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Thomas E. Wheeler Thomas E. Wheeler, 68, of Westerville, OH, and formerly of Bourbonnais and Joliet, IL, died Monday, September 28, 2009, at Mt. Carmel East Hospital, Columbus, OH, after a brief illness. Mr. Wheeler was employed in sales as the Ohio representative of the J.S. Paluch Co. of Franklin Park, IL, at the time of his death. He was born June 28, 1941, in Streator, IL, attended St. Paul the Apostle Grade School in Joliet, and was a 1959 graduate of Joliet Catholic High School. Survivors include his wife, Marcia; sons, Timothy, Brian, Sean, and Kevin; seven grandchildren; one great-granddaughter; and his brother, Rev. Charles Wheeler, Pastor of St. Rose Parish, Kankakee. He was preceded in death by his parents, Patrick and Ruth (Langan) Wheeler; and one brother, Patrick, Jr. Tom was formerly employed in sales by Lewis Brothers Shoes in Joliet and Kankakee. He was an avid euchre player and very avid White Sox, Bear, Bulls, Notre Dame, and Illinois fan. He also enjoyed an occasional round of golf. He was a Lector and very active member of his parish of St. Matthew the Apostle in Gahanna, where Mass was celebrated on Thursday, October 1, at 11:00 AM. His body will be returned to Joliet where Mass will be celebrated at 10:30 AM, Monday, October 5, at St. Paul the Apostle Church, 18 North Woodlawn, Joliet. Family and friends may gather at the church from 9:30 AM until the time of Mass. Burial will be in the family plot at Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Joliet. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the Missionaries of the Precious Blood, 431 East Second Street, Dayton, OH, 45402. Arrangements are being coordinated by Clancy-Gernon Funeral Homes, Kankakee, infor 815-932-1214. Please sign guestbook at www.clancygernon.com.

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Published by Herald-News on Oct. 4, 2009.

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Kevin Wheeler

November 17, 2009

I inherited that laughter from my father. It is good to laugh, bill; But sometimes ya just can't. It is very comforting to know that Dad was loved by many people.
Thank you to all for your love and prayers. I think i am going to be ok; but please continue to pray for Marcia.
Thanks again,

Kevin Wheeler, Son #4

Linda Lewis

October 11, 2009

I can still hear in my mind Tom's uproarious laughter, which you could hear from any corner in Lewis Bros. What a joyous person he was. Although I hadn't seen Tom in more than 25 years I still think of him fondly and remember what an asset he was to my family's shoe business. I am sorry for your loss.

October 6, 2009

To all members of Tom's family:

My deepest sympathy on Tom's death. I knew Tom through his work at J. S. Paluch; he was a gentleman, and a pleasure to do business with. I shall miss him. You and he are all in my prayers.

Judy Madrzak
St. Bede the Venerable Church
Mentor, Ohio

Bill Hopper

October 5, 2009

"Bones". I have to confess. I didn't wasn't always telling the truth when I told you I used shoe trees.

Bobbie Meyers

October 5, 2009

Marcia, I am so shocked and so very, very sorry for your loss!!! I had no idea or I would have been at the church!!! My heart goes out to you and you are in my prayers!!!

Bobbie Meyers
St. Matthew Parish

Kelli Trainor

October 1, 2009

Marcia Wheeler and Family. I am so sorry to hear about the sudden loss of Tom. I want you to know how dear of friends you were to my Mother and Father Tom & Rita Slattery. They loved playing cards and visiting with you. Your Tom and our Tom had a lot in common and alot to share. I know they are reunited in Heaven and sharing old stories. You have all of our love and support during this difficult time. Know that we are praying for you and that we will always hold a special place in our heart for you Marcia. The Children of Tom & Rita Slattery (spokesperson Kelli Trainor)

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