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Christopher Pulcher Obituary
Christopher was born July 16, 1972, in Belleville. His parents are Yvonne (Pulcher) Henson of Waterloo, and Richard J. Henson, who preceded him in death.
Christopher was a painter working out of District Council 58 of the Painter's Union Local 32 in Carbondale. Mr. Pulcher was a member of Vine Community Church in Carbondale. He was also a member of Waterloo Social Club and Christian Motorcycle Association. He loved playing the drums, riding his Harley, taking friends out boating, but most of all was his love of God and being a good father.
Funeral services will be at 1 p.m. Saturday, Feb. 7, 2009, in Vine Community Church in Carbondale, with Pastor Greg Darling officiating. Friends may call from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the church.
In Cahokia, funeral services will be at 1 p.m. Monday, Feb. 9, 2009, in Braun Colonial Funeral Home, with the Rev. Ron Hebel officiating. Burial in St. Paul's Lutheran Cemetery in Columbia. Friends may call from 1 to 8 p.m. Sunday, Feb. 8, 2009, at the funeral home.
Besides his mother, he is survived by one daughter, Katelyn Pulcher, whose mother is Penny Pulcher; and his dog, Reggie; one sister, Jennifer Henson and Stephen Jaycox of Waterloo; his maternal grandmother, Ellavee Pulcher of Millstadt; his paternal grandmother, Margaret Jane Henson of Belleville; two uncles, Sherman Dean Pulcher of Danville, Calif., and Donald Henson of O'Fallon; five aunts, Jane Washausen and her husband Leroy Washausen of Waterloo, Charlotte Mehrtens and her husband Donald Mehrtens of Millstadt, Dianna Murdock of Waterloo, Rhonda Little of Waterloo, and Elizabeth Henson of Collinsville; special friends, Fred and Mary GIlbert of Rockwood, Chris and Gerry Romine of Cobden, Rob Mezo and Brandon Wilson of Murphysboro, Chad Allen of Carbondale; and numerous friends, nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Besides his stepfather, he was preceded in death by two uncles, Michael Henson and David Henson; one aunt, Verna Joyce Dickerson; and his grandfathers, Sherman Pulcher and Richard L. Henson.
Memorials may be made to the family to establish an educational fund for his daughter, Katelyn.
Pettett Funeral Home is in charge of the arrangements.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Christopher Pulcher
Aunt Elizabeth
March 29, 2009
It's been almost two months. I miss you Scotty.
Angie Burnes-McCandless
March 3, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to Scott's family and friends. I went to high school with Scott in Cahokia and was proud to have called him a friend. I have many memories that i will cherish. I was saddened to hear of his passing. He will be missed.
Elisha Zlotnicki
February 10, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Stacy Cottom
February 9, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this time. I went to grade school with Scott and shared the same birthday. He was always a very nice guy. I know he will be watching over all of us.
Debbie (Wayland) Dietz
February 9, 2009
Our sympathies to the family as our own situation left us unable to attend but please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Barry Deatherage
February 8, 2009
My sympathy to you and your family Yvonne. I never met your son but it sounds like he was a fine young man. I used to hear you speak of him often. I'm sure you'll continue doing so.
James, Linda, Jen Wyatt
February 8, 2009
Scottie, We will always miss u. I kno u will be back with all ur uncles and DAD! Love u man.
Kari Roles
February 8, 2009
My condolences to Scott's family. I did not know him very well, but from what I do know Scott was an amazing and interesting person to be around. I know that he will be gravely missed.
jennifer murdock heiple
February 7, 2009
scotts daugther and all members of his family will be in my prayers.
amie cassady
February 6, 2009
i know chris when i live in cahokia i am sad now that he is gone and never get to see katilyn grow up
Starla Sherman
February 6, 2009
We had fun with Scott and Katelyn every weekend at Kinkaid Lake. He had a great personality and it was enjoyable to be around him. He was a super dad and Katelyn was his princess. My sympathy goes out to Katelyn and to Scottie's mom who we also knew from the lake.
Kender Crow
February 6, 2009
I first met Chris while attending The Vine Church. I then learned that he & Katelyn lived just one road behind where my husband & I live. I was always so impressed with Chris, because he was so young, polite, soft hearted, and most of all,was such a good dad! The last time I saw Chris & Katelyn was at Wal-Mart in the toy section. Besides God, Katelyn was his everything!! My heart hurts for Katelyn, but I know that as she matures she will learn even more of just how great of a person her daddy was!
Chad Allen
February 6, 2009
Christopher Scott will always be a special man to me.I will cherish the time that I was able to have with him and Katelyn. My deepest condolences go out to everyone that had the pleasure of knowing such a great person.
Nancy (Simpson) Webster
February 6, 2009
I am so saddened to hear of Chris's passing. We worked together many years ago and he was always smiling.
He will be missed. My deepest sympathies go out to his family.
Rachel Alexander
February 6, 2009
I remember Chris as being a very warm hearted individual. He always tried to smile even though he may not have felt like it. My greatest sympathy goes out to his daughter and family. You were blessed to have shared the time you had with Chris.
Donna Carroll
February 6, 2009
My deepest sympathies go out to his family, he is the greatest man I've ever known,
the kind of man I can only hope my boys will grow to be.
He will always hold a special place in my heart. We had tons of great times together!!
I love you,I will never forget you and I will miss you always my beloved friend......I'll be seeing ya!
Val Teo
February 6, 2009
To Chris's family:
Chris will be remembered for his faith, kindness, gentleness, generosity, and his love Katelyn. I am saddened and very sorry for your loss.
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