Nicanor Amper Obituary

Thinking of you today

Nic....miss you lil' bro!! I won't ever forget

I stumbled upon this and am quite speechless and moved to respond out of respect. To the surviving family and his friends, may his memory be celebrated and cherished amongst you. Specifically to the family, his sacrifice is honored with every Marine, Soldier, Sailor and Airman enlistment for we know what may be asked of us and dare swear to give it all. Thank you for his gift of service. Bless all of you, in Jesus' name.

Thank you for giving your life for the rest of us. I think about you almost everyday. We miss you so much. My son Nicanor is your namesake, and I promise he will make you proud. You are forever loved

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and to also let the Amper Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one, Nicanor Amper IV US Army Sergeant. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

My name is Rhonda Clanton, I am SFC James G Clanton's wife. Your son Nic was a former solider of my husbands at Ft Benning. I just wanted to let you know that I thought so much of your son. I first met him at a cook out that my husband and I had at our home for his soilders. Nic made such an impression. He was one of the most polite people that I have ever had the honor of knowing.

Nic loved my cooking. My husband has heard him tell other soldiers "Don't even think about it! Ms Rhonda made that plate for me". When ever he would come over, I always sent him home to-go plates.

Nic and I became friends and even when he no-longer was in the unit with Jim, and he knew Jim was deployed, he would call on my Birthday, Thanksgiving and Christmas.

I just wanted to say today, that my thoughts are always with you and your family and that you should be very proud of your son. I know that I am a better person for knowing him.

To the family of Nic

My name is Rhonda Clanton, I am SFC James G Clanton's wife. Your son Nic was a former solider of my husbands at Ft Benning. I just wanted to let you know that I thought so much of your son. I first met him at a cook out that my husband and I had at our home for his soilders. Nic made such an impression. He was one of the most polite people that I have ever had the honor of knowing.

Nic loved my cooking. My husband has heard him tell other soldiers "Don't even think about it! Ms Rhonda made that plate for me". When ever he would come over, I always sent him home to-go plates.

Nic and I became friends and even when he no-longer was in the unit with Jim, and he knew Jim was deployed, he would call on my Birthday, Thanksgiving and Christmas.

I just wanted to say today, that my thoughts are always with you and your family and that you should be very proud of your son. I know that I am a better person for knowing him.

I miss you so much, that smile was priceless. I am honored to have my son carry your name, he is now a year and a half, and also has a laugh that is contagious. Thank you for all of the wonderful memories, I love you very much.

Amy Woodington

Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected] is an organization with groups throughout the country who work to send handmade prayer shawls and/or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one while serving our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church of Mechanicsburg, PA would like to extend our sincere sympathy and to honor your loved one's sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a prayer gift which will be mailed to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses of those who would like to receive one and which gift they would like to receive. We will send our gift as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved on who died while serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne

Nic,
It seems as if it was only yesterday that we, meaning you, my brother,me and my sister and all your friends were hanging out at my brothers house. I still remember your big smile.
Thank you for serving our country and protecting all of us. You are truly a hero.

To the family of Sgt. Nicanor Amper:
Nicanor gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."

One of Nicanor's Favorites:

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. 2 He maketh me to lie down in green [1] pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. 3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. 4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. 5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest [2] my head with oil; my cup runneth over. 6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.

Love you son!
Mom

To the family of SGT Nicanor Amper, I offer my deepest sympathy. I thank you for sharing his life and legacy with us. May your love and pride for Nic uphold you in what can be considered anguishing and frustrating times. A special prayers for his boys is being said.

Nic, you and Connik wre the first two friends I ever had. I'll always remember the good times together on Kilo Ave. Playing baseball, playing
football in the street and in the mud at Doer park, swimming in your pool, and everything else we did as kids. I remember playing war with our toy guns and how even back then you knew you were going to join the Marines when you grew up. You set your mind to it and you did it.
We lost touch when you moved away, but I've never forgotten the times we had. I'll always regret never getting in touch with you again as an adult. Judging by what I've read here you grew into a great man who is mourned and missed by many. Rest in peace my friend.

