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Robert Z. Kaplan

1928 - 2023

Robert Z. Kaplan obituary, 1928-2023, Toledo, OH

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Robert Kaplan Obituary

Robert Z. Kaplan

"He is an awful rascal, but I do love him. He is the cutest thing."

- Ms. Yoder

Bobby Kaplan's Third-Grade Teacher (1936)

Robert Z. Kaplan was born in Toledo on November 16, 1928 to Samuel and Ethel Zanville Kaplan. From the time he was born, he could not be contained. He would break out of his crib so frequently that it had to be built to the ceiling and locked. Among the most poignant, if ultimately misguided, observations on his early report cards were the check marks showing that he was "friendly and courteous to others â€" very seldom" and "exercises emotional control â€" very seldom." Bobby brandished these, and other misunderstandings of his true nature, with humor and pride.

His work ethic, drive for independence, and quest for fun led him to work outside the home from an early age. His first job, undertaken at age 13, was working behind a drug-store counter making sodas and sundaes. But he found more joy working for a family friend, selling handkerchiefs and neckties, a job he described as "my first experience with larceny." Assigned to the back room, he would oversee the processing of handkerchiefs for sale. He affixed to each of these items, which were manufactured in Wauseon, Ohio, a label that read "Pure Irish Linen." He worked also setting pins in a bowling alley, sorting mail at the post office, and running his own concessions business, which he documented in almost pathologically detailed logs that recorded not only the hour-by-hour finances of the business but its trends, growth opportunities, and marketing challenges.

His life-long trait of distributing information on only a need-to-know basis was evidenced early on. He worked for a time at a neighborhood butcher shop, a job his mother learned of only when she entered the shop to buy that week's meat and saw her only son working behind the counter.

Bobby graduated from Jesup Scott High School in 1946. He entered Ohio State University that fall and, after graduation, entered law school there. He failed Criminal Law on his first attempt, but, as he would happily admit and as others, including the late Judge Melvin Resnick, a life-long friend, would confirm, he mastered poker during round-the-clock games lasting all weekend, leaving him bleary-eyed and unprepared for class, but well-funded for the upcoming week.

His legal education was interrupted by honorable service in the United States Army during the Korean War. He voluntarily enlisted in the Army for two related and characteristic reasons. First, he thought the automatic exemption for those enrolled in higher education made the draft unfair; and, second, he was eager to see the world and, as he would say, "check out what was going on out there."

Bobby regularly delighted in describing the frequent threats by his commanding officers to send him to the brig. But he served productively in Army Counter-Intelligence, and, after honorable discharge in 1953, returned to Ohio State to complete his Juris Doctor degree. Bobby then returned to Toledo in 1955 to begin the practice of law with his father, with whom he practiced until his father's death in 1974. Bobby, of course, continued to practice, considering (but not acting on) retirement only in late 2022. But even then, his ceaseless, incurable optimism prevailed â€" his last professional acts included ordering 2,000 business cards and renewing his bar registration for two years.

In the 67+ years of his practice, Bobby left an incommensurable mark on Toledo. Even the most comprehensive effort to describe his work and accomplishments, and their pervasive, enduring effects, would inevitably fall far short of the full truth. He will live on in the stories that those who knew him best, indeed those who knew him at all or even heard about him third-hand, will be telling for as long as humans are able to communicate.

Here is a small selection of his activities:

Bobby's primary legal work focused on civil rights, criminal defense, and the representation of injured persons.

Bobby served as a board member of the NAACP, as well as Chairman of its Legal Committee for approximately fifteen years. (With his characteristic blend of truth, exaggeration, and humor, he always claimed to have volunteered to be on the board because he had no clients.) He actively worked as a member of the Lawyers Constitutional Defense Committee. In that role, he worked on-site in both Alabama and Mississippi on three separate occasions between in 1965 and 1966, defending civil-rights workers who were charged with crimes and helping devise the strategies that would animate the civil-rights movement. It is deeply fitting that Bobby died at the age of 94 on the 94th anniversary of the birth of Martin Luther King, Jr.

The lawyers and others who volunteered for this work faced enormous danger. One night, as Bobby was driving, alone, through rural Alabama toward Mississippi, two men in a pick-up truck, replete with a gun rack loaded with rifles, forced him to pull over. One of the men approached the car and asked Bobby what organization he was with. In an indelible reflection of Bobby's quick wit and blazing intuition, he said, in an instant, "the FBI." They let him go.

