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Brian “Bee” William Watcke, age 19, of Shelton, CT passed away on Saturday, September 5th, 2009. Brian was born on January 19, 1990 in Bridgeport, CT and lived in Stratford until moving to Shelton in 1997. He is survived by his devoted parents William and Lorraine Delia Watcke and his loving sister Stephanie Watcke.
Brian attended St. James School in Stratford and later Booth Hill Elementary School in Shelton where he was named “Citizen of the Year.” He graduated from Shelton High School in 2008 with high honors. Following high school Brian was enrolled in Western Connecticut State University where he was pursuing a major in meteorology. From elementary school through graduating high school Brian received numerous awards in excellence including the SHS DECA 1st Place Award in Automotive Services Marketing. He also traveled with the Spanish Club to Mexico for a week where he volunteered to help improve the lives of underprivileged children.
Brian was born an entrepreneur. From a very young age he would go to work with his father on Saturday's for his company Woz Contracting. During his high school years Brian started his own company with his friends called “B and B Odd Jobs.” Brian enjoyed doing many things with his father including going on fishing and hunting trips to their club in Newtown, CT. Brian also had an interest in traveling and nature where he went to national parks from California to Maine with his family while growing up. He loved snowmobiling in the winter and riding his quad in the summer with his friends. His love for weather began at age 5. When he was a little older his passion took him to the top of Mount Washington. Brian was an avid fan of car races and a car show enthusiast.
In addition to his parents and sister Brian is survived by his maternal grandfather Joseph Delia Sr. of Norwalk, CT, and paternal grandparents Albert and Millie Watcke of Trumbull, CT. Also survived by his aunts and uncles, JoAnn Shaughnessy, Joseph and Terri Delia Jr., Alan and Debbie Watcke and several cousins who held a special place in Brian's heart. Brian was predeceased by his maternal grandmother Grace Delia.
A Mass of Christian Burial will take place Thursday, September 10, 2009 at St. Lawrence Church in Shelton. Interment will immediately follow in Lawn Cemetery in Shelton. Friends may call today, Wednesday, September 9, 2009 from 4pm - 8pm at Spadaccino and Leo P. Gallagher & Son Community Funeral Home, 315 Monroe Turnpike, Monroe, CT.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian Watcke
October 8, 2009
My heart breaks for you. I can't imagine the pain and greif you are going through. Know that Brian touched many lives during his short time on earth. Look for those small signs he is still around...you will see them.
October 4, 2009
so sorry
tom sciortino
The Daniels Family
October 1, 2009
To Brian's Family and all who loved him, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you and we offer our deepest condolences. "A heart broken and crushed, O God, you will not despise,". May those comforting words and your precious memories ease the pain of your grief.
Joshua Schmidt
October 1, 2009
Dear watcke family, i am very sorry to here about your loss. i will miss brian very much. we used to be good friends at booth hill. god bless you. i will be praying fot Brian and your family.
September 24, 2009
Dear Watcke family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Brian will always be in our hearts.
BriaLyn Gagner
September 20, 2009
Watcke Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I am so sorry for your loss. Brian meant a lot to me, and was a great friend. He will never be forgotten.
Karissa Goncalves
September 18, 2009
Mr. & Mrs. Watcke and Steph,
It saddens me everyday that this had to happen, especially to such an amazing family. But Bee looks down upon you all with love and will be your guide and protection. I loved your son very much, he was such a good friend to me. He was one in a million and there will never be another like him. You truely raised an extraordinary person. You are in my constant thoughts and prayers, and dont forget I am always here for you.
with love,
Karissa Goncalves
Erin, Bob and Greg Candler
September 17, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss. Brian was a terrific young man who was polite and energetic. I admired his determination. He and Greg would skateboard for 12 hours straight in our driveway in 7th and 8th grade. They built all kinds of crazy ramps and did "ollies" over anything and everything.
This is an difficult loss and I am going to be praying for you to have peace. I know that God will take Brian to be in heaven and he is in Good Hands now.
September 17, 2009
Lorraine, Bill and Family,
So sorry to hear the very sad news about your tragic loss. My prayers go out to you and your family. With deepest sympathy,
Mary Ann DeVries
September 16, 2009
Lorraine and Family,
So very sorry to hear of your tragic loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I hope that somehow you all manage to stay strong for one another as you get through this heartache.
