, in the interim, that answer lies below.

SELFISH TEARS
(I Eulogize My Beloved Mother - March, 1989)

Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!

We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!

So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!

Ray Hamilton (c) March 19, 1989

Our sincerest condolences and prayers,

Patsy Crothers

December 30, 2012

To the Randall and Weaver family,
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I'll always remember Suzie's happy smile when living on West Mystic Ave,as a kid.

Bill Randall

December 27, 2012

A remembrance of Susan from the funeral:


A partial dictionary definition of an Angel is, “..an agent of God.”

Susan is our Angel. Susan made us all more caring, more tolerant, and more compassionate. I think that anyone that helps you be a more accepting,a more understanding person is an agent of God. Our father always said Susan made him a better father and a better person. Susan was an inspiration to all those who were willing to learn from her.

Life isnot always easy for anyone, but everyone could learn from Susan and how she faced her challenges with the heart of gold and a spirit of resilience. Our parents gave her a loving start, DMR gaveher the opportunity to achieve and live a full life, and Donald gave herhimself, all his love, and their two wonderful children.

Her 26years of marriage with Donald was a testament to their love. Leeanne and Bryan are the extension of her life into the next generation – I hope they see that as a blessing and know that there was nothing and no one that Susan loved more or was more proud of.She is their mother and their greatest fan.

Our angel has been taken too soon, but I know she will be looking down on us and watchingover us all. She will especially be watching over Donald, Leeanne, and Bryan with the same love she has always displayed for them.

All our love Susan! Go with God!

December 27, 2012

Susan was a dear friend throughout my high school years. I have only the fondest memories of Sue and her family. The world would be a truly wonderful place if everyone could have such friends. I remember bicycling with Susan to Gillette's Castle, walking many miles on a day off from school due to a snowstorm to visit a horse farm, picking raspberries together for hours at Scott's Farm Market, pitting cherry after cherry after cherry to make a pie together. Susan was full of life and will be remembered that way. I'm so very glad we were able to re-connect if only briefly . Peace, and happy memories to Sue's family and friends.
Linda Worley-Bell

December 26, 2012

Shirley Gatica

December 26, 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm sure she's better now and God is gonna be with you and all your family to go through this moments now. God bless you all and you know you can count on me. Love you Leeanne.

TISCOM Family

December 26, 2012

Donald, Bill and Family, we offer our deepest sympathies and prayers during this sorrowful time. In honor of Susan and your family we will be making a contribution in her name to the American Cancer Society. With love and best wishes from your USCG TISCOM Family.

Sue at beach

Bill Randall

December 26, 2012

At beach

December 26, 2012

Randee Jermaine

December 26, 2012

Randee Jermaine

December 26, 2012

Maria Fernandes

December 26, 2012

Donald and family, my deepest sympathy, my heart goes out to you during such a difficult time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Trevor and I will miss Susan. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to ask.
Love Maria & Trevor

Elsie (Sisson) Haynes-Pearson

December 25, 2012

Donald- So sorry to hear about Sue. Sure will miss her when I go to Home Depot. Hope you are doing okay with all of this. Your cousin Elsie (Uncle Ken's daughter.)

Gina Di Bella Navia

December 25, 2012

Randee. I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved sister. May she rest in peace.

Renee Gibbs

December 24, 2012

I love you and miss you already.

Irene Gibbs

December 24, 2012

Irene Gibbs

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Irene Gibbs

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Irene Gibbs

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Irene Gibbs

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Irene Gibbs

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Denise Watrous Markovitz

December 24, 2012

Randee~ Mike and I are so sorry for your loss. All our love to you and your family.

Kris Forte

December 23, 2012

Don and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I've had the pleasure to work with Sue at the Waterford Home Depot for the last five and a half years and she always had a smile on her face. She will be missed dearly by all of us and we are all here for you in your time of need.

Karen Caserta

December 23, 2012

Randee, for all the years I have known you, you always talked so lovingly of Susie. She was the light of your life, and she will always have a special place in your heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, Donald, and the rest of your family. love Karen

Hether Speight

December 23, 2012

Donald and family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. May you find peace during this difficult time. I enjoyed working with Sue at Home Depot, she always asked how I was with a smile on her face. I am so very sorry for your loss

Susan and my daughter Cameron in 2011

Minh Cone

December 23, 2012

Randee-I will miss Susie dearly, and the smile that she had on her face when she saw Aydan or little Cammie. Love from all of us.

Judy & Cliff Barrows

December 23, 2012

Randee - You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

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