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Gail Hayes Obituary

Hayes, Gail L. ALBANY Gail L. Hayes, 62, died Monday, September 24, 2007. Born in Plattsburgh, she was the daughter of Llewellyn Hayes and the late Virginia Andrews Hayes. She was an LPN for 13 years, and retired in 2005 as a data entry clerk for the New York State Depart-ment of Taxation and Finance. She was the beloved mother of Michelle and Danielle; dear sister of Bonnie Robbins, Charles Hayes and Dianne DeVoe; several nieces, nephews and close friends survive Gail. Funeral services Friday at 11:30 a.m. at the McVeigh Funeral Home, 208 North Allen Street, Albany. Relatives and friends are invited. Interment will follow the service in Bethlehem Cemetery, Delmar.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Sep. 26 to Sep. 28, 2007.

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Shonda Van Hoesen

September 25, 2008

Gail.... Its been a year... A long one at that... God had called you home to live in your mansion and my dad soon followed... I can say that is was fate because you two brought us together to hold each other downa dnbe that friend you never let us stop being with out a fight I know your both looking down at me and Danielle Smiling.... I love and miss you dearly...

Bonnie Robbins

September 22, 2008

Gail,
I can't believe that it is almost a year that you have been with your Heavenly Father. I think of you so often and wonder what you are doing. Are you sitting at the feet of Jesus worshiping and listening to him as the disciples did. Are you fellowshipping with loved ones in heaven. Whatever it is Gail, I know you are happy and that makes me happy. You can be proud of Danielle, she is working and doing well. I know that is because of all the prayers you sent to the Father when you were here on earth and He is honoring them now
I love you, I miss you, and someday I will see you.
Love, Bonnie

Dianne

September 21, 2008

Gail, as we come upon your first anniversary in heaven, I still find it hard to believe that you are really gone! I look back on my memories of you and I'm grateful for them. I hold your pictures close to my heart. I miss your laugh, your hugs, your love, your talks, but most of all I miss you! I will love you always. Until we meet again my dear sister. Love Dianne

Danielle

May 12, 2008

Hi Mom,
It's the day after Mother's Day. I should have done this yersterday, but lost track of time. I brought you some flowers yesterday, and I put down some grass seed so hopefully your area will grow in nice and green. Aunt Bonnie and Dianne are gonna help keep an eye on it for me. I still miss you just as much everyday. I just found out that Shirley passed away a couple of weeks ago. Now you have your buddy with you. You can have tea time again. I love you mom.

Danielle Hayes

November 22, 2007

Hi Mommy,
Today is Thanksgiving, the first of many holidays that I wont have you with me. But I am thinking of you just as I have every day. I miss you more than you can imagine. I finally got accepted for a state job, Dept. of Education. I start next week. So I know you're up there working miracles and I thank you. I love you more than you'll ever know. Happy Thanksgiving mommy. Your baby girl.

ANGIE

October 18, 2007

TO ALL OF THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS STAY STRONG I KNOW THIS IS A HARD TIME FOR US ALL.
GAIL,YOU ALWAYS CALLED ME YOUR DAUGHTER AND I LOVE U AND MISS U.
LOVE, ANGIE

Dianne DeVoe

October 5, 2007

Gail Hayes' family wants to thank all of you that have thoughtfully expressed your concern for our dear Gail. I think its great how the Times Union allows people from all over to reach out like this. The messages are helping the whole family, as we continue to read the entries. As for me, Gail IS my sister and I miss her greatly. There is a big emptiness in my heart now and it will never be the same, until we meet again. I will always love you Gail! Your youngest sister, Dianne

Gloria Normile

October 2, 2007

Dianne and Family,
It is with my deepest sympathy that I sign this book today. I never knew Gail personally, but my prayers are with you and all of your family to help enable you to get through this ordeal with the help of God.

Bonnie Robbins

October 2, 2007

My Dear Sweet Sister Gail,

How I miss you. You were determined to turn your life around and you were doing just that with your significant weight loss of 151 lbs. I am so proud of you Gail and I hope I showed you that while you were here. I know you are in a happier place and I will see you again. I will love you always.