With deepest sympathy, Charlene (Watson) Tatro
Stephanie Rogowski
September 16, 2009
My thoughts are with all of you.
September 16, 2009
DEAR WOZ (BILL AND LORRAINE AND STEPHANIE)
MANY UNSPOKEN WORDS CAN ONLY DESCRIBE THE
HEARTFELT SORROW I FELT AND STILL FEEL WHEN
I HEARD OF THE NEWS OF YOUR BELOVED SON BRIAN AND
ALSO YOUR HEART SURGERY. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR
LOSS. GARY ANDERSEN GAVE ME THE NEWS THIS AM.
AS A PARENT, I CAN ONLY IMAGINE YOUR HEARTACHE. I AM
SO, SO SORRY.
WITH LOVE AND MANY PRAYERS.. GOD BLESS
YOU ALL. THERE IS A NEW ANGEL IN HEAVEN.
CATHY ROSS(WEST END EMPLOYEE)
roxanne babian
September 14, 2009
Lorraine,
So sorry for your loss. I remember Brian from Booth Hill School, when I worked as a para (and you would often sub for me). My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Maureen Lutar
September 14, 2009
Dear Lorraine, Bill and Steph,
I am so sorry. Brian was only a little boy when I came to know him and your family at Steph's SC games. I remember the snowmobile plans and other trips Bill looked forward to sharing with him. I know he was a happy, well-loved little boy with terrific parents, a great sister, and knowing you all, none of that love ever diminished for Brian. Please accept my deepest sorrow for your terrible loss.
Mike Hurley
September 14, 2009
Watcke Family,
You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Love you neighbors..
Kathleen Shannon
September 13, 2009
Dear Watke Family..
I remember Brian and the street hockey gang in sixth grade, how much fun they had, how organized they were and all their sleep overs. How that group of boys interacted often reminded me of how they were living the ideal dream of childhood we all carry in our hearts.
My heart goes out to you and your family even as I remember how Brian emanated a sense of purpose and confidence even as a kid.
You and he are in my prayers.
STEPHEN NEVILLE
September 11, 2009
LORRAINE,STEPHANIE AND WOZ MY FAMILY AND I ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. WE WILL ADD YOU TO ARE LIST OF PRAYERS. THE LORD HAS A NEW FLOWER IN HIS GARDEN.
mary sayer
September 11, 2009
We all miss Brian and our prayers and friendship are with you, with love the Sayers
Ben Potok
September 11, 2009
BIll & Lorraine: When I heard the news i was heartbroken. Brian was a wonderful person with tremendous potential. Please let me know if I can do anything for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Sincerely
Ben
September 11, 2009
Please accept our sincere sympathy.
Your neighbors,
Bob and Lynne Evans
September 11, 2009
Woz,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
Dave & Monica Pedersen
Merton & Dorothy (Sekelsky)Morrell
September 11, 2009
Our deepest sympathy to the Watcke family.
September 11, 2009
My prayers are with you at this sad time.
Brendan Pommills
September 10, 2009
Watcke family,
I'm so incredibly sorry to hear about Brian. He was a great kid. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
September 10, 2009
Dear Woz, Lorraine and Stehphanie -
Know that both Jeffery and I have been talking all day and sharing the memories of Brian and growing not only in your house, but at St.James and always loving and caring for one another. It's out turn to help you get through this most difficult time. Please let us help both in prayer and in talking about that cute little guy I always remember in his swimmies and showing me around his bedroom!!!! He has put a smile on my face tonight. Sweet, sweet dreams always Brian. Love, Debby and Jeffery Dinan XOXO
September 10, 2009
We just heard that you lost Brian. We are so sorry and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Paul went to school with Brian at St. James.
Recupero Family
Mark, Lisa and Zachary Johnson
September 10, 2009
Woz, Lorraine and Stephanie,
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Your family has always meant so much to us and we are here for you.
September 10, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Sue, Michael & Jennifer DeLeon
September 10, 2009
T0 THE PARNTS & GRANDPARENTS OF BRIAN
MT DEEPEST SYMPATHY.