While in Alabama, Bobby married Ann Guerin, who survives him and who is more central to his life than can be described. Those who spent time with the two of them were privileged to witness a long-standing dynamic of affection, respect, and transcendent intelligence.

Bobby worked as legal counsel for the Toledo chapter of the Black Panther Party during the 1960s and 1970s. In addition, he served as co-chairman of the Toledo Fair Housing Committee and was a member of the board of the Toledo Council for Business, which assisted minority members of the local community in becoming business owners.

Bobby was a board member of the Toledo Chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union and received its award as Man of the Year in 1968. He also received the Young Leadership Award of the Jewish Welfare Foundation in 1965, an acknowledgment of his long devotion to the United Jewish Appeal.

In 1997, Bobby was recognized with the James A. Jackson Foundation A.S.S.I.S.T. award, given to individuals who have shown a commitment to youth and to the Toledo community. He received the Distinguished Toledo Lawyer Award from the University of Toledo Law Alumni Association in 2000, a long-overdue recognition that, as was observed at the time, reflected more credit on the Association than it did on Bobby. More recently, Bobby served as a member of the advisory board to the Toledo Urban Federal Credit Union, as well as a board member and chair of the legal committee of the Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) program, an organization that he helped to transform with his energy and vision. He received the CASA Community Advocate Award in 2013. And in 2019, the African American Legacy Project recognized Bobby with its Local Legend award.

Bobby's proclivities for friendship, mentoring, and unqualified support of those he believed in produced countless acolytes. His longest surviving close friends in the legal community are Richard Walinski, whom he met on the first day of the celebrated McClellan case and with whom Bobby sustained a fifty-year devoted professional and personal friendship; and Jon Richardson, whom Bobby met in the late 60s when Jon was teaching high-school English at Scott High School, and who from that day till the end stayed close to Bobby, working alongside him at the office and filling his life with stories both humorous and profound. It is fitting that on the last day of Bobby's life, Jon regaled not only Bobby but a gathering of family members who loved him with an anthology of stories curated over 50 years.

To the end, Bobby's practice also included long-time dear friend and colleague Pete Rost, his son Sam, and son-in-law Fritz Byers. In the later years of Bobby's practice, Sam was his constant companion.

Bobby's other interests included tennis, which he played with a zeal and willpower that more than made up for his lack of skill; playing the kazoo and harmonica; and writing brief letters that, after the signature block, typically contained pages of post-scripts in which, at last, Bobby would get to the point.

Bobby was preceded in death by his parents, Sam and Ethel; and his sisters Doris and Janice. He is survived by his sister, Mary Bloch (Ronald, deceased); his wife of 56 years, Ann; his three children, Katherine Byers (Fritz) of Waterville, Ohio, Sarah A. Kaplan (Robert Aldrich) of Easton, Connecticut, Samuel Z. Kaplan of Lambertville, Michigan, and eight grandchildren: Meredith, Abby, Madeline, Lilly, Sadie, Eleanor, Henry, and Samuel, and many beloved nieces and nephews.

The doctor's note from his check-up as a two-year-old reads, "That boy must be conquered." Wishful thinking. Bobby conquered life and turned it into his personal theater, which was forever full of friendship, family, good works, and fun.

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Published by The Blade on Jan. 22, 2023.

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Timothy Radwanski

June 18, 2024

Heart felt condolences to the family. So glad to have known Bobby.. An Honor!

Harold Joyce

October 5, 2023

Sam I'm sorry to hear about your father. No matter what kind of trouble I was in he put a smile on my face. I love the way he dressed for court. To me he was Toledo. Again I'm sorry for your loss. Harold

Mike Monahan

April 24, 2023

My millionaire uncle Sam Geraldo stopped over my folks house back in the 80's declaring happily Bobby Kaplan was his attorney. Decades later in 2021 I was recommended to him and when we talked I mentioned his name rung a bell. Asked him if my uncle was his client and he became exuberant and said "Your uncle had a lot of money. Bob was instrumental in helping get my car bike accident money even though he was stricken with Covid later and had to back out before I hired him. By talking with him on the phone I knew he was extraordinary...thank you sir and God Bless.

