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Thomas J. "Tom" Condon

2/7/1946 - 9/10/2024

Thomas J. "Tom" Condon obituary, 2/7/1946-9/10/2024, New London, CT

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2/7/1946

DIED

9/10/2024

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Thomas Condon Obituary

New London - Thomas J. "Tom" Condon, a journalist who for more than 50 years informed, challenged and entertained readers, died Tuesday, Sept. 10, 2024, of cancer. He was 78.

Tom's career was wide-ranging and influential. From his start in the Courant's Old Saybrook bureau, he went on to become a general assignment reporter on a team known as "the bullpen," open the newspaper's New Haven bureau as its chief and be one of two reporters on the paper's first investigative team. In 1980, he became the special projects editor on the state desk, mentoring its large staff of reporters to report and write stories of consequence. Later, as the Hartford education writer, his ability to land front-page stories led to his role for 18 years as a widely read columnist on the city desk. For several years, he delivered commentary on WVIT-TV, Channel 30, earning a Boston/New England region Emmy award in 1991. Courant colleagues frequently sought his advice and guidance, particularly on how to dig out and tackle a story. He was skeptical but never cynical, industrious, exacting and dedicated to truthful reporting. No one knew his state and its characters or loved them more than Tom. In 2003, Tom joined the editorial page, where his lively writing and diligent reporting earned so many awards that they covered a wall in the department's conference room. He created the Place section covering urban affairs, land use, historic preservation and transportation. He became chief editorial writer, a role he held until he retired from the paper at the end of 2015. The next week, he went to work part-time at the Mirror, where he was its urban and regional affairs reporter until his death.

He was honored by numerous journalistic and civic organizations in his career. The Junior League called him "Hartford's conscience." He was inducted into the New England Newspaper Hall of Fame in 2016.

Tom was born on Feb. 7, 1946, in New London, the eldest of seven children of M. Carolyn Condon and Thomas P. Condon, the city's long-serving probate judge. "TJ" attended St. Mary's School and St. Bernard's High School, where he was on the varsity football team. At the University of Notre Dame, he played on the club rugby team that was the first Notre Dame team to compete in Ireland, joined the staff of the university's then-newly founded newspaper, The Observer, and wrote for a humor magazine, The Leprechaun. He joined the Courant in December 1968. The following March, he left for military service, which included a tour of duty in Vietnam. He was discharged in 1971, with the rank of first lieutenant.

Throughout his life, Tom read deeply about the war, reported on a humanitarian trip back to Vietnam by a group of veterans in 1989, and testified in Congress in support of lifting the trade embargo with Vietnam. While working at the Courant, Tom attended the University of Connecticut School of Law, graduating in 1975, and passing the Connecticut bar exam. He worked part-time briefly for Neighborhood Legal Services in Hartford. Although he chose journalism over law, he was proud of his legal education and tapped it throughout his career.

Tom reveled in the companionship and love of his boisterous family and cherished friends from every chapter of his life. He was a devoted husband and father, coaching his daughter, Clare, and son, Jack, on sports teams, ferrying them to music lessons and activities, serving as a Cub Scout troop leader, amusing them with his corny jokes, and sharing his love of rock and roll, the Red Sox, UConn women's basketball and Notre Dame football. Athletics and physical activity were vital to Tom. At various points, he was a runner (completing the Chicago marathon), softball and basketball league player, biking enthusiast (riding with brothers, Garret and Brian, in New York's Five Boro Bike Tour several times), avid tennis player and longtime member of the Hartford Tennis Club.

Tom is survived by his wife, Anne (McGrath), of 37 years; children, Clare Condon-Grade of Wallingford, and John Condon of Chicago; and son-in-law Aaron Grade; brother Garret Condon (Daria Caruso) of West Hartford; and sister Deirdre Wyeth of New York City; sisters-in-law: Virginia McGehee of Colchester, Vt., Sherri Condon of New London, Maureen McGrath (James Manfredi) of East Haddam, and Margaret DiScipio (Joseph) of Falls Church, Va.; and nieces, nephews and grandnephew: Carolyn Jacobs (Matthew), May Wyeth, Thomas Condon, William Jacobs; Cara, Emma, Maria and Matthew Manfredi; Adelia, Joanna and Margaret DiScipio. Tom was predeceased by his parents; four siblings and brother-in-law: C. Patricia, Brian, James and David Condon, and John Wyeth.

The family will receive visitors from 4 to 7 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 19, at St. Patrick-St. Anthony Church, 285 Church Street, Hartford, where Tom was a parishioner and volunteer in its food ministries. A funeral Mass will be held at 10 a.m. Friday, Sept. 20, at the Church and live-streamed (visit spsact.org or molloyfuneralhome.com). Burial will be private.

Tom asked that memorial donations be made to the CT Mirror (ctmirror.org) or Camp Courant (campcourant.org). If you can share a story or two about Tom, email the family at [email protected] honor Tom's life, subscribe to a local newspaper, volunteer in the community and attend a baseball game on a warm evening.

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Published by The Day on Sep. 15, 2024.

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David Borstein

September 22, 2024

We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Tom. I will miss our chats at the farmers market and our weekly tennis group at the Armory many moons ago! David and Agneta Borstein

Doreen Arnold

September 16, 2024

So sorry for your loss..Who's going to MC reunions now ? So glad I got to see him in June. He was a special guy.. condolences to all the family. Treasure your memories. RIP Tom

Matt Wimberger

September 14, 2024

I am so sad to hear of Tom´s passing. I recall, with great fondness, coaching Little League with Tom, as we coached our two sons. It was a great time, and I always felt fortunate to be coaching with him. He was so sincere and funny, just a wonderful man. No wonder so many people looked up to him. He set a great example, on the sidelines coaching our sons, and in life. I am better off having had that time with Tom.

Ken Dooley

September 14, 2024

Your column about Sandy Hook should be required reading for every journalism student in the country. Unfortunately, your integrity and dedication to the underdog is not something that can be taught. You left us too soon, but you created memories that will never be forgotten. They will stay with me forever. Ken Dooley

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