MARY SEKELSKY (george) PEORIA, AZ.
Monica Short (Cain)
September 9, 2009
Woz, Lorraine and Stephanie,
I am very sad to hear about the loss of your son and brother. We grew up together on Sands Place and Brian was adorable and so polite and I could never forget him. We used to think he looked like the Welch's kid from the commercials. I am so sorry that you have to go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you. He will always hold a special place in my heart.
<3 Monica
Jim and Sandy Longley
September 9, 2009
Bill and Lorraine: How sorry we are about your loss. Always remember the wonderful memories you all have and we both hope that you will always remember those wonderful times you had with Brian. Just wish we could be there to help but I know you have a wonderful family for the support that you need. Although nothing will bring back your son but always remember we love you both and our hearts go out to you. We always think of you both with such love and fond memories. We all have been through so very much through the years. Hugs to you both: Jim and Sandy, Waterford, CT
September 9, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Our deepest condolences.
Keith,Maureen,Mark and Brie McCormack
Roseann & Dan Nuzzo
September 9, 2009
We are so sad to hear about the passing of your precious son Brian. You will be in our hearts and prayers.
September 9, 2009
Bill&lorraine my deepest condolences on the loss of Brian ,may he rest in peace he will always be in our prayers.
Jack / Betty Watcke Jupiter Fl.
c
September 9, 2009
RIP BEE. It sucks you went so soon!
Helia( Ellie) Goncalves
September 9, 2009
"What a sweet young man Bee was ! "
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Thinking of you,Karissa's Mom
John, Jen, Makayla, Hunter & Trevor Teixeira
September 9, 2009
Auntie Lorraine, Woz and Steph,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We will forever remember Bee as that funny little boy making silly faces in the slider at my moms house. May you find the strength you need to get through this. Our hearts are with you and we pray for you every day. All our love.
John & Bonnie Bartoli
September 9, 2009
Dear Lorraine, Woz, Stephanie, Uncle Joe and the whole family,
John and I are deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Brian. Our hearts and prayers go out to you - Every life is a precious gift from God - entrusted to us for a period of time - sometimes so brief, yet Brian has left his imprint on the hearts of those who knew and loved him. May your memories of such a wonderful young man console you always... With all our love and prayers for God's grace to carry you, John & Bonnie...
Jane Ginter Russo
September 9, 2009
Heartsick to hear this sad news. Janie Russo and John Francavilla
Linda Gagner
September 9, 2009
I hope you'll understand,
Although these words are few.
Our Sympathy's sincere;
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Your loss is shared by many who knew Bee. Just some words to let you know
How very much we care . . .
May you feel the strength of God,
As we hold you close in prayer.
The Gagner Family
Linda Brian BriaLyn Arron and Austin
Terry Delia
September 9, 2009
I am thinking of all of you at this very sad time.
Lisette & Michael McCullough
September 9, 2009
Lorraine, Woz and Stephanie,
We are so sorry for your loss.
You are in our prayers.
May all the wonderful memories you have bring you comfort.
Lisa McCarthy
September 9, 2009
I don't know your family,but I grew up with your Uncle Joe. I too,lost my son.Please know we feel your pain and we grieve with you. If there is anything we can do for your family,please do not hesitate to call us.
Sincerely,Tim,Lisa and Randi McCarthy
a parent of a 19 yr old
September 9, 2009
So sorry to hear about your loss.
Peter Jennings
September 9, 2009
Woz & Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you...
Gloria Timpko
September 9, 2009
Dear Bill and Lorraine, my deepest sympathy for your families loss. My prayers are with all of you in the hopes of giving you the much needed strength to move forward each day. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Gloria
Linda, Andrew,Ryan and Olivia Thanassi
September 9, 2009
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers go out to you and your family at this time.
Sincerely, The Thanassi Family
Karen (Gough) Greer
September 9, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Marsha Lynas
September 9, 2009
Lorraine, Woz and Stephanie: My heart is heavy with sadness for you and your family. I pray you find peace in your faith and the love that surrounds you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Richard Saymon Jr
September 9, 2009
I am very sorry for your loss. love Rick
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