Happy Birthday Nic! Its our 236th birthday. Semper Fi

Nic
I miss you. Not a day goes by where I don't think about you. I remember you scaring the mess out of me at my parents house and just laughing. I remember your last words to me was "I love you" and trust me I love you too always and forever. Your cousin

Nic,

There is so much left to say and no time left to say it in, but I do take the time to talk to you in spirit at least once a day. I miss you so much and everytime I feel down I look up and know that you are looking down saying LBK it is going to be ok so don't worry. Then I think about a time when you would just laugh, you must have the brightest laugh I have ever heard, to this day I can just laugh at your laugh. You are truly a hero and a very loved person. Thanks for all the talks and the advice and just thanks for everything. Much love and respect goes to you from me.

~Always & forever your #1 fan, LaShawn Kyzer (LBK)~

Nicanor,
Man,....... Where to start.... It had been a minute since I saw your Golden smile my dude. All the memories of us running around together thru campbell and west san jose... Our memories of staying at Scotts and chilling!! Going to dig out stumps and laughong about memories past!! My friend I miss you and not a day goes by that you are not on my mind.. Thank you God for blessing me with such a wonderful friendship!!!! See ya when I get there!!!

Dear SSG Amper,
Not a day goes by that I don't wait for you to come walking by Clark ECP just to say "hello" and maybe chat for a little bit. In my mind and my heart I will wait for the day when I can see your "dip filled" smile. Rest in peace!

And to some familiar names, from elementry school...Murphy Misa, Chris Huber ... and Connik...Please feel free to contact me I would like to re connect with you all... wish it wasnt under these circumstances...but it would be great if old freindships could come back together...almost like Nicky bringing all of us together again. that would be amazing. on facebook.. its my name Michael Poncato.. or [email protected]

Nicco, My heart hurts....I am honored and blessed to have known you and experienced all that we did togerther. You are and will always be a GREAT MAN and you will NEVER be forgotten! The light the candle provides will ALWAYS burn for eternity...as so will the memories of a Wonderful Soldier who cared about his fellow loved ones & friends ....May your beautiful soul R.I.P Love You Forever Nicco...Kristally

Nicky...I remember when we were boys...and i looked up to you even back then...ill never forget the times we all shared..so long ago..and years later..i see what i saw then..a leader...and my prayers go out to his family..for the loss of a great man.

Nicky, we were just kids growing up and many years have passed since we spoke. I'll never forget the memories of me, you, my twin brother Michael, and Conik; but the friendship we had and the bond never went away. God Bless You my dear friend...

I am so sorry for your loss. May SGT. NICANOR AMPER rest in peace and you find comfort in knowing that he is. My thoughts and prayers are with NICANTOR and you family. Remembering NICANTOR on this Sept. 11 2011. Thank You an American HERO! ~GOD BLESS~

To the families of our American Heroes,

I want to thank each of you for your personal
sacrifices on behalf of my family and America.
May God comfort your souls and bring peace in
your hearts that your loss is not in vain.
God Bless our valiant warriors families in the
ages to come.

RIP courageous ones!
Psalm 25:20

Julio Rodriguez
MSgt USAF (Ret)
Vietnam 64,65,66,68-69

Nico, you always gave your all... whether it was bringing a smile to your friends' faces or fighting for our country... in life you were a friend... now as a hero. God bless, you will be greatly missed!

God Bless you for your service to our country. Prayers for you and your family.
Most Sincerely

You will never be forgotten!!! God Bless You!!~!

Amps you were a stellar Marine as well as any serviceman. Your service to this country had always been outstanding and nothing less.
I had only known Nic for two years and that was in Golf Co 2/4 USMC, but that was enough to leave a permanent impression in my mind and heart. Not just due to the fact that he was a great Marine/ solider but that he was an honorable and extraordinary man.