Your Sister, Bonnie

Doris Clark

September 28, 2007

Dear Bonnie, I was very saddened to hear that you had lost your sister ,Gail. You have my deepest sympathy. I remember Gail when she was a beautiful little girl who used to come down to my backyard to play. I know you will all miss her. Please give my sincerest condolences to the rest of your family. As always--love, Doris Clark

nikki thomas

September 28, 2007

Danielle
I'm sorry to hear about you lost.Your mother was a respectful woman.I'm glad i had a chance to meet her. Nikki and Da-Ivion

Mary Maikels

September 28, 2007

Gail's Family,I was very sorry to hear of Gail's passing.She was a good friend and I enjoyed working with her for years.My prayers are with you at this time.My deepest sympathy to her beloved family and friends. Mary Maikels

Kathy Raymond

September 28, 2007

Dearest Dianne and family,
My heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you also. Stay strong! With love,
your old work buddy, Kat

Linda Lawton

September 28, 2007

To the Hayes family,
Your loved one has been on my mind since hearing of her hospital stay at Albany Memorial...I had inquired about her condition with other church members and was glad to hear she had made a big step of progress....and most important it seemed she had lifted her spirits and self esteem in making great strides with her health. May God Bless you all in your time of loss, and may you be blessed with peace and comfort knowing that your loved one was thought of and prayed for by those who walk and talk the word of God.
with most sincere sympathy
Linda Lawton

PATTI MCMILLEN

September 28, 2007

BONNIE MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AS WELL AS ALL YOUR FAMILY .GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF GAIL SHE WAS A VERY SPECIAL SOUL I FEEL BLESSED SHE TOUCHED MY LIFE SHE IS NOW FREE A SPECIAL ANGEL INDEED LOVE PATTI

Danielle Hayes

September 28, 2007

Mommy,
I love you with all my heart. I will keep the good memories of you with me always. I am so very proud of what you accomplished before He decided it was time to go. You worked so hard and it showed. You are the strongest woman I know. You overcame so much so you could make sure I was taken care of and you did an excellent job. I couldn't have asked for anything more. I am truly proud to be your daughter. I have a difficult road ahead, but I will try to keep in the forefront of my mind the fact that I will see you again one day. So I will say "see you later mommy". You are my angel. And I will always be your baby girl.

July 7th, 1974 Gail in the rose garden

September 28, 2007

Jean Engel Hecht

September 28, 2007

I was very sorry to hear of Gail's death. I remember her as she was in the photo from our years of growing up across from all of you on Bridge Street in Slingerlands. I hope that prayer and time will help you get through this difficult time.

nelson cole jr

September 27, 2007

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Susan Young

September 26, 2007

It was wonderful to see Gail and all of you at our last family reunion. Gail especially was so happy that we were all together. But as much as she loved her family here, she missed the family that had already gone ahead and now she is celebrating life eternal with them! My prayers for comfort and peace are with the family.

September 26, 2007

To the Hayes family and especially Pastor Charles - I was so sorry to hear of Gail's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. I hope you will take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Joan Payton, Member
South Bethlehem United Methodist Church

Carol Rigsbee

September 26, 2007

Dear Charles, Bonnie, Diane, Danielle, Michelle and Uncle Lew:

My prayers and so many thoughts of years past are with you. I have lost a very dear cousin, and in the last few years since our last reunion in Ithaca, Gail and I have communicated quite a bit by mail and telephone and again renewed our childhood relationship, laughing and crying many times. Michelle and Danielle, you two were the most important part of your Mom's life. She talked about you non-stop when given the chance. She loved you with all her heart! She loved her family! What more can I say. She was proud of you all for your achievements in life.

To you Gail, I'll miss you! I know you are celebrating with all our loved ones who were waiting for you. You'll always be in my thoughts.

Love, Carol

Shonda Van Hoesen

September 26, 2007

Danielle,

My deepest Sympathy and love go out to you and Michelle at this difficult time, Your Mom was like a second mother to me when growing up. She will be dearly missed and loved.

Love

Fran Minissale

September 26, 2007

Dear Dianne, I was so sorry to hear about the death of your dear sister, Gail. Although I did not know Gail, I did know the love that you had for your sister. You spoke of her so kindly and with so much love. I want to extend my sincere condolences to you and Mike for your loss. Please know that I am here for you to talk to and to share your beautiful memories of your sister.
Sincerely,
Fran

Beth Kemmer

September 26, 2007

Sweet, Gentle Gail,
Full of Love and Kindness. You will be remembered with love. Put in a good word for us up there.

Beth Rowlett

September 26, 2007

Dainelle,
Our condolences on the loss of your Mom, she will always have a place in my heart.
Beth and Dee Rowlett

Gary Brodock

September 26, 2007

Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Gary and Sylvia Brodock
(Friends of Pastor Charles)

sandy rarick

September 26, 2007

Bonnie and the entire Hayes family -I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Sandy Rarick (Moak)

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