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Randall Fortenberry
January 22, 2012
I know this is very late but I just came across this as I was searching to see if I could find Gary.
I lived next door to Gary at the Arcata Redwood housing out of Orick and we played football together in the cow pasture below our houses. He later attributed those games to his success in high school. I moved from there when I was a Jr and Gary was a Soph. The next time I ran into Gary was in Dec 1959 in Oakland Ca. and heard someone call my name and it was Gary. It turned out we were both there to join the Army and ended up in the same company at Fort Ord for Basic Training. He went on to Tank training and I to the Signal Corp. He would go on to Germany and I to Korea. When they built the Berlin Wall my unit was sent to France. While in France I decided to go to Amsterdam. I was walking down the street in Amsterdam and heard someone call my name. I turned around and it was Gary. Small world we live in. We viisted a bit and went our seperate ways. I've often thought about Gary and was going to touch bases with him but I guess that will have to wait until I'll be walking down that street of gold and hear someone call my name and I'll turn around and there will be Gary!
If any of his family ever read this I want you to know how sorry I am for your loss. Gary was a great guy and a good childhood friend that I never forgot.
Calogero Greco
February 1, 2011
Goditi la pace, in cielo tra gli Angeli!
E' ciò che ti meriti, eri un grande.
Ti voglio bene...
November 21, 2010
Dear Bev and Girls am so so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. I always enjoyed when i would run into Gary in town and catch up on the family, Gary loved to talk. Annee Wilson(Schmidt)
Doris Fearrien
October 14, 2010
I will always remember the oyster feed we had at the ranch. Had some good times, will miss you.
October 13, 2010
Dear Gary,
We are so sorry you had to leave us so soon...we only got together a few times, but we really enjoyed being with you and Bev.
Thanks for putting John on to walking sticks, he doesn't walk but we have a nice collection of them. (witch I have to dust)
Looking forward to seeing you again friend, on the other side.
Love, Linda & John
Donna Crowe
October 11, 2010
Gary was a true original. Just when you thought you knew how he would respond to a certain idea or issue he would surprise you with a completely different take on the topic. Whether you agreed with him or not, his insight would always make you stop and think a little deeper about the subject. In the midst of future discussions I'm sure there are many of us who will find ourselves wondering, "What would Gary have to say about this"?
I picture him now at a heavenly poker party with family and buddies. I'm sure he is getting a round of well-deserved kudos for the fact that he inspired deeper thinking and touched so many lives in a positive way.
Lola Cathey
October 8, 2010
Dear Bev and family,
I am sorry to hear of Gary's passing. My God bless you and help you through these hard times.
Tim Bridgeford
October 7, 2010
Allways had a great time working with Gary. We had a few fun dinners while working in San Jose. Sorry for your loss.
October 7, 2010
Dear Bev and family, I am so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. I will always remember a rainy cold ride from Redding to Burney with Gary singing 'Hey hey Mama can't your Dad come home" without smiling. We were so young in 1963.
sincerely Oma Burger
JOHN SEARS
October 7, 2010
From our family to yours I would like to exspress our deepest condolances. Gary had that special way of looking at things ,such as work and play,you couldn't help but have fun. Gary, remember,WHAT'S GREAT?, YOU ARE!
Joe Tomich
October 6, 2010
Bev and Family
Sorry to hear about Gary. Gonna miss his BS stories. Gonna miss him. Maybe he'll shoot a hundred straight up there.
Patrick Mullins
October 6, 2010
The news that Gary had passed left me devastated. My heart goes out to his family, whom I know loved him beyond measure. Gary was like a second dad to me, he was larger than life, and you truly can't say that about many people in the world. Not a week goes by that I don't think of something he showed me or taught me or just said to me that was a simple nugget of plain truth or practicality, things that he always managed to convey in his own special language. I might remember that most about him, the way he seemed to have done everything his own way, even the language he used and the words he seemed to create right out of thin air that nonetheless were not only appropriate but right on the mark. The first time I used a gas-powered chainsaw, or a cutting torch, was with Gary. The first time I went buck hunting was with Gary, and though I never got a shot off it remains one of the best times of my life. I remember the laughter, the jokes he told. If he wasn't making me laugh then he was probably showing me how to do something, and sometimes he did both at the same time. Several months ago I saw a pickup rolling down the road loaded with hay, the way your dad showed me to load my truck that one day, and I just smiled to myself and thought 'before Gary showed me that I would of thought getting that much hay in the back of a truck was impossible.' And that day, after the truck was loaded, he said to me, with a glint in his eye and that barely hidden smile, "I'll follow along behind you and pick up the bales you drop going around the corners..." I still laugh when I think about that.
Just a week ago I was sitting at a light, trying to guess if the truck had enough gas to get to a station about ten miles up the road, or if I needed to turn around and go back to the station I had just passed. While stopped at that light I rocked the truck from side to side, and the needle bounced a little bit, and I knew then I had enough gas to get the next station. Gary taught me that.
It seemed like no matter what I thought I knew, or how 'worldly' I thought my experiences were, every time I saw him he managed to give some piece of advice or a little bit of knowledge that continually reminded me of how incredibly smart he was. He was so much smarter than 99% of the people I know today, and most of them have spent years in universities.
I am just so truly overwhelmed, and saddened. God, I will miss that man for the rest of my life.
Rest in peace, Gary, you earned it, and you deserve it...
October 6, 2010
Bev and family....We were so sorry to hear about Gary's passing. We were so glad that Stacy called us to tell us about him being in the hospital. We got to visit with him before he passed away a few days later. He always told us that he was going to have to get a new set of friends, since he had told us all of his jokes. We loved him and we will miss him..........sincerely Dan & Maureen
Hans Graetsch
October 6, 2010
In loving memory of a wonderful Friend.I will miss you always.
Sharron Fuller
October 6, 2010
I'm sorry to hear about Gary I graduated from Arcata High with him and thought he was a great person.
Sincrely,
Sharron Fuller Peterson
October 5, 2010
so sorry to hear about Gary, He is a very great guy , John and Jolene
Jim & Judy Hagood
October 5, 2010
Bev and family sorry to hear about Gary.
Our hearts go out to you.
Jennifer Dotson-Cogar
October 5, 2010
I just wanted to express my sympathy to the family and friends of Mr. Windbigler. I was one of the many kids who was so fortunate to have him as a basketball coach at Bridgeville Elementary. He was a great role model and a great coach. As I raised my children I would tell them about this great coach I had in Elementary School and how it was so important to play a team sport. He definitely made an impression on me with his guidance. I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you
October 5, 2010
I was so sad to hear of your passing. You brought many good memories to my childhood growing up in Bridgeville. I still till this day hear your voice telling us "Concentrate" and "It's all in the wrist" when i am playing any kind of sport. I will forever cherish the many nights of practicing shooting hoops in the barn, rolling the go cart to miss hitting the dog bitting at its wheels, riding the 55 gallon bucking barrell in the front yard, jumping on the calfs and taking off through the feild, and making that sheep so mad that he chased us girls right through the screen door into the house, and last but not least watching you laugh at us girls trying to catch that horse of yours to ride by sneaking up on him while he ate the grain we had dumped in the wheel barrell. You were a very special person in alot of lives that you do not even realize you touched and God Bless you for that. thank you so much.
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