Nic no doubt you were a a great soldier due to the fact that you showed so many wonderful qualities as a strong friend and growing young man. You would be genuine when you asked how are you doing.Wish we could of stayed in touch but that was how it was supposed to be. The world is a better place due to your presence in it.Lil k keep your head up and smile for them all. Gone But Never Forgotten you can never be replaced!!!!!!! THANK YOU

My deepest condolences.

Nic, you will always remain alive in our memories I am speechless. Got to know you alot better before I left myself.Glad I did,because you were the most motivated person I had ever met.You are now in rest, watching out for us all.Because, that was the kind of person you have always been.

Nic, I am still in disbelief, I have to express that I am ultimately honored to have grown up with such an admirable man, your tremendous smile will always be embedded in everyone's memories of you, words can not express the gratitude that you deserve, may God embrace you and look after your family, you will always be remembered, never forgotten and always loved old friend!!!

Ms. Norma my deepest deepest condolences are sent your way. Nic loved you dearly and I loved him dearly. He has always been that stand up MAN no matter what. He will truly be missed and forever loved and remembered.

From a WOMAN who LOVED HIM WITH ALL OF HER HEART

Nic, I am proud to have known you if even for a short time. I remember you from junior high and Cambrian little league. You were always kind and respectful to all and quick to smile. What a fine man you turned out to be. You are a hero and will not be forgotten by myself or my family. Thank you for your service. Rest in peace.

Nic, although it has been many years since we spoke I am very proud to have known you as a friend. The days we spent in school together all those years ago will always be good memories. You will be deeply missed by many old and new friends. Thank you for the honor of being a friend and fellow Marine. Your sons will always know what a hero you are to many many people. I am very sorry I cannot be there to honor you on your final journey.

Your Friend
Sean

My Dearest Norma and Family,

My deepest and heartfelt sympathy is extended to you and your family. I will always remember Nic as a special neighbor, and the coolest guy with the most wonderful smile. Your son was so caring and thoughtful, and a great father to his children.

He has left us with a legacy of a true and honorabale hero who protected me every day and millions of Americans, and for that I shall always carry a special place in my heart for Nic.

May you rest in peace my dear Nic.

Linda Esquivel

i will always love and miss you. you were my rock and with you i stood 10 feet tall and without you im back to 5'5...yes i shrunk because you are resting now...i love you nicanor

MY HERO....

Nic, thank you cuz for your courage and sacrifice for our country. You will be missed yet remembered.

Tabrina and family

Thank you for protecting us....rest in heaven sweet boy. k.w.

Dear Nicanor and family-
Know that all of us at United Studios of Self Defense hold you in our prayers. Nicanor, I didn't know your son personally, but if he was anything like you, and I'm sure he was, I know he was courageous, strong, a good husband, father, and friend. He was a positive influence to all those he touched. My heart goes out to you in this difficult time.
~Emily Risberg, Instructor, USSD Saratoga

SGT. NICANOR AMPER You are my Hero may God keep you in his arms forever.

Nic, My Best Friend, My Brother...I have you in my heart always, you have been a great big part of my life. Words cannot express my gratitude for you and your love for our Country. To Mom DeeDee, Dad Nicanor, and Brother Conik. Thank You for sharing your son and brother with all of us. His infectious smile, respect and love for others will never go unnoticed. We always stayed in touch even when we were doing our own things and he never once ended the conversation without saying "Bro I love you"...then in a very serious tone "Murf I Love You Bro"....I will never forget this man that became my best friend and brother all in a matter of minutes. He was someone I can always call on and share whatever I have on my mind. Although my heart weeps for my awesome brother. His bravery, strength and love for me will keep me going and striving to do my very best....Nic, My Best Friend, My Brother...I Love You and the Family....Always! Murphy Misaalefua San Jose, CA

My husband's an Army soldier deployed in Iraq on his second tour. Currently stationed in Fort Hood. We grew up together 18 years ago in Daly City, where this memorial will take place. It really hits home for me as an Army wife. Thank you for your service. I wish I was back home to see the motorcade & see the flags at half staff for you. But I will make sure my friends back home know why.