W. Scott Ramsey

February 24, 2023

I met Bobby in 1994 as a legal intern after my first year of law school. He is still probably the most unique individual I have ever met. To this day remember many lesson, about life and the law, that he taught me. A great man and a great teacher. RIP Bobby Kaplan

W. Scott Ramsey, Esq.

Wanda Collins

January 24, 2023

He was a wonderful man. He was my lawyer 3 times and he won every case for me he was so on point and knew his work. He was in of best lawyers in Toledo Ohio. May he RIP

Shirley Ellis

January 24, 2023

To Bobby´s family and members of his dedicated office staff and colleagues, I send my condolences. Bobby was a dear friend to so many and I like you will miss his wisdom and genius. He was a true humanitarian with no apologies for his compassion to humankind. Peace and blessings. The Ellis family

Susan and David Guip

January 22, 2023

Our condolences to the entire Kaplan family. He was an amazing man with a great sense of humor. His hard work for the "underdog " was memorable.
Susan and David Guip

Claudia Diane Ruben

January 22, 2023

I had the pleasure of working for Bobby when he was representingJohn McClellan. Yes, I typed from his dictaphoned notes and pleadings. He was brilliant, kind, and a wonderful person. My sincere condolences to his beautiful wife and family.

Linda Jiannuzzi

January 22, 2023

We will always think of Bobby with respect and affection..our deepest sympathy to his family and friends.....he was truly ' one of a kind '...Jiannuzzi family

Belinda krell

January 21, 2023

My deepest condolences to his family. There are many funny memories about Bobby.

Wendy Nathan

January 19, 2023

Tennis. Him beating me despite the fact that he was lumbering around. Sitting with me for lunch when I first moved to Toledo because I was feeling scared and sad. He made me feel like I belonged. What a wonderful man! Love, Wendy Nathan.

Barbara Baumgartner

January 18, 2023

Will never forget when my CASA class was sworn in 11 or 12 years ago. I became a CASA when I met Bobby at a fund raiser in Perrysburg. Bobby was sitting at a table in the foyer & he & I chatted. He made the pitch to me about being a CASA. Bobby asked for my address & said he'd send me a letter about CASA. He sent a letter, I contacted CASA, took the training & here I am years later a CASA because of Bobby. Once I was at an event for Carty & Bobby said to me when the meeting was over "hey you live in Rossford don't you?" I said yes. He said can you drop me off at the Casino" . I'm like how you getting home? He said I'll call my son & off he went. I stopped by his office many times when attending a hearing or am LCCS review. He never forgot me & I'll never forget him
Barbara Baumgartner

Terri & Bob DeRosa

January 18, 2023

My deepest sympathy to Annie and the family. We have some fun memories of Bobby from the Tippan Hall days when our daughter, Grace, was riding horses there...she wrote a "Tippan Hall Magazine" called "Horse Kids" that Bobby really got a kick out of....Grace loved Tipan Hall more then anything....she today is a graphic design artist and designs the "Miller International" quarterly catalog that goes out to many horse barns across the country and has her own graphic design freelance company....Such fond memories of Bobby & Annie and the horse show days at Tippan Hall...Our sincere deepest sympathy, Terri DeRosa

Jeffrey Crowther atty-at-law

January 18, 2023

A great human being who always left me with a smile and a word of wisdom.

Randy Samborn

January 18, 2023

My condolences to the Kaplan / Byers family. At a pre-trial hearing in the late 1980s, with Jon, Fritz, and Bobby, the late Hon. Fred McDonald turned to Bobby and said: "Mr. Kaplan, why are you here?" Bobby replied: "Because, your Honor, if necessary, I can get very loud." He was a giant among great lawyers. Rest in peace.

Jeff Gamso

January 18, 2023

Where even to begin. Bobby was a great lawyer, a fine friend, a special personality. I had the honor to work with him from time to time. I'm devastated by the loss.

Adam Loukx

January 18, 2023

It is always a special privilege to encounter a truly great person. It is even more special when one has an oppportunity to learn from those encounters. Bobby was a collossus in the legal profession but, more importantly, he was a truly great person whose example served to teach all around him lessons that cannot be found on the pages of books. He made all those who were fortunate enough to know him better simply for having known him. My deepest condolences to his many loved ones. May his memory be a blessing.

Elin Rubin Richardson

January 18, 2023

Please accept my sincere condolences. Bobby was immensely important in my life and the life of my family.

Jim Nusbaum

January 18, 2023

This hits hard. I have known Bobby for my whole life but the eleven years I worked in the Spitzer Building were incredibly enriching. Every business day during all of those years, I either had coffee or lunch or both with Bobby. I learned more from him in those moments than in any classroom, I am so appreciative of the time I spent with him.

Cindy Nash

January 18, 2023

Bobby was a great man who I admired very much. He will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are to the family at this time.

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