Dear Nic,
Though it has been sometime since I've seen you last, I can still remember you walking the halls our sophmore year... you wearing your mets jersey and hat. :) I'm so glad I met you Nicanor...your smile and personality are one of a kind. You will be missed by so many and you are extremely brave and I think I speak for all when I say "Thank You"... thank you for protecting what we sometimes take for granted. As i read all these messages, it makes me so happy to know that you have lived such a good life and had touched so many peoples lives. Thank you for all the memories Nic... you will always hold a special place in my heart.

Nicanor and Amper Family,
We are very sorry to hear about your loss. I never met your son, but knew how much you loved him and how excited you were when you got to see them both.
Nic sounds like a tremendous, honorable man who put his life on the line to fight for our country. Thank you!!
You are in our thoughts.

Nicanor you are an American Hero and one who will never be forgotten. I am a co-worker of Nic's mother and he brightened up of the office and my life whenever he came to visit with her. Such a nice young man with a touch of mischiefness! Thank you Nic for your brave contribution in keeping us safe! With the Angels now

I served with Nic when he was in the Marine Corps. He always brought a smile to everyone around him and he will be missed. Semper fidelis!

One of my closest friends at Fammatre & Ida Price. I am truly proud to have known a hero. My thoughts are with the Amper family. Thank you for his service and yours. With love,

Wow!! When I had heard about u I didn't want to believe it! But I guess its true!!! Wow old friend frm Ida Price Middle school u will so be missed by so many of us!!! It is so sad u r gone but u stood up as a strong soldier!! Ur big smile and all ur silly memories will live forever in our hearts.....R.I.P Nicky

I will always remember how nice you were and always smiling.. You'd stick up for me and tell my sister "Leave your little sister alone she cool." You will truly be missed.. My prayers are with your boys and family... Much Love and Honor...

Amper was by far the most loyal soldier I've ever known. I served with him in South Korea. This is a man who would go out of his way at any time, day or night, to help out a friend. Downrange at the bars, or on the battlefield, I can't think of another man I'd rather have watching my back. You will never be forgotten.

Sgt. Amper you served with my my. He says you were a true hero. You will never be forgotten by our family.

Sgt. Amper you served with my son. He says you were a true hero. You will never be forgotten by our family.

My thoughts and prayers are with the Amper family.

Nicanor senior, I don't know what to say. Talking with MoMo about Nic made me laugh to think about all of the times he came into the salon and would show all of us girls his abs! He was always joking around with us. You did a fine job raising those two boys and turning them into wonderful men!

My heart goes out to Nic's family and friends. I remember him with a larger than life smile and laugh, as being a respectful and kind. Thank you Nic for your service, you are a true American Hero.

May God bless and keep you and your family. Thank YOU for your service and sacrifice.

Rest in peace, Nic. We are forever grateful for everything you have done for our country. God bless you and your family...

This is really an amazing site! Thank you so much in reconfirming the hero I always new Nic to be!! May god Bless his wife and kids and the whole Amper family.

Nicanor,
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Please accept my condolences for your loss. Sgt. Amper was the Sgt. for my brother's unit And I would like to express my gratitude for Sgt. Amper for he saved my brother's life in his last moments. With all the sincerity in my heart I give my respect to your family and to the brave soldier who I hold in my heart as a hero now and forever. My heart mourns for your loss and I am praying for your family. I will never forget the sacrifice he made for his country and for a fellow soldier. Thank you.

I had the honor of serving with Sgt. Amper in his platoon and as his driver. He was a damn good NCO, mentor, and a brother to me. He will be greatly missed. You will never be forgotten.
Black Sheep for ever

Please accept our deepest sympathy
for the loss of your loved one and
Hero Nicanor, and our sincerest
gratitude for his service.
God Bless you Sgt. Nicanor Amper...
you will not be forgotten.

This is hard to accept, I'm not sure what to say so I'll just type from the heart. Your friends, your family, everyone is proud of you and your legacy. You were always a good man, and you treated all of us youngsters like your own family. You will be missed and never forgotten. Rest peacefully and God bless you and the Amper family.

- Weege

Nic, You will be greatly miss by all who knew you. I only meet you at your wedding. But knew that you were a great man. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Amy

I am priviledged to haved served with Nic as his former Platoon Sergeant at FT Benning. Nic was a fine person and a dedicated Soldier who will be missed by many. My sincere condolences to the Amper family and to Nic's Army family. Rest in peace my brother.

Nic, you were a great guy with a wonderful sense of humor. You easily fit into our family with your ability to see the lighter side of life and always showed it with your smile. You will be greatly missed by many. Thanks for the memories. R.I.P. NIC!

SGT Amper...so glad that I got the chance to know you not only as a fellow Soldier but as a Friend!! You will b e greatly missed..R.I.P. Amp!!

First thing I thought of was Nic's big grin. Im praying for his family to get through this hard time.
Red

RIP Nic, you rest and watch over us. We will meet again and yes you can have a pinch! Semper Fi Brother

To the Amper family I am so very sorry for your loss. He was a great man and was proud to have served with him.

Nic,
Neither your service nor your sacrifice will ever be forgotten. You have touched the lives of so many with your smile, laughter, dedication and integrity. May you rest in peace and may your family and friends find comfort in your memory. Thank you so much for your friendship.
xoxoxox

nick, you also touched extended families of your military friends/family with your contagious smile and jokes. we will never forget you mijo, you will always be in our thoughts and prayers

My jaw dropped when I first heard the news.. My first thought was one of my oldest friends was gone...

I have many, many memories of Nicky. We grew up in the same neighborhood from elementary through Jr. high.. If we weren't in school, we were out playing tag or riding bikes in the street.. or out at CPLL. He was one who had a contagious smile, laugh (and at one time a flat top) that was unmistakable. Always willing to give the shirt off of his back. A protective older brother and great friend.

I recently saw him about a year ago and he hadn't changed one bit. Hard to believe that's was the last time I'd ever talk to him...

Thank you for serving and protecting us and our country. Rest in peace my friend, you will be dearly missed.

SGT. NICANORAMPER You are my Hero May god keep you in his arms forever.

That you became a great man, missed by so many is a tribute to you and to your parents. I had the honour of knowing you as a young man. You were always funny, warm and considerate. Truely a terrific kid, even back then. What a credit to your Mother and Father you have been!

I grieve for the loss that your parents, your brother, your wife and your boys and all that have remembered you here are suffering.

I thank you for your service to democracy and your protection of the innocent. I'm proud to have known you Little Nic. Rest in peace.

Godspeed SGT Amper to Fiddler's Green, where he can keep watch on his family and his friends in harm's way. Scouts Out! and Semper Fi! brother...

dear amper family & friends,

i dont know nic but im really sad every american soldier die in the battle to protect us. i know that god will grant him and forgive him to all his sins. im sorry for your lost for us you are a hero. may you rest in peace.

Nic you were the nicest guy I knew. I remember when you first come to our platoon in the Marines and I remember all the laughter you gave all of us. You were cool and you were tough. Thanks for adding your presence to my good memories. Rest in Peace my good brother.

Nic, It was an honor to have been your squadleader the Marine Corps. I wish we could have served together in the Army. I will miss you Devil Dog...Semper Fi
Your Former Squadleader, Fernando Gutierrez III SGT/USMC 95-99

I had the pleasure of serving with Nic in the Marines. He was one of the best roommates/brother I ever had. Nic helped me through some rough times my first year in the Corps. He will be missed.

I was so saddened to hear about the loss of Nic today. I am proud to be able to say that he was my friend and was able to serve with him. Nic, always knew how to put a smile on everybody’s face. My condolences go out to his family.

Till we see each other again my brother, Semper Fi.

I had the pleasure of being Nicanor's fourth grade teacher at Fammatre. Back then, we called him Nicky. It was so long ago, but I remember Nicky's smile and his laugh. Nicky was a favorite of everyone in the class! As I read of Nicky's accomplishments, my heart swelled with pride. What a fine man he grew up to be! I am so sorry for the loss of this wonderful man. He died far too young! My prayers are with his family! Please know that he was loved by all at Fammatre.

nic was a great man and always had a , he wa a true friend to those who knew him.
my thoughts and prayers go to his family and friends.

Amper,

It was an honor knowing you, I'm sorry you left this world so soon.

I had the pleasure of serving with nic in the Marines, we where roommates in Japan. He was one of the greatest people I've ever met. I'm truly sorry for your loss.

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Nic,
It's hard to come up with words to say what I want because the tears just start welling up and all I can think about is how unfair this is, but that's what we do as service members and we accept that risk. I have so many fond memories of my Marine Corps Brother and your memory will always be close to my heart. To your family, know this, Nic was a favorite amongst all that he served with and it was an honor to have served with him. God Bless him for now he is gaurding the streets of Heaven where I will see him again someday.
Semper Fidelis

Amper Family,

I had the privilege of serving with nic in the marines. He was not only my friend, but a brother who I held close to my heart. The world is a lesser place without him because he brought so much joy and happiness to everyone he met, in & out of the military. RIP Nic, I will see again one day my brother. Semper Fidelis!!

Nic, it was an honor getting to be your friend back in our Marine Days and I look forward seeing again at those pearly gates! I love ya and I'll always remember you and what you've done, Semper Fi my brother!

Nic, I will miss you soooo much brother. My condolences to your family. Your memory will forever burn with your first military family. Third platoon Golf 2/4 First Marine Division. Semper Fi brother. RIP.

It had been years since I'd seen or spoke with Nic, but the memories are so vivid.

I remember very charming 11th grader always flashing a smile and asking if I would share some of whatever sweet confection I had in my backpack.

I remember him standing out in a crowd of rowdy teenaged boys as polite and sincere.

I remember him speaking very highly of his little brother; almost as though he were the little brother himself...yet cognizant of the fact that he had to set an example.

I remember meeting a man that stopped in to see if his mom was home to visit. She wasn't. After he left, I said to Nic, "Well he seems nice..." and him responding, "Yeah he's nice a'ight, but if he hurts my mom, I'll kill him." :) What a good son.

I remember the letters he'd write from Camp Pendleton and how much he looked forward to my goofy care packages consisting mostly of candy.

I remember him opening doors, pulling out chairs, NEVER accepting my offer to pay, and taking one of those famous hoodie sweatshirts off for me to wear when I was cold.

I remember him pulling up in that famous gold Del Sol in front of my parents' house. Too many *boys* would have honked the horn and waited. He parked, walked up to the door and knocked.

I remember him visiting me at work during my lunch hour to take me to a local taqueria and then to eat on a picnic bench at the park.

I remember him being very complimentary, but always respectful.

It hurts my heart to know that he's no longer on this earth, but find some comfort in knowing that based on his behavior here, he must have gotten a HUGE promotion in our Lord's Army.

I will never forget you.

My prayers go out to his family and friends may god be with you all at this time ,, always in are hearts forever ,,,

Dear Amper Family & Friends,

I had the honor of knowing Nicanor Amper IV for many years and have so many fond memories of his infectious laugh, big smile, and he was a great friend of mine. My prayers are with his children and the entire family. I am so proud of Nic and all of his wonderful accomplishments and will cherish all the great memories we shared.
Lots of love,
Natalie Bliss-Elola aka Natdawg

I will always love you, and I will never forget you. My daughters and I are better people for having known you and had you in our lives. I am keeping your sons and your family in our prayers. You sacrificed your life to keep our other friends safe. You will always be my hero.